Anyone ever get paranoid/scared about there girlfriend leaving u

[Honkey_Kong]

Treat em mean keep em keen

Someday, you'll meet a girl and she'll actually talk to you. I believe!!!

[Honkey_Kong]

maybe its just the cruise on test lol, but theres been times for days im paranoid about my missus leaving me, even tho we have been together for a year and donemore things in that year than i bet most couples have in 3 years lol. Sometimes just get paranoid/anxiety about her txting me saying its time for a break etc. Well she did yesterday only coz she was so angry at me coz i bailed last minute to one of her family things/ i ended up going in the end lol. Altho i have said things like that to her to. But still. Anyone ever get the anxiety/scared?

Also what are some good ideas i could perhaps do that she would love? Something fun/heartbeating. SRS answers only pls lol

or if she evers goes to a club with her mate, she rarely does anyway and makes out with someone there. FUUUUUUCK always makes me so angry thinking about that. EVen tho she wouldnt, and we have a big holiday/familys wedding booked end of this year so would stuff things up BADLY if we broke up lol

Usually, if you're paranoid about your girl leaving you, there is real trouble in paradise that you're perceiving. Is she "going out with her friends" more? Is she being more secretive around you? Not willing to let you see who she's texting with? Etc?

So your girlfriend goes to clubs on rare occasions and makes out with people there? Or are you just paranoid she will if she did? Look at it like this, if SHE did then it's just you two weren't meant to be. It sucks, but it's not the end of the world. Airline flights and hotel reservations can be canceled and if they can't, they aren't going to break the bank.

The bottom-line is don't worry about it. If she does ever leave you, there is nothing you can do about it. You just can't stop being yourself, so don't stress on it. I mean if the actual warning signs are happening you probably should have a civil conversation with her about it, but don't get worked up about it regardless of her answers.

But yeah, Dude, you could do some nice things for her like take her out some place fancy, or buy her flowers or something corny like that. But if you have to do that stuff to "win" her over, you've already lost her.

[lovbyts]

Remember, just because you are paranoid does not mean they are not out to get you.

[Honkey_Kong]

Remember, just because you are paranoid does not mean they are not out to get you.

^^^ This is the truth...

[ElectraMaddox]

Usually, if you're paranoid about your girl leaving you, there is real trouble in paradise that you're perceiving. Is she "going out with her friends" more? Is she being more secretive around you? Not willing to let you see who she's texting with? Etc?

So your girlfriend goes to clubs on rare occasions and makes out with people there? Or are you just paranoid she will if she did? Look at it like this, if SHE did then it's just you two weren't meant to be. It sucks, but it's not the end of the world. Airline flights and hotel reservations can be canceled and if they can't, they aren't going to break the bank.

The bottom-line is don't worry about it. If she does ever leave you, there is nothing you can do about it. You just can't stop being yourself, so don't stress on it. I mean if the actual warning signs are happening you probably should have a civil conversation with her about it, but don't get worked up about it regardless of her answers.

But yeah, Dude, you could do some nice things for her like take her out some place fancy, or buy her flowers or something corny like that. But if you have to do that stuff to "win" her over, you've already lost her.

Good advice the only thing is I think he should talk to her about his feelings and once everything is squared away then take her out so its more of a bonding experience than like oh I try to do nice things for you but you don't even care... She probably has no idea what's going on and if she thinks everything's okay and he takes her out she may not show the level of appreciation he's expecting and later on it could escalate and come out as a ball of emotion where he's like you say you're going to leave me, then I try to do nice things for you and you don't care, I give up b.c. I can't win with you. Depending on how she is she might be like over whelmed get frustrated and really want space

[Shol'va]

They always want to leave the other guy and move in with me... All I ever here is I wish my B/F was more like you and I'd say you mean Gay? That usually makes them think. But still they want them to be polite and thoughtful and keep a clean place, put the toilet seat down, etc etc. So guys just give them some attention from time to time and try not to fart all the time in bed while shoving their heads under the sheets. You know who you are here...

