Decision I made with a woman

**BARLOW** · 03-20-2006, 10:34 PM

Well I've been seeing this girl for 2 weeks....sweet girl, morals and everything, but still in love with ex.....I told her she had to make a decision and she knew that.....Well they dated 2years and he treated her like shit, but she wanted to try it again even though they have broke up 3 times...well she thinks she made her decision, so I told her thanks for being like every other girl (she said she didnt want to be like them and has personality where she doesnt want anyone to not like her) so i mind ****ed her hard.....Also told her best of luck , and she was really sad and started crying, I was like hey your decision...theres a lot more detail to it but I know you guys hate reading lots of shit, and deep things she said to me which she said she meant, but I said **** it, I dont need this right now, I'm young and got to explore!! I feel like I've had a stone lifted off my chest!
The way I see it happening, they will break up again/ wont work out and she'll be left with nothing and have that major regret she didnt want cuz apparently I was something very special to her..pssh ya right lol!
BUT!! on the brightside!! i know if i get accepted into college tomarrow!!

W000T!!! thats all!

**Bojangles69** · 03-20-2006, 10:50 PM

thats cool but never ever show bitterness "thanks for being like every other girl" on a million levels that little sentence subconciously conveys to both you and her who really is in control..
and so often i hear about jerks who treat women like shit buy 80% of the time they're just confident guys who dont take shit from women (and women love that) and than all the "nice guys" justify it by calling them jerks. theres no nice guys and no jerks, theres no woman who play games and woman who dont play games, theres only attraction and nonattraction, a woman will always be with whom shes attracted to more, says nothing bad about us as people.. just decisions we've learned to make that we need to UNLEARN, and i dont mean to sound harsh i just dont wanna give you the typical "good for you" line.

**Bojangles69** · 03-20-2006, 10:51 PM

if i your about to go to college... THIS IS THE BEST THING THAT WILL EVER HAPPEN TO YOU!!!! ... trust me

**taiboxa** · 03-20-2006, 11:07 PM

use ur katana and get stabby!

**Tren Bull** · 03-21-2006, 12:30 AM

Originally Posted by BARLOW

Well I've been seeing this girl for 2 weeks....sweet girl, morals and everything, but still in love with ex.....I told her she had to make a decision and she knew that.....Well they dated 2years and he treated her like shit, but she wanted to try it again even though they have broke up 3 times...well she thinks she made her decision, so I told her thanks for being like every other girl (she said she didnt want to be like them and has personality where she doesnt want anyone to not like her) so i mind ****ed her hard.....Also told her best of luck , and she was really sad and started crying, I was like hey your decision...theres a lot more detail to it but I know you guys hate reading lots of shit, and deep things she said to me which she said she meant, but I said **** it, I dont need this right now, I'm young and got to explore!! I feel like I've had a stone lifted off my chest!
The way I see it happening, they will break up again/ wont work out and she'll be left with nothing and have that major regret she didnt want cuz apparently I was something very special to her..pssh ya right lol!
BUT!! on the brightside!! i know if i get accepted into college tomarrow!!

W000T!!! thats all!

so shes sprung off you, but you broke up with her anyway?..... good choice bro. god knows ive done that many times myself

**Tren Bull** · 03-21-2006, 12:31 AM

fu_kin women, if i didn't love them so much i would hate them

**SnaX** · 03-21-2006, 01:23 AM

This guy is THE MAN.

**Schwarz** · 03-21-2006, 04:54 AM

Originally Posted by BARLOW

Well I've been seeing this girl for 2 weeks....sweet girl, morals and everything, but still in love with ex.....I told her she had to make a decision and she knew that.....Well they dated 2years and he treated her like shit, but she wanted to try it again even though they have broke up 3 times...well she thinks she made her decision, so I told her thanks for being like every other girl (she said she didnt want to be like them and has personality where she doesnt want anyone to not like her) so i mind ****ed her hard.....Also told her best of luck , and she was really sad and started crying, I was like hey your decision...theres a lot more detail to it but I know you guys hate reading lots of shit, and deep things she said to me which she said she meant, but I said **** it, I dont need this right now, I'm young and got to explore!! I feel like I've had a stone lifted off my chest!
The way I see it happening, they will break up again/ wont work out and she'll be left with nothing and have that major regret she didnt want cuz apparently I was something very special to her..pssh ya right lol!
BUT!! on the brightside!! i know if i get accepted into college tomarrow!!

W000T!!! thats all!

Damn fvcking typical. You were right to get rid of her. Don't worry they all realise in the end....especially when they're laying in hospital with cigarette burns and they're black and blue with a couple of kids and the husband has run off with an 18 year old!!! DAMN FVCKING WOMEN!!!

