Lazy Girlfriend

[lovbyts]

Lucky you are finding out about it now, better sooner than later. Most women and men wait until they are married but sometimes the true colors show themselves sooner. Don't expect it to get better, typically it only gets worse. Yeah I hear what everyone is saying about maybe this or maybe that but you should know in your own life all those maybe's are only excuses and it's up to her to do something about it.

[Times Roman]

Lucky you are finding out about it now, better sooner than later. Most women and men wait until they are married but sometimes the true colors show themselves sooner. Don't expect it to get better, typically it only gets worse. Yeah I hear what everyone is saying about maybe this or maybe that but you should know in your own life all those maybe's are only excuses and it's up to her to do something about it.

It took my woman two children and twenty years of being wiith me before she finally began to gain weight. That was about eight years ago. It's extremely difficult to determine how one will act 20 years from now. if she's acting like this withing the first few months/years......?

[lovbyts]

It took my woman two children and twenty years of being wiith me before she finally began to gain weight. That was about eight years ago. It's extremely difficult to determine how one will act 20 years from now. if she's acting like this withing the first few months/years......?

Very true but I'm sure as most would agree typically it gets worse, not better. Very few decide to start getting in shape and exercising more AFTER they get married. For most it's all about attracting the other person but once you get them they stop all/most of those things just like you hear so many guys complain about (not from personal experience) no sex, no oral or the typical gaining weight after marriage. Do you ever here how she lost weight, got in shape, starting giving head or more sex after marriage? I'm sure it happens, 1/1000 maybe vs the other way around.

I'm just saying if this is the trend dont expect it to get better.

[Times Roman]

Very true but I'm sure as most would agree typically it gets worse, not better. Very few decide to start getting in shape and exercising more AFTER they get married. For most it's all about attracting the other person but once you get them they stop all/most of those things just like you hear so many guys complain about (not from personal experience) no sex, no oral or the typical gaining weight after marriage. Do you ever here how she lost weight, got in shape, starting giving head or more sex after marriage? I'm sure it happens, 1/1000 maybe vs the other way around.

I'm just saying if this is the trend dont expect it to get better.

so you think blokes like us at our age beating ourselves up, lifting all the time, kinda makes us freaks, no?

[GirlyGymRat]

unfortunately, i would have to agree with Lovbyts this time.............blahahahahaha

Very true but I'm sure as most would agree typically it gets worse, not better. Very few decide to start getting in shape and exercising more AFTER they get married. For most it's all about attracting the other person but once you get them they stop all/most of those things just like you hear so many guys complain about (not from personal experience) no sex, no oral or the typical gaining weight after marriage. Do you ever here how she lost weight, got in shape, starting giving head or more sex after marriage? I'm sure it happens, 1/1000 maybe vs the other way around.

I'm just saying if this is the trend dont expect it to get better.

[lovbyts]

unfortunately, i would have to agree with Lovbyts this time.............blahahahahaha

LOL. I typically put in the standard disclaimer. There are exceptions to every rule but there is a reason for generalizations and stereotyping.

It would be nice if it wasn't this way with guys or girls but typically one or the other and many times both just quit trying or putting effort into it after they feel comfortable or married.

[Times Roman]

LOL. I typically put in the standard disclaimer. There are exceptions to every rule but there is a reason for generalizations and stereotyping.

It would be nice if it wasn't this way with guys or girls but typically one or the other and many times both just quit trying or putting effort into it after they feel comfortable or married.

so let me guess....

.... when both become blubbery blobs that resemble land bound elephant seals flopping around on the beach....


....what happens to sex?

do they just give it up? I mean when you go over 75% BF, the physical exertion alone is enough to make it seem not worth while? So instead, they just split a big chocolate cake and grovel in there immenseness?

[GirlyGymRat]

so let me guess....

.... when both become blubbery blobs that resemble land bound elephant seals flopping around on the beach....


....what happens to sex?

do they just give it up? I mean when you go over 75% BF, the physical exertion alone is enough to make it seem not worth while? So instead, they just split a big chocolate cake and grovel in there immenseness?

i've seen these creatures at the beach and can't imagine sex being intimate if you can't really put your arms around each other! LOL

[Times Roman]

unfortunately, i would have to agree with Lovbyts this time.............blahahahahaha

true. people have a tendency to get lazy when they get comfortable with their ways and routines. they begin to take things for granted, and take relationships for granted too.
When fishing, once you have already caught your fish, no need for the beautiful lure, right?

[cherrydrpepper]

Very true but I'm sure as most would agree typically it gets worse, not better. Very few decide to start getting in shape and exercising more AFTER they get married. For most it's all about attracting the other person but once you get them they stop all/most of those things just like you hear so many guys complain about (not from personal experience) no sex, no oral or the typical gaining weight after marriage. Do you ever here how she lost weight, got in shape, starting giving head or more sex after marriage? I'm sure it happens, 1/1000 maybe vs the other way around.

I'm just saying if this is the trend dont expect it to get better.

I had a friend in high school who's mom became a workout freak. She got breast implants, worked out until she had a 6 pack, ran several miles a day and would lay out on her back lawn topless to sunbath everyday.

A couple of years went by and she kept needling her husband with barbs every day until she was able to spring a divorce on him without it seeming out of the blue. It was her plan all along and she went on a f fest afterwards.

So I agree people who work out and get in shape after marriage are by far the exception and sometimes they even have ulterior motives for it.

[lovbyts]

I had a friend in high school who's mom became a workout freak. She got breast implants, worked out until she had a 6 pack, ran several miles a day and would lay out on her back lawn topless to sunbath everyday.

A couple of years went by and she kept needling her husband with barbs every day until she was able to spring a divorce on him without it seeming out of the blue. It was her plan all along and she went on a f fest afterwards.

So I agree people who work out and get in shape after marriage are by far the exception and sometimes they even have ulterior motives for it.

At-least she waited until after the marriage to do the f fest. Ill bet she was in her 40s and going through menopause or she was just a B*tch.

[cherrydrpepper]

At-least she waited until after the marriage to do the f fest. Ill bet she was in her 40s and going through menopause or she was just a B*tch.

Yeah probably both. To be fair she was hot I would have bent her over in a heartbeat. To the OP I think you have to use positive reinforcement if you are going to get her in shape. She probably is depressed. Being fat and depressed go hand in hand and feed off each other.

I think because you are banging her there may be hope to change her due to the relationship. My brother is a virgin in his 30s he has a double chin fat cheeks and a pot belly. I got him working out his arms have gotten bigger and don't look like they belong on a woman anymore. Unfortunately he is so far gone into fantasy lala land I don't think I can bring him back to reality. I think in his case he really believes he can't win and doesn't want to try. As bad as the situation is he has agreed to try online dating at the beginning of next year. I think when you have someone really stubborn about being stuck in a situation you have to get them to set small goals and stay on them. My brother gets incredibly defensive but he is being consistent about working out. I have noticed that women seem to have it a little better off. A woman can be a fat pile of crap and some guy who is afraid of the gym will bang her because thats what a guy who doesn't go to the gym can typically get if he doesn't have a reallly good face or something else going for him.