***a Question For The Ladies***

[BE_STRONG]

We have some of the smartest females here at AR, so here are
2-questions for you ladies: WHAT MAKES A MAN SEXY? 1. The take home to momma sexy. and 2. The take home and abuse him sexy? Thanks for your input!

[Canes4Ever]

What makes a man sexy to most women ? That's easy.....a big bank account. You can count on that one.

[BE_STRONG]

hey canes!

That is a given!

[Canes4Ever]

Originally posted by BE_STRONG
hey canes!

That is a given!

True....hmmmm, since I'm gay I won't give anymore advice then LOL.

[BE_STRONG]

Hey canes,

All advice is welcome on AS! bro!! What part of maimi so you live?

I have a place in FT. lauderdale!

[Canes4Ever]

Originally posted by BE_STRONG
Hey canes,

All advice is welcome on AS! bro!! What part of maimi so you live?

I have a place in FT. lauderdale!

Westchester area, off of Coral Way & The Palmetto Expressway.

Lets get together and workout at my gym next time you are down here. I workout at the Gold's right across the street from FIU main campus (SW 107th Ave and SW 16th Street).

Cheers buddy !

[BE_STRONG]

I know exactly where it is! My place is just off commercial blvd! My wife and her friends are down there now! No telling what they are up to!

[Babyweight]

I strongly disagree with you guys on the bank account. JMO, other females may disagree....But...
I go for the personality & sense of humour. Gets me everytime..
oh and BTW.....I've seen georgeous men who aren't even sexy at all once they open their mouths!!

[Canes4Ever]

Originally posted by BE_STRONG
I know exactly where it is! My place is just off commercial blvd! My wife and her friends are down there now! No telling what they are up to!

I know several guys that train at Commercial Blvd location. Get a travel pass someday and come and train with me and I'll take you to the Chicken Kitchen in the shopping centre afterwards. We can hang out for a while and talk training & shit.

cheers, brother !

[Canes4Ever]

Originally posted by Babyweight
I strongly disagree with you guys on the bank account. JMO, other females may disagree....But...
I go for the personality & sense of humour. Gets me everytime..
oh and BTW.....I've seen georgeous men who aren't even sexy at all once they open their mouths!!

BW I know and I was just making the gross generalization that is a common mis-conception. Just teasing around !

I also have met some very georgeous men that I think are woofy, and then you talk to them and all they can speak about is porno movies & stars, who laid them last weekend and where are the next round of party drugs coming from......sorry not my scene !

I say to them......NEXT !

(I am so glad to have a significant other now....it's wonderful)

[Jenna]

I like intelligence, ambition, and a man that is confident ......NOT cocky....

[bortort]

[i]I've seen georgeous men who aren't even sexy at all once they open their mouths!! [/B]

But have you ever seen a guy that wasn't sexy at all untill they opened their mouths and made the georgeous ?

What I'm asking is, can a guy who isn't sexy, say something to make him look sexy?

[Babyweight]

Originally posted by bortort


But have you ever seen a guy that wasn't sexy at all untill they opened their mouths and made the georgeous ?

What I'm asking is, can a guy who isn't sexy, say something to make him look sexy?

Of course....Sexy is not all about looks only. IMO it's the presentation of the product.

Personality and charm can be quite sexy. Sometimes they don't even have to say a word it's just how someone presents themselves.

[BE_STRONG]

I think we may have ourselves a debate. Good question bortort! Baby I also like your answer.

[bortort]

But isn't presentation the way someone looks ? True it might not be a physical look, it may be the way they dress or the way they stand. But it's still there look that is making them sexy. If you saw a guy across the room that didn't look sexy, ( his face, body, the way he held himself, the way he walked ect...) Is there something he could walk up to you and say to make him Look sexy the next time you saw him?

[Babyweight]

Originally posted by bortort
But isn't presentation the way someone looks ? True it might not be a physical look, it may be the way they dress or the way they stand. But it's still there look that is making them sexy. If you saw a guy across the room that didn't look sexy, ( his face, body, the way he held himself, the way he walked ect...) Is there something he could walk up to you and say to make him Look sexy the next time you saw him?

I agree with you 100% on the first part. But the part about someone who didn't appeal to me at all.... I don't think so, only because IMO the instant attraction too me is what sexy is. I don't see how someone saying something can all of a sudden make them sexy.
Maybe unless the lights were out and I never saw them in the first place...

[BE_STRONG]

BW,

I agree with you, it is the way the package is being presented for the very beginning. The instant attraction is what gets the instincts kicking! But, I have also seen beautiful women, who open there mouths and totally ruined it! We are men, we are supposed to be able to say something stupid and then make up for it later!

[bortort]

Ok, that's what I was wondering.
So.

1..He can look sexy and not say anything.................still sexy

2..He can look sexy and say something wrong..........Not sexy

3..He can look not sexy and not say anything...........Not sexy

4..He can look not sexy and say something right....Not sexy

So guys, the best bet is to hope you look sexy and keep your mouths shut.

