Good advice, you should take into consideration euro.Originally Posted by --->>405<<---
And OP there's nothing worse than your situation. Ok I'm exaggerating, but it's frustrating. It kind of feels like she tricked you, she worked hard on herself to get you, got comfortable, and began letting herself go. Usually happens after marriage. I'm not married, but I know it's true, especially when you meet a guys wife then see their wedding pic it's enough to make you cry.
But, it could just be a phase. Sometimes it's hard to constantly stay on top of everything! After a long time of doing so you may want a break so your body, grades, and home may suffer. Don't hound her though. You'll come off as a dickens she'll end up leaving you. You say she's cool and she supports you so do the same. Realize important things in a mature relationship (most of the time looks aren't on the list) and if she meets those then she's worth working with.
I had a similar problem, my girl didn't gain any weight, but did get lazy and increase junk food. I'm 23 she's 19. So, I would make comments here and there playfully, but you never know what they take to heart so I cut that out and instead I got her to start working out with me. Not lifting, but go on jogs and do resistance bands and all that. Try and get her excited to workout instead of making it seem like she has to ya know?
This thread shouldnt be about why Euroholic is snorting a fvck load of blow, 24/7 of his life.
She lacks motivation. And is likely bored, hence why she eats a lot of crap. Lack of motivation plus mild depression leads to laziness. You need to handle it carefully because anything negative would really shatter things.
Do you guys still do stuff together, go to movies, theatre, meals....that sort of things?
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