[lovbyts]

Lately I've been having some fvckd up dreams about my wife and in everyone of them she's either a mean nasty bitch to me or she's telling me she doesn't love me anymore.

I don't know if its all the damn drugs I'm taking, if I'm paranoid, self conscious, or am starting to lose my mind!!!!

Actually....it's probably all of the above!

Give it time. I know it's tough and will be fvcked up for a while but the old saying is true, time heals all. I took my own advise one time and I'm SO glad I did. The advice of the best way to get over a girl is to get on another one. 10 minutes after you are done it will suck all over again but not quite as much as before and if you do it a few time in a couple of days it all start fading a lot quicker. Then when you find one just to hang out with and spend some time with (dont get involved) it gets even better quicker.

Find something to do and someone to do it with. Dont spend time alone...

[BUTTERYGOODNESS]

I think we are the minority

From what I can tell. We're on the endangered species list

[bikeral]

They always want to leave the other guy and move in with me... All I ever here is I wish my B/F was more like you and I'd say you mean Gay? That usually makes them think. But still they want them to be polite and thoughtful and keep a clean place, put the toilet seat down, etc etc. So guys just give them some attention from time to time and try not to fart all the time in bed while shoving their heads under the sheets. You know who you are here...

I thought she liked that.

[lovbyts]

They always want to leave the other guy and move in with me... All I ever here is I wish my B/F was more like you and I'd say you mean Gay? That usually makes them think. But still they want them to be polite and thoughtful and keep a clean place, put the toilet seat down, etc etc. So guys just give them some attention from time to time and try not to fart all the time in bed while shoving their heads under the sheets. You know who you are here...

Ever hear the saying it sounds too good to be true? Well that's the way it is when you hear women say something like that because no matter what you do it will never be good enough and they will always want more.

Now to are female members you know me and when I say that there are exceptions to every rule but be very large majority of women are that way and they will do everything they can to train there man me *****fy. and then once they get him to wait they want him the dump him because he's not manly enough.

[Flagg]

Lol @HonkeyKong, have you ever considered that the OP was just a paranoid, insecure motherfvcker and it had nothing at all to do with what his girlfriend was "supposedly" doing?

[Back In Black]

Lol @HonkeyKong, have you ever considered that the OP was just a paranoid, insecure motherfvcker and it had nothing at all to do with what his girlfriend was "supposedly" doing?

This is exactly right. OP has been blasting and cruising for a year. It's taken it's toll on him. He has anxiety and paranoia.

But then, he is a complete fvck up who probably can't get it up anymore and satisfy his lady. I believe her name is Pam and she has 5 daughters.

[Flagg]

This is exactly right. OP has been blasting and cruising for a year. It's taken it's toll on him. He has anxiety and paranoia.

But then, he is a complete fvck up who probably can't get it up anymore and satisfy his lady. I believe her name is Pam and she has 5 daughters.

What about Rosie Palm? Never lets a guy down..

[Back In Black]

What about Rosie Palm? Never lets a guy down..

Lol He would let her down too.

[Honkey_Kong]

Lol @HonkeyKong, have you ever considered that the OP was just a paranoid, insecure motherfvcker and it had nothing at all to do with what his girlfriend was "supposedly" doing?

This is exactly right. OP has been blasting and cruising for a year. It's taken it's toll on him. He has anxiety and paranoia.

But then, he is a complete fvck up who probably can't get it up anymore and satisfy his lady. I believe her name is Pam and she has 5 daughters.

He's definitely paranoid and after thinking about it, I suppose the best thing we could do is encourage his paranoia.

[ElectraMaddox]

From what I can tell. We're on the endangered species list

Lol you're not kidding!

[ElectraMaddox]

Ever hear the saying it sounds too good to be true? Well that's the way it is when you hear women say something like that because no matter what you do it will never be good enough and they will always want more.

