Steroids and Relationships

**dr_skier** · 02-02-2006, 03:10 AM

Ok I'm sure this isn't a new issue folks. Me and my girl got into a bit of an arguement the other day, she wants me to come off, I told her i have another couple months (been on 3 months now). She didn't give me an ultimatum or anything like that; but i thought she might, then i thought what i would do. Has anyone here been forced to pick? Or has the bodybuilding lifestlye been the aspect of any relatiionship problems or failures?

**IBdmfkr** · 02-02-2006, 03:22 AM

Kinda curious why she is insisting you come off (aggression, short fuse, little balls?) Also, how is it her place to tell you what you can and can't do, that's what you mommy is for.

**Kale** · 02-02-2006, 03:23 AM

Get back in the kitchen biatch !!!!!

**dr_skier** · 02-02-2006, 03:33 AM

haha, little balls probably, but that's not a concern and a short fuse, only on the road. Probably has to do in part with my over-retarded sex drive that might make her feel like a bit of a personal blow up doll. I mean, she just asked me, wasn't really much of a situation or anything, my mind just started wondering on the what if's ya know. It wont be an issue now, but when i go back on say in six months, i can see a possible confrontation... but hey, if i can hide it from family..........................................

**IBdmfkr** · 02-02-2006, 03:48 AM

lol, If you gotta hide it then it's time for her to go IMO. I mean, who is gonna give you your rear delt shots.

**ChiTownTommy** · 02-02-2006, 11:41 AM

tell her tough shit and your going to do what you damn well want too.

**legobricks** · 02-02-2006, 11:50 AM

My girl is the same way. The reason she doestn want me to do it is because its illegal. Im still trying to find a way to get s script from a doctor...hahah. But in the mean time, Im going to hide it. hey man, blame it on superdrol or pheraplex. Make sure you have a couple of bottles and every day take a pill out and put it in a bag. OR OR OR OR OR heres a good one!>>>>>Dump both bottles into a bag, then fill both bottles up with some vitamins before she sees them!!!!!!!! AHHHHHH my new plan!!!!

**legobricks** · 02-02-2006, 11:51 AM

This way she can say... alright, let me see you take one! Then you can just take your daily vitamin in front of her! Its perfect!

***G-1000*** · 02-02-2006, 12:16 PM

man i would tell het to hit the road. Just for the fact that she thinks she can give ultimatum's

**legobricks** · 02-02-2006, 12:49 PM

Some women. pshhh.......
Just kidding ladies.

**legobricks** · 02-02-2006, 12:51 PM

Originally Posted by gsxxr

man i would tell het to hit the road. Just for the fact that she thinks she can give ultimatum's

I would say this if it were only a couple months into a relationship. but what would you say about a couple years? Just curious as to what ya think!

**Anabolic CEO** · 02-02-2006, 12:54 PM

Yeah i have mood swings too when i am on, that obviously normal, she always says, i don't like them....them......lol. She even threatened to throw my vials away................WHAT.

But she is on clen right now.

**spound** · 02-02-2006, 12:58 PM

When you come off you'll probably have an extremely decreased sex drive, and she will then feel like she isn't "pretty" and will be begging you to get back on gear so you will bang her like a battering ram again

**legobricks** · 02-02-2006, 12:59 PM

Originally Posted by Anabolic CEO

Yeah i have mood swings too when i am on, that obviously normal, she always says, i don't like them....them......lol. She even threatened to throw my vials away................WHAT.

But she is on clen right now.

She has double standards!!!! I am trying to get my girl on clen sometime so I can throw it in her face. I am SLOWLEY but shirley making her warm up to it. I never had her touch my stuff though

that sucks. My girls exact comments are, "You can do them, I dont care but I wont be around anymore." well, I calmly told her. "Of course not baby! I dont want you to go! (as im thinking to myself about doing another cycle.) Im very bad i know.

**lucabratzi** · 02-02-2006, 01:00 PM

Originally Posted by Anabolic CEO

Yeah i have mood swings too when i am on, that obviously normal, she always says, i don't like them....them......lol. She even threatened to throw my vials away................WHAT.

But she is on clen right now.

oooo. thats a no no. she does that and she is asking for a mood swing...

**BuffHottieNtheMaking** · 02-02-2006, 02:13 PM

Originally Posted by Anabolic CEO

Yeah i have mood swings too when i am on, that obviously normal, she always says, i don't like them....them......lol. She even threatened to throw my vials away................WHAT.

But she is on clen right now.

Yes.. ok I did threaten to do that... but... the vials are the only thing that, when he is on, that matter to him... and when you threaten to lose those... then the attitude shapes up...
But actually most of the time I just said... hey look at what you are saying right now... doesn't that just sound crazy that you want to fight about this... and he agrees and it is over... we usually laugh about it later...
And there is always the alone time idea... I just go lay in the bedroom and watch tv and he can roam the rest of the house and pout until he is done...

