heres the end of it

**Prol** · 04-24-2006, 03:40 PM

Hey guys,Hows it going? been away awhile cause of work........You guys now all the trouble i been haveing with my X which is also the mother of my daughter ..........OK so here is the end of it............I know now why my x left.......She is pregnant and it's not mine .................. So when i found out i was like furious and dying .... i went where she was staying she almost fainted when she saw me and i told her i knew what was happening .....i wanted to kill her ,but all of the sudden i only felt peace .........she started crying and asking for forgiveness and i forgived her ........i told her that i felt that she hurt me very deep but i forgive her ......and that she can see her daughter and i would help her in anyway i could ......the only thing i asked from her was the ring i gave her ,i left her the car and sent her clothe to where she was staying ...............and i left ............guys i feel at peace with the world ..........i don't know why and work is great i don't get any time to think so that great ..........so guys thanks for your time and backup ......i think i can oficially say I MOVED ON..........

**firmechicano831** · 04-24-2006, 05:16 PM

I'm happy for you prol.

**Prol** · 04-24-2006, 06:01 PM

thanx ..........I really have to thank all of you guys that you have been very supportive threw all this ............thanx again

**lucabratzi** · 04-24-2006, 06:05 PM

thats awsome bro. i know what u mean when u say at peace...i havent been in the severity of ur situation but i can relate...its amazing to be able to just move on and be able to hold ur head high and unscathed...knowing that u did whats right is a great feeling...good luck with everything...

**Prol** · 04-24-2006, 06:20 PM

Originally Posted by lucabratzi

thats awsome bro. i know what u mean when u say at peace...i havent been in the severity of ur situation but i can relate...its amazing to be able to just move on and be able to hold ur head high and unscathed...knowing that u did whats right is a great feeling...good luck with everything...

lucabratzi :got to thankyou dude....you'd been a great help........

my friends followed me to her place without me knowing they thought i was going to beat her or worst ..............cause they knew how i felt about her..................what helped me was also knowing that she didn't leave for something I DID and that was always in my mind ......i felt i did something wrong but its good to know i didn't ..............also i been so freaking bussy that i haven't had time to think about anything............all i know is that I have alot of work .....my little girl is the lite of my life and i love her every day more and more and i'm starting to learn how to be alone which i was afraid of being ................and i love my life ...........

**lucabratzi** · 04-24-2006, 06:37 PM

Originally Posted by Prol

lucabratzi :got to thankyou dude....you'd been a great help........

my friends followed me to her place without me knowing they thought i was going to beat her or worst ..............cause they knew how i felt about her..................what helped me was also knowing that she didn't leave for something I DID and that was always in my mind ......i felt i did something wrong but its good to know i didn't ..............also i been so freaking bussy that i haven't had time to think about anything............all i know is that I have alot of work .....my little girl is the lite of my life and i love her every day more and more and i'm starting to learn how to be alone which i was afraid of being ................and i love my life ...........

glad i helped...now that u have her out of ur life you can enjoy the time with ur daughter and focus on work more...that last post helped me too...believe it or not...cause i recently broke up with my girl cause she was treatin me like shit...i am still freindly with her/have sex...but now she is tellin me how she fcked up, how it was her fault and if she could take it all back she would, cause she realizes how "amazin and great guy i am"....i still have feeling like i should get back with her...but i realize that i should just move on knowing that i treated her right, and i guess i should deserve someone that can appreciate me...

**Prol** · 04-24-2006, 06:43 PM

what you have to be proud of is that you treated her right .........so she can't never ever put your name threw the dirt..........that is one of the most important things for me my name and how people view me when i'm gone .........That is the only sure thing i can leave my daughter the she will never be ashamed of me .....

**lucabratzi** · 04-24-2006, 06:48 PM

Originally Posted by Prol

what you have to be proud of is that you treated her right .........so she can't never ever put your name threw the dirt..........that is one of the most important things for me my name and how people view me when i'm gone .........That is the only sure thing i can leave my daughter the she will never be ashamed of me .....

well put...it weird and im sure its sounds synical (sp?) but her tellin me all the time how much she likes me and how she wants to be together again while im just denying her makes me feel better...now she knows how i felt when she treated me like shit and i was always good to her(besides the times when i had to put her in check for treatin me like shit.)...

