Women suck! errr

[OGPackin]

I just had to get this off my chest...Sowy to all the female members here! Im just so tired of the dating scene. Im tired of blind dates. Im tired of opening myself up to disappointment. Im tired of being let down. Im tired of women who dont know what they want. Im tired of the lies. Im tired of being "the nice guy." Im just tired of it all...errrrrr

and with that said im going to bed.....night john boy...night everyone....

OG

[damiongage]

now what....you gonna try men?????j/k

[OGPackin]

now what....you gonna try men?????j/k

hmmmm...lol well, there aint nuttin about a hairy mans arss that turns me on...

OG

[mark956101957]

I agree there are many deceptive, screwed up and selfish women but with that, there are good women out there as well- that is why we date to find the good one.

[Commando_Barbi]

OG.....don't give up Luv....we don't all play games, lie and cheat.

Promise

[itsallmental]

listen bro, heres my take on women, and i could care less if yall wanna throw name callin at me whatever.

girlfriends are nothing but bull****.im 19, and ive witnessed and experience alot of it(and nah, im not coming out of a bad relationship, ive been single since for a **** long time). sex? use your hand...........honestly, put up with using your hand and a porno mag until you get married. why spend money on a girl, whom your just gonna live with, and MAYBE marry, but probably divorce within the first year?
the divorce rate in this country, within the first year of marriage, is a staggering 76% percent right now.76% ****in percent, and im not suprised. most mens take on women is horrendous, women are mistreaded, and men could care less. women also however, mistreat men sometimes, but for the reason that, they basically can figure out the next move your going to make on them.

why put up with all the bull**** of , "were going out now", "were getting back together now", "she isnt talking to me".

hold off on the women untill you get married, this will open up new doors and i KNOW, it will make you happier.

[Commando_Barbi]

No offense but you are 19, wtf do you know about dating women and relationships. Really???? Im not attacking you or anything but there's a world of difference between high school "relationships", drunk college orgies and real adult world dating. Of course you shouldn't be worried about settling down at the age of 19. I made that mistake and I wouldn't recommend it to anyone. But such a negative attitude only serves to increase the negative experience.

I think we go through the negative dating to make us truely appreciate the good when we find it. Been through my share of toads!!!! I don't hold it against men or dating. It's just LIFE.

Think negative...get negative. Think positive...you are going to attract a more positive type of a person. No one is perfect. But like I said in another post.... I firmly believe you can sink to the bottom with all the bottom feeders or you can rise to the top like cream....and find quality.

[itsallmental]

No offense but you are 19, wtf do you know about dating women and relationships. Really???? Im not attacking you or anything but there's a world of difference between high school "relationships", drunk college orgies and real adult world dating. Of course you shouldn't be worried about settling down at the age of 19. I made that mistake and I wouldn't recommend it to anyone. But such a negative attitude only serves to increase the negative experience.

I think we go through the negative dating to make us truely appreciate the good when we find it. Been through my share of toads!!!! I don't hold it against men or dating. It's just LIFE.

Think negative...get negative. Think positive...you are going to attract a more positive type of a person. No one is perfect. But like I said in another post.... I firmly believe you can sink to the bottom with all the bottom feeders or you can rise to the top like cream....and find quality.

wtf do i know? tell me, whats the POINT of "adult world dating"? to get to know each other better? so your divorced? tell me WHY? its funny, are you getting pissed b/c im stating the truth that YOU have experienced?

[3Vandoo]

Women are evil, period!

Stay away from Western Canadian women, New Hampshire, French, Morocan, Irish, Swiss, Aussie, Ontarian women!

[damiongage]

now now children...play nice

[Commando_Barbi]

wtf do i know? tell me, whats the POINT of "adult world dating"? to get to know each other better? so your divorced? tell me WHY? its funny, are you getting pissed b/c im stating the truth that YOU have experienced?

First... not getting pissed. Second....the point of dating is to meet the person that you can marry. Third...the point is that I married at the age of 19 and DIDN'T date to find the right person for me. I DIDN'T have enough life experience at the age of 19 to know what I wanted in a life partner. You can't learn those things without experience. I'm divorced because I was too young to get married and have a family when I did and instead of being with someone that I could relate and grow with....we grew apart.

