To all my friends here.

**Elysium** · 09-21-2005, 05:41 PM

Time has come for me to officially leave.

Some of you know what i have gone through these past years, some of you have helped, offered support and encouragement.

Met some good people here, made alot of friends, originally joining like most of you, to obtain information on bodybuilding and such, the thing that kept me here was the community of people, the friendship, personality and feeling of being part of something positive.

Well, a few months ago, my mother ended up in prison. She got 2 years, for dealing Heroin. (Article can be found here: http://archive.thisiswiltshire.co.uk.../18/81983.html). Which has left myself and my brother with no where to live, ive had to start again, get somewhere to live, house and feed my brother and I.

I'll stick around for tonight, but i guess thats all i need to say.

- Messy

**symatech** · 09-21-2005, 05:46 PM

shit. I hope things pick up for you soon. sorry for all the drama you are going through, I really hope it works out.

**needmorestrength** · 09-21-2005, 05:47 PM

Well why would you want to leave? Will you not have the internet? Awwww bro, life sucks sometimes!

**Elysium** · 09-21-2005, 05:49 PM

Just getting a bit much, ive had to get my own place and support both my brother and i, which is expensive stuff. Got so much to do, so many out goings, so many worrys. Won't be on the net for quite a while, so ive had to give some things up, AR is unfortunately one of them things.

Life is just shit mate, no matter what anyone tells you, it just sucks.

**31uniform** · 09-21-2005, 05:50 PM

Good luck brotha.

**crazykris6** · 09-21-2005, 05:53 PM

Sorry about everything. I hope everything turns around for you. Hope to hear that you are doing good and see you in the future on the sites.

**damiongage** · 09-21-2005, 05:53 PM

we all are going to have to leave somtime. I have not been around in a while...come back when you can.....Good luck Bro

**SMYL_GR8** · 09-21-2005, 05:55 PM

Messy, you ARE one of my favorites. This is the first I heard of your trouble. Best of luck to you. No cliches, just my best wishes.

**Bryan2** · 09-21-2005, 05:57 PM

Things get worse yes

**Bryan2** · 09-21-2005, 05:58 PM

sometimes it takes a long long time

**Bryan2** · 09-21-2005, 05:58 PM

But they do turn around eventually TIME IS ALWAYS THE BEST ANSWER

**Bryan2** · 09-21-2005, 06:00 PM

Good Luck with your lifes journeys I hope soon you come to the understanding that teaches you even more about it and how to deal with all situations to come with that much more ease

**PaRiS2005** · 09-21-2005, 06:02 PM

Messy, my prayers are with you and your family. Sometimes life throws us unexpected twists and turns and it seems that NOTHING will suffice the pain, but you will rise above it and be stronger in the end. Best of luck to you!

**Elysium** · 09-21-2005, 06:04 PM

Damn guys, i appriciate your support, i'll be alright i guess. Just one more thing life has hit me with to try and test me! I'll stay around for tonight, then im off. Those who know me well enough have me on msn, i'll try and sign on in an internet cafe now and again.

**needmorestrength** · 09-21-2005, 06:07 PM

I will talk to you whenever you can sign on.. Your putting your brother ahead of your own needs/wants! You have strong maternal instincts and I truly hope your brother appreciates it man!! Thing ALWAYS eventually get better. They may get worse but they WILL get better

**TheMudMan** · 09-21-2005, 06:26 PM

Sorry to hear that........... Times like these are what helps make a man out of most and it looks like you are doing what needs to be done. Good luck and I hope all works out for you and your family.

**J.S.N.** · 09-21-2005, 06:52 PM

i'm very sorry to hear that messy. obviously i hope you get on here from time to time in the future, but if you don't i wish you all the best in this tough time you have coming up.

**LAW** · 09-21-2005, 06:55 PM

I don't know you but I wish you the very best and stay strong for your brother. It must be very difficult for you both.

**SwoleCat** · 09-21-2005, 06:57 PM

Originally Posted by MESSY_UK

Life is just shit mate, no matter what anyone tells you, it just sucks.

Not true.

Life is what you make it.

You will have tough times, everyone does, but you can always get through those.

~SC~

**Hackamaniac** · 09-21-2005, 07:05 PM

what doesn't kill you just makes you stronger so good luck and you'll be fine.

**decadbal** · 09-21-2005, 08:22 PM

dont let a little game like life beat you down brother.. i hope things will get better, everything hard in life is to show what the good stuff really is, take it like a grain of salt, i wish and pray the best for you and yours, were always here bro. some come when you can. god bless

**Elysium** · 09-21-2005, 08:25 PM

Thanks guys. Well, its 3:30am in the UK.

Time to call it a day.

**bor** · 09-22-2005, 01:28 AM

Good luck bro! Keep your head up, things will get better!

**Schwarz** · 09-22-2005, 03:48 AM

Originally Posted by MESSY_UK

Just getting a bit much, ive had to get my own place and support both my brother and i, which is expensive stuff. Got so much to do, so many out goings, so many worrys. Won't be on the net for quite a while, so ive had to give some things up, AR is unfortunately one of them things.

Life is just shit mate, no matter what anyone tells you, it just sucks.

Sorry to hear that dude. I take from the article you're in the UK. Check out your local public library. A lot of the time they have free internet access. Better than nothing.

Good luck bro
S

**Bigen12** · 09-22-2005, 04:52 AM

I understand your decision Bro.

It's good to know that you have your head on straight and are facing your problems and dealing with them.

Just don't forget the path that brought you to this little community, because it will be here when things start getting easier to deal with.

Good luck my Friend.

**Juggernaut** · 09-22-2005, 05:19 AM

Sorry to hear about your troubles Messy. You're a good bro for looking out for your brother. Try to keep positive and move forward......Swole is correct M8 life is what you make of it. Best to you Bro.