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10-16-2003, 10:43 AM #1New Member
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advances (Gay type) at the gym
Just curious as to how everyone handles this topic; it comes up quite a lot and I've always just turned the other way, but now that I'm full of gear, I seem to be letting my temper get away from me... but when another bro WILL NOT stop staring and smiling at you, how do you handle this situation without a 45 lb bar bell being involved; you get me???
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10-16-2003, 10:46 AM #2
Don't worry about it. If I guy is staring at me, I would NOT stare back. It's creepy, but in all reality, unless he comes up to me, let him do what he wants.
I would of posted this in the AR Lounge.
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10-16-2003, 10:46 AM #3
Look the other way.
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10-16-2003, 10:52 AM #4Respected Member
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Don't loose your temper. And don't let gear be an excuse.
Handle it like a mature adult...Don't let it bother you, and if anyone actually does make an actuall advance, calmly inform them of your situation.
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10-16-2003, 10:52 AM #5New Member
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Originally Posted by TheMudMan
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10-16-2003, 10:57 AM #6Originally Posted by fouronthefloor
Pheedno covered the rest.
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10-16-2003, 11:02 AM #7Anabolic Member
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Originally Posted by fouronthefloor
This was a strange kid with troubles because we thought he was hanging around the 18 year old girl across the street so he could get into her pants but I guess he had his eye on me too. Good lord... I'd say in your situation tell them the way it is, and they dont stand a chance should be enough to get them off trying to get you.
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10-16-2003, 11:07 AM #8
I agree with TheMudMan - look away. If you are approached, simply tell the guy that you are not interested. Be nice - afterall - he likes you.
Oh, and don't put the name fouronthefloor on your shirt or anything.
Sorry couldn't resist.
Good luck man...
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10-16-2003, 11:11 AM #9Respected Member
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[QUOTE=realityarts]
Oh, and don't put the name fouronthefloor on your shirt or anything.
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LMAO
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10-16-2003, 11:12 AM #10
I'm gay, and when I've worked out in a straight gym around lots of women, more than a few women expressed interest in my hot buns. Some would just occasionally look, some would flirt a bit, some would carry on like they were ready to shoot a porno flick right then and there.
I take it you're going through the same thing . . .
It's only a bit of uninvited sexual interest. Just as I didn't get creeped out by some ol' bit of snatch warming up to me, I don't think there's really any reason for you to get creeped out 'cause some guy thinks you're hot.
Sometimes I'd just ignore the wench and sooner or later she'd flit off to someone else. Sometimes I'd strike up a conversation, drop a comment like "I'm gay, not available" and that would take care of that. Twice I've had to deal with the line, "Well, you know the right woman could reform you." To which I replied, "You know, the right woman could reform you, too!"
I would suggest that rather than let a lot of bad vibes and resentment and anger build up over this (assuming this is really starting to get to ya), walk over to the guy who's learing, and do a conversation something like this:
You) "Hey, wassup."
Him) "Not much. You?"
You) "Notmuch. Y'know, I know I look good, but I sure don't like being leered at. Makes me nervous."
Him) "Yeah, I know whatcha mean."
Walk away, and your troubles will be over.
Yah, there's been more than a few times that some wench woman has really grossed me out expressing her carnal lust for my bod, but I figure there's nothing really to get angry or upset about . . . if it continues and gets annoying, then I'll go say something to the problem girl and get things sorted out. And yes, I can imagine there are times that y'all straight guys run into the same thing, but for the life of me, I can't imagine why y'all get so bent out of shape over it.
--Tock
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10-16-2003, 11:27 AM #11
That should sum it up from the otherside of the fence for you. Good post Tock. Also, I don't know about anyone else but I have a badass mp3 player. It holds like 60 songs. I don't even pay attention to what is going on around me in the gym Get you an mp3 player and get some godsmack, korn, linkin park and limp biskit and it will put you in the zone. You won't notice anyone or anything but the weights. Trust me. I bust my ass in 45 minutes - 1 hour and when I don't have my mp3 player it takes me an additonal 20 minutes or so b/c me and my partner will talk to each other and people in the gym. Sorry I got off the point of the advances.
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10-16-2003, 11:30 AM #12Respected Member
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Originally Posted by SGFuryZ
I personally don't believe in that lifestyle(Male or Female), but I do believe in right to life of will. I have quite a few friends that are homosexual, both male and female and we get along fine. Sexual orientation is for the privacy of ones home(or whereever), and therefore shouldn't be a factor when associating with fellow humans
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10-16-2003, 11:35 AM #13Anabolic Member
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Originally Posted by 50%Natural
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10-16-2003, 11:53 AM #14
I think your all gay!
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10-16-2003, 11:59 AM #15
I agree with Mud & pheedno.
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10-16-2003, 12:04 PM #16
I'm not homophobic.....I just don't like gay people I just would ignore them until they go away.
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10-16-2003, 12:06 PM #17Originally Posted by SGFuryZ
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10-16-2003, 12:08 PM #18Originally Posted by bumdart420
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10-16-2003, 12:09 PM #19
Wrong forum...
Personally i would smile back and say "whats up?" If he starts to rub himself on you then politly(sp) remove his hand from your crotch and say your in a relationship and walk away.
Peace
Lovedoctor
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10-16-2003, 12:12 PM #20
Who cares....unless you're insecure about your own sexuality...Its a compliment....