There is nothing wrong with dating. You have to choose carefully. You have to have certain standards going in....stick to them and not take it personally when it doesn't work. Don't blame all women or all men with you get the person that can't be honest and real with you. Chalk it up to a life lesson. Add the good traits he or she had to your list of what you want from your life mate....and the bad traits to the list of what you don't want.

Live learn and grow.

But try not to get jaded to the process.

Once again... I wasn't attacking you and Im sorry if it came off that way.

[Commando_Barbi]

Women are evil, period!

Stay away from Western Canadian women, New Hampshire, French, Morocan, Irish, Swiss, Aussie, Ontarian women!

Guess that leaves women from Seatte

[trailrider38]

Listen to barbi she is 100% dead on right.... but at 19 it's hard and you have to learn through experience.... 20 years from now your going to either regret or rejoice it's your choice.

[worldknown]

dude read lozgod's guide, its a true playa's guide. its hard to keep up with some of thes tuff

[Bryan2]

i doesnt matter of age necessarily but more often then not experience comes with age!!!
its all about life experiences and how you mature on a personal level

I personally am only 20 but ive probably been threw more serious ****e then the grand majority of people on this board
I takes life experience to actually know what is the most important thing in life and where your at on a maturity level really ecscentuates(bad speller) this.

I would agree that without a doubt unless you find a girl that can grow and expand from experience and not repress and let negative outcomes happen which are 1 in million your gonna have to keep searching.

In my experience women dont deal with life in a gracefull way at all if they have a bad relationship with there father its gonna reflect big time if they have been cheated on by someone they once loved there gonna carry it around forever.After youve been with them at least a year you start to see the real side of them and not the partial manufactured one that they want you to see.

Ask a lot of questions when you meet girls especially about there past
I personally dont think ill ever find a "normal girl" because they just dont exist

dont have any emotions at all bottle them up until you find that girl and you know its really one you can spend time with prolly bad advice but it has saved me more often then not

[Babyweight]

Ha Ha....Men....Women...whoever... it really dosen't matter.. of course it's just my opinion.

You can't judge on how a persons perspective is because they are a man or a woman.

It upsets me that people generalize on how a man (thinks) and how a woman (thinks).. men as you guys always think are the more "rational" ones.. and the woman a who "revolves her life around emotion". when in fact the majority of that percentage is not too far off.

but what about the exception...

should I go on??????

[goodtobeapimp]

The secret of dating is easy. Be good looking, have nice cars,good job and hundred dollar bills hangin down your hanes. Chicks love it. Thats the same ones that cry about a man leaving them for someone else. Think about it. The same reason they want you is the same reason every woman will. Women might want "true love",but they aren't above settling for "generic love" and a few g's either.

[Sierra_Breeze]

i doesnt matter of age necessarily but more often then not experience comes with age!!!
its all about life experiences and how you mature on a personal level

I personally am only 20 but ive probably been threw more serious ****e then the grand majority of people on this board
I takes life experience to actually know what is the most important thing in life and where your at on a maturity level really ecscentuates(bad speller) this.

I would agree that without a doubt unless you find a girl that can grow and expand from experience and not repress and let negative outcomes happen which are 1 in million your gonna have to keep searching.

In my experience women dont deal with life in a gracefull way at all if they have a bad relationship with there father its gonna reflect big time if they have been cheated on by someone they once loved there gonna carry it around forever.After youve been with them at least a year you start to see the real side of them and not the partial manufactured one that they want you to see.

Ask a lot of questions when you meet girls especially about there past
I personally dont think ill ever find a "normal girl" because they just dont exist

dont have any emotions at all bottle them up until you find that girl and you know its really one you can spend time with prolly bad advice but it has saved me more often then not

Maybe in some instances the line about the father or b/f, spouse or whomever, might be partly true, but IMO it is dependant on the individual, wheather or not they choose to let that keep them down, or rise above and over come it... Again you can't generalize us all based on the behavior of a few. ( we all come with baggage to a certian degree, male/ female alike you show me someone with out any baggage I say they've never done any packing)
As I see it, some people use their past as a cruth or an excuse, for lots of reasons, not only limited to relationships, but they base their whole life around the fact that they were misstreated, and allow themself to remain the victim, for the entirety of their adult life.
Others use it as a driving force to exceed the expectations of those who tried to supress us in one form or another, and deal with it and move forward at least still willing to "risk, the hurt" and attempt, to seek better.
we aren't afraid to show emotion or to feel pain, it's all a learning process, we all learn at different levels some of us learn quicker than others, some of us never learn! But most of us keep trying, if you bottle up your emotions, for too long it has no where to go but inward, or it will explode, but mostly it just makes you bitter, and lonely!

