relationship problems

**PrairieDawg** · 12-22-2004, 12:18 AM

How come every time I meet a girl that I click with (which isnt too often) I always **** it up (still havent figured out how). But when I'm seeing a girl and I don't really care what happens they fall in love with me or fall just short of becoming a stalker when I try to brush them off. And they're all good looking too but if I don't click with them I dont really want to be with them hot or not. So what the **** is my problem then? I'm a good looking guy and I get lots of girls but if I meet one I'm acually serious about they **** off. Is it just a case of chicks just wanting what they can't have? I mean like I just got dumped a couple weeks ago by one of the few chicks that can keep my attention and I've started seeing this girl that I couldnt give a **** about and yet its going great. Sorry about the rant, I'm sure no one really cares about my problems but I had to vent this is starting to get frustrating...

**AandF6969** · 12-22-2004, 12:37 AM

Ive noticed it too bro... it sucks

**gya321** · 12-22-2004, 12:44 AM

I dont know, but I heard some interesting things from a pyschologist the other night. He was saying when you meet someone and feel a connection immediately most of the time it ends up sh1tty. When theres no connection it can turn into something good.

**needmorestrength** · 12-22-2004, 08:51 AM

hmm I feel ya bro.. the ones that are hot and u dont get along with are the ones that stick around.... The ones that you fall for are the ones that screw you over

**justincredible** · 12-22-2004, 08:57 AM

Yeah I know what you mean bro. "Standard Chick Protocol", I call it. You will eventually beat it, I did, but it took me 27 years to do it. Oh well, it could always be worse...You could be the guy who wrote the "STICKING FINGER UP ASS: AM I GAY?" thread! ha ha ha!!!

**trailrider38** · 12-22-2004, 09:23 AM

if you want to be happy with women you must give up the top dog attitude, they are in control and if you fight that it will be a bitter fight till the end. you must swallow your pride and put your tail between your legs, or continue to be single.

**Commando_Barbi** · 12-22-2004, 12:29 PM

Life is full of games. Frankly I never got into the one you are complaining about. What it boils down to is you will meet a lot of people between now and the time that you find the ONE. I went through it. I liked him....he didn't like me...he liked me...I couldn't stand him.... FINALLY....I have "HE loves me, wants me and adores me and I love him, want him and adore him". Until you find it you keep throwing them back in the sea. There are a lot of bottom feeders out there .. you will find the quality catch when it's meant to be.

Don't let it get you down...consider it practice and preparation so you can truely appreciate what you have when you find the perfect girl for you.

**decadbal** · 12-22-2004, 01:10 PM

i agree, i waded threw a few sorry ass girls, and it all makes me appreciate the good ones.. and the one im with now..

**HeavyHitter** · 12-22-2004, 03:11 PM

I feel ya bro... i have a bunch of thoughts on this one....

1) Just b/c you have the connection doesnt mean she does
2) Your mind always gets clouded when you first get googoo for a girl you like and might not realize your dislikes
3) Something you cant have is always what you want (for guys and girls) so once this girl knew she had you.... could of been a turn-off for her
4) You simply got no game.....
5) Love makes you do stupid things....

obviously these are all up for adjustment depending on your situations....

regardless, what you learn from each will make you stronger/smarter/better...... i should write a book!!