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    Question What is your biggest fear ?

    Hi all,

    My biggest fear is facing the death of a loved one. This is something which no one can escape from. I had already gone through it and the pain suffered is unbearable. ANd I know I would have to face it again, unless of course if I were to die first.

    There is no way to prepare for it, however what you can do is just appreciate your loved ones while they are alive.

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    Re: What is your biggest fear ?

    Originally posted by Zoolander
    Hi all,

    My biggest fear is facing the death of a loved one. This is something which no one can escape from. I had already gone through it and the pain suffered is unbearable. ANd I know I would have to face it again, unless of course if I were to die first.

    There is no way to prepare for it, however what you can do is just appreciate your loved ones while they are alive.
    Facing the next uncontrollable panic attack. If you have ever had one you know what I mean.

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    Never had one. But the pain from a migraine attack is a whole new fear by itself.

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    Re: What is your biggest fear ?

    Originally posted by Zoolander
    Hi all,

    My biggest fear is facing the death of a loved one. This is something which no one can escape from. I had already gone through it and the pain suffered is unbearable. ANd I know I would have to face it again, unless of course if I were to die first.

    There is no way to prepare for it, however what you can do is just appreciate your loved ones while they are alive.
    OMG! this is my EXACT answer. Although I do fear dying myself, I think more so I fear losing a family member or best friend and having to deal with that while I'm still here. ICK!!!

    Ps sorry about your personal loss
    Winners never quit...Quitters never win!!!

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    Growing old alone

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    Pete235 ill grow old w/ ya , but no funny stuff ok

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    Never being able to workout!!! Actually, that is quite a big fear of mine...breaking something in my body! Not being able to workout for a few months, that would just kill me!

    But more then that, I'd have to say being stranded in the middle of an ocean...oh, and I'm scared of heights

    And yet i've been in the CN Tower like 10 times

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    Being blind or disabled to where I couldn't do anything. that would be my biggest fear. I was to that point a few years ago, where I was down for an entire year, and it sucked. Made me realize to do what I can when I can, while I can still do it.
    Oh yeah and I am also scared of the boogie man..

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    Have another one...........

    Rejection

    That is why I usually stay clear of situations which I may face rejection

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    Honestly my greatest fear is something happening to one of my children or my wife. Or me dying while their still young and missing out on the rest of their lives.
    It sounds morbid I know but I've seen comrades killed and leave children behind, I've later met their families and couldn't help putting myself in their places, imagining their children to be mine etc..
    Here's me on my last campaign to rule the world, leaving for UN peace keeping duties in Lebanon last winter.
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    I hear you Bouncer the thought of losing your kids or dying before they grow up and missing that time with them is my worst fear - as well as growing old alone

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    Originally posted by Billy Boy
    I hear you Bouncer the thought of losing your kids or dying before they grow up and missing that time with them is my worst fear - as well as growing old alone
    Billy Boy as long as I can, I will remain in contact with you my friend, you'll not be alone, trust me on that.

    You are another one of the really good guys around AR.

    Cheers mate !

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    Billy Boy as long as I can, I will remain in contact with you my friend, you'll not be alone, trust me on that.
    Thanks bro


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    well....definately not fire..or me going to work would be in major problem...

    i would have to go with pete..in saying growing old alone...nothing beats conpanionship

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    Originally posted by Billy Boy


    Thanks bro

    You're most welcome sir !

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    I'm kinda going along with Pete, but a little different route. My only real fear in life is to not feel loved. Hopefully ya'll understand where I'm coming from, because I've sat here for a lil bit trying to figure out how to explain. I know the girl I'm with loves me, but I mean like just the overwhealming feeling that it can give you. Maybe the more we get to know each other I will see it.

    (makes me get a weird twinge in my stomach to think of that)

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    I'm afraid of fear.



    To rephrase that, maybe I'm afraid of being vulnerable. I don't have normal fears that most people have, of snakes, rejection, heights, lonliness. I can never really think of anything that I am fearful of.
    One today is worth two tomorrows.

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    Not even feaful of losing AR ?? j/k

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    Bouncer I have to say man that was quite touchin.. you are soo right though, my daughter is the most wonderful thing ever to happen to me in this world loosing her would be detrimental to my own health.
    Couldn't have said it better brutha..

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    I am afraid of dying in my sleep. I want to experience my last moments.

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    Originally posted by Bouncer AKA bouncer
    Honestly my greatest fear is something happening to one of my children or my wife. Or me dying while their still young and missing out on the rest of their lives.
    Ditto . specially my kids.

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    Losing someone close to me without a doubt would suck.... I feel i can deal with almost anything, but how do you deal with that??


    Oh and I been stranded at sea for over 72 hours in a nasty ass storm and that shit was no fun either.... Dieing is bad enough, but the thought of dieing that way would blow.

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    Originally posted by buff87
    Losing someone close to me without a doubt would suck.... I feel i can deal with almost anything, but how do you deal with that??


    Oh and I been stranded at sea for over 72 hours in a nasty ass storm and that shit was no fun either.... Dieing is bad enough, but the thought of dieing that way would blow.
    I went through this in 1992 myself when Hurricane Andrew literaly blew down my house with me inside. My house was totaled. The 2nd floor was completely gone, my stairs went to a 2nd floor that was not there.

    It wasn't 72 hours long, but it felt like it ! (was more like 5+ hours)

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    Originally posted by Diesel
    failure.
    What if you fail feeling fear?


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    Originally posted by Billy Boy
    Not even feaful of losing AR ?? j/k
    great, thanks Billy. Now I will be tossing and turning all night!

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    I have a fear of being affraid. Just cuz evey time I'm affraid, I'm scared, and everytime I'm scared I have a fear of being affraid along with it. ( Is there a little green man under my bed ? )


    Really, It would be my wife passing before I do.

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    My greates fear would be If it was proven somehow that there is nothing after death, I would be to afraid of dying to realy live.

    Or getting permanently disabeld from the neck down or getting blind.

    Or getting a brain damage that zaps all my inteligence and the ability to control my body.

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    Mine is not being allowed to die (example: doctors save me after i break my neck and I live, but can never walk or move my arms again). I want nature to take its course. If I am seriously injured and cannot make a full recovery, I want to meet the man.

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    Since I will be juicing soon, I would say I'm scared shitless of SCAMMERS!

    being alone.

    financial stability.

    impotence.

    death of someone close.
    My dad just had 2 strokes(at 45) in the last year so he is one of my major concerns right now.

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    I doubt this will ever happen bro. You must have thousands hitting on you all the time.

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    The fear of dying alone...I have my parents & brother & sister, but I do not have any kids or husband, and at this age it makes me wonder if I've made a mistake of not having a family of my own to where one day they would be around to take care of me when I get old.

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    getting old, or outliving my childern.

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    Dying before I get old.

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    Losing someone that you are extremely close too!! and growing old and not being able to take care of yourself.

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    not being able to play baseball.

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    Sounds horrible but mine would be to marry a good looking girl then a few years later she get fat for whatever reason.

    I look at these girls moms and think, damn is that what she is gonna look like some day.

    But I guess at least you found love so that would be better than being alone.

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