Now to are female members you know me and when I say that there are exceptions to every rule but be very large majority of women are that way and they will do everything they can to train there man me *****fy. and then once they get him to wait they want him the dump him because he's not manly enough.

um yeah... I actually like nice guys... I think those girls have daddy issues... Who you've met.... i have a really strong relationship with my dad, he raised me and i don't view a man being supportive or listening my feelings as feminine, that just makes me want to give him the same thing in return. Then again that's what I saw from my dad. Don't get me wrong, he knows when to put me in check and maybe he felt like he had to play both roles when I was growing up who knows... I don't. All I know is I hate cocky macho guys that think they are hot stuff. I don't care if you look like Channing tatum, I don't want anything to do with you. My favorite type of guy is someone who treats me like I'm his world and at the same time trust me enough to tell me anything, kind of like its our own little world. Masculinity to me is when a guy has very strong morals and doesn't waiver from them b.c. Of other people, when a mans consistent and is willing to take on risks or make sacrifices for a better life, he's strong in areas I'm weak. I'd would much rather have that bond and level of comfort with a man than Mr. Macho.

[Flagg]

He's definitely paranoid and after thinking about it, I suppose the best thing we could do is encourage his paranoia.

Looks like the OP is banned. That will really make him paranoid! Maybe Admin is secretly his girlfriend....

[ElectraMaddox]

Lol I didn't even realize that

[Back In Black]

He's definitely paranoid and after thinking about it, I suppose the best thing we could do is encourage his paranoia.

I'm not sure it needs encouraging. He is in a very Fvcked up place and has been for some time. That'll be part of what is driving his 'girlfriend' to cheat on him.

As long as he doesn't listen to ALL the voices in his head.......

[Standby]

not something i worry about thats for sure but not something i want to happen also

[Honkey_Kong]

Looks like the OP is banned. That will really make him paranoid! Maybe Admin is secretly his girlfriend....

Guess she really is leaving him then haahahaha

[Honkey_Kong]

I'm not sure it needs encouraging. He is in a very Fvcked up place and has been for some time. That'll be part of what is driving his 'girlfriend' to cheat on him.

As long as he doesn't listen to ALL the voices in his head.......

Who's that broad in your avatar? That ass is spectacular.

[Back In Black]

Who's that broad in your avatar? That ass is spectacular.

No idea mate but I'd like to bounce off it a few times

[boz]

Treat em mean keep em keen

AHAHAH here i am reading all these serious responses thinking how could i chime in on this thread, boom hit euro's response he has me in historics i cant even give a serious response now.

[lovbyts]

um yeah... I actually like nice guys... I think those girls have daddy issues... Who you've met.... i have a really strong relationship with my dad, he raised me and i don't view a man being supportive or listening my feelings as feminine, that just makes me want to give him the same thing in return. Then again that's what I saw from my dad. Don't get me wrong, he knows when to put me in check and maybe he felt like he had to play both roles when I was growing up who knows... I don't. All I know is I hate cocky macho guys that think they are hot stuff. I don't care if you look like Channing tatum, I don't want anything to do with you. My favorite type of guy is someone who treats me like I'm his world and at the same time trust me enough to tell me anything, kind of like its our own little world. Masculinity to me is when a guy has very strong morals and doesn't waiver from them b.c. Of other people, when a mans consistent and is willing to take on risks or make sacrifices for a better life, he's strong in areas I'm weak. I'd would much rather have that bond and level of comfort with a man than Mr. Macho.

Bingo, that is SO important. Everyone should always pay a lot of attention to how their potential significant other interacts with his/her family and that will tell you most everything you need to know.

Now only if I would learn to follow my own rules.... lol

Looks like the OP is banned. That will really make him paranoid! Maybe Admin is secretly his girlfriend....

