Guys with girlfriends, do you cheat?

**Streaker** · 04-26-2006, 07:59 AM

Originally Posted by NotSmall

I never tell my girlie about my friends cheating for that very reason, she will think "If his friends cheat he probably does too" - you become guilty by association.

I don't have to tell her about it she sees it happen all the time.

**NotSmall** · 04-26-2006, 08:01 AM

Originally Posted by Streaker

I don't have to tell her about it she sees it happen all the time.

She likes to watch huh?

**stee** · 04-26-2006, 08:09 AM

Originally Posted by NotSmall

Not that weird IMO, not many girlfriends would be happy with their fella going on a spanish stag do with 40 mates.

i got to correct you there, 40 firemen only about 15 of them are mates lol

**Rookie1974** · 04-26-2006, 08:20 AM

I have, understand the temptation.....but dont want to crawl around like that anymore. At the least its a matter of self-respect. Its not necessarily the sex that the problem it the decieving the other person. I suppose if you have an open relationship than no problem, but lyin to do it is crawling!!!

**MAXIMA5** · 04-26-2006, 11:49 AM

I like to refer to the golden rule on this one. Do I get tempted? Hell yeah. Do I ever do it. No.

Sometimes knowing you can still pull ass if better than cheating. No guilt and you still respect your girl.

**novicenovicen** · 04-26-2006, 01:38 PM

Ive never cheated. I don't want it to happen to me, so I won't do it to them.

**Mizfit** · 04-26-2006, 01:41 PM

Originally Posted by novicenovicen

Ive never cheated. I don't want it to happen to me, so I won't do it to them.

good whale.. it's all bout karma

**novicenovicen** · 04-26-2006, 01:58 PM

manatee! were more like fat seals than whales. But I forgive you.

**heavyrotation92** · 04-26-2006, 02:54 PM

i cheated on an ex before but got it all handed back to me with the girl after that, yea, karmas a bitch, shut up. the girl im dating now though is great so i'm trying my hardest not to **** it up.

as far as the whole swinging thing, i just dont get it. there is no way am I gonna let another guy **** my girlfriend/wife while i do his. what the ****?

**Carlos_E** · 04-26-2006, 03:51 PM

Originally Posted by heavyrotation92

i cheated on an ex before but got it all handed back to me with the girl after that, yea, karmas a bitch, shut up. the girl im dating now though is great so i'm trying my hardest not to **** it up.

as far as the whole swinging thing, i just dont get it. there is no way am I gonna let another guy **** my girlfriend/wife while i do his. what the ****?

Read my comments in other threads. I get open relationships and swinging.

**stee** · 04-26-2006, 03:58 PM

Originally Posted by Carlos_E

Read my comments in other threads. I get open relationships and swinging.

Big up on the respect factor there carlos!!!!

**Carlos_E** · 04-26-2006, 04:14 PM

Originally Posted by Carlos_E

Read my comments in other threads. I get open relationships and swinging.

Originally Posted by stee

Big up on the respect factor there carlos!!!!

Sorry there was a TYPO!!!

Read my comments in other threads. I DON'T get open relationships and swinging.

**hotstuff** · 04-26-2006, 04:21 PM

Karma is a biatch for sure. I hope the one who cheated on me gets it back 10 times as bad.

**stee** · 04-26-2006, 04:26 PM

Originally Posted by Carlos_E

Sorry there was a TYPO!!!

Read my comments in other threads. I DON'T get open relationships and swinging.

ah never mind, to be honest neither do i, maybe i will after a few encounters !! haha

**stee** · 04-26-2006, 04:27 PM

nah im only joking n e way. swinging is strange, but 3somes rock!!

**hotstuff** · 04-26-2006, 04:31 PM

Originally Posted by NotSmall

I never tell my girlie about my friends cheating for that very reason, she will think "If his friends cheat he probably does too" - you become guilty by association.

YOu are judged by the company you keep. If you choose to be good friends with guys that have cheating values then what's to make me think you would not do the same thing?

**taiotosh7** · 04-26-2006, 04:36 PM

never cheated before. I have been cheated on though, that destroyed me......I would never want to put that on anybody, that may hurt me worse know what I've done to somebody

**stee** · 04-26-2006, 04:39 PM

being cheated on dont really bother me. i have been a few times, but maybe its just me, perhaps im too easy going

**Natty99** · 04-26-2006, 09:42 PM

Kinda cheating right now......Feels real bad......No sex yet. I can still stop........Will I ?

**boondockSAINT** · 04-26-2006, 10:22 PM

I never understood the point of cheating on a significant other. Why not just not commit to one person, or find someone to have an open relationship with? The worst is that I see all of my buddies with knockout girlfriends cheat all the time with some acne-faced trashy cumdumpster*

*not to be mistaken for the sexy as hell cumdumpsters.

**boondockSAINT** · 04-26-2006, 10:25 PM

Oh, but my girl and I do agree that in the rare chance that I meet Eva Mendes, Eva Longoria, and now I'll be adding Melissa Detwiller to the list (the female BB pics going around), I have the green light to pump their cheeks beyond recognition. I grant her the same lattitude.

**hotstuff** · 04-26-2006, 11:34 PM

OMG.....exactly........from a female point of view.
being attractive......open and fun and being cheated on by some insecure lady who is almost 20 years older than you...... hmmmm

makes no damn sense.

Originally Posted by boondockSAINT

I never understood the point of cheating on a significant other. Why not just not commit to one person, or find someone to have an open relationship with? The worst is that I see all of my buddies with knockout girlfriends cheat all the time with some acne-faced trashy cumdumpster*

*not to be mistaken for the sexy as hell cumdumpsters.

**hotstuff** · 04-27-2006, 12:40 AM

not that it was ever your situation....had to rant on that one for a sec....sorry

**NotSmall** · 04-27-2006, 01:22 AM

Originally Posted by hotstuff

YOu are judged by the company you keep. If you choose to be good friends with guys that have cheating values then what's to make me think you would not do the same thing?

My point exactly, that's why I keep quiet.
The reality though is that I'm friends with my friends because I enjoy their company and they are funny guys, what they get up to sexually is none of my concern, I am not going to stand in judgement of them, what kind of friend would that make me?