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    I hate girl questions but.

    My bud dated this girl, they were engaged for a while. I was the one that intro'd them years ago and originally I wwas going for her but got sidetracked by her best friend. So they dated for about 1.5 years and got engaged... All the while he was a bit of an ass, and always flirting with girls, and while they were engaged he would make out with other girls etc.. They broke it off, about a year ago.. Lately I feel us getting close.. Anything wrong if I take it to the next level?

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    Are you still close to your friend?

    If you are then you might want to ask him how he would feel about it. Good friends are hard to come by.

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    Yes. No dating your friend's sister(s), or serious ex-girlfriends. Just way too akward on both counts. Now, if he isn't really a good friend or one you care about then go ahead. Of course, it doesn't really matter what I or anyone else says, ultimately it's gonna be about what you think you should do.

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    hmmmmmm, tough one, how much of a bro is you bro? Maybe you should ask him. Very tough situ

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    If they broke it off and he was an ass to her anyhow and cheated all over her, who gives a shit??

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    i think it depends on how close you and your friend are. If he was like one of your boys, then i wouldn't do that but that's just me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SwoleCat
    If they broke it off and he was an ass to her anyhow and cheated all over her, who gives a shit??

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    Thats what I figure.. I see him about once every 5 months, we're not close anymore..no jokes she looks like jenna jameson

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    if your not really close to him anymore who cares..
    but if you are and you care bout him...
    talk to him and see what he says bout it..
    and gives him your views on the situation where you stand and so on...

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    Quote Originally Posted by needmorestrength
    Thats what I figure.. I see him about once every 5 months, we're not close anymore..no jokes she looks like jenna jameson
    If she looked like Jenna Jameson I wouldnt care who/what/where. I would go for it.

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    Ask yourself what he would do if he was in your shoes.

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    Sounds like he would flirt with your current g/f.....go for it!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Deadend
    Ask yourself what he would do if he was in your shoes.
    well he told her bad stuff about me when we first met so she wouldnt like me lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by SprinterOne
    Yes. No dating your friend's sister(s), or serious ex-girlfriends. Just way too akward on both counts. Now, if he isn't really a good friend or one you care about then go ahead. Of course, it doesn't really matter what I or anyone else says, ultimately it's gonna be about what you think you should do.
    where the hell have you been? you started the calling all whores thread and then bailed.

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    Quote Originally Posted by needmorestrength
    Thats what I figure.. I see him about once every 5 months, we're not close anymore..no jokes she looks like jenna jameson
    go for it. every 5 months. that's not a friend, thats an aquaintance.

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    Quote Originally Posted by punchrf
    where the hell have you been? you started the calling all whores thread and then bailed.
    Still here man, I don't post on that thread anymore. My count was 200 then and I am over 600 now, so I didn't go anywhere. Still nice to know I started the most replied thread of all time though, lmao.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SprinterOne
    Still here man, I don't post on that thread anymore. My count was 200 then and I am over 600 now, so I didn't go anywhere. Still nice to know I started the most replied thread of all time though, lmao.
    you started a monster with that thread.

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    Quote Originally Posted by punchrf
    you started a monster with that thread.
    Haha, I know. Little did I know at the time what it would become.

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    well i am honored to keep it going

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    Too many girls out there to get a friends sloppy seconds.

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    i would hit it but i dont think i could have a g/friend or wife that my friend boned!

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    Ya he never boned her .. We are gooin out tomorrow

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    Quote Originally Posted by needmorestrength
    Ya he never boned her .. We are gooin out tomorrow
    i like ol Jenna, shes def in the spank file , take sum pics

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    Quote Originally Posted by needmorestrength
    Ya he never boned her .. We are gooin out tomorrow
    if he never boned her then it wasnt serious enough for u to stay away. do yo thang bro! and dont forget the pics.

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    a year and half and they never slept together??? how old were they at the time?

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    Quote Originally Posted by needmorestrength
    Thats what I figure.. I see him about once every 5 months, we're not close anymore..no jokes she looks like jenna jameson
    Take it up 5-6 levels man, you see him ever 5 months, thats an equitance!!!