(Also as a side note, sh!t is sh!t, any which way you stack it or shovel it or wade it we've all been through plenty of it, and no matter what the level of the sh!t may seem to be to others, to those that are going through it, it's still sh!tty... and you can't compare your Sh!t to someone elses Sh!t, and say you've been through more than others, if you don't know all the sh!t they've been through And that's not just in reference to your post sweetie, I'm not arguing that your wrong, just adding a different view point to it)

[pretty_tony]

Women are evil, (no offense ladies) but females hate other females for no reason all the time and i don't understand, girls are the biggest haters

[H-BOL]

i hate women **** you all you **** with all our god **** heads when all we do is try to care and love you... sick of their ****

[mark956101957]

listen bro, heres my take on women, and i could care less if yall wanna throw name callin at me whatever.

girlfriends are nothing but bull****.im 19, and ive witnessed and experience alot of it(and nah, im not coming out of a bad relationship, ive been single since for a **** long time). sex? use your hand...........honestly, put up with using your hand and a porno mag until you get married. why spend money on a girl, whom your just gonna live with, and MAYBE marry, but probably divorce within the first year?
the divorce rate in this country, within the first year of marriage, is a staggering 76% percent right now.76% ****in percent, and im not suprised. most mens take on women is horrendous, women are mistreaded, and men could care less. women also however, mistreat men sometimes, but for the reason that, they basically can figure out the next move your going to make on them.

why put up with all the bull**** of , "were going out now", "were getting back together now", "she isnt talking to me".

hold off on the women untill you get married, this will open up new doors and i KNOW, it will make you happier.

Check back in 10 years after you have dated and really seen what is out there because at 19 you have no idea Dude!

[MBaraso]

Women have issues...And so do men. I think it's basicly "Vice versa"
Let's be respectful to the ladies in this convo though....It's hard to...But atleast try to respect the womens point of view by not flaming

[rocco78]

Ladies are SEXY AND COOL. Give 'em props.

It's a man's world, but it wouldn't be nothin' without a woman or a girl - JAMES BROWN

[purplelaceteddy]

hold off on the women untill you get married, this will open up new doors and i KNOW, it will make you happier.

is it just me ..or does that not make any sense at all.......

[goodtobeapimp]

Women like security. I dont mean massive muscle bound men. Just the green stuff. With money your face can be torn off by Hannibal Lectur and things will be ok. Women can/will cheat on you ,with someone they are attracted to if thats what they want,when they have financial security with you. I can list at least 10 examples of guys that shouldnt have a woman judging them by looks and attitudes that have models because of money. Now how many guys do you see that have no income that are sporting hotties on the side?

[JDawg1536]

I just had to get this off my chest...Sowy to all the female members here! Im just so tired of the dating scene. Im tired of blind dates. Im tired of opening myself up to disappointment. Im tired of being let down. Im tired of women who dont know what they want. Im tired of the lies. Im tired of being "the nice guy." Im just tired of it all...errrrrr

and with that said im going to bed.....night john boy...night everyone....

OG

http://www.seductioninsider.com/arti...ike_jerks.html

nice guys finish last, i learned the hard way

[Bryan2]

Maybe in some instances the line about the father or b/f, spouse or whomever, might be partly true, but IMO it is dependant on the individual, wheather or not they choose to let that keep them down, or rise above and over come it... Again you can't generalize us all based on the behavior of a few. ( we all come with baggage to a certian degree, male/ female alike you show me someone with out any baggage I say they've never done any packing)
As I see it, some people use their past as a cruth or an excuse, for lots of reasons, not only limited to relationships, but they base their whole life around the fact that they were misstreated, and allow themself to remain the victim, for the entirety of their adult life.
Others use it as a driving force to exceed the expectations of those who tried to supress us in one form or another, and deal with it and move forward at least still willing to "risk, the hurt" and attempt, to seek better.
we aren't afraid to show emotion or to feel pain, it's all a learning process, we all learn at different levels some of us learn quicker than others, some of us never learn! But most of us keep trying, if you bottle up your emotions, for too long it has no where to go but inward, or it will explode, but mostly it just makes you bitter, and lonely!

