Women and numberof sex partners

[bethdoth]

Just wondering how guys feel about women that have had a lot of sex partners in their lives. I know some older women that have had over 40 sex partners in their life. For us if it's a guy we would say only 40? But for a woman what do we say? Slut, Whore, or that's it?
I personally feel that if a woman has had over 40 partners and is in her 40's or 50's that really isn't much in today's world. I think it indicates they enjoy sex, but are not a total nymphomaniac.
What say you?

[tarmyg]

Just wondering how guys feel about women that have had a lot of sex partners in their lives. I know some older women that have had over 40 sex partners in their life. For us if it's a guy we would say only 40? But for a woman what do we say? Slut, Whore, or that's it?
I personally feel that if a woman has had over 40 partners and is in her 40's or 50's that really isn't much in today's world. I think it indicates they enjoy sex, but are not a total nymphomaniac.
What say you?

Completely agree. I hope more people will get to the place where judging women in a different way due to the number of sexual partners goes away.

[Proximal]

Agree as well. I think it’s an intimidation factor for some dudes because they feel they are competing against the past partners in some way.

[Capebuffalo]

If I’m number 41 for them I’m good with it.

[charger69]

If I’m number 41 for them I’m good with it.

LMAO- 41 in Mexico means that you are gay.


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[Cuz]

Ehh, i would want to make sure she was clean number #1 and #2 i dont want a snatch that i can fit my fist in...other than that idc lol

[bethdoth]

Ehh, i would want to make sure she was clean number #1 and #2 i dont want a snatch that i can fit my fist in...other than that idc lol

Hahaha CUZ just confirmed that roids make your dick shrink! LOL Well maybe his.

Ya I agree with the clean part, but a woman could have unprotected sex with just one guy in her life (Cape the whore) and bamm herpes! Or protected sex with 100's and still be clean. The one woman I was talking to that admitted that she kinda keeps tracks and had been with 41 last count, you would never think she would have been with that many guys. She is attractive and has a nice body, but seems kinda like a prude.

[Capebuffalo]

LMAO- 41 in Mexico means that you are gay.


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Funny how you know that Charger41

[Cuz]

Hahaha CUZ just confirmed that roids make your dick shrink! LOL Well maybe his.

Ya I agree with the clean part, but a woman could have unprotected sex with just one guy in her life (Cape the whore) and bamm herpes! Or protected sex with 100's and still be clean. The one woman I was talking to that admitted that she kinda keeps tracks and had been with 41 last count, you would never think she would have been with that many guys. She is attractive and has a nice body, but seems kinda like a prude.

Your wife said it was bigger than yours thats all i care about
LOL
The more partners a person has male or female the higher the risk of std’s come in. Just basic common horse sense to me. Is it likely? No, and if she was hot hell id probably hit as well bc ive been in that situation before. Afterwards i was worried like fuck, ive done some dumbass shit in my younger days

[Cuz]

Funny how you know that Charger41

I think he’s hitting on you Cape

[Obs]

141 is a whore.
Ex wife....
She was a whore.

Not saying that I wouldnt sleep with 141 women given the opportunity but I assure you I would be called a whore by them. I would be ok with it. Its just a word.

Sex is also very different male vs female.

No we arent all the same tarmyg.
You will have to hold off on the world unity celebration.

A man usually cheats because he is horny.

A woman usually cheats because she needs love and attention.

Which is worse IDK.

A whore is a whore either way.
I dont know what they do to whores where you all live but its just a word around here. Sticks and stones may break your bones, but words... Will kill you instantly?

If I am looking for a lasting relationship, no I am not gonna take on a high body cout whore. I been there.
Shit,I cant even trust myself.

Btw... A few of us were on conversation with a guy screwing every girl on tinder a while back.
They found out and ganged up on him calling him a lot worse things than whore.

Why the crazy women tried to undo him.
The poor man was reduced to apologizing to them and fking half of them again.

It must have been terrible.
Cocaine and a different girl pissed off every night. Then back two weeks later for round 2...