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    Alright boys we're going out tonight, we live an hour away and shes driving down here

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    Dont let her talk to you about the problems she had with her fiance, and how bad he treated her blah blah. Just tell her you dont want to hear it. If you let yourself hear her complains from her exboyfriend. You will become more of her girlfriend than boyfriend.

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    Quote Originally Posted by needmorestrength
    well he told her bad stuff about me when we first met so she wouldnt like me lol
    He was totally Cock Blocking you. Geez , I wouldn't worry about that friendship. Go for it!

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    Follow your heart, Girlfriend. Love is a very precious thing and it doesn't come around nearly enough in our lives. Do the right thing and talk to your friend, and then make a decision. Love for your friend and love for a lover are two different things, but both are important and it hurts to lose either one. More than likely, if your friend is truly a friend, he will be able to let go, and still be friends to both of you and give you his blessing to pursue the girl of your dreams. If he is not up to the emotional challenge that this presents to him, then you have a decision to make. Good friends are hard to find, even harder than lovers. But if the situation were reversed, would you be big enough to do what you now require from your friend? If so, and if he can't, then maybe your friend is not up to your level of emotional maturity and security, and you will have to decide whether to stick by him because he needs you, or to admit that you have partially outgrown the friendship and need to have friends more on your level. If you would NOT be able to give her up, then don't expect him to easily give you his blessing to pursue this girl... get another one. Maybe this didn't help much... but obviously the first step is to have a heart to heart talk with your friend and tell him that he means so much to you that you had to come and ask him about this, and ask him what you should do.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Anna Bollick
    Follow your heart, Girlfriend. Love is a very precious thing and it doesn't come around nearly enough in our lives. Do the right thing and talk to your friend, and then make a decision. Love for your friend and love for a lover are two different things, but both are important and it hurts to lose either one. More than likely, if your friend is truly a friend, he will be able to let go, and still be friends to both of you and give you his blessing to pursue the girl of your dreams. If he is not up to the emotional challenge that this presents to him, then you have a decision to make. Good friends are hard to find, even harder than lovers. But if the situation were reversed, would you be big enough to do what you now require from your friend? If so, and if he can't, then maybe your friend is not up to your level of emotional maturity and security, and you will have to decide whether to stick by him because he needs you, or to admit that you have partially outgrown the friendship and need to have friends more on your level. If you would NOT be able to give her up, then don't expect him to easily give you his blessing to pursue this girl... get another one. Maybe this didn't help much... but obviously the first step is to have a heart to heart talk with your friend and tell him that he means so much to you that you had to come and ask him about this, and ask him what you should do.


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    Quote Originally Posted by needmorestrength
    Ya he never boned her .. We are gooin out tomorrow
    what??? never boned her and they were together for 1.5 years. i would go nuts if my g/f made me hold out like that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by IBdmfkr
    Too many girls out there to get a friends sloppy seconds.
    That's right. Bros before hoes anyday.

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    Quote Originally Posted by punchrf
    i would go nuts if my g/f made me hold out like that.
    I would be outta there at..3 months..3 months is wayyyy too long

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    Quote Originally Posted by punchrf
    what??? never boned her and they were together for 1.5 years. i would go nuts if my g/f made me hold out like that.
    Ha I never waited more than 3 weeks and that includes HS

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    Quote Originally Posted by CRUISECONTROL
    Ha I never waited more than 3 weeks and that includes HS
    Yup its all fun and games until the 3 week mark...im saying the longest possible..this of course if she was drop dead

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    if she looks like jenna i think the title of this thread should be" I just banged my buddys ex-girl" haaaaaaaaaaaha

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    Quote Originally Posted by GQplaya
    if she looks like jenna i think the title of this thread should be" I just banged my buddys ex-girl" haaaaaaaaaaaha
    Lmao.. Well I actually decided to drop her.. We hung out last weekend, and everything was good, but theres a nagging feeling inside of me. I think its due to her being like "leftovers" (scuse the term)

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    yeah i kno the feelin, i have opted not to bang a chic, jus cause i kno who banged them b4.

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    Quote Originally Posted by needmorestrength
    Lmao.. Well I actually decided to drop her.. We hung out last weekend, and everything was good, but theres a nagging feeling inside of me. I think its due to her being like "leftovers" (scuse the term)
    if she looks like jenna i would still bang her. i just wouldnt call her my girl. booty call!

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