so what was your Lost relationships and how are u guys now

[extreme22]

extreme you sure do know a lot about my penis

lol well shit you talk about ur penis alot in every thread ur penis here your penis there, look if u have to use ur hand or should i say your thumbs
then that explanes why u have a hard time getting laid so my great advice
would be get some A-50 and crush it up and rub it on ur peepe
and that will help it grow but 50 mgs will do for 6 weeks then u can move on to Tren Ace just inject it into the head of ur penis and that will
give it great thickness and remeber to do ur PCT

[AllGearedUp]

My x can go !@#$!@#!@%@#$%@#$%@#$%@#$$%^&#$%@#@#$%@#$@#$%@#$%@ #$%@#$%@#$%@#$%@#$%@#$%@#$.
ahhhhhh feel better.

[extreme22]

lol wow allgearedup u must be on some serious shit lol
u need to stop useing all that A-50 man

[Mizfit]

Learn from the past.. don't live in it

Also ex's are ex's for a reason..

is there someone who affected me.. o you bet your life on it and he will always have a tiny bit of my mind.. but does he still consume me no...

I realize that for the bulk of it we often build up relationships to something they weren't.. i remind myself of this whenever i think about it.

I find that i do tend to date totally different guys though.. there is no freakin connection.. so manybe it's alot easier for me to break from the past.

[Timm1704]

like all have said, we all go through this, and mizfit took the words outta my....fingers? she is an ex for a reason, you WILL get over her. my first proper girlfriend i loved more than any other so far, and i still think about her alot and im not sure why. im definately truly over her no doubt, as its been alomost 2 years since we split, but there was a time when i thought id never get over her. you have to remember the negatives not just the good bits, as there would have been times when u were with her that you just wished you werent in that relationship. i could watch my ex girl blowing another guy whilst getting it in the ass, and it truly wouldnt bother me, but, for some reason, she still plays a cameo role in my thoughts and even my dreams on occasion. whats weird is, she still tries to play mind games with me now, which is more amusing than anything

[D7M]

I can relate, too, bro.

There was this one girl and even now we still talk once in a while, and even though neither of us admit it, we both love each other. And I still think about her sometimes (and yes, have dreams about her, too). That's ok, normal, just dont' let it effect your current (or future) relationships, b/c you don't know what you'll be missing out on.

and Tim1704 is right. if you're really bothered by it, remember the negatives. We always seem to dwell on the positives

[novastepp]

Okay guy's her goes and cant for get my girls
so what were the killer relationship that you wish you could have back
that one person who changed your life but you seem you cant forget them no matter what you do?

ok see i am dating someone but i still love my ex no matter what she is my life we were going to get married and the hole nine yards but i f_ucked it up i just would not change my ways we fought argued i mean
i really treated her bad and i kill my self everyday for it, but us men are so hard headed so anyways she was my life my hole shit and one day she up and left so we both moved on we call each other once in a while but i cant be with this girl when my heart is some were eles i cant do it no more i dont know if i am coming or going the only friend i have is my gear and thats it and my work,
but i just dont know anymore and i cant hurt this girl she is great so i am stuck and even though it has been a year i still love her like it was yestarday so guys time for u to spill ur guts

and ladys you know u know how we cant live with out you

with my ex i immediately deleted her phone number, screen name, and put her pictures away. i immediately surrounded myself with women and became very social again (kind of like being single in the dating game). it really helps because you meet so many new people that you don't sit and stew about just one...who obviously isn't worth your time now...

[AllGearedUp]

lol wow allgearedup u must be on some serious shit lol
u need to stop useing all that A-50 man

She got a job as a dispatcher for a police dept. Within 6 months she was spotted out to dinner with a cop. Was just really hard cause my son was 5 when it happened. Shes tried to reconcile but i dont play games like that. Once a cheat, always a cheat. I wanted to kill the ****er, but cop killing is frowned upon.

