Top 5 things on your "bucket" to do list

[BG]

You guys! I have the opportunity to check #2 off my list. My mom offered to bring me to ny for 10 days in October. She'll cover expenses. I want to do it, but two problems:
1) I'd have to arrange care for my very challenging, disabled son. I've never been away from him for more than a couple days his whole life (15 years)
2) My mom and I have a complicated relationship that would make it difficult to spend so much together time with her


Luckily I don't need to decide right away

Wow thats tough, well #2 I wouldn't bother me but #1 is something else on its own. Can you go to NY for less time? 7 days in NYC is a long time.