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  1. 09-02-2005, 08:07 AM #1
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    We lost the baby

    My wife and I went to the DR's office yesterday, and after the sonogram, we were informed that we had lost the baby.

    The DR said that it was a chromosome abnormality, and that there was nothing that we did wrong, or could have done to save the baby.
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  2. 09-02-2005, 08:09 AM #2
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    I'm terribly sorry bro. My sincere condolences to yourself and your wife.
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    I'm really sorry to hear that Bigen. That must be really hard for you. Keep your chin up!
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  4. 09-02-2005, 08:11 AM #4
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    I'm sorry to hear that............ I know it hurts (same exact thing happened to me and my wife) but it's for the best.
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  5. 09-02-2005, 08:12 AM #5
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    Sorry to hear that bro my sincere condolences

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    Im sorry to hear that for ya bro............... That happend to my aunt once and my cousin once and my aunt now has 2 kids and my cousin has one......
    Good luck and our prayers are with ya
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  7. 09-02-2005, 08:17 AM #7
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    Sorry to hear that brother, keep ya head up.
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    Im so sorry to hear that bro... My sincerest condolences
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  9. 09-02-2005, 08:31 AM #9
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    Wow, as a father I have to say that must really feel like nothing else!!

    If there is any "good" part to this, at least there was no real suffering correct? I mean, she was very early in the pregnancy if I recall correctly as you announced this not too long ago?

    That doesn't make it "better" at all, but I'm just trying to find a positive in this.

    Stay up big dog.

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  10. 09-02-2005, 08:40 AM #10
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    Quote Originally Posted by SwoleCat
    Wow, as a father I have to say that must really feel like nothing else!!

    If there is any "good" part to this, at least there was no real suffering correct? I mean, she was very early in the pregnancy if I recall correctly as you announced this not too long ago?

    That doesn't make it "better" at all, but I'm just trying to find a positive in this.

    Stay up big dog.

    ~SC~

    Thanks guys,

    Yes it was very early in the pregnancy.

    The only good news is that according to the Doctors there is nothing wrong with my wife or I.

    Although this is a pretty good kick in the nuts, we can try again.
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  12. 09-02-2005, 08:45 AM #12
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    I'm sincerely sorry for your lost... The same thing happened twice to
    a very close friend of mine and she and her husband are now blessed
    with a beautiful healthy baby girl...

    Be there for your wife the best you can, from my experience she'll take
    it harder then you maybe... Stay strong and assure her everything will
    be OK in the end... God Bless bro.... I know this is tough...
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  13. 09-02-2005, 08:49 AM #13
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    Sorry to hear that bro, keep it together.....
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    Sorry to hear about this but it happens a lot for first time pregnancies from what I've seen through friends/family. Glad to hear you and your wife are fine.
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    Fuk bro!! Im soooo sorry to hear that! My sympathies to you and your wife! God bless!

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    Sorry to hear that bro.
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  17. 09-02-2005, 09:25 AM #17
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    wow bro i'am sorry i kknow it dosen't mean much but i hope everything will work out for you in the long run
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    Big man Im truly sorry to hear that bro. If you ever want to talk let me know bro. Im here for you man.
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    I am sorry for your loss. Hang in there guy!
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  20. 09-02-2005, 03:07 PM #20
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    I think the hardest thing about a loss like this is how there will be people out there who expect you to just be "fine" right away - I hope you'll find lots of support here and in your day to day life that give you permission to grieve/be pissed/whatever. I can't say I know what it's like for you but I'll keep you and your wife in my prayers. So sorry for your loss.
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    very sorry to hear that.
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    Sorry to hear that, my best wishes to you and your wife!!
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    Very sorry to hear about your loss.
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    my condolences brother, very sorry to hear about ur loss
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    Quote Originally Posted by Bigen12
    My wife and I went to the DR's office yesterday, and after the sonogram, we were informed that we had lost the baby.

    The DR said that it was a chromosome abnormality, and that there was nothing that we did wrong, or could have done to save the baby.

    Damn man that sucks. Keep your head up though and keep your girl comforted im sure everything will be ok. My wife has problems with her uterous and doc says if we have kids it will be a miracle.
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    Sorry for your loss bro. Its a tough thing to go through. As tough as it is, you have got to be there for your wife. I am sure you will be Bless one day soon. Good Luck now and in the future.
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    sorry to her bro....
    good luck in the future with it.....
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  29. 09-02-2005, 09:15 PM #29
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    i'm sorry to hear that bro.

    keep your chin up man.
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    I am so very sorry to hear that. so sad...
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    oHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH MANN... Seriously you can't understand how bad I feel for you and your wife... Im soooo sorry. My prayers go out for you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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    Sorry to hear that, hun. Remember what the doctor said, and don't blame yourself. Don't give up trying. It'll happen for ya! My prayers are with you and your wife!
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    Damn brother, I'm so sorry to hear that... Keep your chin up and be strong for your wife.

    You're both in my thoughts.
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    So sorry to hear about your loss bro. Try and keep your chin up. Will you be trying for another in the future?
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    im very sorry to hear of your loss. unfortunately everything in life is a plan and though we cannot see the reasons for things now, and you are sad, better days will come and when the time is right you will be blessed with a beautiful healthy child.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Bigen12
    My wife and I went to the DR's office yesterday, and after the sonogram, we were informed that we had lost the baby.

    The DR said that it was a chromosome abnormality, and that there was nothing that we did wrong, or could have done to save the baby.
    My condolences. I'm sure the maker has it in His plans. It's a mystery.
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    my heart goes out to you and your wife i coulnt ever imagine the pain
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    Quote Originally Posted by Bigen12
    My wife and I went to the DR's office yesterday, and after the sonogram, we were informed that we had lost the baby.

    The DR said that it was a chromosome abnormality, and that there was nothing that we did wrong, or could have done to save the baby.
    i'm sorry bro
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    Quote Originally Posted by Bigen12
    My wife and I went to the DR's office yesterday, and after the sonogram, we were informed that we had lost the baby.

    The DR said that it was a chromosome abnormality, and that there was nothing that we did wrong, or could have done to save the baby.
    My brother and his wife lost their first one about a year in a half ago when she was like 6 months in. Everyone had a sad heavy feeling on their chest. Try to keep your head up man and look ahead.
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