[extreme22]

thanks guys like you all said shit happends for a reason thats why they are our ex thanks

[big L 17]

i fell my gf jsut broke up with me saying i was crazy because i through a chair agains the wall and stuff and i dont trust her.ya it hurts and i known i am realy going to regret it plus shes hott as hell.but she was very controlling and my friends didnt like her.she told me stop working out she maybe she wasnt good for me.but ya it hurts.

[Myka]

i fell my gf jsut broke up with me saying i was crazy because i through a chair agains the wall and stuff and i dont trust her.ya it hurts and i known i am realy going to regret it plus shes hott as hell.but she was very controlling and my friends didnt like her.she told me stop working out she maybe she wasnt good for me.but ya it hurts.

your pretty tough for a girl

[AllGearedUp]

Yeah im confused too man. Sonded like she dates woman. Coooool

[big L 17]

lol ya it is tough i do date girls lol

[Myka]

lol ya it is tough i do date girls lol

pics?

j/k

[big L 17]

lol ii wont post them up on here sorry

[USfighterFC]

I'll say my last g/f was the hardest to get over. It's been over 3 years now since we broke up and I still think about her all the time even tho i been dating another girl for a year now. I know that there is no other girl in the world who loved me as much as she did.

[AllGearedUp]

lol ya it is tough i do date girls lol

High 5 babe. We have alot in common already.

[Myka]

I'll say my last g/f was the hardest to get over. It's been over 3 years now since we broke up and I still think about her all the time even tho i been dating another girl for a year now. I know that there is no other girl in the world who loved me as much as she did.

Sounds rough...and I can relate to thinking about someone who you arent around ever...even for a long time...(mine has been over a year I think about her ed) Mind if I ask what happened bro?

[extreme22]

we all have been through this shit but why is it that we do the same thing over and over again, i know there will never be another woman like my ex
who love me like there was no tomorrow, and it hurt to see that one woman that gave a f_uck about me to let her down she will always have my heart till the end of time

[Butterfly23GrL]

Okay guy's her goes and cant for get my girls
so what were the killer relationship that you wish you could have back
that one person who changed your life but you seem you cant forget them no matter what you do?

ok see i am dating someone but i still love my ex no matter what she is my life we were going to get married and the hole nine yards but i f_ucked it up i just would not change my ways we fought argued i mean
i really treated her bad and i kill my self everyday for it, but us men are so hard headed so anyways she was my life my hole shit and one day she up and left so we both moved on we call each other once in a while but i cant be with this girl when my heart is some were eles i cant do it no more i dont know if i am coming or going the only friend i have is my gear and thats it and my work,
but i just dont know anymore and i cant hurt this girl she is great so i am stuck and even though it has been a year i still love her like it was yestarday so guys time for u to spill ur guts

and ladys you know u know how we cant live with out you

aww - i like that part! why does it take guys so long to actually appreciate someone - and why is it always too late? i definitely think that you should let this new girl go because it's not fair to you or to her if you're heart is not all the way in the relationship...think about it - now you're screwing this girl over (but in a different way). Obviously she will be hurt, but let her have the chance to meet someone that really wants to be with her, someone who feels the same way that you do about your ex.

you should let your ex know how you feel. let her see that you realize you f-ed up. The worst she can say is no, but you will never know unless you try. There is no greater feeling than being in-love!

[Butterfly23GrL]

I'll say my last g/f was the hardest to get over. It's been over 3 years now since we broke up and I still think about her all the time even tho i been dating another girl for a year now. I know that there is no other girl in the world who loved me as much as she did.

isn't it crazy how you're broken up with someone, yet you still think of them all of the time? i'm the same way about my ex and I wish I could come up with some magic potion to make me forget!

[Mizfit]

I think relatinships are hard enough as it is too hold on to ones in the past

[USfighterFC]

Sounds rough...and I can relate to thinking about someone who you arent around ever...even for a long time...(mine has been over a year I think about her ed) Mind if I ask what happened bro?

