Thread: Long Distance Relationships?
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02-05-2006, 10:19 AM #41Originally Posted by Carlos_E
I like to call it ummmm......realistic. So NY and Madrid huh? Well, after you've shot away thousands on plane tickets and then realize that you ****ed yourself by living in a fantasy world, then maybe we can read one of your negative posts huh? I'm tired of this shit, there are probably 20 others who told this guy in this thread it was a bad idea and gave their reasons why, and you wanna single me out and jump my shit?
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02-05-2006, 10:23 AM #42
For most it cant work. I dont think i'd deal with it too well at all. I enjoy being able to see my girl all the time, having her sleep next to me (or across me, or with her feet in my throat, etc etc), throwin around a baseball with her, workin' out with her.
It wouldnt interest me to have her 4-5 hours away all the time. I enjoy hanging out with her and having her around.
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02-05-2006, 10:25 AM #43
k everyone has valid points but i do live in the most densely populated state first off (NJ) and im hit on wouldnt say PLENTY but more than average we'll say and i noticed my problem (not saying this is his problem but just offering a different perspective) is that im bored with routine girls, i just want you people to realize basic first fact one. THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH YOUR LOCAL GIRLS. You dont like them cause your use to them, cause you KNOW them and you realize all thier faults. Do you not think the southerners suffer this same epidemic and hunger for some good northern pu tang?? Its the grass is greener in someone elses back yard cliche. Its mental masturbation, your playing head games with yourself. Im one of the pickiest people i know and realize that i cant find a good girl its because IM NOT LOOKING FOR HER. You have to reach out your normal range of social interaction and strive for something different and in that you will find your different/"quality" girl. And if you cant find a damn quality girl call me the hell up and ill find her for you.. no joke.
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02-05-2006, 11:48 AM #44
i would not be a good candidate for long distance relationship, unless my cock can reach the distance.
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02-05-2006, 12:19 PM #45Originally Posted by stayinstacked
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02-05-2006, 01:32 PM #46
yeh i consider the word "slut" just another one of those degrading labels men use against woman to ensure that we get less and less pussy in the future. lets punish them for having sex with us by attaching these labels to them than bitch and complain when we're not gettn laid.
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02-05-2006, 01:38 PM #47Originally Posted by Bojangles69
Giving it up quick just means that she'll give it up quick the next time. For example, look at how many people get in an argument or break up for a couple days, then realize they've made a mistake and try to make up and forgive one another, but now they cant work it out b/ the 2 days they were apart somebody went and ****ed somebody else. It's never the same again after something like that. I tend to look into future things that may occur being w/ a girl who gives it up quick.
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02-05-2006, 04:25 PM #48Originally Posted by Carlos_E
Originally Posted by stayinstackedMuscle Asylum Project Athlete
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02-05-2006, 07:04 PM #49Originally Posted by stayinstacked
The fact is you just really never know, but you maybe able to tell when you see who her girlfriends are. When women ask how many girls have I slept with, isn't a subject that I would talk about because it will go nowhere and I won't ask those questions either because I am not that insecure.
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02-05-2006, 07:27 PM #50
the fact is... even though juicy fruit is labeled as so, it really doesnt taste like fruit
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02-05-2006, 07:54 PM #51Originally Posted by stayinstacked
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02-05-2006, 11:58 PM #52Originally Posted by Carlos_E
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02-06-2006, 08:06 PM #53Originally Posted by Phreak101
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02-06-2006, 10:24 PM #54Originally Posted by Bojangles69
I don't know about Phreak101 but at least for me it's about culture, morals and personality. People reared in different areas think differently, act differently, have different moral values and belief systems. I do not find a lot of people in NYC who think, act and have similar belief systems as I do. I look at the friendships I have here. Most of my very close friends are not from NYC, they moved here as I did. For me, I happen to meet someone from another country who I have a lot in common with. It's not that I went looking for someone from there or I think the accent is cool.Muscle Asylum Project Athlete
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02-06-2006, 10:31 PM #55Originally Posted by Carlos_E
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02-07-2006, 10:58 AM #56Originally Posted by Carlos_E
So Bojangles you do make a good point, but I've lived in over 14 cities in 4 states; geography, population density, ethnicity, etc. can make a huge difference in the quality of life for someone like myself, simply because I tend to mesh with more laid back people, as opposed to the go go go attitude of big city life like here in Chicago. Just my 2c's
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02-07-2006, 12:46 PM #57
went oput with a girl for 4 years and for two of that was when we were in college that sucked and did not work at all, every day she would find somthing to yell at me about and would drive me nuts because she would talk about going out and there was nothing i could do about it and to hear guys in the background would make me want to drive back up toi Chicago and kick some ones ass. ITt is very stressfull but if there is a will there is a way. Needless to say things did noit work out.
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02-07-2006, 12:47 PM #58
just have a gf who lives close and her far away
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02-07-2006, 12:57 PM #59Originally Posted by ChiTownTommyMuscle Asylum Project Athlete
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02-07-2006, 01:15 PM #60Originally Posted by decadbal
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02-07-2006, 02:05 PM #61Originally Posted by decadbal
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02-07-2006, 02:49 PM #62Originally Posted by decadbalOriginally Posted by timvdsMuscle Asylum Project Athlete
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02-07-2006, 02:52 PM #63Originally Posted by Carlos_E
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02-07-2006, 04:22 PM #64
I'm proof that it works for some...at least so far.
My girl and I are both from AZ...spent a few months together before I moved to MA. We've been together for 3 years at this point, and the second i finish school, i'll be flying home to her.
Thing is, we're very similar in our beliefs/attitudes towards things. We're both in professional school and are both very busy. Because we're both so busy, we don't get upset at each other for not having enough time to talk, etc. We know there are times where one of us is going to be too busy to have a very long conversation at night, so we can't get mad about it.
We talk at least once a day on the phone, plus random emails. We see each other every month, or every other month at best. It works for us.
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02-07-2006, 04:24 PM #65Originally Posted by cb25
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02-07-2006, 04:53 PM #66Originally Posted by decadbal
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02-07-2006, 05:18 PM #67
I am in a LDR and it can work. It has already been said in this thread: it depends how bad you want it, the commitment level, etc. You both have to have the same dedication and loyalty. Trust is a big issue. You either trust each other or you don't. That simple.
I also agree with the meeting each other whenever you can. Schedule meetings give you both something to look forward to. Meeting my man every couple of weeks is not an option as he is in Iraq. That is what the webcam is for. Weekly "meetings" keep us going.
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