Question For The Ladies

**_Tiger_** · 08-09-2005, 05:01 AM

What is it with you guys? And when I say guys I'm talking about Girls

But seriously. My friends & I have been talking about this...Why is it that girls are so ...uneasy about getting on someone that they don't know very well when there is a definite "spark" or mutal attraction?

Not only that, but even if you know them fairly well, they are uneasy about coming over without bringing a friend, if it hasnt gone down with the 2 of you before?
(and then the friend turns out to be a total cock-block, you ask the girl "hey come check out my room" and the other one follows!

)

I can understand when there is some question as to whether or not the guy is interested, but I'm talking about..she for sure wants the guy, and he for sure wants her. Are girls really that "Worried" about being seen as slutty or what's the deal?

**collar** · 08-09-2005, 05:04 AM

some might be not too confident???
some might be still not to sure bout guy???
some just wanna play hard to get ?? maybe??
but i aint a girl LOL

**_Tiger_** · 08-09-2005, 05:10 AM

Originally Posted by collar

some might be not too confident???
some might be still not to sure bout guy???
some just wanna play hard to get ?? maybe??
but i aint a girl LOL

You sure bout that last part?

jk

That's the thing man, these are some gorgeous girls. And what do you mean "Not sure about the guy"? Because I'm talkin about girls who are definitely interested. Like it's a known fact that they are down for me.

**collar** · 08-09-2005, 05:16 AM

hmmmmmmm
if it garanteed their down for u man
i really do think she is very shy and embrassed maybe???
or just has no clue what to do when u 2 are alone together

i would think try get sometime all alone with her and talk to her bout this issue
tell her i like u..... u like me...... we both know this.... but if i wanna get to know u more and have some time alone with each other......
u gotta give me some one on one time sometimes with u....
females crazy creatures mate lmao

**_Tiger_** · 08-09-2005, 05:17 AM

Haha yes they are!...are they this way where your from? (I know sexual promiscuity is somewhat different everywhere) and where are you from, if you dont mind me askin'? Good advice though

**collar** · 08-09-2005, 05:25 AM

im from australia
and yes some are like this
very much from where im from
lot of them get some fat chick to hang around them LOL

**collar** · 08-09-2005, 05:26 AM

i think just wait for the right moment where u can grab her and get her all alone....
and lay it all out there....
then u will know whats going on...
if shes shy.. or whateva she will tell u...
get her to open up to u i guess...

**_Tiger_** · 08-09-2005, 05:27 AM

Originally Posted by collar

im from australia
and yes some are like this
very much from where im from
lot of them get some fat chick to hang around them LOL

You sure your not just spying on ME?!

I'm laughing my ass off literally, this happens to me a lot! (bringing their..horizontally challenged friend along)...

**collar** · 08-09-2005, 05:28 AM

hmmmm
nah im from australia , sydney.....
where u from btw???

**_Tiger_** · 08-09-2005, 05:34 AM

Sydney..haha funny I'm in Salt Lake City.....lol that's crazy, both of us are from citys that recently had the olympics.

Anyways I'll revise my question to the ladies: What is something I can do to get AROUND this problem I'm having?

**collar** · 08-09-2005, 05:37 AM

well.......
are u very confident that she serouisly wants u???
and like if u made a move on her or something u wouldnt scare her off or she wouldnt tell u to **** off

**collar** · 08-09-2005, 05:43 AM

oh shit u did say to the ladies lmao
ill stay out of it now hahahaha

**decadbal** · 08-09-2005, 05:44 AM

she might think u have aids lenny

**_Tiger_** · 08-09-2005, 06:22 AM

Originally Posted by collar

oh shit u did say to the ladies lmao
ill stay out of it now hahahaha

Haha no collar your cool I'm just revising the question!

lol Ok so we've concluded a few important things so far.

1)I'm not getting any

2)Fat chicks suck
3)I have aids and my name may or may not be "Lenny"

Hopefully some females will chime in when they wake up

**ttuprincess** · 08-09-2005, 07:11 AM

well with all the wierdos out there today they may be scared of meeting up with you alone because you may turn out to be a rapist or something

but seriosly (sp?) I keep other lady friends around until I am comfortable being alone with someone, or because if she needs to bail shes got someone there to make the excuse..that may not come for a while, but hey atleast your getting to hang with her and shes getting to know you .

**_Tiger_** · 08-09-2005, 07:41 AM

True true..See, they bring those friends over, so what am I supposed to do? lol its gay

**LAW** · 08-09-2005, 08:09 AM

Well your ready to nail her and she isn't ready, when she is comfortable she will not tell her "fat" gf that she is going to your place. Or you can wine her and dine her (at a nice place) Then maybe she'll let you 69 her, without calling her friend.