Well she got pregnant by accident. I stood by her side and told her that I would support any decision she makes and I'll be here no matter what. A few days later she got her period for some odd reason and it didnt stop for 2 weeks. We went to the doctors and they couldnt find out what was wrong with her. They thought it was a possible miscarriage. They gave her a sonogram and found out it was an ectopic pregnancy. Meaning the egg was stuck in the fallopian tube and wasn't budging. They said if the egg keeps growing in there, the tube can burst since it is so small and she will die of infections and internal bleeding. We came back to the hospital day after day trying to figure something out but the pregnancy had to be terminated since there was nothing that could be done. The doctor told her if she was in extreme pain that means the tubes still could've burst because it takes time for the medicine to kick in. It was no normal abortion it was just a shot and that was it. Anyway I was headed over her house the next day and she called me up and was in severe pain and was hysterically crying. I got to her house and there was blood all over the floor and she couldnt move. So i picked her up ran down to my car and drove her to the hospital. Doctors were basically working on her all day trying to figure out what was wrong because the fallopian tubes hadnt broken. The whole day I thought she was going to die and I just broke down into tears cuz I couldnt take it anymore, seeing my g/f in that state and in that position. It was terrible. Well they said it was the medicine that caused it and that she was ok to go home after spending 15 hours there. We went home and since that day we were never the same. I just couldnt look her in the eye and not get choked up. And she couldnt look at me and feel the same way she did. So yeah each day I blame myself for all that shit she had to go through and how much it really hurt her to go through all this. I havent spoken to her in years but I know she is still not the same from that. Everyday i wish I could just say how sorry I am and how I wish that we could try to work things out between us, but hey you play the hand your dealt with.

[Myka]

Wow USfighterFC...I dont know what to say...Im sorry that happened...

Im sure youve heard this before but I think it would be good for you to try and talk to her...whatever you decide...peace be with you...

[USfighterFC]

Wow USfighterFC...I dont know what to say...Im sorry that happened...

Im sure youve heard this before but I think it would be good for you to try and talk to her...whatever you decide...peace be with you...

She's moved on with her life, she has had a b/f for a number of years now and lives with him, so I just wish her the best in what she does.

[stunner5000pt]

i knew this girl who was very nice to me and we used to talk for hours on end about everything and i mena everything
i even asked her out but she didnt want to go out with me .. she always had an excuse like 'im taking someone's shift' or 'i have homework to do'

anyway i still meet her every now and then around school and i really dont know what to do...

i still think about her and i think that if i had behaved myself around her (at the time of getting to know her i was in this 'asshole, not give a shit what anyone thinks, ruthlessly honest' phase) i think i would have really been happy with her.

But i dont know what to do...
tell her how i feel?? I ve tried it with another girl in the past and that didnt work out too well...

[ShnouzedUp]

i'm not a fan of relationships... everyone i've been in the girls seem to get too posessive/clingy and insecure... call me shallow and superficial but i don;t see the point in having 1 when you can have as many as you want, without all the bs that goes into actual relationships.

[extreme22]

Well she got pregnant by accident. I stood by her side and told her that I would support any decision she makes and I'll be here no matter what. A few days later she got her period for some odd reason and it didnt stop for 2 weeks. We went to the doctors and they couldnt find out what was wrong with her. They thought it was a possible miscarriage. They gave her a sonogram and found out it was an ectopic pregnancy. Meaning the egg was stuck in the fallopian tube and wasn't budging. They said if the egg keeps growing in there, the tube can burst since it is so small and she will die of infections and internal bleeding. We came back to the hospital day after day trying to figure something out but the pregnancy had to be terminated since there was nothing that could be done. The doctor told her if she was in extreme pain that means the tubes still could've burst because it takes time for the medicine to kick in. It was no normal abortion it was just a shot and that was it. Anyway I was headed over her house the next day and she called me up and was in severe pain and was hysterically crying. I got to her house and there was blood all over the floor and she couldnt move. So i picked her up ran down to my car and drove her to the hospital. Doctors were basically working on her all day trying to figure out what was wrong because the fallopian tubes hadnt broken. The whole day I thought she was going to die and I just broke down into tears cuz I couldnt take it anymore, seeing my g/f in that state and in that position. It was terrible. Well they said it was the medicine that caused it and that she was ok to go home after spending 15 hours there. We went home and since that day we were never the same. I just couldnt look her in the eye and not get choked up. And she couldnt look at me and feel the same way she did. So yeah each day I blame myself for all that shit she had to go through and how much it really hurt her to go through all this. I havent spoken to her in years but I know she is still not the same from that. Everyday i wish I could just say how sorry I am and how I wish that we could try to work things out between us, but hey you play the hand your dealt with.