Ill bet Admin did a IP check and it was just another one of our ex trolls having fun.

[The Bear 79]

Why did OP get banned?

[Lady Warmouth]

Just be upfront and honest. If they are cheating, they might just leave because they think they are caught. Open up and support them if they are feeling down and in the dumps. My marriage thrives on this. Tell them you are there for them and we will get through it. Let them know it will be alright and to tell exaclty how they feel. It works for us.

[auswest]

Why did OP get banned?

Pure guess here but sounds like another leather daddy account the more I go back and read his posts in this thread, He already returned once with time1, he is australian so aussie1 seems quite obvious..

Just reading a few other aussie1 threads and it appears quite clear, as he always had a thing about asking a question then giving his own conflicting answers a few times before Anyone has a chance to answer it

[The Bear 79]

Pure guess here but sounds like another leather daddy account the more I go back and read his posts in this thread, He already returned once with time1, he is australian so aussie1 seems quite obvious..

Ah........

Leather Daddy was amusing.........retarded........but amusing.......

[auswest]

Ah........

Leather Daddy was amusing.........retarded........but amusing.......

Amusing but retarded sums him up about right,

[Back In Black]

You are correct, it was the paranoid delusional time waster LD

[boz]

The only time i ever got paranoid when i was with my ex when i used to do 2 weeks straight at work, and she had not msged me for at least 2 days, or if she was telling me about a bloke because she used to do bar work, telling me how funny he was when he was drunk etc. Insecruirity of course, you put yourself in my position though, 2 weeks straight 12 hour days, and in in the middle of NO WHERE! Your mind will wander...........

[auswest]

The only time i ever got paranoid when i was with my ex when i used to do 2 weeks straight at work, and she had not msged me for at least 2 days, or if she was telling me about a bloke because she used to do bar work, telling me how funny he was when he was drunk etc. Insecruirity of course, you put yourself in my position though, 2 weeks straight 12 hour days, and in in the middle of NO WHERE! Your mind will wander...........

Same roster I do, it used to bother me when I was alot younger, now it does not bother me, I trust my girl, and if she fks up, her loss, ill get a better one

[-Ender-]

maybe its just the cruise on test lol, but theres been times for days im paranoid about my missus leaving me, even tho we have been together for a year and donemore things in that year than i bet most couples have in 3 years lol. Sometimes just get paranoid/anxiety about her txting me saying its time for a break etc. Well she did yesterday only coz she was so angry at me coz i bailed last minute to one of her family things/ i ended up going in the end lol. Altho i have said things like that to her to. But still. Anyone ever get the anxiety/scared?

Also what are some good ideas i could perhaps do that she would love? Something fun/heartbeating. SRS answers only pls lol

I see you got banned, but if you read this: get your E2 checked.
I'm still waiting for my woman to go away. fly! be free!

[human project]

maybe its just the cruise on test lol, but theres been times for days im paranoid about my missus leaving me, even tho we have been together for a year and donemore things in that year than i bet most couples have in 3 years lol. Sometimes just get paranoid/anxiety about her txting me saying its time for a break etc. Well she did yesterday only coz she was so angry at me coz i bailed last minute to one of her family things/ i ended up going in the end lol. Altho i have said things like that to her to. But still. Anyone ever get the anxiety/scared?

Also what are some good ideas i could perhaps do that she would love? Something fun/heartbeating. SRS answers only pls lol

Lmao really..... I recommend arimidex and Nolva ASAP.... Do it now and save your relationship

[ElectraMaddox]

Bingo, that is SO important. Everyone should always pay a lot of attention to how their potential significant other interacts with his/her family and that will tell you most everything you need to know.

Now only if I would learn to follow my own rules.... lol


Ill bet Admin did a IP check and it was just another one of our ex trolls having fun.

Lol look at you analyzing me...

[stl]

I my experience if you feel that way they are not ment for you or you need multiple girl friends both worked out for me when I was dating