**_Tiger_** · 08-09-2005, 08:11 AM

I hear ya! Good stuff...thanks girls I kinda get whats goin on a little more

**Commando_Barbi** · 08-09-2005, 09:07 AM

It's def a safety issue. Why put yourself in a place where you might get hurt. You can be all sweet and nice as you wanna be but that don't mean you aren't some freak. Hell...you are probably too young to know this guy but Ted Bundy was (back in his day) handsome and smooth. He pulled some chicks. He was also a serial KILLER!

Me....I usually have a very sharp knife in my possession

but I am pretty cautious myself....

I also agree it's for the just in case factor. If at any point she's not feeling it...the girlfriend can get her out. That's a maturity thing. Me...if I'm not feeling you...I'm going to thank you for a nice nite and get the hell out! I don't need a girlfriend to help me there.

Life is too short to waste on anymore losers!

Peace

**decadbal** · 08-09-2005, 09:49 AM

CB says, keep ya thang in ya pants or IMA gonna cutchee

**_Tiger_** · 08-09-2005, 09:53 AM

weird you mentioned Ted Bundy, the only girl that got away from him used to live about 2 minutes from my house...Anyway OK So we've learned a few more things

1) I may be too damn smoothe for my own good and this scares away you girls

2)Just because I'm so damn attractive doesnt mean I'm not a creep
3)fat chicks still suck

**Commando_Barbi** · 08-09-2005, 10:48 AM

Originally Posted by Decadbal

CB says, keep ya thang in ya pants or IMA gonna cutchee

LOL Something like that!

**IronFreakX** · 08-09-2005, 10:54 AM

Originally Posted by _Tiger_

weird you mentioned Ted Bundy, the only girl that got away from him used to live about 2 minutes from my house...Anyway OK So we've learned a few more things

1) I may be too damn smoothe for my own good and this scares away you girls

2)Just because I'm so damn attractive doesnt mean I'm not a creep
3)fat chicks still suck

cheryl thomas...thats her

**_Tiger_** · 08-09-2005, 10:56 AM

This guy knows his serial killers!

**IronFreakX** · 08-09-2005, 11:02 AM

Originally Posted by _Tiger_

This guy knows his serial killers!

yeah i started reading bout them a while ago...most of their motives is sexual.....cept carl panzram so he really shouldnt be classifed as a serial killer

some of his stuff

While you were trying me here , I was trying all of you. I have found you guilty.Some of you I have already executed. If I live , I'll execute some more of you.I HATE THE WHOLE HUMAN RACE."

all of my surroundings, the atmosphere of deceit, treachery, brutality, degeneracy, hypocrisy, and everything that is bad and nothing that is good. Why am I what I am? I'll tell you why. I did not make myself what I am. Others had the making of me.

waiting for a journal of murder to arrive

good book!!

**Dally** · 08-09-2005, 11:22 AM

Originally Posted by _Tiger_

weird you mentioned Ted Bundy, the only girl that got away from him used to live about 2 minutes from my house...Anyway OK So we've learned a few more things

1) I may be too damn smoothe for my own good and this scares away you girls

2)Just because I'm so damn attractive doesnt mean I'm not a creep
3)fat chicks still suck

if any of 1 to 3 were true...sorry to say..but the "friend" wouldn't have been there in the first place.

actually 3 I dunno, I dont deal with fat chicks.

more like this.

1. you game is too weak to seal the deal...eg "come see my room" geezus thats fukin GAYE ...and really new to the chicks.....gee, why are we going to your room? what are we gonna do?

...enter friend and no poon for you.

(reminded me of grade 8)

2. attractive is as attractive does....chicks dont care about looks as much as guys do...hmmm WHO SAID THAT...some little fukker in another thread.

you gotta learn son....AND this my friend is a GEM.....

this is not easy to explain tho...the EASIEST way...without demo's is to
act like they want you, without sayin it....act like your the one who has to push them away, like most girls do to most guys...like your the one being chased...and see what happens...act like the girl being chased by the guy (I have a feelin you'll do this quite well)

you can thank me with the pretty mouth bj's later

**Tazwell** · 08-09-2005, 11:48 AM

Originally Posted by Commando_Barbi

Life is too short to waste on anymore losers!

Peace

i have an older sister.. she only gives guys, that she thinks will want to be her boy friend, the time of day with her.. oh, and by boyfriend she means a guy that will want to marry some day.. your right, some woman don't date just anybody.