i had been out of the dating game for about 7 months and finally jumped back into the game. I met this woman that seemed awesome on plenty of fish, we talked for about a week before meeting she seemed great, physically very appealing, she served in the navy and was a very badass chick. Anyways so we finally meet for a date and it seemd like we really hit it off, i did however tell her that i juiced and she seemed to have a problem with that but it didnt prevent us from further hanging out. So we hung out a few more times and i come to find out she still lived with her ex (who broke up with her)..she went on to tell me she cried when he moved out but that she was over him and it wouldnt be a problem. She seemed to kind of flake out on plans a lot but she said she needed girls time, so i tried to be understanding. She put off sex for a little while because she said she didn't want me to be the reound guy and wanted something genuine. Finally we did have sex, and unfortunately it was horrible (i was the drunkest i had been in years) and to be honest i gave her basically the limp treatment. She went on to tell me how much she disliked my skin due to the steroids (it has cleared up a lot lately though). anyways..she started to make good friends with my female roomate and they staretd to hang out all the time (although i would never be invited). she got drunk one night and told my roomate that my dick was ****ed up from steroids and that i couldnt get hard..and she was supposed to meet her ex for dinner. We all know when your on test...your dick works better then it ever has..the skin i can understand but, the only reason i couldnt perform is because i was extremely extremely intoxicated. So we ended up hanging out a few more times and she told me she wasnt over her ex completely, shes strongly against my steroid usage, and i never showed i cared about her and my ego was too big. She flaked out on a few more plans so i stopped responding to her random texts. I saw her at the gym the other day and texted her to relieve some of the awkwardness and she ripped into me, saying stop thinking your buff, i dont care if you found out i was lying etc etc. Long story short she called me a few days later and we talked and i told her i dont hate her or anything and we could be friends or do whatever..she agreed to go have a drink with me but again, she never showed. Considering i actually have to see this woman on a fairly regular basis how should i go about handling this situation, what is she actually thinking, and what should i do moving forward?