Bad news family.....What would you do?

**Bombshell** · 02-03-2005, 08:38 AM

Over the weekend, my brother's girlfriend was shot by her ex-boyfriend, who later died of a heart attack from a drug overdose of PCP. I can't help but feel sorry for her, but at the same time, I'm concerned for my brother. This girl has a shady past and some shady people that she associates with. Since my brother has been dating her, he's blown off all his friends and doesn't keep his commitments. I'm afraid that he's being led down a destructive path and I don't know what to do. Any suggestions?

**OGPackin** · 02-03-2005, 08:57 AM

Originally Posted by Bombshell

Over the weekend, my brother's girlfriend was shot by her ex-boyfriend, who later died of a heart attack from a drug overdose of PCP. I can't help but feel sorry for her, but at the same time, I'm concerned for my brother. This girl has a shady past and some shady people that she associates with. Since my brother has been dating her, he's blown off all his friends and doesn't keep his commitments. I'm afraid that he's being led down a destructive path and I don't know what to do. Any suggestions?

If she was shot he shouldnt have to worry about her anymore right....

Sorry i had too....lol On a serious note....In most cases theres not much you can do but hope they figure it out on their own. If he's that into her talking bad about her to him will only push him away from you and closer to her. Its a hard situation to be in. Good luck!

OG

**Juggernaut** · 02-03-2005, 09:09 AM

How old is your brother?

**Bombshell** · 02-03-2005, 09:19 AM

He's 33 going on 17. LOL. His head is sooo far up his butt, I don't think he could make the right decision. Thanks for the support.

**Juggernaut** · 02-03-2005, 09:20 AM

Are you younger or older and how close are you? Just getting a little more info Bomb.

**OGPackin** · 02-03-2005, 09:23 AM

Originally Posted by Bombshell

He's 33 going on 17. LOL. His head is sooo far up his butt, I don't think he could make the right decision. Thanks for the support.

He's 33, then your going to have to ride this one out sorry to say...And this is coming from a 36 year old...hahaha

OG

**Hot-Rox** · 02-03-2005, 09:23 AM

His may be a good time to have a serious talk with him. Does he really want this kind of craziness in his life?

**Juggernaut** · 02-03-2005, 09:32 AM

At his age he should have his head on a little tighter. I'm 100% if I'm dating a woman and she hangs with shadey characters and then gets SHOT.......................HELLO internet dating! hahahaha

Best thing you can do is get him alone and have a serious talk with him. Other than that there's not much more you can do. Everyone leads their life as they want...same as you and I, although you and I might have a better grip on reality. Good luck Bomb.

**Mesomorphyl** · 02-03-2005, 09:39 AM

If her getting shot does not wake him up, what will? Try to keep communication up between you two. Also, Jugger you do not ask a woman her age... But asking for pics is a different story. PM them to me bombshell, thanks
Meso

**Bigen12** · 02-03-2005, 09:40 AM

As the old saying goes, if you lay down with dogs you’re bound to get fleas.

I hate to say it, but she will eventually bring your brother down to her level, it is inevitable.

**Juggernaut** · 02-03-2005, 09:50 AM

Originally Posted by Mesomorphyl

If her getting shot does not wake him up, what will? Try to keep communication up between you two. Also, Jugger you do not ask a woman her age... But asking for pics is a different story. PM them to me bombshell, thanks
Meso

Hence the reason I asked was she older or younger.

**DownTownNY** · 02-03-2005, 09:51 AM

leave it alone...my brother iz way younger than that n i cant tell him shhiizzziittt.

**Bombshell** · 02-03-2005, 09:54 AM

Thanks Juggernaut! I'm 31 and he's 33. We've ALWAYS been close, but since he's gone with this girl, he's kind of detached himself from family and friends. He only would come to my house if he needed a place to "do the nasty". I'm trying to just listen at this point, because if I keep saying he's messing up his life and needs to leave this chick, I'm certain that'll push him that much closer to her. I think he feels he needs to rescue her.

It's a sucky situation, but I have a great B/F who is a wonderful support system for me and not allowing it to consume my own life. Thanks again.

**OGPackin** · 02-03-2005, 09:57 AM

Gee how come Mr Jiggy Fly gets all the love....My advice wasnt good...lol

OG

**Bombshell** · 02-03-2005, 09:59 AM

Heheheh... sorry OG. You've got AWESOME advice too. You're very sweet and sincere. Thank you for listening and being respectful. I was a little scared that I would get bashed for posting such a thread. Thanks again.

**OGPackin** · 02-03-2005, 10:02 AM

Originally Posted by Bombshell

Heheheh... sorry OG. You've got AWESOME advice too. You're very sweet and sincere. Thank you for listening and being respectful. I was a little scared that I would get bashed for posting such a thread. Thanks again.

haha..ok thats better...

No worries Bomb! Your thread was tame compared to most of them...

Hang in there and i hope everything works out for the best!!

OG

ps....if you ever have troubles with your bf give me a call....

lol jk

**Juggernaut** · 02-03-2005, 10:04 AM

Originally Posted by OGPackin

ps....if you ever have troubles with your bf give me a call....

lol jk

Sorry OG....I think she'll be wanting a man. hahahahahaha

**Bigen12** · 02-03-2005, 10:05 AM

Originally Posted by Juggernaut

Sorry OG....I think she'll be wanting a man. hahahahahaha

You're right, but not an old man like you....

**OGPackin** · 02-03-2005, 10:05 AM

Originally Posted by Juggernaut

Sorry OG....I think she'll be wanting a man. hahahahahaha

Then your outa luck i guess...hahaha But i really know you want me all to yourself...hahaha

OG

**nathanw21** · 02-03-2005, 10:05 AM

he is 33 and he still has to come to your house to get laid? whats up with that?

