The Cemetery and its Welcome

[BJJ]

Lately a little child, friend of my daughter, died from a rare brain cancer.
She was only 2yo.

Last month, I moved within Rome remaining always in downtown but getting closer to the city's monumental cemetery.

A few days ago, I went into the cemetery at night to read and contemplate the stars since I was feeling very sad, without energies.

I laid on a ground crypt with the photo of the buried closed to my head and I felt better after a while.
I liked the peace I found there.

What is your favourite place when you feel down, if any?

[MuscleScience]

Not a Cemetery, those places scare me.

But if I am down or feel like escaping somewhere I will usually grab a fishing pole and some bait and head to the country and fish.

[calgarian]

Lately a little child, friend of my daughter, died from a rare brain cancer.
She was only 2yo.

Last month, I moved within Rome remaining always in downtown but getting closer to the city's monumental cemetery.

A few days ago, I went into the cemetery at night to read and contemplate the stars since I was feeling very sad, without energies.

I laid on a ground crypt with the photo of the buried closed to my head and I felt better after a while.
I liked the peace I found there.

What is your favorite place when you feel down, if any?

Dessert and Sea thats y I like Dubai u can get both in the same city......

Bad thing is that in calgary we got nothing so long drive to bnaff it is...

[Hoggage_54]

In between some boobs...

[Mooseman33]

Lately a little child, friend of my daughter, died from a rare brain cancer.
She was only 2yo.

Last month, I moved within Rome remaining always in downtown but getting closer to the city's monumental cemetery.

A few days ago, I went into the cemetery at night to read and contemplate the stars since I was feeling very sad, without energies.

I laid on a ground crypt with the photo of the buried closed to my head and I felt better after a while.
I liked the peace I found there.

What is your favourite place when you feel down, if any?

man, you are nuts......

i like to be out on the ocean, in a boat under the sky/stars...pure peace out there....

[FranciscoG]

Out on the Ocean on a calm day diving.

One more month until Whale Shark season...

[ghettoboyd]

i have a private nature trail in my backyard that follows the river....i like to walk there with my dog and find a nice place to sit and watch nature.....it makes my day better evertime i do, so i do it a lot....

[Hazard]

I love being on a golf coarse when no one is there (rare).....

Also being on a fairly empty beach..... watching the ocean.....

~Haz~

[roid1234]

I sometimes go to the cemetery as well and visit my grandas grave .I just like being out away from all the built up areas like the field or fishing or something . Sitting on the loch on a sunny day .

[alexISthrowed]

titty bar

[D7M]

Actually gonna have to agree with BJJ on this one.

though I haven't done it in a while, I used to enjoy going to cemeteries, reading, thinking....

[MaNiCC]

Its not a place. i just enjoy walking peacefully in the rain, i dont know what it is but i've always enjoyed the rain ever since i was a child

[MuscleScience]

I sometimes go to the cemetery as well and visit my grandas grave .I just like being out away from all the built up areas like the field or fishing or something . Sitting on the loch on a sunny day .

My family is from a very small isolated rural town. 5 generation born and raised there. Last time I was in the cemetery for my great grandpas funeral my dad and I walked around and found all our relation that had died there. We often joke that there is more family in the ground there than alive. It was thought provoking to see the graves of almost my entire family from when they first migrated to this country over 100 years ago until now.

[xlxBigSexyxlx]

out on the water or out in the wilderness in a remote location.

[calgarian]

out on the water or out in the wilderness in a remote location.

with how many girls

[calgarian]

Its not a place. i just enjoy walking peacefully in the rain, i dont know what it is but i've always enjoyed the rain ever since i was a child

i do too as longs its not freezing rain....ppl call me nuts when i say i like rain they rather be burried under the snow then to be rained upon never get that.

[lovbyts]

Lately a little child, friend of my daughter, died from a rare brain cancer.
She was only 2yo.