**scriptfactory** · 03-21-2006, 04:59 AM

Originally Posted by Bojangles69

if i your about to go to college... THIS IS THE BEST THING THAT WILL EVER HAPPEN TO YOU!!!! ... trust me

I agree! From your little story it sounds like you will be MUCH happier.

**Mizfit** · 03-21-2006, 06:26 AM

better for you if she aint over her ex you would've gotten hurt. I went out with a dude this past summer.. who had gone out with someone for 5 years.. I didn't know they had broken up like 5 days before we started going out.. (something he didn't tell me) He didn't still love her but he obviously needed time to be single before we went out and let me tell you he made my life pure hell.. Total control freak.. Tried to turn me into everything she wasn't and i guess because i got caught up in it i kinda let it happen for a bit.

Relationships are hard but dealing with other peoples baggage only makes thinga whole lot worse.

**Pooks** · 03-21-2006, 07:59 AM

Good Job bro..
U're young so maybe some of the lines u used were a bit over the top but..
Hey you're a man, and a decision had to be made.. u made the right decision.

Sometimes i catch "DEAL OR NO DEAL" on TV and watch these doods up there trying to figure out whether to take a good offer.. and u can see that they really would like to take it.. but than they go to the family, and everyone in the family is like "NO DEAL! NO DEAL!" than the idiot listens to them, and most of the times ends up with less money than he would had otherwise.

Listen to them maybe once, take it consideration, but once u get into it seriously deep, no matter what they say, a man should really stick to how he feels, and make the hard decision.

**BARLOW** · 03-21-2006, 08:30 AM

thanks for the feedback bros

she left about 4 voicemails on my phone this morning lol.......leave me alone

**Timm1704** · 03-21-2006, 08:34 AM

Originally Posted by Bojangles69

thats cool but never ever show bitterness "thanks for being like every other girl" on a million levels that little sentence subconciously conveys to both you and her who really is in control..
and so often i hear about jerks who treat women like shit buy 80% of the time they're just confident guys who dont take shit from women (and women love that) and than all the "nice guys" justify it by calling them jerks. theres no nice guys and no jerks, theres no woman who play games and woman who dont play games, theres only attraction and nonattraction, a woman will always be with whom shes attracted to more, says nothing bad about us as people.. just decisions we've learned to make that we need to UNLEARN, and i dont mean to sound harsh i just dont wanna give you the typical "good for you" line.

they are some great points, i totally agree. it is best to give it time to make sure your over an ex before you get someone elses feelings involved, have been with a girl and split up with her as i still wanted my ex. was completely honest with her, and she was very understanding, even wished me luck and told me how special i was, and not to take any shit from the ex if it did indeed work out. what an amazing girl! but, alas, she didnt really do it for me either.

**Mizfit** · 03-21-2006, 09:15 AM

"Never miss anyone from your past, there’s a reason why they didn’t make it to your future."

**BARLOW** · 03-21-2006, 09:19 AM

Originally Posted by Mizfit

"Never miss anyone from your past, there’s a reason why they didn’t make it to your future."

i like dat shit

kinda like my other fav "some people put up walls, not to keep people out, but to see who cares enough to break through"
im a walled up bastard >< FORT BARLOW

**LB 35** · 03-21-2006, 11:29 AM

Originally Posted by BARLOW

Well I've been seeing this girl for 2 weeks....sweet girl, morals and everything

That doesn't really sound to me like your kind of girl Barlow! Hahaha

**Dally** · 03-21-2006, 11:34 AM

Originally Posted by Bojangles69

thats cool but never ever show bitterness "thanks for being like every other girl" on a million levels that little sentence subconciously conveys to both you and her who really is in control..
and so often i hear about jerks who treat women like shit buy 80% of the time they're just confident guys who dont take shit from women (and women love that) and than all the "nice guys" justify it by calling them jerks. theres no nice guys and no jerks, theres no woman who play games and woman who dont play games, theres only attraction and nonattraction, a woman will always be with whom shes attracted to more, says nothing bad about us as people.. just decisions we've learned to make that we need to UNLEARN, and i dont mean to sound harsh i just dont wanna give you the typical "good for you" line.

Good to see David is working his magic on yet another deciple of the system.

werd.

btw...Mizfit....were goin to get some fukin food later and bang...

call me.

