Whats the one thing you wish you could take back

**PurePower** · 01-07-2004, 08:38 PM

This may sound strange to some , but i wouldnt change anything because i couldn't. If i could go back i would do it the exact same way because thats just how i do things.

**Elliot** · 01-07-2004, 08:44 PM

why do you guys get married so young?! 18?! please tell me you dont have kids.. anyone that has kids at 17-19 and dont think 10 years ahead (no college, no future) is dumb..

CutieFace · 01-07-2004, 09:59 PM

couple of others said it too.....only thing I would've changed was getting married so young.....but hey....I'm not one to dwell on the past....prefer to live in the present and plan for the future

*smile*

Cutie

**Commando_Barbi** · 01-07-2004, 10:01 PM

Originally Posted by ElliotNess

why do you guys get married so young?! 18?! please tell me you dont have kids.. anyone that has kids at 17-19 and dont think 10 years ahead (no college, no future) is dumb..

Well....I was 18 and NO ONE could tell me I wasn't ready. I was on my own, paying my own bills and going to school. I was 20 when I had my first and 3 yrs later had another. I was married 14 yrs and finally decided I couldn't take it any longer.

So...... just because you get married early, doesn't necessarily mean no college no future. I am getting ready to retire from one job and begin another in the next couple years. It's all good. Live and Learn.

**spywizard** · 01-07-2004, 11:17 PM

Wow............... Dumb...

I was in the Airforce 10 years...

2 kids before i was 20...

at 42 now..
I now have 2 degrees...

oldest just finished college... is a radiologist
younges (20) is a mortgage closer....$42000 per year

I own my own company doing security audits for banks....

Gross $175,000 1st 6 months in operations...

so it's easy for the young to judge what they don't understand.. and if you are more experienced...

well.. some people just miss out on alot of life............

Peace

**Commando_Barbi** · 01-07-2004, 11:19 PM

Originally Posted by spywizard

Wow............... Dumb...

I was in the Airforce 10 years...

2 kids before i was 20...

at 42 now..
I now have 2 degrees...

oldest just finished college... is a radiologist
younges (20) is a mortgage closer....$42000 per year

I own my own company doing security audits for banks....

Gross $175,000 1st 6 months in operations...

so it's easy for the young to judge what they don't understand.. and if you are more experienced...

well.. some people just miss out on alot of life............

Peace

Awesome Spy :-)

**DARKSEID** · 01-07-2004, 11:41 PM

I'm in the process of getting divorced, never would have thrown away 2 years of my life and saying "I do"

**Commando_Barbi** · 01-08-2004, 12:03 AM

Sorry to hear that Dark.....hang in there.

**redrumkev** · 01-08-2004, 01:13 AM

I wish I would have just a touch more motivation, I am motivated, don't get me wrong, but another 10-15% would be great, enough to get me from average or above average, to much ahead of the pack!

**Bevo** · 01-08-2004, 02:51 AM

Originally Posted by hoss827

..I must have thought of 20 some things by now...I wish I had never moved to Evansville..For 12 years people constantly picked on me...I still have to deal with it occasionally...I guess i was so emotionally stressed about everything that I keep to myself now...In Indianapolis I was happy as happy could be...did good in school, no enemies, girls liked me...whatever. Now, I feel like I can't talk to anyone about anything...I'm doing bad in school..I'm afraid to talk to many girls in fear of rejection...I keep everything to myself...but I manage on my own...

I just wonder how my character would be now if I never had ended up here...My good friend Heather, we had an argument yesterday...she says "Logan...what's wrong with you..you don'g seem like that much of a happy person anymore..." And I guess the truth is..i'm not happy, i'm not happy with anything in my life besides Rachel, and lifting...and that's it.

suck it up...i lived in multiple towns/states growing up...you can;t blame your shortcomings (bad grades, etc...) on where you live...if you keep to yourself, spend that time studying (so you can get the **** out of there), training, eating, and sleeping...if you're intimidated by girls/people in general, use your training and build up so in two years you have hoes crawling on you and nobody ****ing w/you...**** doesn't just happen overnight...

**ironfist** · 01-08-2004, 03:10 AM

I wish i would have taken my scholarship to play div 1 football...I got into MMA instead which is something I could have done at any point in life...And then there was Maggie, I wish i had that one back...