Last month, I moved within Rome remaining always in downtown but getting closer to the city's monumental cemetery.

A few days ago, I went into the cemetery at night to read and contemplate the stars since I was feeling very sad, without energies.

I laid on a ground crypt with the photo of the buried closed to my head and I felt better after a while.
I liked the peace I found there.

What is your favourite place when you feel down, if any?

If this is true first off let me say my condolences. Sad when life of an innocent is taken.

I am not sure where I feel the most peace. I know where I feel the most at home and it's not in the US.

I think for me it is not really where I am but who I am with to feel at peace.

[BJJ]

Not a Cemetery, those places scare me.

But if I am down or feel like escaping somewhere I will usually grab a fishing pole and some bait and head to the country and fish.

Why is that?

[BJJ]

Dessert and Sea thats y I like Dubai u can get both in the same city......

Bad thing is that in calgary we got nothing so long drive to bnaff it is...

I have been there and liked it because of that, though that is not the only place.

[BJJ]

Out on the Ocean on a calm day diving.

One more month until Whale Shark season...

Where do you go exactly?

[BJJ]

i have a private nature trail in my backyard that follows the river....i like to walk there with my dog and find a nice place to sit and watch nature.....it makes my day better evertime i do, so i do it a lot....

You are a lucky man, I wish to own such a property someday.
Till that day, I can only remember my catamaran hidden in a wood on a peak of a mountain close to Rome.

[BJJ]

I sometimes go to the cemetery as well and visit my grandas grave .I just like being out away from all the built up areas like the field or fishing or something . Sitting on the loch on a sunny day .

You are lucky to have someone to visit, lol.

[BJJ]

Actually gonna have to agree with BJJ on this one.

though I haven't done it in a while, I used to enjoy going to cemeteries, reading, thinking....

I am glad we agree on something.

[BJJ]

Its not a place. i just enjoy walking peacefully in the rain, i dont know what it is but i've always enjoyed the rain ever since i was a child

I like to walk in the rain too but a question comes natural, with or without umbrella?

[BJJ]

If this is true first off let me say my condolences. Sad when life of an innocent is taken.

I am not sure where I feel the most peace. I know where I feel the most at home and it's not in the US.

I think for me it is not really where I am but who I am with to feel at peace.

Thank you, even though said from someone who is for cruelty on animals, it is weird to say the least!

Unfortunately, she seemed to recover well after the surgery but a few weeks later she had fallen into a coma and she died the day after.

[lovbyts]

Thank you, even though said from someone who is for cruelty on animals, it is weird to say the least!

Unfortunately, she seemed to recover well after the surgery but a few weeks later she had fallen into a coma and she died the day after.

??? What cruelty to animals? If you are speaking of the human animal only when they deserve it. I have NEVER hurt an animal but I am not an animal/dog lover. I put people before pets. There is a HUGE difference. Im not a tree huger but I dont want to see our rain forest destroyed either. I dont smoke but I stand up for smokers rights. Im not gay but I believe in free choice and gay rights.

See the difference? Dont fall into the same mindset as a few others who have false perceptions about certain members due to pre judging them/us due to one or two statements or disagreement. If we all did that we would all (you included) probably be banned by now. LOL

You seem to forget how I have stuck up for you (your rights) on threads in the past even if I didn't agree with you 100% it is/was still your choice/opinion. http://forums.steroid.com/showpost.p...&postcount=125
Im quite sure this was not the only time.

Again VERY sorry to hear the sad news. She never got a chance to experience life. At least your young daughter is young enough that she will recover from the loss easily.

My daughter was 2 1/2 when her mother died but he hardly knew her at the time so she never really noticed her passing luckily.

[calgarian]

I have been there and liked it because of that, though that is not the only place.

thats the only place i know

[energizer bunny]

for me this is tough!.....ive never really thought about having somewere to go for reasons like you stated,, ive just delt with them in my everyday life.......maybe i should think about this!!......though i agree with lovbyts, certain people make me feel more at ease/better about things....

this has got me thinking i may need a special place.....if i ever find it i will let you know..

