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    Quote Originally Posted by Carlos_E
    Reading this and other posts you've made, you're very negative.

    I like to call it ummmm......realistic. So NY and Madrid huh? Well, after you've shot away thousands on plane tickets and then realize that you ****ed yourself by living in a fantasy world, then maybe we can read one of your negative posts huh? I'm tired of this shit, there are probably 20 others who told this guy in this thread it was a bad idea and gave their reasons why, and you wanna single me out and jump my shit?

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    For most it cant work. I dont think i'd deal with it too well at all. I enjoy being able to see my girl all the time, having her sleep next to me (or across me, or with her feet in my throat, etc etc), throwin around a baseball with her, workin' out with her.

    It wouldnt interest me to have her 4-5 hours away all the time. I enjoy hanging out with her and having her around.

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    k everyone has valid points but i do live in the most densely populated state first off (NJ) and im hit on wouldnt say PLENTY but more than average we'll say and i noticed my problem (not saying this is his problem but just offering a different perspective) is that im bored with routine girls, i just want you people to realize basic first fact one. THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH YOUR LOCAL GIRLS. You dont like them cause your use to them, cause you KNOW them and you realize all thier faults. Do you not think the southerners suffer this same epidemic and hunger for some good northern pu tang?? Its the grass is greener in someone elses back yard cliche. Its mental masturbation, your playing head games with yourself. Im one of the pickiest people i know and realize that i cant find a good girl its because IM NOT LOOKING FOR HER. You have to reach out your normal range of social interaction and strive for something different and in that you will find your different/"quality" girl. And if you cant find a damn quality girl call me the hell up and ill find her for you.. no joke.

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    i would not be a good candidate for long distance relationship, unless my cock can reach the distance.

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    Quote Originally Posted by stayinstacked
    Nope, nada, never, it just doesnt work. Anybody can be a certain way over the phone or tell you what you wanna hear, but they arent devoting themselves to you 100%. Something else comes along that's closer and its over, even if closer means half as good and as true as yourself they'll go for it. Your doing nothing but wasting a bunch of time. Stop telling yourself it might be "the one". Thats a load of bullshit, their are plenty of women that might be "the one" What my question to you is, did you get some ass from her on your trip? I mean, thats the most important thing right there, that you got some ass on your vacation. And if you did then you def dont wanna keep contacting her. Who the **** wants a chick who'll give it up on her vacation hardly knowing you. Sluts bro, sluts.
    Just my two cents, but whether a girl gives it up on vacation I really don't think that qualifies as being a slut. That is no kind of indicator. You would rather date a girl for 3 weeks first, then one day she comes home with the leather and chains, then what. My opinion leather and chains are in.

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    yeh i consider the word "slut" just another one of those degrading labels men use against woman to ensure that we get less and less pussy in the future. lets punish them for having sex with us by attaching these labels to them than bitch and complain when we're not gettn laid.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bojangles69
    yeh i consider the word "slut" just another one of those degrading labels men use against woman to ensure that we get less and less pussy in the future. lets punish them for having sex with us by attaching these labels to them than bitch and complain when we're not gettn laid.

    Giving it up quick just means that she'll give it up quick the next time. For example, look at how many people get in an argument or break up for a couple days, then realize they've made a mistake and try to make up and forgive one another, but now they cant work it out b/ the 2 days they were apart somebody went and ****ed somebody else. It's never the same again after something like that. I tend to look into future things that may occur being w/ a girl who gives it up quick.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Carlos_E
    Reading this and other posts you've made, you're very negative.

    Quote Originally Posted by stayinstacked
    I like to call it ummmm......realistic. So NY and Madrid huh? Well, after you've shot away thousands on plane tickets and then realize that you ****ed yourself by living in a fantasy world, then maybe we can read one of your negative posts huh? I'm tired of this shit, there are probably 20 others who told this guy in this thread it was a bad idea and gave their reasons why, and you wanna single me out and jump my shit?
    It's not what you say, but how you say it. I don't think I've seen you start one positive thread. Your posts are always you ranting about something. So lets not pretend I'm the first person on here to call you negative.
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    Quote Originally Posted by stayinstacked
    Giving it up quick just means that she'll give it up quick the next time. For example, look at how many people get in an argument or break up for a couple days, then realize they've made a mistake and try to make up and forgive one another, but now they cant work it out b/ the 2 days they were apart somebody went and ****ed somebody else. It's never the same again after something like that. I tend to look into future things that may occur being w/ a girl who gives it up quick.
    So what your saying that if she doesn't give it up to until lets say 3 weeks then she is ok for you. However if before you met her she gave up to a few in one night stands but you don't know about it.
    The fact is you just really never know, but you maybe able to tell when you see who her girlfriends are. When women ask how many girls have I slept with, isn't a subject that I would talk about because it will go nowhere and I won't ask those questions either because I am not that insecure.

