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    What would you do?

    Right guys and girls, i need your help. The thing is i got talking to this girl from a dating website here in the UK. She was stunning. We exchanged messages then started chatting on MSN messenger. The ironic thing was she only lived up the road from me, but at that moment in time she was in America studying. She told me that she was coming back Wednesday 8th June. We chatted to each other literally every day and night. She said that she wanted to see me as soon as she got back home, she wanted to go out for a drink with me and she thought that i was pretty amazing
    In my opinion she seemed really nice and down to earth and i couldnt wait for her to come back so we could meet up for a drink. We first started talking to each other mid April. Around the beggining of May we started to chat less and less but she explained that she wouldn't be online as much anymore as she had some major exams to do before coming home. The last i heard from her was on my birthday, May 5th.
    The 8th came and passed... i was expecting her to be online, or have recieved an email from here... but nothing.
    I know this probably sounds really sad but i can't stop thinking about her, the chance of being with her, etc. and i just feel something might of happened to her? I just want to know whats going on because it's driving me crazy!!
    What would you guys do?
    Thanks for listening bro's........

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    If you have sent emails and recieved no response you need to forget about her and move on to the next.

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    sorry to hear about that bro

    and there's nothing sad about internet dating i've bangged a few. Fair enough thay have all been headcase's

    i would just forget about it and move on

    go out and bang some dirt's to take your mind of it
    Last edited by stocky121; 06-21-2005 at 02:22 PM.

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    Either she lost interest, found someone else, or both. There's a chance she lost internet connection abilities, but being in college makes that highly unlikely. If you want to have any chance of hearing from her again, leave her alone starting now.

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    You lived before her, and you will survive after... She flaked is all don't hold it against her..

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    Thanx for your comments guys.

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    Have you tried to contact her?

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    Perhaps she was totally bullshitting you, and never was from there and never was coming back!

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    Quote Originally Posted by alphaman
    Have you tried to contact her?
    Yeah, sent her a few emails, but no reply. Her message on MSN Messenger is still the same as when i spoke to her last.

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    Quote Originally Posted by needmorestrength
    Perhaps she was totally bullshitting you, and never was from there and never was coming back!
    Maybe bro, but it really didn't feel like she was talking out of her back passage. She seemed 100% genuine IMO.

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    bro i'am not trying to be a cock now

    but serious you need to get over it **** her it's her loss get your self out and get some pussy that will take your mind of it

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    Quote Originally Posted by stocky121
    bro i'am not trying to be a cock now

    but serious you need to get over it **** her it's her loss get your self out and get some pussy that will take your mind of it
    nice & blunt, best way! thanx bro.

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    Sounds to me like she's not interested anymore. You could always try one last time, tell her you are thinking about her, concerned but sense that maybe she doesn't want any further contact and if that's the case you wish her well. In the mean time, find a new playmate !!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by MatrixGuy
    nice & blunt, best way! thanx bro.

    sorry bro it's the only way to be blunt with someone in a situation like this i learn't the hard way and know the only way to be is blunt

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    Quote Originally Posted by Commando_Barbi
    Sounds to me like she's not interested anymore. You could always try one last time, tell her you are thinking about her, concerned but sense that maybe she doesn't want any further contact and if that's the case you wish her well. In the mean time, find a new playmate !!!
    Thanks barbi. Nice to see an opinion from a females point of view

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    Just don't get stalkerish !!

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    Quote Originally Posted by MatrixGuy
    Yeah, sent her a few emails, but no reply. Her message on MSN Messenger is still the same as when i spoke to her last.

    Well, either something happened to her, or she's a fukkin' biatch. Definitely one or the other. Either way, there is nothing you can do about it, so find another one.

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    I say move on bro, chicks come and go...When you least expect it you'll stumble on one that's better. I learned to not fall to hard for any chick because sometimes they do make a u-turn your not expecting...

    LOVE HURTS BRUTHA...

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    Quote Originally Posted by MatrixGuy
    Right guys and girls, i need your help. The thing is i got talking to this girl from a dating website here in the UK. She was stunning. We exchanged messages then started chatting on MSN messenger. The ironic thing was she only lived up the road from me, but at that moment in time she was in America studying. She told me that she was coming back Wednesday 8th June. We chatted to each other literally every day and night. She said that she wanted to see me as soon as she got back home, she wanted to go out for a drink with me and she thought that i was pretty amazing
    In my opinion she seemed really nice and down to earth and i couldnt wait for her to come back so we could meet up for a drink. We first started talking to each other mid April. Around the beggining of May we started to chat less and less but she explained that she wouldn't be online as much anymore as she had some major exams to do before coming home. The last i heard from her was on my birthday, May 5th.
    The 8th came and passed... i was expecting her to be online, or have recieved an email from here... but nothing.
    I know this probably sounds really sad but i can't stop thinking about her, the chance of being with her, etc. and i just feel something might of happened to her? I just want to know whats going on because it's driving me crazy!!
    What would you guys do?
    Thanks for listening bro's........
    i think i would just go whack it then start planning what your going to do about it.