**Bombshell** · 02-03-2005, 10:06 AM

OMG- I don't blush often, but my cheeks are getting HOT!!! Take that for what it's worth guys.

LOL

**Juggernaut** · 02-03-2005, 10:07 AM

Originally Posted by Bombshell

OMG- I don't blush often, but my cheeks are getting HOT!!! Take that for what it's worth guys.

LOL

Ahhhhhh....which cheeks? hahahahahaahahah

Thanks a lot Biggen......she didn't know I was old till now.....CB'er! hahahahaha

OG....yes.

**OGPackin** · 02-03-2005, 10:08 AM

Originally Posted by Bombshell

OMG- I don't blush often, but my cheeks are getting HOT!!! Take that for what it's worth guys.

LOL

Dang im good....

OG

**Bigen12** · 02-03-2005, 10:10 AM

Originally Posted by Juggernaut

Thanks a lot Biggen......she didn't know I was old till now.....CB'er! hahahahaha

I wasn't worried about OG, but your old smooth ways had me worried, now if I can just keep me being engaged a secrete, I've got it made....

**Bombshell** · 02-03-2005, 10:12 AM

Pretty sad that my OLDER brother has to come to MY house to get laid. I know, we've all said that soooo many times it's like a freakin recording. He's afraid of commitment even with a house of his own. I should start charging him by the hour. I'd be RICH!!!! moaaawwwwwww!!!

**OGPackin** · 02-03-2005, 10:13 AM

Originally Posted by Bigen12

I wasn't worried about OG, but your old smooth ways had me worried, now if I can just keep me being engaged a secrete, I've got it made....

And if thats you in you avatar i dont have anything to worry about....

OG

**JdFlex** · 02-03-2005, 10:14 AM

My brother just turned 26 and he still doesn't have a head on his shoulders. I've pretty much given up the lectures and now I just let him be. I've detatched myself from him and have come to terms with the fact that he's a screw-up. Hopefully one day he will learn to become responsible for his own actions. I have been trying to teach him for many years now and he just doesn't get it. His brain is wired differently than most. Bomb, I'm not saying to abandon your brother or turn you back on him, I'm just saying that maybe at 33, he's not going to change and maybe its not worth putting a bigger rift b/w you two and the rest of your family and friends. Just my $0.02.

**Bombshell** · 02-03-2005, 10:16 AM

Originally Posted by JdJuicer

My brother just turned 26 and he still doesn't have a head on his shoulders. I've pretty much given up the lectures and now I just let him be. I've detatched myself from him and have come to terms with the fact that he's a screw-up. Hopefully one day he will learn to become responsible for his own actions. I have been trying to teach him for many years now and he just doesn't get it. His brain is wired differently than most. Bomb, I'm not saying to abandon your brother or turn you back on him, I'm just saying that maybe at 33, he's not going to change and maybe its not worth putting a bigger rift b/w you two and the rest of your family and friends. Just my $0.02.

Thanks juicer. It's nice to know that I'm not the only one that thinks that way about their siblings. Thanks again.

**Bigen12** · 02-03-2005, 10:17 AM

Originally Posted by OGPackin

And if thats you in you avatar i dont have anything to worry about....

OG

You think she likes girly men like you?

**Juggernaut** · 02-03-2005, 10:18 AM

Originally Posted by Bigen12

You think she likes girly men like you?

Yeah OG.....what no neck here said! hahahahahaha

**OGPackin** · 02-03-2005, 10:25 AM

Originally Posted by Bigen12

You think she likes girly men like you?

I got your girly man hanging....

And Mr. Jiggy Fly we dont need any comments from the peanut gallery...hahaha

OG

**Bombshell** · 02-03-2005, 10:28 AM

Fight Nice now boys!!!!!

**Bigen12** · 02-03-2005, 10:29 AM

Originally Posted by OGPackin

I got your girly man hanging....

And Mr. Jiggy Fly we dont need any comments from the peanut gallery...hahaha

OG

I hear ya Nancy....

**OGPackin** · 02-03-2005, 10:29 AM

Originally Posted by Bombshell

Fight Nice now boys!!!!!

See what you started...Its all your fault....

hehehe jk

OG

**Bombshell** · 02-03-2005, 10:32 AM

Hehehehehe. I've been known to cause a little trouble now and then.

But life wouldn't be exciting now would it?

**OGPackin** · 02-03-2005, 10:36 AM

Originally Posted by Bombshell

Hehehehehe. I've been known to cause a little trouble now and then.

But life wouldn't be exciting now would it?

Im wiling to bet its moe then a little....

I bet your bf has his hands full with you....hahahaha

OG

**Juggernaut** · 02-03-2005, 10:38 AM

Originally Posted by OGPackin

I got your girly man hanging....

And Mr. Jiggy Fly we dont need any comments from the peanut gallery...hahaha

OG

I'm a Brazil nut! Thank you very much.

**OGPackin** · 02-03-2005, 10:39 AM

Originally Posted by Juggernaut

I'm a Brazil nut! Thank you very much.

Do you know what they call Brazil nutz in the South...? ***** toes....hahaha

OG

**Bombshell** · 02-03-2005, 10:39 AM

Ain't that the truth? He's such a patient soul. God love him. That's why I love him so much. I can't see ANYONE putting up with all my sh#t!!!!!

**Juggernaut** · 02-03-2005, 10:40 AM

Originally Posted by Bombshell

Ain't that the truth? He's such a patient soul. God love him. That's why I love him so much. I can't see ANYONE putting up with all my sh#t!!!!!

Depends.....is it stackable? hahahahaha

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