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    the fact is... even though juicy fruit is labeled as so, it really doesnt taste like fruit

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    Quote Originally Posted by stayinstacked
    Giving it up quick just means that she'll give it up quick the next time. For example, look at how many people get in an argument or break up for a couple days, then realize they've made a mistake and try to make up and forgive one another, but now they cant work it out b/ the 2 days they were apart somebody went and ****ed somebody else. It's never the same again after something like that. I tend to look into future things that may occur being w/ a girl who gives it up quick.
    giving it up quick can mean a multitude of things, number one thing being.. shes a FEMALE with a HEALTHY sex drive who is not afraid to have sex cause men with your state of mind put a label on her cause you do not understand her behavoir. we put labels on things in order to reduce confusion, so we can categorize shit... and then she meets a man like me who who doesnt scold women for acting out on desires that keeps our race progressing, for doing the most natural thing in the world. men dominate society and scare woman with labels that supress desires we are alowed to express cause we are physically stronger than them, cause since the cave man era we would club them over thier head drag them into a cave and have our way with them. we do the same crap now in days indirectly. my main point here being intelligence, that if i fight with a girl and she goes and sleeps with someone else I DONT CARE, cause she is stupid, its her loss, she knew from day one when things got serious if she ever cheated shed be out and i have no problem justifying in my head that i have lost absolutely nothing but someone who wasnt smart enough to figure out what a catch i was so **** her. but what do i know.. im only 23.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Carlos_E
    That's not true. I'm in a city with millions and I get hit on plenty and there is NO ONE here that I like. It's the quality of the people I don't like. His situation could be similar. Locally the women may have qualities he's not looking for.
    I've lived in 4 states over my entire life, the quality of people differ greatly depending on where you are in this country...you read my mind!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Phreak101
    I've lived in 4 states over my entire life, the quality of people differ greatly depending on where you are in this country...you read my mind!
    yeh the quality DIFFERS is the whole point im tryn to make yet the quality is not BETTER or WORSE in any given area. If the quality of people your seeking lies in another state or country than by all means hop on a plane and go find your soul mate. But you will find after the years pass by you will grow to realize the only quality that truely appealed to you was that you didnt know the women and you were seduced by the UNKNOWN and at some point youll say hey the only thing really different about these brauds is they speak with an accent and dont shave thier arm pits or w/e but all women can be be bitches and all woman can be sweet and it really doesnt matter where they come from.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bojangles69
    yeh the quality DIFFERS is the whole point im tryn to make yet the quality is not BETTER or WORSE in any given area. If the quality of people your seeking lies in another state or country than by all means hop on a plane and go find your soul mate. But you will find after the years pass by you will grow to realize the only quality that truely appealed to you was that you didnt know the women and you were seduced by the UNKNOWN and at some point youll say hey the only thing really different about these brauds is they speak with an accent and dont shave thier arm pits or w/e but all women can be be bitches and all woman can be sweet and it really doesnt matter where they come from.
    You TOTALLY missed the point. It's not about accents or being "exotic."

    I don't know about Phreak101 but at least for me it's about culture, morals and personality. People reared in different areas think differently, act differently, have different moral values and belief systems. I do not find a lot of people in NYC who think, act and have similar belief systems as I do. I look at the friendships I have here. Most of my very close friends are not from NYC, they moved here as I did. For me, I happen to meet someone from another country who I have a lot in common with. It's not that I went looking for someone from there or I think the accent is cool.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Carlos_E
    You TOTALLY missed the point. It's not about accents or being "exotic."

    I don't know about Phreak101 but at least for me it's about culture, morals and personality. People reared in different areas think differently, act differently, have different moral values and belief systems. I do not find a lot of people in NYC who think, act and have similar belief systems as I do. I look at the friendships I have here. Most of my very close friends are not from NYC, they moved here as I did. For me, I happen to meet someone from another country who I have a lot in common with. It's not that I went looking for someone from there or I think the accent is cool.
    where are you originally from??

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    Quote Originally Posted by Carlos_E
    You TOTALLY missed the point. It's not about accents or being "exotic."

