Anabolics
Search More Than 6,000,000 Posts
Results 1 to 20 of 20
  1. #1
    RoNNy THe BuLL's Avatar
    RoNNy THe BuLL is offline Anabolic Member
    Join Date
    Jun 2002
    Location
    Toronto, Canada
    Posts
    2,968

    How Do You Breakup With a Girl For NO REASON?

    Here's a dilemma I thought I'd never be in.

    I've been with this girl for a few months. Things are going great. No problems. However, something just isn't there. I don't know what it is, but just something is missing.

    My problem is how the hell do I break up with her without totally crushing her?

  2. #2
    TexasFitnessGirl's Avatar
    TexasFitnessGirl is offline Female Member
    Join Date
    Aug 2004
    Location
    Texas Baby
    Posts
    1,182
    I don't know how but I do know this, don't wait a second longer, it will only make matters worse. Good Luck to you. Honesty is always the best policy. Be Nice to her, K?

  3. #3
    Panzerfaust's Avatar
    Panzerfaust is offline Ron Paul Nuthugger
    Join Date
    Aug 2004
    Location
    Deutschland
    Posts
    8,828
    Tell her all you are interested in is Anal...believe me she will leave your ass.

  4. #4
    RoNNy THe BuLL's Avatar
    RoNNy THe BuLL is offline Anabolic Member
    Join Date
    Jun 2002
    Location
    Toronto, Canada
    Posts
    2,968
    Things in her life aren't the greatest and she's repeatedly told me that if it wasn't for me, she would have nothing.

    Poor girl, but I can't stay with her out of pity. I was thinking something along the lines of 'I need to take care of some family stuff, let's just be friends for awhile" and then slowly move away. What you think?

  5. #5
    Cali's Avatar
    Cali is offline Female Member
    Join Date
    Dec 2001
    Location
    Midwest
    Posts
    1,113
    I just did this with a guy~great guy, just not the one for me. And I told him just that. He was still crushed but if you wait longer it will hurt even worse.

    By the way, I meant I just broke up with a guy and told him he just wasn't the one for me....NOT the story about family stuff to take care of. Didn't see that post when I posted my comments.
    Last edited by Cali; 10-05-2004 at 06:54 AM.

  6. #6
    RoNNy THe BuLL's Avatar
    RoNNy THe BuLL is offline Anabolic Member
    Join Date
    Jun 2002
    Location
    Toronto, Canada
    Posts
    2,968
    Quote Originally Posted by Cali
    I just did this with a guy~great guy, just not the one for me. And I told him just that. He was still crushed but if you wait longer it will hurt even worse.
    That's the same predicament I'm in. Awesome girl, perfect if you ask me, but not the one for me. Just something's missing.

  7. #7
    TexasFitnessGirl's Avatar
    TexasFitnessGirl is offline Female Member
    Join Date
    Aug 2004
    Location
    Texas Baby
    Posts
    1,182
    Quote Originally Posted by RoNNy THe BuLL
    Things in her life aren't the greatest and she's repeatedly told me that if it wasn't for me, she would have nothing.

    Poor girl, but I can't stay with her out of pity. I was thinking something along the lines of 'I need to take care of some family stuff, let's just be friends for awhile" and then slowly move away. What you think?
    Don't tell her a story, tell her the truth. Saying we can be friends and you are breaking up to take care of stuff will lead her to believe there is still hope, when you clear things up.

  8. #8
    RoNNy THe BuLL's Avatar
    RoNNy THe BuLL is offline Anabolic Member
    Join Date
    Jun 2002
    Location
    Toronto, Canada
    Posts
    2,968
    Point taken well TFG. I'll just come straight out and tell her what's up. Thanks.

  9. #9
    TexasFitnessGirl's Avatar
    TexasFitnessGirl is offline Female Member
    Join Date
    Aug 2004
    Location
    Texas Baby
    Posts
    1,182
    Quote Originally Posted by RoNNy THe BuLL
    Point taken well TFG. I'll just come straight out and tell her what's up. Thanks.
    GREAT PLAN

  10. #10
    Spoon's Avatar
    Spoon is offline 'Lurker at the threshold'
    Join Date
    Feb 2004
    Location
    South of Heaven
    Posts
    3,710
    just tell her that you will be a better friend than a boyfriend and that you need some time alone. this the same nagging woman you were raving about last month?