**taiboxa** · 03-21-2006, 11:37 AM

Originally Posted by BARLOW

i like dat shit

kinda like my other fav "some people put up walls, not to keep people out, but to see who cares enough to break through"
im a walled up bastard >< FORT BARLOW

rofl @ fort barlow that makes me think of... ur womb defense concept

a womb is a baby's fort, if a dood is having sex w/ her and a penis is comming str8 for that lil bastard he going to DEFEND HIS WOMB and maul that pecker like a badger!

**BARLOW** · 03-21-2006, 11:42 AM

Lmfao Ur Correct!!

**BARLOW** · 03-21-2006, 11:43 AM

Originally Posted by LB 35

That doesn't really sound to me like your kind of girl Barlow! Hahaha

im sorry ur girlfriend wasnt available

i need to come over there and find me some coolage pussy

**Mizfit** · 03-21-2006, 12:02 PM

Originally Posted by BARLOW

i like dat shit

kinda like my other fav "some people put up walls, not to keep people out, but to see who cares enough to break through"
im a walled up bastard >< FORT BARLOW

I posted that too didnt i

**Mizfit** · 03-21-2006, 12:03 PM

Originally Posted by Dally

Good to see David is working his magic on yet another deciple of the system.

werd.

btw...Mizfit....were goin to get some fukin food later and bang...

call me.

Hmm your a man of words doll face..

**taiboxa** · 03-21-2006, 12:05 PM

Originally Posted by Mizfit

Hmm your a man of words doll face..

he is very suave isnt he!

**Dally** · 03-21-2006, 12:13 PM

Originally Posted by taiboxa

he is very suave isnt he!

so is she tho bro....

that finger smiley....thats code for wanting to be ....'fingered'

shes sexy.

lets go tanning later miz...and make bacon.

**Mizfit** · 03-21-2006, 12:26 PM

Originally Posted by Dally

so is she tho bro....

that finger smiley....thats code for wanting to be ....'fingered'

shes sexy.

lets go tanning later miz...and make bacon.

HMM u can read sign language wow.. impressive

**lucabratzi** · 03-21-2006, 12:54 PM

bro. im goin through the same exact shit right now...she was goin out with a guy for 2 years broke up. then month down the road i came in the picture...then she realizes she doesnt want to be in a relationship and treated me like shit...i dumped her this weekend...i still talk to her though, cause even though she was a bitch when we were goin out, she is a good girl that i can talk to...plus im on test so im alot nicer to people...

**LB 35** · 03-21-2006, 02:53 PM

Originally Posted by BARLOW

im sorry ur girlfriend wasnt available

i need to come over there and find me some coolage pussy

I know a couple fat chicks youd prolly like

**BARLOW** · 03-21-2006, 03:13 PM

Originally Posted by LB 35

I know a couple fat chicks youd prolly like

you know how i roll, maybe next time i come there u wont leave me alone with my bottle of nyquil and vodka so i have to drive 40 minutes home lol!

**Mizfit** · 03-21-2006, 03:15 PM

Originally Posted by BARLOW

you know how i roll, maybe next time i come there u wont leave me alone with my bottle of nyquil and vodka so i have to drive 40 minutes home lol!

i got a fat friend.. one of them u want a peice of her too.. she doesn't see much action and seriously if u take her she won't be so bitchy please

**BARLOW** · 03-21-2006, 03:19 PM

Originally Posted by Mizfit

i got a fat friend.. one of them u want a peice of her too.. she doesn't see much action and seriously if u take her she won't be so bitchy please

i like to ride mopeds.... so ok

number?

**C_Bino** · 03-21-2006, 04:09 PM

Good work on gettin rid of her. Im sure every guy has been thru a situation like that. I know I have, in general I just think girls are messed up. My friend said it best when he said "Guys are in control of their emotions, while girls are controlled by theirs." They are emotional basketcases a lot of the time and cant get control over their emotions and think aboutt hings rationally, just go by what their emotions are telling them, im sad so im gonna eat chocolate etc etc.

-Bino

**BARLOW** · 03-21-2006, 04:20 PM

News update, new chicks already, thank you

I forgot about her now!

**Liftnainez** · 03-21-2006, 05:31 PM

good shit achi

**Timm1704** · 03-21-2006, 06:34 PM

Originally Posted by C_Bino

Good work on gettin rid of her. Im sure every guy has been thru a situation like that. I know I have, in general I just think girls are messed up. My friend said it best when he said "Guys are in control of their emotions, while girls are controlled by theirs." They are emotional basketcases a lot of the time and cant get control over their emotions and think aboutt hings rationally, just go by what their emotions are telling them, im sad so im gonna eat chocolate etc etc.

-Bino

couldnt agree more, thats a great saying aswell mate