    I don't know about Phreak101 but at least for me it's about culture, morals and personality. People reared in different areas think differently, act differently, have different moral values and belief systems. I do not find a lot of people in NYC who think, act and have similar belief systems as I do. I look at the friendships I have here. Most of my very close friends are not from NYC, they moved here as I did. For me, I happen to meet someone from another country who I have a lot in common with. It's not that I went looking for someone from there or I think the accent is cool.
    He is absolutely right. For example, Chicago is full of Italians and Polish people. Nothing against either, as I love em both, they have a lot of good qualities to add to the table. But the ethnic background coupled with the personality and standard of living associated with the area can be different from what I am looking for. I got along MUCH better with people when I lived in NJ for some reason.

    So Bojangles you do make a good point, but I've lived in over 14 cities in 4 states; geography, population density, ethnicity, etc. can make a huge difference in the quality of life for someone like myself, simply because I tend to mesh with more laid back people, as opposed to the go go go attitude of big city life like here in Chicago. Just my 2c's

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    went oput with a girl for 4 years and for two of that was when we were in college that sucked and did not work at all, every day she would find somthing to yell at me about and would drive me nuts because she would talk about going out and there was nothing i could do about it and to hear guys in the background would make me want to drive back up toi Chicago and kick some ones ass. ITt is very stressfull but if there is a will there is a way. Needless to say things did noit work out.

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    just have a gf who lives close and her far away

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    Quote Originally Posted by ChiTownTommy
    went oput with a girl for 4 years and for two of that was when we were in college that sucked and did not work at all, every day she would find somthing to yell at me about and would drive me nuts because she would talk about going out and there was nothing i could do about it and to hear guys in the background would make me want to drive back up toi Chicago and kick some ones ass. ITt is very stressfull but if there is a will there is a way. Needless to say things did noit work out.
    Doesn't sound like you two had much trust. Long distance or 1 block away a relationship won't work without it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by decadbal
    just have a gf who lives close and her far away
    I've got ho's......(I've got hooooo's)..in different area codes!

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    Quote Originally Posted by decadbal
    just have a gf who lives close and her far away
    same f'n thing she would be doing!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by decadbal
    just have a gf who lives close and her far away
    Quote Originally Posted by timvds
    same f'n thing she would be doing!!
    Don't say these things. I'm paranoid enough as it is. *Covering ears* *LA LA LA LA LA LA I can't hear you!*
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    Quote Originally Posted by Carlos_E
    Don't say these things. I'm paranoid enough as it is. *Covering ears* *LA LA LA LA LA LA I can't hear you!*
    Or maybe I should say same f'in thing I would be doing..

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    I'm proof that it works for some...at least so far.

    My girl and I are both from AZ...spent a few months together before I moved to MA. We've been together for 3 years at this point, and the second i finish school, i'll be flying home to her.

    Thing is, we're very similar in our beliefs/attitudes towards things. We're both in professional school and are both very busy. Because we're both so busy, we don't get upset at each other for not having enough time to talk, etc. We know there are times where one of us is going to be too busy to have a very long conversation at night, so we can't get mad about it.

    We talk at least once a day on the phone, plus random emails. We see each other every month, or every other month at best. It works for us.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cb25
    I'm proof that it works for some...at least so far.

    My girl and I are both from AZ...spent a few months together before I moved to MA. We've been together for 3 years at this point, and the second i finish school, i'll be flying home to her.

    Thing is, we're very similar in our beliefs/attitudes towards things. We're both in professional school and are both very busy. Because we're both so busy, we don't get upset at each other for not having enough time to talk, etc. We know there are times where one of us is going to be too busy to have a very long conversation at night, so we can't get mad about it.

    We talk at least once a day on the phone, plus random emails. We see each other every month, or every other month at best. It works for us.
    im happy for you bro, really alot of times ppl dont make it, or arnt happy with things, and im glad to see someone is making it.. gives others hope..

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    Quote Originally Posted by decadbal
    im happy for you bro, really alot of times ppl dont make it, or arnt happy with things, and im glad to see someone is making it.. gives others hope..
    thanks man, i appreciate it...and i'd consider myself extremely lucky.

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    I am in a LDR and it can work. It has already been said in this thread: it depends how bad you want it, the commitment level, etc. You both have to have the same dedication and loyalty. Trust is a big issue. You either trust each other or you don't. That simple.
    I also agree with the meeting each other whenever you can. Schedule meetings give you both something to look forward to. Meeting my man every couple of weeks is not an option as he is in Iraq. That is what the webcam is for. Weekly "meetings" keep us going.

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