**63190** · 02-02-2006, 02:21 PM

Originally Posted by legobricks

My girl is the same way. The reason she doestn want me to do it is because its illegal. Im still trying to find a way to get s script from a doctor...hahah. But in the mean time, Im going to hide it. hey man, blame it on superdrol or pheraplex. Make sure you have a couple of bottles and every day take a pill out and put it in a bag. OR OR OR OR OR heres a good one!>>>>>Dump both bottles into a bag, then fill both bottles up with some vitamins before she sees them!!!!!!!! AHHHHHH my new plan!!!!

But what about injectables? Who's going to give him the rear delt shots.
And glute shots always make me cramp up. Twisting around, wiping, z tracking, aspirating, injecting s l o w l y, then wiping again and putting a bandaid on.

**hoss827** · 02-02-2006, 02:27 PM

Ditch the bitch, bang her friends.

Words of Wisdom from HOSS.

**LAGMuXle** · 02-02-2006, 03:34 PM

I don't even want to get started with my girlfriend.

She will argue to her death she doesn't want me to do steroids , she has threatened in the past to break up with me if I do, and I simply told her:

"That's fine, do as you wish. Just remember that you broke up trying to force me to stop doing what I want to do."

I gave her quite a speech, but that's the idea.

I told her that It's my life, I will live it how I want to.

MUX

**Tren Bull** · 02-02-2006, 04:03 PM

i dont care how much i love a woman, if she were to tell me to stop roiding id say hell no. and if she threatened to leave me if i dont stop, id still do cycles. and id tell the girl that if she wants to leave then she can cause i will never stop taking gear. fortuneately for me, i instictivly treat my woman like a queen, and that always causes the girl to fall in love with me. that gives me a little leverage in a situation like this. ive never had to deal with that sh_t though, all my woman have been fairly understanding of my steroid use .

**Mizfit** · 02-02-2006, 08:30 PM

oh my u guys sound like bitches..

anyhow.. have u tried yoga? i heard its therapeutic

Try to find something that calms u down..

But your women shouldnt make u chose.. get them to do some research to develop a better understanding of what your doing

**Tren Bull** · 02-02-2006, 08:46 PM

Originally Posted by Mizfit

oh my u guys sound like bitches..

anyhow.. have u tried yoga? i heard its therapeutic

Try to find something that calms u down..

But your women shouldnt make u chose.. get them to do some research to develop a better understanding of what your doing

now thats not very nice

**Diezed** · 02-02-2006, 08:50 PM

damn bro be a man put your f***ing foot down. Why are u asking strangers what you should do with YOUR life. live it how U want to live it not like how others want you to live.

**Tren Bull** · 02-02-2006, 08:53 PM

Originally Posted by Diezed

damn bro be a man put your f***ing foot down. Why are u asking strangers what you should do with YOUR life. live it how U want to live it not like how others want you to live.

he didn't ask anyone what he should do, he was asking if anyone had dealt with the same type of situation

**Got Insulin?** · 02-02-2006, 08:54 PM

id always pick gear over the women for the simple fact if a girl broke up with me for some stupid reason such as gear , then they arent supportive and the relationship wasnt very imperative to her to begin with

**Got Insulin?** · 02-02-2006, 08:55 PM

bitches will always be bitches

**dr_skier** · 02-04-2006, 03:50 PM

Deized, just seeing if gear has ever caused any relationship problems. My girl certainly has never told me what to do or how to live my life.

(there is an exception however, after making her watch 3 seasons of xfiles last weekend, she tricked me into seeiing brokeback mountian last night, let me tell you, she's watching another 3 seasons of x-files next weekend)

**thegodfather** · 02-04-2006, 05:20 PM

I think it comes down to how much your relationship means to you...In my case, I value my relationship more than the juice. Theres probably some things that your girlfriend may do that you wouldn't want her to, and hopefully she would abide by your wishes. My girlfriend is strongly against me juicin, I've tried everything to talk her into it...She's finally coming around with it and seems like she'll be ok with the idea pretty soon. I dont know that you should ever pick a substance of any kind over someone you love. Maybe I sound like a pussy...but to be honest I love my girl and she's more important than anything. Relationships are a lot about compromise...

**USfighterFC** · 02-04-2006, 06:37 PM

I have a great relationship with my steroids and never seem to have any problems, no arguments, no jealousy. I'm good.

**Tren Bull** · 02-04-2006, 06:57 PM

Originally Posted by USfighterFC

I have a great relationship with my steroids and never seem to have any problems, no arguments, no jealousy. I'm good.

haha yea, my steroids are always there for me too. im thinking of proposing to dianabol

**decadbal** · 02-04-2006, 07:02 PM

id find one thing she does, smoke, drink, drink soft drinks, something she enjoys, or finds important enough to do or risk the things we do... and ask her to stop.. if she doenst, then id hold that over her head, she wont understand, you prolly dont, she is asking you to give up something that you know isnt unsafe, so ask her to do the same thing.. its retarded when someone with no knowledges expects you to change bc of rumors