  11. #11
    Panzerfaust's Avatar
    Panzerfaust is offline Ron Paul Nuthugger
    Join Date
    Aug 2004
    Location
    Deutschland
    Posts
    8,828
    WTF?

    So my advice is'nt any good anymore huh?











  12. #12
    TexasFitnessGirl's Avatar
    TexasFitnessGirl is offline Female Member
    Join Date
    Aug 2004
    Location
    Texas Baby
    Posts
    1,182
    Quote Originally Posted by muriloninja
    WTF?

    So my advice is'nt any good anymore huh?


    I just don't see why that would run any girl off? I mean really he was asking for serious advice......

  13. #13
    RoNNy THe BuLL's Avatar
    RoNNy THe BuLL is offline Anabolic Member
    Join Date
    Jun 2002
    Location
    Toronto, Canada
    Posts
    2,968
    Quote Originally Posted by Spoon
    just tell her that you will be a better friend than a boyfriend and that you need some time alone. this the same nagging woman you were raving about last month?
    Yep yep, same one.

  14. #14
    Spoon's Avatar
    Spoon is offline 'Lurker at the threshold'
    Join Date
    Feb 2004
    Location
    South of Heaven
    Posts
    3,710
    Quote Originally Posted by RoNNy THe BuLL
    Yep yep, same one.

    ayt. you obviously are still fond of her and like her a lot but if she aint the one for you then tel her. do it the right way and tell her how you feel. its better you do it that way rather than making things get out of hand by breaking her heart. speaking of breaking her heart, either way you put it, you will break her heart. no such thing as a good breakup coz if it was good you wouldnt break up. good luck

  15. #15
    Join Date
    Feb 2004
    Location
    on the dip rack.
    Posts
    1,360
    eh, either way you do it, shes gunna have a broken heart. only beeing 'friends' never works bro, everyone knows that its either gonna end up with her crying every night, or her hating you every night? which would it rather be?

    i remember like last year i was in this situation, and i pulled a rage over somethin retarded and called it quits, never answer her fone calls and it basically faded, never heard of her again.and it ended exactly the way i wanted it to.

  16. #16
    GORILA-UNIT is offline Member
    Join Date
    May 2004
    Posts
    616
    Quote Originally Posted by muriloninja
    Tell her all you are interested in is Anal...believe me she will leave your ass.
    i know that one from experience

  17. #17
    Anhydro78's Avatar
    Anhydro78 is offline Anabolic Member
    Join Date
    May 2004
    Posts
    2,439
    Turn into someone else. Try to do some real freaky sh!t with her in bed. And tell her you want it like that all the time. If nothing else you might end up liking her if she will go for it..LOL

  18. #18
    Panzerfaust's Avatar
    Panzerfaust is offline Ron Paul Nuthugger
    Join Date
    Aug 2004
    Location
    Deutschland
    Posts
    8,828
    Quote Originally Posted by TexasFitnessGirl
    I just don't see why that would run any girl off? I mean really he was asking for serious advice......
    That would'nt run her off? I have not met one yet that liked it (nothing special to me either) so i suggested it. It would at least make her dump him if she did'nt like it and thats all he wanted.

  19. #19
    decadbal's Avatar
    decadbal is offline Banned
    Join Date
    Nov 2002
    Location
    North Charlotte
    Posts
    11,924
    tell her your gay.. tell her right now isnt right, and you cant be committed fully..

  20. #20
    shorty2big's Avatar
    shorty2big is offline Member
    Join Date
    Mar 2002
    Location
    AZ
    Posts
    601
    dont wait any longer. just tell her what you told us. Dont make up some b.s.. Just tell her something isnt there. There's no easy way to do it.
    S2B

Thread Information

Users Browsing this Thread

There are currently 1 users browsing this thread. (0 members and 1 guests)

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •