should i get a divorce ?

[cherrydrpepper]

Um............

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You're not going to find better bro. You're wife is an angel. I am dating a girl who is a nice family oriented girl. We're both 31 and shes had sex with 9 guys which is a low number for anyone this age who has never been married. Coincidentally I have had sex with 9 or 10 women. If you go out there into the world and you think you are going to find some girl who is 21 or older or whatever and has never had sex or had sex with 1 person.. they are going to be so rare I'm telling you especially in todays world.

I can barely relate with anything you typed and had to read it twice to make sure you weren't trolling I just found it so unbelieveable. You're kind of taking nothing and blowing it up into a mountain. Its like a grain of sand you found and said LOOK LOOK AT THIS F- ING MOUNTAIN HOLY SHIT and I'm looking at it like wtf do you see that I don't its a grain of sand.

I've actually been down this road before with the girl ive been dating because she was playing this game where she would go on lunch dates with her exes who are now "just friends" so I kind of know the emotions you are feeling even if I don't agree with them. At the heat of our exchange about her exes I actually ended it with her but deep down inside I felt really awful and I knew she was being open with me and telling me things she really didn't have to tell me. She could have lied and said she never had sex with the guy she was going to lunch with or even not told me she was going out to lunch with a guy. I knew that deep down inside and so I knew I was wrong and got over it.

[Granovich]

Um............

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You're not going to find better bro. You're wife is an angel. I am dating a girl who is a nice family oriented girl. We're both 31 and shes had sex with 9 guys which is a low number for anyone this age who has never been married. Coincidentally I have had sex with 9 or 10 women. If you go out there into the world and you think you are going to find some girl who is 21 or older or whatever and has never had sex or had sex with 1 person.. they are going to be so rare I'm telling you especially in todays world.

I can barely relate with anything you typed and had to read it twice to make sure you weren't trolling I just found it so unbelieveable. You're kind of taking nothing and blowing it up into a mountain. Its like a grain of sand you found and said LOOK LOOK AT THIS F- ING MOUNTAIN HOLY SHIT and I'm looking at it like wtf do you see that I don't its a grain of sand.

I've actually been down this road before with the girl ive been dating because she was playing this game where she would go on lunch dates with her exes who are now "just friends" so I kind of know the emotions you are feeling even if I don't agree with them. At the heat of our exchange about her exes I actually ended it with her but deep down inside I felt really awful and I knew she was being open with me and telling me things she really didn't have to tell me. She could have lied and said she never had sex with the guy she was going to lunch with or even not told me she was going out to lunch with a guy. I knew that deep down inside and so I knew I was wrong and got over it.

that is excatly my problem
we never have argument except me fighting over small things
sometimes things thats not even her fault.
i got that from my dad LOL

how do you get over it ???
dude where i come from 99% of girls lose virginity after marriage
so im not used to this
im so dizzy i dont want to lose her but i dont know . i dont even feel like looking at her face !

[Remington]

dude where i come from 99% of girls lose virginity after marriage
so im not used to this

Religion strikes again.
Starts wars every time.
It's just sex.
Get over it and move on or your gonna loose a gem.

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Religion strikes again.
Starts wars every time.
It's just sex.
Get over it and move on or your gonna loose a gem.

it may be in part due to religion but also cultural differences. hard to tell where one ends and the other begins in this situation.

good luck man.. maybe u should pray about it.

[Granovich]

it may be in part due to religion but also cultural differences. hard to tell where one ends and the other begins in this situation.

good luck man.. maybe u should pray about it.

its more cultural .... because she became religious too and she agreed on not having sex till marriage. she did really ask for forgiveness alot

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its more cultural .... because she became religious too and she agreed on not having sex till marriage. she did really ask for forgiveness alot

well i dont know what islam says about forgiveness but i do know as a christian we are expected to forgive. what does ur religion say about the marital commitment u made with her?

[Granovich]

well i dont know what islam says about forgiveness but i do know as a christian we are expected to forgive. what does ur religion say about the marital commitment u made with her?

Identical to your laws...
its just in my head i know that
i get to be an asshole...
i hate that she gets her mom in everything
her mom called and started yelling and i was like bitch seriously yelling at me !!!
she is the one who hid this from me
hate that
im a grown ass man
for the record i forgave her right away
and i told her i love her but i gotta go and think right now!

[Granovich]

Religion strikes again.
Starts wars every time.
It's just sex.
Get over it and move on or your gonna loose a gem.

not just religion , although religion is most important thing in the world!
what u mean its just sex, we arent animals!!!!!
its the most sacred thing ever!!!! thats why this community is messed up,alot of guys dont know their parents, alot of divorce , Messed up!!!!
would u be ok if you see your sister with another man ?
if Yes then i dont know what to tell you.

[gixxerboy1]

not just religion , although religion is most important thing in the world!
what u mean its just sex, we arent animals!!!!!
its the most sacred thing ever!!!! thats why this community is messed up,alot of guys dont know their parents, alot of divorce , Messed up!!!!
would u be ok if you see your sister with another man ?
if Yes then i dont know what to tell you.

And your considering it over 1 night before she knew you that has absolutly no effect on you, your relationship or how she treats you,. It does not change her as a person,

[panntastic]

Religion strikes again.
Starts wars every time.
It's just sex.
Get over it and move on or your gonna loose a gem.

Shouldn't knock the dudes beliefs man.
I agree in moving on as it was before your time OP
But to bring the OP's religion and beliefs into question isn't cool

[cherrydrpepper]

They dont have guns where your from im guessing

[Granovich]

They dont have guns where your from im guessing

we are the ones who invented AK47 LOL

[panntastic]

we are the ones who invented AK47 LOL

Russian Muslim? Is there a large Islamic community in Russia?

[Granovich]

Russian Muslim? Is there a large Islamic community in Russia?

Not alot ( 15-20% of russia are muslims ) But im moderate Muslim. like i do praying and stuff but also normal nothing extremist

[panntastic]

They dont have guns where your from im guessing

Was this aimed at myself?

[cherrydrpepper]

Was this aimed at myself?

No it wasn't at you and nevermind it kind of references some of the other threads floating around and honestly no one is going to get it unless they read every damn thread in the lounge and even then its kind of only funny to me so ignore it sorry lol

[panntastic]

No it wasn't at you and nevermind it kind of references some of the other threads floating around and honestly no one is going to get it unless they read every damn thread in the lounge and even then its kind of only funny to me so ignore it sorry lol

No problem CDP

[cherrydrpepper]

Please for f s no more gun threads it was a joke drop it