[stack_it]

What always brought me piece was riding my motorcycle on open country roads.


Now I have nowhere since I sold the bike.

[F4iGuy]

Watching nature. I went for a walk the other day. The trail followed a river on one side and mountains on the other. I watched a young racoon try to sip water from the river for an hour. Each time it approached the water 2 swans, 8 ducks, and 5 geese swam up to it and went nuts. Poor fella. I was rootin for him lol.

[lovbyts]

for me this is tough!.....ive never really thought about having somewere to go for reasons like you stated,, ive just delt with them in my everyday life.......maybe i should think about this!!......though i agree with lovbyts, certain people make me feel more at ease/better about things....

this has got me thinking i may need a special place.....if i ever find it i will let you know..

Ive been thinking more about this since my post also and as stated before, it's not really any one place.

When my first wife died I took my 2yr old daughter and ventured out on a 2 month road trip from Washington state visiting friend in Oregon, Nevada, New Mexico then drove through and spent time at Yellow Stone. It was a good distraction and gave me more time to reflect on things and spend 24/7 with my daughter.

When the 2nd wife died (3 years divorced but still close) my daughter was much older, 13. She mostly confided in her friends and was in school at the time so it was a good distraction for her. I also got her started seeing a counselor for a while.

I did not have the luxury to take off right away on a road trip but 2 months later I made my first trip to Thailand. That was the beginning of the end. Anyone who has been there knows what I mean.

For me it's being able to get away and be with people, make new memories.

[Hunter]

Either in the woods(hunting) or on a lake or river(fishing). I have been out in some nasty duck hunting weather same with bow hunting but I find it very calming. Sitting up in a deer stand and being there when the woods wakes up is amazing.

Either that or point my bike out west and ride deeper into the great plains is pretty amazing.

[MuscleScience]

Why is that?

one word,


ZOMBIES!!!

[BJJ]

one word,


ZOMBIES!!!

You are an educated person, and believe in zombies?

[MaNiCC]

I like to walk in the rain too but a question comes natural, with or without umbrella?

without in a t-shirt, i like to feel the rain. its really weird but for a short period of time it makes me feel free from the problems we encounter in life

[dangerous dan]

sounds strange....but i like to climb up on my roof at night, out of the bedroom window, light up a cig lay back and relax...

[calgarian]

sounds strange....but i like to climb up on my roof at night, out of the bedroom window, light up a cig lay back and relax...

you take a peak at the neighbors and dont u lie.....

[BJJ]

Ive been thinking more about this since my post also and as stated before, it's not really any one place.

When my first wife died I took my 2yr old daughter and ventured out on a 2 month road trip from Washington state visiting friend in Oregon, Nevada, New Mexico then drove through and spent time at Yellow Stone. It was a good distraction and gave me more time to reflect on things and spend 24/7 with my daughter.

When the 2nd wife died (3 years divorced but still close) my daughter was much older, 13. She mostly confided in her friends and was in school at the time so it was a good distraction for her. I also got her started seeing a counselor for a while.

I did not have the luxury to take off right away on a road trip but 2 months later I made my first trip to Thailand. That was the beginning of the end. Anyone who has been there knows what I mean.

For me it's being able to get away and be with people, make new memories.

Sorry to read that about your wifes.

[BJJ]

What always brought me piece was riding my motorcycle on open country roads.

Now I have nowhere since I sold the bike.

Actually I wanted to achieve the same with my bikes but every time I was riding one of them I had to make challenges. So, I really never experienced that feeling.

Perhaps, I need to buy a H.D. to be forced to go slowly enjoing the country side.

you take a peak at the neighbors and dont u lie.....

You are good in understanding others' experiences because you used to live them at first...

[OH REALLY]

i drive and feel the power in my car...