My heart goes out to you bro i am going through the same shit with my kids mom i have not seen my daughter for 2 yrs even though she lives in Michigan so i understand i cant look my ex in her eyes also but with me i want to kick her ass for putting my daughter through alot of bullshit,
listen the way i see it if God and i know why did i have to bring him into the mix but it is true if god wanted shit to work out it would work out
and i am learning that the hard way but we will all in do time find peace
i am sure of it brother

[extreme22]

i knew this girl who was very nice to me and we used to talk for hours on end about everything and i mena everything
i even asked her out but she didnt want to go out with me .. she always had an excuse like 'im taking someone's shift' or 'i have homework to do'

anyway i still meet her every now and then around school and i really dont know what to do...

i still think about her and i think that if i had behaved myself around her (at the time of getting to know her i was in this 'asshole, not give a shit what anyone thinks, ruthlessly honest' phase) i think i would have really been happy with her.

But i dont know what to do...
tell her how i feel?? I ve tried it with another girl in the past and that didnt work out too well...

all i can say bro u are not finished what u need to do to get ur self ready for a woman look in life some guys got it and some dont
then there are the ones that need to finish what they have started
look all u need to do is be very straight with her but ferm
tell her that i have a thing for her and if she cant respect that and express how she feels she ant right or maybe u need to stop picking the wrong girls

[bigbouncinballs]

whoa... heavy reading.
usfighterfc... i still don't understand why you were at fault or what changed? maybe i missed something

[speedtraining]

I had a two year relationship broke it off cause it was a little costrophobic....maybe ill go back I dont know i'm more interested with getting big and cut right now then anything really.

[USfighterFC]

whoa... heavy reading.
usfighterfc... i still don't understand why you were at fault or what changed? maybe i missed something

Well there's more to the story....I was at fault because over time I saw less and less of her after it was all said and done. She still needed me by her side and really needed someone for support and I wasnt there for her and I became more cold hearted. I dont know why and it's something I'm still ashamed of. After everyting that happened I just needed time to get my shit together. I was young and inexperienced at life and all this was just a huge shock to me. I breezed through the story but we had over 6 sonograms total and spent over 60 hours in the ER in the first 3 days. Oby/Gyno doctor after doctor came in and couldnt find the problem and she's very picky with those doctors and she just felt so violated. It was so much worse than I can really explain.

[Mizfit]

Well there's more to the story....I was at fault because over time I saw less and less of her after it was all said and done. She still needed me by her side and really needed someone for support and I wasnt there for her and I became more cold hearted. I dont know why and it's something I'm still ashamed of. After everyting that happened I just needed time to get my shit together. I was young and inexperienced at life and all this was just a huge shock to me. I breezed through the story but we had over 6 sonograms total and spent over 60 hours in the ER in the first 3 days. Oby/Gyno doctor after doctor came in and couldnt find the problem and she's very picky with those doctors and she just felt so violated. It was so much worse than I can really explain.

Hun what she went through isn’t your fault.. it happens more than you might think and regardless of whether you were there for her or not. She would of been affected by the experience for her entire life.

The impact that a situation like this can have on a woman’s mind is more than most people can imagine. Even when it looks like they are dealing with it well and getting over it. I can guarantee you that there will always be nights / days where the whole event will consume her. It's traumatic for many reasons.