[Obs]

Btw... The other way to look at it is this chick had all the dick in the world but found yours and got hung up on it....

Thats flattering.
Unless she lets herself go.
Then you got a fat ex whore on your hands.

This is not a good thing. Ask me how I know.

[Capebuffalo]

I think he’s hitting on you Cape

Throwing it out to see if it sticks I guess.

[JaneDoe]

Women never have the courage to assume they've had sex with several guys in their lives.
I know girls who have had sex with more than 100 guys around, and nowadays is married with children. And worships the church every Sunday.

[Fluidic Kimbo]

Women never have the courage to assume they've had sex with several guys in their lives.
I know girls who have had sex with more than 100 guys around, and nowadays is married with children. And worships the church every Sunday.

You could find a girl who slept with 35 guys between the ages 17-25. Then she went to rehab when she was 26, didn't have sex for four years, and now you meet her when she's 30 and she's got a clean bill of health.

I used to sleep around... my record for one 24-hour period is 3 girls. But now I haven't had sex since the Summer of 2015, so that's four years celibate now.

[yeahbuddy289]

I think we’re all forgetting the rule of 3... whatever number a girl gives you, you multiply it by 3 to get the real number. Any number a guy gives you divide it by 3.

[Obs]

I think we’re all forgetting the rule of 3... whatever number a girl gives you, you multiply it by 3 to get the real number. Any number a guy gives you divide it by 3.

Winner!
Best post of 2019

[charger69]

Throwing it out to see if it sticks I guess.

I like your AVI. LOL


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[Beetlegeuse]

Every time I go to bed with a woman who knows her way around a cock, I say a silent "thank you" to every man she slept with before me because virgins, as a rule, are shitty lays, and they need to get their training somewhere.

Give me a woman who swallows your load and makes you believe she's enjoying it, or can tell when it's exactly the right moment to shove her finger up your ass, any day.

I actually once dated a woman who probably had had more lovers than I've had haircuts. She invited me to go home with her for a weekend at her family's place to attend the wedding of one of her girl cousins.

Actually, the reason she invited me to that particular event was because I had my own airplane. She had a brother in the army who was stationed about a four-hour drive from their family home and he was on a 2-hour recall alert. They lived in a one-horse town that was a two-hour drive from the nearest commercial airport but it had its own small municipal airport. My airplane was fast enough that I could get him back to his post in 90 minutes so she asked me to be her escort to the wedding so her brother could attend, and I would be available to fly him back if the need arose. In return for which she promised delights beyond measure. I already had sampled her skill sets so I knew this was an offer that no sane straight man would refuse.

When we got to her folks' place and she started introducing me around, most of the women nodded knowingly and said, smiling, "Oh. So you're the roadkill of the month. So nice to meet you." So she even had that reputation among her own family!

She lived up to her end of the bargain. It was quite a memorable weekend. I would have submitted a detailed account of the weekend to Penthouse Letters but I figure they'd have put it in the fantasy section.

The affair lasted another three weeks, after which her family's prophecy came true. She discarded me and left my half-dead carcass in a heap of burning rubble with a broken heart, bruised ribs and most of the skin worn off my dick. But it was one hell of a goddam ride while it lasted.

Virgins? They barely know which hole so stick the stacking swivel in. I'll take a woman with a few conquests under her belt any day, thank you very much.

[AR's King Silabolin]

Just wondering how guys feel about women that have had a lot of sex partners in their lives. I know some older women that have had over 40 sex partners in their life. For us if it's a guy we would say only 40? But for a woman what do we say? Slut, Whore, or that's it?
I personally feel that if a woman has had over 40 partners and is in her 40's or 50's that really isn't much in today's world. I think it indicates they enjoy sex, but are not a total nymphomaniac.
What say you?

Only...??.. I dont think i have had more than 40 sexpartners
Started extremely late though. 25 lol.
And been in relationship with the same girl since 2003.
But stil... Dont think im an unexperienced dude.

