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  1. 09-08-2004, 08:34 AM #1
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    Am i over-reacting?

    An employee has been making things very difficult at the office.
    The employee also tries to sour my relationship with my boss.

    My girlfriend works in the same office and aware of this.
    My girl calls me up Sat night to let me know she's at the *bad employee's* house for drinks.

    I had a melt down - yet my girl can't understand why i'm upset that she's at the *bad employee's* place.
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  2. 09-08-2004, 08:39 AM #2
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    Is the *bad employee* a male or female?
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  3. 09-08-2004, 08:41 AM #3
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    First of all is the "Bad employee" male or female?

    Secondly, if your girlfriend has that little of respect for you and your relationship, I'd be finding another g/f..I can't understand why she would be over there in the first place..Although I would guess "Bad employee" purposely invited her over to get a reaction from you..No, I don't think you are out of line..

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  4. 09-08-2004, 08:42 AM #4
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    female.
    They never hung out either. Saturday night they are like best friends.
    I feel like the bad employee is messing with me.

    LIke i asked, maybe i'm over-reacting and paranoid.
    To me i would prefer ZERO contact with my life (including my girl) and the bad employee.
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  5. 09-08-2004, 08:45 AM #5
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    I agree her loyalty should override all else.
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    Quote Originally Posted by 1victor
    I agree her loyalty should override all else.

    i agree!
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  7. 09-08-2004, 08:51 AM #7
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    Thanks for confirming.

    The unfortunate thing is we live together (as of last month).
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  8. 09-08-2004, 08:52 AM #8
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    id be pissed too. thats not right
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  9. 09-08-2004, 08:54 AM #9
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    Is she going to continue this friendship?
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  10. 09-08-2004, 09:02 AM #10
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    She wants to - i think it's out of spite. She calls me controlling.
    I call it respect and decency.
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  11. 09-08-2004, 09:06 AM #11
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    dont take that sh*t. ask her how she would like it if you were friends with someone she hates.
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    Been in that arguement before
    Quote Originally Posted by Pork Chop
    She wants to - i think it's out of spite. She calls me controlling.
    I call it respect and decency.
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  13. 09-08-2004, 09:08 AM #13
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    Put hir stuff on the curb, you guys aren't even engaged or married and she's already making power plays. Get out NOW! Does she work with you too? If so you are fu*ked never sh*t where you eat.
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    kill her hid the body
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    Quote Originally Posted by Decadbal
    kill her hid the body
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    tell your woman to use the cable guy line : "your a nice person but i dont have any room in my life for another friend"
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    Ditch her. She's just playing mind games and giving in is letting her win. She wants to see how much she can walk over you, wether it's a conscious thought or not.
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    Quote Originally Posted by biglouie250
    tell your woman to use the cable guy line : "your a nice person but i dont have any room in my life for another friend"
    I say this
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  19. 09-09-2004, 06:01 AM #19
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    Day 3 and i'm still not talking to her. I just go about my business in the house.

    Her X beat her up. I'm beginning to understand why.
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