It's funny do you ever notice when ever you go through something there is always someone willing to say, "i know how you feel." The Truth of the matter is unless you have the ability to switch places with that person for even 5 minutes you will never truly know what they are going through or the effect it will have on the rest of their life.

The fact that it's still on your mind though says a lot and maybe you should find some way to achieve closure.

[Temptation]

I'll say my last g/f was the hardest to get over. It's been over 3 years now since we broke up and I still think about her all the time even tho i been dating another girl for a year now. I know that there is no other girl in the world who loved me as much as she did.

Maybe she feels the same way? And doesn't know how to tell you either...

It's not fair to your present girlfriend to be with her when deep down you know you might be settling. She deserves more than that, as do you.

[Mizfit]

Maybe she feels the same way? And doesn't know how to tell you either...

It's not fair to your present girlfriend to be with her when deep down you know you might be settling. She deserves more than that, as do you.

I think there is alot more underlying and it's not really about being fair to his new gf.

We all have to move on from the past, but sadly for some it's harder.

A motto of mine 'you can either live in the past or learn from it."

Possibly there is still some closure required, but doesn't mean all new relationships should end.

[extreme22]

Like i have come to realize is that we need to start treat the ones we love or the ones who have put up with all of our shit and show them some f_ucken respect because belive it or not we only get one shot to make things right
and to all the men that think u are so F_ucken hot that u can get anyone you want remeber, what goes around comes around, with out them females we are fishs with out any water, so u can balst me or flame me i just dont give a F_uck, and for u ladys as well the same thing applies to you to,
so blaaaa haha and i am out of here

[USfighterFC]

Maybe she feels the same way? And doesn't know how to tell you either...

It's not fair to your present girlfriend to be with her when deep down you know you might be settling. She deserves more than that, as do you.

I met up with her about a year and a half ago before I got together with my current g/f. I told her how I feel and she never declined anything but I never said "lets try again" or anything to that effect. She knows how I feel and she was a real sweetheart about it and never was a bitch about anything but I figured I had to move on. With my current girl she's a lot of fun but there is just a connection that isnt there and we're totally different. But we try I guess. Some explanation on that one lol.

[Temptation]

I applaud you for putting forth the very best effort into the new relationship - some are just designed to end up the "friend factor". I am glad to hear that you told her how you felt. The ball is ultimately in her court if she decides that a 2nd change is inevitable for you both.

When I mentioned about being unfair to the latest girlfriend I guess I was putting myself in her shoes - if I was dating a guy and starting to fall in love with him and seeing a future with him... I would be beyond devastated if I found out that as much as he cares for me, I am not his #1 - I would think I'd be given the decency to not be lead on so that I could move on and find the perfect person for me. (This may or may not be the case with you) but... that's where it came from.

[USfighterFC]

I applaud you for putting forth the very best effort into the new relationship - some are just designed to end up the "friend factor". I am glad to hear that you told her how you felt. The ball is ultimately in her court if she decides that a 2nd change is inevitable for you both.

When I mentioned about being unfair to the latest girlfriend I guess I was putting myself in her shoes - if I was dating a guy and starting to fall in love with him and seeing a future with him... I would be beyond devastated if I found out that as much as he cares for me, I am not his #1 - I would think I'd be given the decency to not be lead on so that I could move on and find the perfect person for me. (This may or may not be the case with you) but... that's where it came from.

Thats def understandable. Nobody wants to be number 2. I've moved on in my life knowing I cant dwell on certain things or certain people forever otherwise you'll just drive yourself insane. The girl I'm dating now I love to death but there are just certain issues that really really need to be dealt with between me and her. (Nothing to do with the ex). I just think sometimes that my last relationship was so perfect that I fvcked it all up because i was just an ignorant dumbass. I guess thats what gets me more than anything.

[Evil Predator]

Women are the devil. Evil ones with horns and shit.

Well, not all, but most of em still have claws tucked away somewhere. I think about a couple of ex's.. but I dont ever consider getting back with them...