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[XnavyHMCS]

I think we’re all forgetting the rule of 3... whatever number a girl gives you, you multiply it by 3 to get the real number. Any number a guy gives you divide it by 3.

LMFAO!!!!!

Lovin this forum (although I remain more of a serial lurker on here...), at 54yo; I never heard that one before...

[Fluidic Kimbo]

My airplane was fast enough that I could get him back to his post in 90 minutes so she asked me to be her escort to the wedding so her brother could attend, and I would be available to fly him back if the need arose. In return for which she promised delights beyond measure.

These deals can go very badly wrong if the person offering sex reneges.

[Fiskevatten]

I never wanna know the number.
I'm the whore regardless but hearing it confirms it and that is never a good thing in my ears.
I will still do her, but I will not see her as I did before she said it.

Then I have one of these weird reasons as well comparing women and men in this.
Women get everything inside, we get everything outside.
We can (in my mind) just wash it with soap and be good to go, while a women is like a Turkey with
horrible stuffing.
You don't just wash out the bad stuffing in a Turkey and let it dry, you get a new one

Good stuffing is your own!

[German89]

To the OP.. I'd say

Good for her. Fuck whoever's you want. You only live once.

Why does it matter. Leave her alone. She wants to fukk she can. We dont judge men when they have multiple partners. Soooo....?!

[Fluidic Kimbo]

Women get everything inside, we get everything outside.
We can (in my mind) just wash it with soap and be good to go, while a women is like a Turkey with
horrible stuffing.
You don't just wash out the bad stuffing in a Turkey and let it dry, you get a new one

Good stuffing is your own!

You should give motivational speeches at residential rehabilitation centres for women in recovery from sex work. Maybe they should all get hysterectomies.

[bethdoth]

To the OP.. I'd say

Good for her. Fuck whoever's you want. You only live once.

Why does it matter. Leave her alone. She wants to fukk she can. We dont judge men when they have multiple partners. Soooo....?!

German89 I feel the same way, Man or woman fuck whom ever you want when you want, let your conscious be your guide if you are committed to someone else. I was actually impressed that we could sit and have this conversation over a few drinks and that she was open about it.

[Obs]

Every time I go to bed with a woman who knows her way around a cock, I say a silent "thank you" to every man she slept with before me because virgins, as a rule, are shitty lays, and they need to get their training somewhere.

Give me a woman who swallows your load and makes you believe she's enjoying it, or can tell when it's exactly the right moment to shove her finger up your ass, any day.

I actually once dated a woman who probably had had more lovers than I've had haircuts. She invited me to go home with her for a weekend at her family's place to attend the wedding of one of her girl cousins.

Actually, the reason she invited me to that particular event was because I had my own airplane. She had a brother in the army who was stationed about a four-hour drive from their family home and he was on a 2-hour recall alert. They lived in a one-horse town that was a two-hour drive from the nearest commercial airport but it had its own small municipal airport. My airplane was fast enough that I could get him back to his post in 90 minutes so she asked me to be her escort to the wedding so her brother could attend, and I would be available to fly him back if the need arose. In return for which she promised delights beyond measure. I already had sampled her skill sets so I knew this was an offer that no sane straight man would refuse.

When we got to her folks' place and she started introducing me around, most of the women nodded knowingly and said, smiling, "Oh. So you're the roadkill of the month. So nice to meet you." So she even had that reputation among her own family!

She lived up to her end of the bargain. It was quite a memorable weekend. I would have submitted a detailed account of the weekend to Penthouse Letters but I figure they'd have put it in the fantasy section.

The affair lasted another three weeks, after which her family's prophecy came true. She discarded me and left my half-dead carcass in a heap of burning rubble with a broken heart, bruised ribs and most of the skin worn off my dick. But it was one hell of a goddam ride while it lasted.

Virgins? They barely know which hole so stick the stacking swivel in. I'll take a woman with a few conquests under her belt any day, thank you very much.

"So you're the roadkill of the month"

They were jealous man.