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    Maybe SHE was a GUY!.

    Best way to get over a girl, is to get under another one!.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BOUNCER
    Maybe SHE was a GUY!.

    Best way to get over a girl, is to get under another one!.
    my thoughts excatly....happened to a frined of mine....they met out and she turned out to be a he.

    It wasnt a pretty site after that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by stocky121
    sorry to hear about that bro

    and there's nothing sad about internet dating i've bangged a few. Fair enough thay have all been headcase's

    i would just forget about it and move on

    go out and bang some dirt's to take your mind of it

    exactly right.. i have banged about 1/2 dozen in 3-4 months and mostly headcases for sure.. see the one in the avatar.. not exactly something you would bring home to mom..

    oh and trust me 100% on this one.. you can be chatting every day for a week or 2 weeks and think the girl really digs you and you are going to meet her and blah blaah bl;ah.. then they just disappear.. no emails nothing.. it happens more times than not.. trust me.. i knwo the feeling though of thinkign about them but you have to move on to the next..

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    She lied

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    Thanks everyone. Am just going to forgot about her Move on...

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    Quote Originally Posted by MatrixGuy
    Maybe bro, but it really didn't feel like she was talking out of her back passage. She seemed 100% genuine IMO.
    So did i once....... yup ....hear me out

    this dude Fvxked up bigtime with a girl i know...and she called me all crying and shit i called him up asking were i can meet him and shit he told me to ****l off i asked her bout his add she didnt know but....she did know his email i added him pretended to be a girl told him shit like i want ya blah blah bhlah then he finally said baby u wanna come to my place tonite so we can ****

    so yeah i did go to his place , and it wasnt nice...........

    she could be a man , she could be a tranny , she could be a friend of urs , could be ur mom posing as a 20yr old , could be the real matrixgirl u were meant to be with but a bear ate her , or aliens kidnapped her and she really loved u , she couldve been a golddigger and was after ur money , she coulda been with the cia...shoudl i go on?
    wutever happens...forget bout her....it aint happenin...NOW GET BACK TO THEY GYM MOTHER ****ER

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    Quote Originally Posted by alphaman
    Well, either something happened to her, or she's a fukkin' biatch. Definitely one or the other. Either way, there is nothing you can do about it, so find another one.
    I agree, but don't give it all up yet, just put the whole issue on stand by

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    yea either she lied, cold feet, wasnt serious, which means she lied, or you were talking to a dude

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    if your gonna meet up online...i have several times in the past, before my girlfriend now of course. tellem to get a webcam first and you 2, so you can see for yourself.

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    Quote Originally Posted by IronFreakX
    So did i once....... yup ....hear me out

    this dude Fvxked up bigtime with a girl i know...and she called me all crying and shit i called him up asking were i can meet him and shit he told me to ****l off i asked her bout his add she didnt know but....she did know his email i added him pretended to be a girl told him shit like i want ya blah blah bhlah then he finally said baby u wanna come to my place tonite so we can ****

    so yeah i did go to his place , and it wasnt nice...........

    she could be a man , she could be a tranny , she could be a friend of urs , could be ur mom posing as a 20yr old , could be the real matrixgirl u were meant to be with but a bear ate her , or aliens kidnapped her and she really loved u , she couldve been a golddigger and was after ur money , she coulda been with the cia...shoudl i go on?
    wutever happens...forget bout her....it aint happenin...NOW GET BACK TO THEY GYM MOTHER ****ER
    Thats some funny sh** man!! Put a smile on my face!! Thanks bro

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    Really?? I thot it was lame.....

    If i ever turn gay....ill call ya

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    Quote Originally Posted by IronFreakX
    Really?? I thot it was lame.....

    If i ever turn gay....ill call ya
    You better bro!

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    wow this thread turned gay pritty quick

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    could be a few scenerios
    She may have been talking to friends from home and her ex-love came back in to the scene. lame she could have said something but hey...
    she could have cold feet like someone else said. ignoring you is childish but hey.
    she may have done very well on he exams and her parents rewarded her with some site seeing around the states before she comes home and she has not been near a machine to say hey..
    or she could really be 300 pounds and is scared to meet you..
    either way carry on if she comes online to talk giver her a wtf i was really looking forward to meeting you and see what happens from there

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    Quote Originally Posted by IronFreakX
    Really?? I thot it was lame.....

    If i ever turn gay....ill call ya


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    Quote Originally Posted by WILDCH1LD

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    Quote Originally Posted by WILDCH1LD
    uhhhhhh........

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    Quote Originally Posted by WILDCH1LD

    you,ve done it again bro

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