should i get a divorce ?

[ecruz]

In regards to her mother and what she thinks about you she's not that I really long. You are the bad guy. You are the 1 that left, you are the 1 that got all upset overreacted about the situation.

I know it's very hard to admit when you're wrong and you did the right thing by going back hopefully telling her you're sorry for how you acted and not just letting her apologize and say how she wants to be with you. Remember it's not all about you.

No wonder its a mess in the middle east!Holyer than thou mentailty.

bump^^^ i was taught to forgive and not judge!! guess thats what makes our worlds different!! i can sleep at night

[Granovich]

bump^^^ i was taught to forgive and not judge!! guess thats what makes our worlds different!! i can sleep at night

People are getting seriously disrespectful here!
Not judge when i dont know you. Its my wife im the only one who is entitled to jdge her
And i do forgive more than anyone
But there is things like honor
Not the honor that you know
Its honor of keeping women in your family safe ( mother,sister,wife)
Not let anyone talk about them or touch them or hurt them in any way
Physically or emotionally
Before or after marriage... Thats why we dont allow bf's things
Because that guy will touch/kiss girl who didmt
Marry her
What if he doesnt mary her !?
In my culture she is destroyed.
And thats not the wrong thing
YOU are the wrong here
Thats how life should work.... Not like here this woman slept with 9 guys but oh ok she is my wife now
Dude ur wife was a whore ... Do u understand ?
Sleep at night not judging anyone but everyone around u judging u and saying u have no honor
Anyway.

[lovbyts]

Im definitely not the mistaken one here. I dont know how you turned it on me
I knew something i didnt know before and TO me it was the biggest thing in my life and did hurt me alot
Maybe you dont
Care and consider it overreacting
But to me its very importsnt as its my wife . Everything in her life is important
And im responsible for her . If i left i had a reason
All i did was leaving for a day to understand things
I dont get to do that when im mad ?
Thats messed up thinking i was to blame

I'm quite sure you will NEVER admit fault to anything. Sounds like your culture has no room for self improvment and will stick with the way things were 1000 years ago. Why bother with evolving like the rest of the world?

People are getting seriously disrespectful here!
Not judge when i dont know you. Its my wife im the only one who is entitled to jdge her NO it's not your job to JUDGE her, that's Gods job.
And i do forgive more than anyone
But there is things like honor
Not the honor that you know
Its honor of keeping women in your family safe ( mother,sister,wife)
Not let anyone talk about them (see blelow) or touch them or hurt them in any way
Physically or emotionally
Before or after marriage... Thats why we dont allow bf's things
Because that guy will touch/kiss girl who didmt
Marry her
What if he doesnt mary her !?
In my culture she is destroyed. We know and that's Fvcked up culture/thinking.
And thats not the wrong thing
YOU are the wrong here
Thats how life should work.... Not like here this woman slept with 9 guys but oh ok she is my wife now
Dude ur wife was a whore ... Do u understand ? And using your own logic now that you called his wife a whore he has the right to kick your ass from here to tomorrow to protect her.
Sleep at night not judging anyone but everyone around u judging u and saying u have no honor
Anyway.

You came to us asking for advice and opinions but you dont seem to be open to anything that does not fit into your little world and you are quick to put anyone down who does not agree with you or your actions.

Good luck and hopefully she will remain naive.

[Granovich]

I'm quite sure you will NEVER admit fault to anything. Sounds like your culture has no room for self improvment and will stick with the way things were 1000 years ago. Why bother with evolving like the rest of the world?



You came to us asking for advice and opinions but you dont seem to be open to anything that does not fit into your little world and you are quick to put anyone down who does not agree with you or your actions.

Good luck and hopefully she will remain naive.

In my religion God says man is responsible for his wife and her actions.
I treat her great i dont need your input on it.
Alot of
Guys gave amazing help
And i thanked them
But some like yours are just horrible
As for " whore" my wife was 18 and did a mistake and the older guy used her
So she doesnt fall into that catagoty

[Granovich]

In my religion God says man is responsible for his wife and her actions.
I treat her great i dont need your input on it.
Alot of
Guys gave amazing help
And i thanked them
But some like yours are just horrible
As for " whore" my wife was 18 and did a mistake and the older guy used her
So she doesnt fall into that catagoty

If evolving means everyone sleeping with everyone else with no marriage
Then i would love to stay un evolved.
At least i wont be commiting sins
Trust me your mentality is fvucked up not mine
Just because every thing got modern now doesnt mean we are whores sleeping with people and living with women with no marriage.
Its not about 1000 years ago or now
Thats how it suppose to work.
Again i came for advice from people who wants to realy help not just hurt and talk bullshit
And i got plenty of help.

[wmaousley]

In my religion God says man is responsible for his wife and her actions. Sorry this is wrong, Islam dictates that a man must provide for his wife and meet her needs. By what ur saying, if you're wife kills someone you should be punished for the crime she committed and not her. What version of the Quran do you have? I have only known there to be one version.
I treat her great i dont need your input on it.
Alot of
Guys gave amazing help
And i thanked them
But some like yours are just horrible
As for " whore" my wife was 18 and did a mistake and the older guy used her
So she doesnt fall into that catagoty Why do you say she made a mistake? is it to make yourself feel better and to accept the fact you arent the only man who has been with her?

If evolving means everyone sleeping with everyone else with no marriage
Then i would love to stay un evolved.
At least i wont be commiting sins confused
Trust me your mentality is fvucked up not mine this is a sin
Just because every thing got modern now doesnt mean we are whores sleeping with people and living with women with no marriage. Just because we have sex out of wedlock doesnt mean we are whores
Its not about 1000 years ago or now
Thats how it suppose to work.
Again i came for advice from people who wants to realy help not just hurt and talk bullshit
And i got plenty of help. I offered my advice and you ignored it.

Good luck

[Granovich]

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thank you everyone for your support