[Beetlegeuse]

"So you're the roadkill of the month"

They were jealous man.

No shit, roadkill. And I gather I was just the last in a long line of her conquests who they'd tried to warn of the "danger on the rocks" that lay ahead.

Actually a couple of them ending up calling me after their cousin tossed me aside and had given them the go-ahead. They knew from her reputation that she wouldn't go out with a man a second time if he didn't prove himself to be an accomplished ... ahem ... swordsman.

And there's the fact that I put them all in the Mile High Club.

You ever see guys walk into a bar and toss their keyring emblazoned with a big BMW or Mercedes logo onto the table? Like they were using it for advertising? Try that some time with a key fob that reads "Piper."

THAT is a game-changer. All I can say is thank goodness for the autopilot.

[Obs]

No shit, roadkill. And I gather I was just the last in a long line of her conquests who they'd tried to warn of the "danger on the rocks" that lay ahead.

Actually a couple of them ending up calling me after their cousin tossed me aside and had given them the go-ahead. They knew from her reputation that she wouldn't go out with a man a second time if he didn't prove himself to be an accomplished ... ahem ... swordsman.

And there's the fact that I put them all in the Mile High Club.

You ever see guys walk into a bar and toss their keyring emblazoned with a big BMW or Mercedes logo onto the table? Like they were using it for advertising? Try that some time with a key fob that reads "Piper."

THAT is a game-changer. All I can say is thank goodness for the autopilot.

All I ever did to impress women at a bar was sit down.

Then, 5 fattys and 20 loud conceited 5's would come by cruising.

I can't lie, I am not shallow.
Personality rules all including the bedroom.

I have seen 10's I couldn't get hard for because they were so annoying.

The bartender gave me her number.
Something she had never done. That was flattering.
Its a lot easier to enjoy it when she has got off 2:1.

I love women. I know them and what they need. Giving them what they want is the only reason I have sex.

[sv.elia]

We didn't have effective birth control until 20th century, meaning that we're wired to think it would be bad idea for a woman to have a kid with a man that wouldn't provide for her. Which was true back then, but now that we have contraception, women can do whatever.

Also, it's only human to adjust in small steps. That's why the elderly (both male and female) still frown upon women with multiple partners.

I, too, was raised with a similar mindset and for a long time (21y) I wanted to have a partner for life. Now I just lol at the idea of having done the necessary compromises to keep my first partner. It would have been miserable.

[C27H40O3]

You guys must come from the country. Numbers from city folks are much higher. Parts of my congressional district growing up had over 80,000 people living per square mile. I couldnt have ran through as much ass if i grew up in a small town (before the internet anyway). I am 55 and always was in long term relationships for most of the time, so i didnt go out alot. a few times a month. but when i discovered the online dating scene in 2005, i went buck wild. There are so many decent women on there that dont like to go out to spots to meet people. lawyers, doctors, educated chicks with great jobs, they are all nerds and cant stand being out in nightclubs and hookup bars. They were like shooting fish in a barrel.

one bitch put me on "dontdatehimgirl.com" after she caught me with another chick. such a vindictive bitch! had my photo and my address and my 8 year old sons name also on the site. i let her know that she crossed the line bringing my son into it, and since she likes posting folks' photos on the internet, i had certain photos of her that i'm sure she wouldnt mind me posting on the facebook page of the college where she taught. She immediately took my name and photo off that man-hating site for disgruntled dykes.

anyway, i laid up with well over 200 chicks from the time i was 17, and i got a late start and really wasnt into it much until i was in my thirties. But the early 80's disco scene in new york city was centered around hooking up with chicks. Later I had my own office in a city agency, with a great view of the city, and chicks that i would invite out to lunch would walk me back to my office and put their naked ass up on my desk to get pounded overlooking the Brooklyn Bridge.

one thing i found was the ones who are a 5 - 8 provide the most enjoyable sex. the 9's and 10's are used to being spoiled and catered to their whole life and they are too lazy and narcissistic for my taste. If your daddy spoiled you like a princess, i am not going to compete with that. you can be someone else's problem.

life was fun until i got old and out of shape. now i keep the same three in the rotation, with an option to call a couple from back in the day now and then. I touch base at least once a year with each just to keep in there. Never married, because i knew i never wanted to put a wife through my heartbreaking shit.

