Guess the title says it all, been married 8 years. Two kids, 5 and 6. I love my wife but not sure i'm in love any more. We fight a lot and as far as she is concerned everything I say is wrong. I'm just tired of it all and want it to end but at the same time i'm not a quitter and kind of view divorce as failure. At the same time I do not look forward to being miserable for the next X number of years, especially if divorce is inevitable.

Has anyone come from the bring of failure and successfully salvaged a marriage? If it weren't for the kids I'd have gone a long time ago.