L8
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10-16-2003, 12:29 PM #21Originally Posted by SGFuryZ
Just tell the guy politely that he's creeping you out if it is that distracting. I wonder how some of these really hot chicks feel when they're being stared at by every guy in the gym.
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10-16-2003, 12:42 PM #22Originally Posted by SGFuryZ
Me? I don't have a problem with what people do sexually, as long as it does not involve children, rape... To each their own.
Though, no man will ever stick his Willie Wonka in my Chocolate Factory!
RA
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10-16-2003, 01:15 PM #23
You're looking around the gym to much. Until someone comes up and grabs a handfull I wouldn't think any more about it. if you think this guy would really like to "get to know you" then wait until he approaches and be polite and tell him you play for the other team. I'll bet he's already figured out you're not interested and he'll not say anything to you.
Hell, I'd be flattered if anyone found me attractive.......I'm as ugly as a bucket full of armpits. Just for the record I'm not gay........................although Palme kind of turns me on. hahahahaha
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10-16-2003, 01:26 PM #24Member
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if u keep noticing him staring then your looking at him too so he probably thinks your checking him out! i am in a gym that has some hot chicks but i dont notice them until i am done with my workout...stop looking around!
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10-16-2003, 02:13 PM #25Originally Posted by SGFuryZ
Also, any fear involved in this disgust is not necessarily negative. Not all insecurity/fear is bad. Feeling insecure about about hiking along a steep edge is quite normal. Many fears are in our physical makeup, to keep us from doing the wrong, harmful, or dangerous thing - like walking among wilds tigers or bears. It also may be a mechinism to keep us from doing things which are unnatural (regardless of any moral correctness or not). [By the way, with regards to what's natural, if homosexuals live on an island without heterosexual activity, nature will takes it course...and eventually none would exist. This is why people are generally inclinced to do what is natural, to preserve humanity... I am not making a moral judgement, simply an observation. This doesn't mean that it cannot be practiced.]
The whole word homophobic (homophobe) is very often used in a derogatory manner - more of a word to "name call." Granted, the same is true of the word homo (by some heterosexuals). People who use the term homophobe are generally doing so to label or make the recipient of the term feel bad. It is not used, generally, to call attention to some type of clinical condition that the phobic person needs proper care and/or help for - as with many other fears.
I'm not in any way attempting to make a case against homosexuality. I'm simply responding to the issues raised in this thread.
This thread would be more appropriate for the lounge, as the whole things is off topic...maybe we can move it to the lounge.
RA
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10-16-2003, 02:20 PM #26
When the gay dude starts checking you out grab some hot bitch and start dry humping her on the treadmill!! LMFAO!
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10-16-2003, 02:21 PM #27Originally Posted by 50%Natural
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10-16-2003, 02:25 PM #28Originally Posted by Carlos_E
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10-16-2003, 02:45 PM #29Anabolic Member
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Two Pieces Of Advice
1.) don't be such a homophobe. take it as a compliment as you would a girl.
2.) NEVER LIVE IN MANHATTAN. i am assulted by looks every fucking block and i take it as a compliment that both guys and girls find me attractive.nice to knwo that all genders wanna fuck partyboy.of course, i only bang chicks though, so the boys can just look and go home a jerk off to me or something
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10-16-2003, 03:29 PM #30
If I ever went to the gym and didn't get stared at by men and women I would shoot myself.
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10-16-2003, 03:33 PM #31Anabolic Member
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Originally Posted by palme
You just dont go around doing stuff like that unless its invited...
Hehehe, I was just thinking about it but what if you are all on testosterone and its like you are walking around all hard all the time... I wonder if this is why you guys are having so much of a problem with all the gay guys staring you down. Worst yet you have a testosterone hard on and these guys cop and feel and they get the wrong idea like you are really interested, hehehe.
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10-16-2003, 03:40 PM #32
Here's how I deal with it.
1. Keep minimal eye contact
2. Don't fully change in the changeroom...get in and get out.
3. When using the can...if you see 4 shoes facing the same way in a stall...RUN!!
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10-16-2003, 04:18 PM #33New Member
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[QUOTE=Pheedno]
Originally Posted by realityarts
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10-16-2003, 04:42 PM #34Originally Posted by Money Boss Hustla
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10-16-2003, 04:43 PM #35Originally Posted by Carlos_E
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10-16-2003, 05:26 PM #36New Member
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Okay... right, then... just got back from working out and sure enough the queen mother was there, on time, like a O' Town alarm clock, asking me to spot her on the flat bench... WTF (I'm saying this in my head) Well anyway, I say... sure bro, be glad to help you out! As we're walking over, I say to him... you know, bro, I'm not gay... not in a mean tempered spirit either... that bitch looks at me, turns blood ass red, and calls me a bitch!!!!!!!! and walks out of the gym proper drama prissy style. He comes back in after about five minutes and proceeds to tell me this was all a horrible joke that had been played on him by one of his mates and he apologized and left.
Now, my I'm wondering am I in the center of some freaky gay strategy twist shocker??? I think I'm switching gyms bros'
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10-16-2003, 05:54 PM #37Originally Posted by fouronthefloor
Sorry, I call bullshit.
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10-16-2003, 06:08 PM #38Originally Posted by Carlos_E
i agreeStrength does not come from winning. Your struggles develop your strengths. When you go through hardships and decide not to surrender, THAT IS STRENGTH
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10-16-2003, 06:14 PM #39Originally Posted by Carlos_E
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10-16-2003, 06:20 PM #40Originally Posted by palme
Bitch!
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