(Also as a side note, sh!t is sh!t, any which way you stack it or shovel it or wade it we've all been through plenty of it, and no matter what the level of the sh!t may seem to be to others, to those that are going through it, it's still sh!tty... and you can't compare your Sh!t to someone elses Sh!t, and say you've been through more than others, if you don't know all the sh!t they've been through And that's not just in reference to your post sweetie, I'm not arguing that your wrong, just adding a different view point to it)

Yes i agree with you 100% and im only speaking from what ive experience personally with women and seen experienced.But ive never been with older women to compare and contrast.I cannot vouch for the entire female population because i guess i would consider myself a rarety there has to be others of the opposite sex that have had some of the knowledge ive been endowed with trough very crippling and hectic happenings. I wasnt comparing the level of toughness in my life to others id think that ive probably been through more physical anguish then most due to 3 seperate near death experiences, but im just saying that it is in fact those experiences that has lead me to Understand the concept of what life was intended for much better. This all being in reference to the age factor previously mentioned i dont think its age so to speak but life experience that opens the doors to understanding. So i guess my mentioned view point was more to the statement of knowledge comes with age then the whole underlying generalization of women on this thread. It all boils down to various levels of understanding life and what point a certain individual is.That would cause him/her (latter of the two in this situation) to do the things they do towards others and especially relationship wise.

[Benches505]

Only really fine women play games Ugly chicks are all wonderful j/k

[Maraxus]

OG I know a hot MILF if you want me to hook you up

[Bigen12]

I think it all boils down to the fact that people change, I'm 37, I am in no way the same person that I was at 19, I have changed a lot in those, ****!!!! 18 years. I am much more secure and comfortable about myself and I have a lot more of an idea of what I am looking for in a Woman. Why do I think I changed? Experience.

I dated a lot after high school, and I have some good and some bad memories from that time. I got married when I was 30 and divorced at 35. In those short 5 years we both changed a lot, both our interests and wants changed, and we grew apart. There are no hard feelings, just a fact of life. However out of those 5 years I gained 3 wonderful children. Yes child support sucks, but no regrets here.

Yes I have met women, and I know a lot of men, who play games. Now, when I discover that a woman that I am interested in is playing games, I simply end the relationship and move on. I am now emotionally able to do that. The key is that I was not able to do that when I was 19.

[OGPackin]

Wow! Look what i started....lol Ok, guess i should have preferenced what i said by saying from my experiences "women suck." IMHO it just seems like the roles have reversed to some extent. The men act like women ( wanting a relationship, commitment ) and the women today just want to have fun and be with whoever they are with at the moment.

Im 35, not 19 and iv been married and divorced. So iv been around the block once or twice. Iv been divorced for a little over 2 years now, and let me tell u with all my x wife's negatives and BS i kinda wish i was married again. Man, did i just say that....jeeeesh things must be really bad...Iv been with 2 different girls since that i would call my "girlfriends", but boy did they change after a few months. It seemed like they put their best foot forward and then once they had me their true colors showed, and they werent who i thought they were. Dont get me wrong, in that time frame iv had plenty of one niters and dates, but im not the type of guy to just go out with someone because im single. For me if its not there it will never be there.

OG

[AnabolicAlien]

try this... become an as shole like me. for some reason most girls love it. when i say as shole i mean be demanding, perverted, arrogant, and condescending toward them.

i've gotten more as s than a toilet seat using this method. when i was "the nice guy" i always got the shaft by girls.

i think what they do is mistake it for extreme confidence!

A.A.

[Blown_SC]

try this... become an as shole like me. for some reason most girls love it. when i say as shole i mean be demanding, perverted, arrogant, and condescending toward them.

i've gotten more as s than a toilet seat using this method. when i was "the nice guy" i always got the shaft by girls.

i think what they do is mistake it for extreme confidence!

A.A.

From my experience, most females have a VERY thin line of acceptability... between arrogance and confidence... most intelligent women know the difference...

[Pale Horse]

Og , yes I agree the roles have reversed. The thing is I know from my experience the women that I wanted in most everyway possible (usually physcial) were wild and crazy and fun and partiers. Not to say htat a woman like that can't make a good wife, I think the chances are harder to find one like that that will work out as a marriage.