**Wrath** · 04-24-2006, 07:00 PM

She is pregnant by another dude??? She is having unprotected sex even though she has HIV?!?!?

**Prol** · 04-24-2006, 07:23 PM

Originally Posted by lucabratzi

well put...it weird and im sure its sounds synical (sp?) but her tellin me all the time how much she likes me and how she wants to be together again while im just denying her makes me feel better...now she knows how i felt when she treated me like shit and i was always good to her(besides the times when i had to put her in check for treatin me like shit.)...

I got to be honest ,if i would be in your position i would be on a power trip.........there is nothing more a girl likes than getting what she wants .....you deny and she will go crazy ...........Just knowing you have that affect over her is a big one up...................

i met this girl (colombian 5'4" C CUP.....she couldn't of weight more than 105 pounds ,awsome black long hair clear eyes green eyes and great ass) at a get together i had at my house and i dicieded to invite her and acouple of friends to the beach the next day so the next day we al meet up at a gas station to head tto the beach and the girls sees me and jumps and my trunk and asks me if i wounldn't for her to acompany me and i'm like NO PROBLEM she had this loss clear white pants that you could see her thong bikini and i was like alittle bit happy cuase i had acouple of drinks before .......so i was loss even though i was rusty as hell i had forgot how to flirt ...........so nothing we talked alot on the way to the beach so when we get there i lay down on a chaylon and she lays next to me so i'm like wtf so u we start drinking and talking and flirting like if we whe're 15 and she out of nowhere puts here head on my chest ..............when this happens i noticed that acouple of my X's friends are checking me out and i see one of them talking on the phone and like magic my X calls me up on the cel and starts fighting and asking me with who i was with .......................i have to say i loved it the feeling of having the upper hand is great .................BTW i'm still seeing the colombian chick .............but i'm not sure i want i another relatioship now............

**Prol** · 04-24-2006, 07:37 PM

Originally Posted by Wrath

She is pregnant by another dude??? She is having unprotected sex even though she has HIV?!?!?

i asked her about it she said that she didn't want to talk about it ............all i can say its that not my problem anymore.........btw i am praying for the baby ...............

**~fuelforfire~** · 04-24-2006, 08:39 PM

Thats good to hear man, i hope everything goes well with the baby aswell.

**Prol** · 04-24-2006, 08:54 PM

gona hit the sack take care all .................

**~fuelforfire~** · 04-24-2006, 08:55 PM

Peece out.

**cfiler** · 04-24-2006, 09:32 PM

Glad to hear you're at peace. Hopefully her child will not have to suffer because of it's mother's poor choices.

You definately took the high road, and delt with it like a man. Good going.

**needmorestrength** · 04-24-2006, 09:41 PM

Originally Posted by cfiler

Glad to hear you're at peace. Hopefully her child will not have to suffer because of it's mother's poor choices.

You definately took the high road, and delt with it like a man. Good going.

agreed!!!

**lucabratzi** · 04-24-2006, 10:16 PM

Originally Posted by Prol

I got to be honest ,if i would be in your position i would be on a power trip.........there is nothing more a girl likes than getting what she wants .....you deny and she will go crazy ...........Just knowing you have that affect over her is a big one up...................

i met this girl (colombian 5'4" C CUP.....she couldn't of weight more than 105 pounds ,awsome black long hair clear eyes green eyes and great ass) at a get together i had at my house and i dicieded to invite her and acouple of friends to the beach the next day so the next day we al meet up at a gas station to head tto the beach and the girls sees me and jumps and my trunk and asks me if i wounldn't for her to acompany me and i'm like NO PROBLEM she had this loss clear white pants that you could see her thong bikini and i was like alittle bit happy cuase i had acouple of drinks before .......so i was loss even though i was rusty as hell i had forgot how to flirt ...........so nothing we talked alot on the way to the beach so when we get there i lay down on a chaylon and she lays next to me so i'm like wtf so u we start drinking and talking and flirting like if we whe're 15 and she out of nowhere puts here head on my chest ..............when this happens i noticed that acouple of my X's friends are checking me out and i see one of them talking on the phone and like magic my X calls me up on the cel and starts fighting and asking me with who i was with .......................i have to say i loved it the feeling of having the upper hand is great .................BTW i'm still seeing the colombian chick .............but i'm not sure i want i another relatioship now............

thats the shit...they get so mad and u can just sit back and laugh..