Quote Originally Posted by Times Roman View Post
I'd say it's time you invested in some counsilling, and you two get some alone time, where you can relearn what it means for her to be your woman, and you her man. Cuz right now, she's probbly got the mommy hat on, which is alot by itself right there.

Do you have folks that can watch the kids for a weekend while you two get away?
Just think of them kids, and instead get reacquainted with your woman. Seek professional help too. Learn to mend bridges that seem burned.
I couldn't agree more. You may find a couple or two who seem to have the perfect marriage (they may) but the rest of the world's marriages have some serious problems once in a while and most of them get through the tough times with a bit of hard work and focus.

My wife and I have had some serious problems which were mostly related to my job but whenever she said we needed to talk to someone (she calls our counselor "the lady" and I call her something else because of the size of her chest) I was happy to go have a chat. There are manuals for almost everything in the world but none for knowing what it takes to make a relationship work and I always saw our counselor as the closest thing to a marriage manual. The best part about it was that we had lunch after the meeting -- without the kids -- and it felt as if we were dating again. Man, alone time with your wife is priceless.

I just wish I didn't love my job and could hack the "everyday" type of work where I'm home all the time because I would be able to go on dates with my wife more often.