Having said that there is something to be said for the "boring" or unexciting hard core sex machines that we prefer. Ask yourself where are you meeting these women? What attracts you to them? Safe women are no challenge (bull****) because they are all a little nuts. The safe ones have trust, faith and loyalty in you and the relationship.

I met my wife really by accident. She was a temp. of an outgoing company that the company I worked for bought. She was naieve, religious, and had really no knwledge of my world if you will. Never been in a bar, didn't cuss etc...

At that time I was a hard core partier, dated mostly strippers, had a mouth like a sewer , no religion at all, rode a harley, have tatoos , been in jail etc....

Why she picked me I don't know but at 33 I saw a huge opportunity to finally latch on to the woman that would give me a stable relationship and life. Now do we have problems yes! I posted about one a couple of weeks ago. Is it a bed of roses ? No! But the difference is that I know (if I get past my insecuruties) that she will not screw around on me, not lie to me, not give up on our marriage because we are going through a rough time, and she believes in God which is something that I have accepted just in the past two years (my belief).

Now I'm a shameful suburbanite with an awesome home, stable job, most of my negative character traits are gone ( But so is my Harley, that one almost made me cry)

The short version is a woman that you desire to date is not the type of woman you want to marry or commit to. Look at where you are drawing these women from.
I'll tell you something else there are some awesome, georgeous women at my church.
I would have started going earlier in life if I had known that!

[Commando_Barbi]

is it just me ..or does that not make any sense at all.......

Maybe he's planning on a mail order bride.

[palme]

Maybe he's planning on a mail order bride.

Where do they put the stamp? And how the hell they fit in the mailbox? What if it gets caught in customs?

[Commando_Barbi]

Women like security. I dont mean massive muscle bound men. Just the green stuff. With money your face can be torn off by Hannibal Lectur and things will be ok. Women can/will cheat on you ,with someone they are attracted to if thats what they want,when they have financial security with you. I can list at least 10 examples of guys that shouldnt have a woman judging them by looks and attitudes that have models because of money. Now how many guys do you see that have no income that are sporting hotties on the side?

Maybe if certain men stopped being only concerned about how a girl looked on their arms and more concerned about a woman that was attractive on the INSIDE....they would have less problems.

As for me....I don't need your $100.00 bills, I got my own, I don't need your fancy car, I bought my own, I don't need your house, I built my own.

[Commando_Barbi]

Where do they put the stamp? And how the hell they fit in the mailbox? What if it gets caught in customs?

LOL how da hell would I know. Let me get back to you on that one.

[Commando_Barbi]

Lifes best lessons are the hardest learned.

You're great 1Victor.

Og , yes I agree the roles have reversed. The thing is I know from my experience the women that I wanted in most everyway possible (usually physcial) were wild and crazy and fun and partiers. Not to say htat a woman like that can't make a good wife, I think the chances are harder to find one like that that will work out as a marriage.

Having said that there is something to be said for the "boring" or unexciting hard core sex machines that we prefer. Ask yourself where are you meeting these women? What attracts you to them? Safe women are no challenge (bull****) because they are all a little nuts. The safe ones have trust, faith and loyalty in you and the relationship.

I met my wife really by accident. She was a temp. of an outgoing company that the company I worked for bought. She was naieve, religious, and had really no knwledge of my world if you will. Never been in a bar, didn't cuss etc...

At that time I was a hard core partier, dated mostly strippers, had a mouth like a sewer , no religion at all, rode a harley, have tatoos , been in jail etc....

Why she picked me I don't know but at 33 I saw a huge opportunity to finally latch on to the woman that would give me a stable relationship and life. Now do we have problems yes! I posted about one a couple of weeks ago. Is it a bed of roses ? No! But the difference is that I know (if I get past my insecuruties) that she will not screw around on me, not lie to me, not give up on our marriage because we are going through a rough time, and she believes in God which is something that I have accepted just in the past two years (my belief).

Now I'm a shameful suburbanite with an awesome home, stable job, most of my negative character traits are gone ( But so is my Harley, that one almost made me cry)

The short version is a woman that you desire to date is not the type of woman you want to marry or commit to. Look at where you are drawing these women from.
I'll tell you something else there are some awesome, georgeous women at my church.
I would have started going earlier in life if I had known that!

[Pale Horse]

Thank you! That's the only compliment I've ever recieved on this board, it means a lot.