[BE_STRONG]

bortort,

for some reason, I can never keep my mouth shut! lol!

[DevilsDeity]

Babyweight bad girl, bad! "only because IMO the instant attraction too me is what sexy is. I don't see how someone saying something can all of a sudden make them sexy. "

you have never had a friend or knew some one who you did not look at as sexy, then one day they look at you a certian way or do something, say something , and your like oh my i never noticed that about this person and they start to become sexy to you? a truly sexy person man/woman it has to come from the inside out, not the outside in. sexyness w/ the physical attraction is lust

[Babyweight]

Originally posted by bortort
Ok, that's what I was wondering.
So.

1..He can look sexy and not say anything.................still sexy

2..He can look sexy and say something wrong..........Not sexy

3..He can look not sexy and not say anything...........Not sexy

4..He can look not sexy and say something right....Not sexy

So guys, the best bet is to hope you look sexy and keep your mouths shut.

Oh my god that was funny!

I don't know, maybe sexy is sort of a vain thing.. I mean...I do believe beauty comes from within.... I guess thats why they say "Different strokes for Different folks" hehe

Not to take me the wrong way or anything...I just thought at first I may have sounded a little shallow...But that was no where near my intention...

[bortort]

My point was that sexy talk doesn't work by itself. You have to look sexy to be sexy. When women say its not about looks they lie. You can look sexy and talk sexy and your sexy. But If you don't look sexy and talk sexy. Your still NOT SEXY. So its all aout the look.

[bortort]

So anyway. Back to the first question. Is it the take home to momma sexy, or the take home and abuse him sexy ? Just what does make a guy sexy ? ( now that we know its his looks )

[BE_STRONG]

Bortort,

so basically what you are saying is that "women are as vain as men" when it comes to looks!

[bortort]

I guess that's why I never had many dates.

[BE_STRONG]

I always knew they were, no matter what they say about security, ambition, sense of humor! If your not attractive with a sense of humor, your just funny & ugly!

[Mrs. T]

Can a guy who isn't sexy say something to make him look sexy? - Not on purpose. It's not something that can be rehearsed.

What a person finds sexy in others depends entirely on the person doing the looking. A superficial person is turned on by appearances. I hear people in the gym all the time talking about "... he/she looks so hot. They have great this or that ..." and these are always people who have no serious relationships with anyone (for some reason). Then I see a lot of people in the gym who just can't keep their eyes on anyone but themselves. They have no room for any other love in their lives. Narcissistic people are WAY not sexy.

The guys who make me hot all over are good people with intelligence and warmth who know how to treat other people like they matter. As far as taking him home to mamma - let her get her own...

[Canes4Ever]

Originally posted by Mrs. T
Can a guy who isn't sexy say something to make him look sexy? - Not on purpose. It's not something that can be rehearsed.

What a person finds sexy in others depends entirely on the person doing the looking. A superficial person is turned on by appearances. I hear people in the gym all the time talking about "... he/she looks so hot. They have great this or that ..." and these are always people who have no serious relationships with anyone (for some reason). Then I see a lot of people in the gym who just can't keep their eyes on anyone but themselves. They have no room for any other love in their lives. Narcissistic people are WAY not sexy.

The guys who make me hot all over are good people with intelligence and warmth who know how to treat other people like they matter. As far as taking him home to mamma - let her get her own...

I really like you Mrs. T.

[Mrs. T]

Thanks, sweetie! I've read several of your postings. You're ok, too.

[Canes4Ever]

Originally posted by Mrs. T
Thanks, sweetie! I've read several of your postings. You're ok, too.

<smooch>

[$uperman]

i think sexy is 50/50. sex appeal and attitude. Now im not being cocky , just confident. I am a goodlooking guy , but.... i much rather have a gurl attracted to me for my personality , attitude , or for who i am. Ive talk to gurls on the phone and have chatted w/ them my comp and had them tell me they're attracted to me without even seeing me first. Thats a gurl that looks for personality though. mostly depends on the ladie too , some are materialistic and some arnt. Ill try my charm any day over my looks

[$uperman]

WeRd

[tigress]

Sexy....it's not all about looks. Attitude is very important. Confidence, humour, and a joy for life are incredibly sexy. For instance, a few weeks ago, I was at the gym with my man. He pointed out a very good looking guy and asked if I had noticed him. I had, and the reason is not that he was good looking, but because he was acting like a damn jackass. He didn't HAVE to open his mouth, the way he looked at us women(like why WEREN'T we staring, we should be), and the way he was carrying himself around the gym were incredible turnoffs! It was obvious that he thought he was amazing, but I don't know many women who would have given him a chance to even talk to him, his aura was so conceited. So, to sum it up, confidence is sexy, conceit is a turnoff. And a goodlooking guy can be unattractive without opening his mouth if he has a bad attitude.

BTW, I personally don't find money sexy, I think I saw someone mention that.

[BE_STRONG]

tigress & mrs. T,

I really like your answers. I think you both summed it up very well. Thanks for the info! later!!