[Obs]

You guys must come from the country. Numbers from city folks are much higher. Parts of my congressional district growing up had over 80,000 people living per square mile. I couldnt have ran through as much ass if i grew up in a small town (before the internet anyway). I am 55 and always was in long term relationships for most of the time, so i didnt go out alot. a few times a month. but when i discovered the online dating scene in 2005, i went buck wild. There are so many decent women on there that dont like to go out to spots to meet people. lawyers, doctors, educated chicks with great jobs, they are all nerds and cant stand being out in nightclubs and hookup bars. They were like shooting fish in a barrel.

one bitch put me on "dontdatehimgirl.com" after she caught me with another chick. such a vindictive bitch! had my photo and my address and my 8 year old sons name also on the site. i let her know that she crossed the line bringing my son into it, and since she likes posting folks' photos on the internet, i had certain photos of her that i'm sure she wouldnt mind me posting on the facebook page of the college where she taught. She immediately took my name and photo off that man-hating site for disgruntled dykes.

anyway, i laid up with well over 200 chicks from the time i was 17, and i got a late start and really wasnt into it much until i was in my thirties. But the early 80's disco scene in new york city was centered around hooking up with chicks. Later I had my own office in a city agency, with a great view of the city, and chicks that i would invite out to lunch would walk me back to my office and put their naked ass up on my desk to get pounded overlooking the Brooklyn Bridge.

one thing i found was the ones who are a 5 - 8 provide the most enjoyable sex. the 9's and 10's are used to being spoiled and catered to their whole life and they are too lazy and narcissistic for my taste. If your daddy spoiled you like a princess, i am not going to compete with that. you can be someone else's problem.

life was fun until i got old and out of shape. now i keep the same three in the rotation, with an option to call a couple from back in the day now and then. I touch base at least once a year with each just to keep in there. Never married, because i knew i never wanted to put a wife through my heartbreaking shit.

Your kind us called a fuck boi and is the most common today.
If it makes you happy thats cool but you won't get in the pants of a real woman.

No offense intended.
The woman that runs shit, that a man who runs shit seeks is not on the same page.

I have seen 400lb fat wilderbeest women have high counts like that. You see it as a brag, I see it as a lack of manliness.

The same girls puss you ate out probably was leaking another guys cum half the time.

I seek the extraordinary so we wont agree.
The most amazing woman I have met cooked three meals per day on cast iron and raised her two kids alone without assistance from the government or her x sperm donor, who would probably get along with you great.

[C27H40O3]

its not a brag, it just is what it is. most i know have pretty the same story here. different parts of the country, different kinds of areas have different social scenes. if you grow up in a town that has 1800 people, you probably arent going to find 200 chicks to connect with. when theres more young people around than good jobs for them, you hang out alot. the eagle flies on friday. when saturday night fever came out, everybody i knew wanted to be tony manero. it probably didnt even run in your local theater. city chicks like getting laid as much as we did. it was a great arrangement over the years. when you live in the center of the universe, and have a couple of million chicks to choose from, why settle so fast?

looking back, i should have settled with any of the few that i was really compatible with. thirty years ago, there seemed like there was so much more ass to run through. now looking back, i should have went another way.

i guess i just hate settling. i like driving also. i have two jeeps, two trucks, and three cars. and one bike left, only because i wanted to have space for another lathe and tooling sharing space in the garage. life has too many options to settle for one of anything. we are dead too soon. enjoy the variety that life has to offer, while you still can.

I bet you think "why have more than one gun"? and "Isnt one enough for anyone?" not me. if i like one, then i like two better. and so on. sometimes its the bushmaster that goes to the range with me. sometimes its the mini-14 and the seecamp. maybe its four or five. again, why settle?

