What should I do? Please help!

**Xavier_4446** · 06-25-2004, 09:13 PM

I'll try to keep this short and keep your attention.

OK me and this girl have been seeing each other for about 4 months now, but we have been good friends for like 5 years or so. We went to high school together and everything. She lives 2 hours away, she loves me, and I love her. We both know that. This girl is very special in my heart and she is gorgeous, I'm really protective of her.

Last night a good friend of mine from high school was in from the military and was in her town with a few other of my friends. Not like really really close friends, but I had no beef with them. It was all cool. She asked me if it was OK they were they and I said yeah I trust them. Anyway her roommates (older sister/best friend) invited a few people over and they throw a get together. She calls me at 1230 and tell me that she loves me, missed me. She said I'm drunk so i'm going to bed soon.

She calls me today balling. Last night when she went up to her bed and passed out asleep, the guy from the military and another good friend of mine go up there, unplug the phones, and lock the door. She wakes up one has a hand down her pants the other up she shirt with a camera near the bed. She screams and a friend of her older sister busts down the door. they act asleep and go to their house. Anyway her older sister boyfriend goes and beats the **** out of them, knock two teeth out of one and cut open badly the other one.

I am so FUC*ING ANGRY RIGHT NOW!!!!! these were mine and her friends here, and they go and do something like that? I am about to lose myself. I am so fearful that if I get my hands on them I will kill them, like Mark Walburg on that movie fear. She said she didn't want me to do anything that she just wants to move on and they already had their ass kicking. I love her so much and I want what is best for her. I want to respect her decision and not touch the guys, but my instinct is telling me that I should hunt them down and make them vegetables for the rest of their lives.

what would you guys do? How would you feel?

girls, How would you feel? what would you want your guy to do? Please help me people. I have never been so mad in my life. I want to beat the piss out of these guys and yet still keep the one I love the happiest girl in the world. Please help me guys.

**sammyjoe** · 06-25-2004, 09:16 PM

stab them in the face??

**Krunchtime** · 06-25-2004, 09:34 PM

Ok here's what I would do (honestly):

1. If they did anything sexually her while she was sleeping I would find them and give them a beating much like the ass whooping that Vin diesel Bestowed on the guy in the bar in the movie knockaround guys.

2. If they didnt actually do anything to her but grab her, I would just let the asskicking that they already recieved be the only one.

I feel you man. That must really hurt. And if you havent seen knockaround guys rent the movie, watch that scene and do what you gotta do.

Good luck bro

**Commando_Barbi** · 06-25-2004, 10:01 PM

It's nice that you are so protective of her. Just don't do something that's gonna get you in jail....because then she's going to have to deal with that guilt on top of the other trauma she's gone through.

**SwoleCat** · 06-25-2004, 10:20 PM

Originally Posted by Commando_Barbi

It's nice that you are so protective of her. Just don't do something that's gonna get you in jail....because then she's going to have to deal with that guilt on top of the other trauma she's gone through.

Exactly, don't be a d*ck.

If she's smart, she'll file charges. No reason for you to go to prison over a girl, no matter how special she is. You have you use your head.

~SC~

**LeanMeOut** · 06-25-2004, 10:24 PM

Originally Posted by SwoleCat

Exactly, don't be a d*ck.

If she's smart, she'll file charges. No reason for you to go to prison over a girl, no matter how special she is. You have you use your head.

~SC~

Yup....... that sums it up in a nutshell. Remember they already got an ass beating. If you were there it would be a different story, then you could woop that ass. But since you weren't, if you do anything now you'll be the one who pays for it. Just make sure she presses charges and let the law handle those jackasses

Didn't you say one of them was in the military? I am sure they would love to know about what their boy was doing on his off day / leave

<<LMO>>

**SwoleCat** · 06-25-2004, 10:34 PM

It's amazing to me how many men just CANNOT get laid.

Sad, no game spittin', porno whackin' off 2 muh-fuccas.

~SC~

**Xavier_4446** · 06-25-2004, 10:34 PM

Thanks a lot guys and gals. I know the smart thing would be for me just to use my head. It will be hard but I guess that's life eh? Thanks guys.

**SwoleCat** · 06-25-2004, 10:38 PM

Yeah, it sucks cuz that's your girl man. I totally understand how pissed you are, but if you get yourself in trouble, you're going to want to kick your own azz. Good thing you posted here before doing anything crazy.

~SC~

**LeanMeOut** · 06-25-2004, 10:40 PM

Yea bro I feel for ya.... I never had anything like that happen to me. I would feel the same way though..... just stay calm and worry about taking care of her. The law will handle the other two b*tches

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