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02-03-2005, 08:38 AM #1
Bad news family.....What would you do?
Over the weekend, my brother's girlfriend was shot by her ex-boyfriend, who later died of a heart attack from a drug overdose of PCP. I can't help but feel sorry for her, but at the same time, I'm concerned for my brother. This girl has a shady past and some shady people that she associates with. Since my brother has been dating her, he's blown off all his friends and doesn't keep his commitments. I'm afraid that he's being led down a destructive path and I don't know what to do. Any suggestions?
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02-03-2005, 08:57 AM #2Originally Posted by Bombshell
OG
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02-03-2005, 09:09 AM #3
How old is your brother?
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02-03-2005, 09:19 AM #4
He's 33 going on 17. LOL. His head is sooo far up his butt, I don't think he could make the right decision. Thanks for the support.
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02-03-2005, 09:20 AM #5
Are you younger or older and how close are you? Just getting a little more info Bomb.
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02-03-2005, 09:23 AM #6Originally Posted by Bombshell
OG
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02-03-2005, 09:23 AM #7
His may be a good time to have a serious talk with him. Does he really want this kind of craziness in his life?
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02-03-2005, 09:32 AM #8
At his age he should have his head on a little tighter. I'm 100% if I'm dating a woman and she hangs with shadey characters and then gets SHOT.......................HELLO internet dating! hahahaha
Best thing you can do is get him alone and have a serious talk with him. Other than that there's not much more you can do. Everyone leads their life as they want...same as you and I, although you and I might have a better grip on reality. Good luck Bomb.
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02-03-2005, 09:39 AM #9
If her getting shot does not wake him up, what will? Try to keep communication up between you two. Also, Jugger you do not ask a woman her age... But asking for pics is a different story. PM them to me bombshell, thanks
Meso
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02-03-2005, 09:40 AM #10
As the old saying goes, if you lay down with dogs you’re bound to get fleas.
I hate to say it, but she will eventually bring your brother down to her level, it is inevitable.
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02-03-2005, 09:50 AM #11Originally Posted by Mesomorphyl
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02-03-2005, 09:51 AM #12
leave it alone...my brother iz way younger than that n i cant tell him shhiizzziittt.
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02-03-2005, 09:54 AM #13
Thanks Juggernaut! I'm 31 and he's 33. We've ALWAYS been close, but since he's gone with this girl, he's kind of detached himself from family and friends. He only would come to my house if he needed a place to "do the nasty". I'm trying to just listen at this point, because if I keep saying he's messing up his life and needs to leave this chick, I'm certain that'll push him that much closer to her. I think he feels he needs to rescue her.
It's a sucky situation, but I have a great B/F who is a wonderful support system for me and not allowing it to consume my own life. Thanks again.
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02-03-2005, 09:57 AM #14
Gee how come Mr Jiggy Fly gets all the love....My advice wasnt good...lol
OG
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02-03-2005, 09:59 AM #15
Heheheh... sorry OG. You've got AWESOME advice too. You're very sweet and sincere. Thank you for listening and being respectful. I was a little scared that I would get bashed for posting such a thread. Thanks again.
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02-03-2005, 10:02 AM #16Originally Posted by Bombshell
OG
ps....if you ever have troubles with your bf give me a call.... lol jk
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02-03-2005, 10:04 AM #17Originally Posted by OGPackin
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02-03-2005, 10:05 AM #18Originally Posted by Juggernaut
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02-03-2005, 10:05 AM #19Originally Posted by Juggernaut
OG
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02-03-2005, 10:05 AM #20
he is 33 and he still has to come to your house to get laid? whats up with that?
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02-03-2005, 10:06 AM #21
OMG- I don't blush often, but my cheeks are getting HOT!!! Take that for what it's worth guys. LOL
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02-03-2005, 10:07 AM #22Originally Posted by Bombshell
Thanks a lot Biggen......she didn't know I was old till now.....CB'er! hahahahaha
OG....yes.
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02-03-2005, 10:08 AM #23Originally Posted by Bombshell
Dang im good....
OG
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02-03-2005, 10:10 AM #24Originally Posted by Juggernaut
I wasn't worried about OG, but your old smooth ways had me worried, now if I can just keep me being engaged a secrete, I've got it made....
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02-03-2005, 10:12 AM #25
Pretty sad that my OLDER brother has to come to MY house to get laid. I know, we've all said that soooo many times it's like a freakin recording. He's afraid of commitment even with a house of his own. I should start charging him by the hour. I'd be RICH!!!! moaaawwwwwww!!!
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02-03-2005, 10:13 AM #26Originally Posted by Bigen12
OG
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02-03-2005, 10:14 AM #27
My brother just turned 26 and he still doesn't have a head on his shoulders. I've pretty much given up the lectures and now I just let him be. I've detatched myself from him and have come to terms with the fact that he's a screw-up. Hopefully one day he will learn to become responsible for his own actions. I have been trying to teach him for many years now and he just doesn't get it. His brain is wired differently than most. Bomb, I'm not saying to abandon your brother or turn you back on him, I'm just saying that maybe at 33, he's not going to change and maybe its not worth putting a bigger rift b/w you two and the rest of your family and friends. Just my $0.02.
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02-03-2005, 10:16 AM #28Originally Posted by JdJuicer
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02-03-2005, 10:17 AM #29Originally Posted by OGPackin
You think she likes girly men like you?
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02-03-2005, 10:18 AM #30Originally Posted by Bigen12
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02-03-2005, 10:25 AM #31Originally Posted by Bigen12
And Mr. Jiggy Fly we dont need any comments from the peanut gallery...hahaha
OG
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02-03-2005, 10:28 AM #32
Fight Nice now boys!!!!!
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02-03-2005, 10:29 AM #33Originally Posted by OGPackin
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02-03-2005, 10:29 AM #34Originally Posted by Bombshell
OG
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02-03-2005, 10:32 AM #35
Hehehehehe. I've been known to cause a little trouble now and then.
But life wouldn't be exciting now would it?
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02-03-2005, 10:36 AM #36Originally Posted by Bombshell
OG
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02-03-2005, 10:38 AM #37Originally Posted by OGPackin
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02-03-2005, 10:39 AM #38Originally Posted by Juggernaut
OG
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02-03-2005, 10:39 AM #39
Ain't that the truth? He's such a patient soul. God love him. That's why I love him so much. I can't see ANYONE putting up with all my sh#t!!!!!
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02-03-2005, 10:40 AM #40Originally Posted by Bombshell
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