[Obs]

its not a brag, it just is what it is. most i know have pretty the same story here. different parts of the country, different kinds of areas have different social scenes. if you grow up in a town that has 1800 people, you probably arent going to find 200 chicks to connect with. when theres more young people around than good jobs for them, you hang out alot. the eagle flies on friday. when saturday night fever came out, everybody i knew wanted to be tony manero. it probably didnt even run in your local theater. city chicks like getting laid as much as we did. it was a great arrangement over the years. when you live in the center of the universe, and have a couple of million chicks to choose from, why settle so fast?

looking back, i should have settled with any of the few that i was really compatible with. thirty years ago, there seemed like there was so much more ass to run through. now looking back, i should have went another way.

i guess i just hate settling. i like driving also. i have two jeeps, two trucks, and three cars. and one bike left, only because i wanted to have space for another lathe and tooling sharing space in the garage. life has too many options to settle for one of anything. we are dead too soon. enjoy the variety that life has to offer, while you still can.

I bet you think "why have more than one gun"? and "Isnt one enough for anyone?" not me. if i like one, then i like two better. and so on. sometimes its the bushmaster that goes to the range with me. sometimes its the mini-14 and the seecamp. maybe its four or five. again, why settle?

That kind of thing was fun when I was a kid and yes I have done everything you have done in the city. Frankly, the country boys got a lot more attention in the city than the city boys just because everyone wants something different.

Eventually though you want something thats more than a piece of ass when you grow up so it slows down and you start spending more time with the same one.

Relationships stsrt to mean something after you get tired of the annoying girls at clubs and bars.
To get the ones worth while you have to. The pursuit is the fun and one and done becomes unnecessary and then you fuck up and fall in love.

I realize there are some shut in in the country but there truly is nothing the world can offer I vmcant access. Not all of us are retarded rednecks that can't, understand them damn computers, get around in the hood, or dont like 5 star restaraunts.

It really makes no difference where you live its who you are and what you seek.
Plenty in this town with counts over 200 and this is a tiny town.

[C27H40O3]

That kind of thing was fun when I was a kid and yes I have done everything you have done in the city. Frankly, the country boys got a lot more attention in the city than the city boys just because everyone wants something different.

Eventually though you want something thats more than a piece of ass when you grow up so it slows down and you start spending more time with the same one.

Relationships stsrt to mean something after you get tired of the annoying girls at clubs and bars.
To get the ones worth while you have to. The pursuit is the fun and one and done becomes unnecessary and then you fuck up and fall in love.

I realize there are some shut in in the country but there truly is nothing the world can offer I vmcant access. Not all of us are retarded rednecks that can't, understand them damn computers, get around in the hood, or dont like 5 star restaraunts.

It really makes no difference where you live its who you are and what you seek.
Plenty in this town with counts over 200 and this is a tiny town.

I concur


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[Cuz]

That kind of thing was fun when I was a kid and yes I have done everything you have done in the city. Frankly, the country boys got a lot more attention in the city than the city boys just because everyone wants something different.

Eventually though you want something thats more than a piece of ass when you grow up so it slows down and you start spending more time with the same one.

Relationships stsrt to mean something after you get tired of the annoying girls at clubs and bars.
To get the ones worth while you have to. The pursuit is the fun and one and done becomes unnecessary and then you fuck up and fall in love.

I realize there are some shut in in the country but there truly is nothing the world can offer I vmcant access. Not all of us are retarded rednecks that can't, understand them damn computers, get around in the hood, or dont like 5 star restaraunts.

It really makes no difference where you live its who you are and what you seek.
Plenty in this town with counts over 200 and this is a tiny town.

Nope....

Still want ass twice a day everyday

[Obs]

Nope....

Still want ass twice a day everyday

I said "more".

Yet I struck out last night and this morning.

[Cuz]

I said "more".

Yet I struck out last night and this morning.

I hit a fucking grand slam yesterday. This mornin i let the ole girl rest hehe.

God damned tren...