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**Superhuman** · 06-06-2006, 11:41 AM

okay, i'm going to try to make this short: I've been with my girlfriend for 3.5+ years and we have great sex. I never have a problem getting hard and staying hard for her - it's huge with her and so hard i could hang a dozen wet towels off it! ANYWAY, I haven't been faithful with her for the last year because I'm young (19) and I feel like I should be having fun with my life before I get old. I know, I'm an asshole but I do love her I just get these urges you know!

Okay, so the last few girls I've been with I can't seem to get it up when the time comes. If I do get it up, get goes limp once I penetrate! I know I want to have sex, I really feel it and I'm all ready to go - and then nothing... The girls end up feeling like sh*t and I have the worst blue balls ever and I end up

! I don't know what to do, perhaps it's psychological because I feel bad, or maybe 'm just too used to my girlfriend's body?? Can anybody help me? Thanks

...Oh, I've got 2 Cialis left that a buddy gave me. I used it before with my girl and it got so big she couldn't handle it. Should I try it with these other girls or do you think my psychological bar would still prevent it?

SORRY it's such a long post. Thanks!

**lucabratzi** · 06-06-2006, 11:52 AM

i think its because ur so used to ur gf...plus the fact that u feel guilty in the back of ur mind...its obviously mental so it can be cured easily...if u do hook up with anohter girl pop the cialis...better safe then sorry...

**WEBB** · 06-06-2006, 11:59 AM

if your mind is stopping you no amount of cialis or what not will help...your mind is your greatest assest or your worst enemy...

**Superhuman** · 06-06-2006, 11:59 AM

Another question: should I break up with my girlfriend and go have fun until I'm ready to settle down or should I stay with her and try to stay commited? If I didn't love her this would be easy. I can see myself with her forever - she is the sweetest girl ever and she is hot, but I see girls that are hotter than her and I think, "hmm, maybe there is a girl out there who's just as sweet but hotter?"

**lucabratzi** · 06-06-2006, 12:05 PM

honestly i would stay with her, but still hook up...i know its dick but if she catches u (has to be red handed cuase u can always talk ur way out of rumors)then say it was ur first time, and then proceed to talk ur way out of it...best of both worlds...

**Superhuman** · 06-06-2006, 12:18 PM

i see what your saying but she knew something was up when i left her with my phone a week ago and I had girls textin... I told her everything that happened after she ket crying and asking me to tell her the truth (I've been with like 8 girls in the last year while i was with her). In my defense we WERE separated for 6 months when she was on a long trip and she finished a semester @ a different college. She was so upset and I felt so bad, but I felt less guilty too after telling her. Now that she knows everything i would have to be extra careful with my future rendesvous!

**cfiler** · 06-06-2006, 12:31 PM

It's guilt.

**SMAN12b** · 06-06-2006, 06:25 PM

Originally Posted by cfiler

It's guilt.

For Sure it is GUILT !!! Gee hope your girlfriend doesn't feel the same way you do and is out havin FUN too.......

**SwoleCat** · 06-06-2006, 06:29 PM

That's not fair to her, so if you plan on sleeping around just break it off w/her and have your fun. If not, it'll bite you in the ass in some way/shape/form one day.

~SC~

**HORSE~** · 06-06-2006, 06:31 PM

Originally Posted by SMAN12B

For Sure it is GUILT !!! Gee hope your girlfriend doesn't feel the same way you do and is out havin FUN too.......

What's good for the goose is good for the gander!!!!

KARMA BROTHER KARMA!!!!

**biggerisbetter2006** · 06-07-2006, 03:06 PM

Originally Posted by SwoleCat

That's not fair to her, so if you plan on sleeping around just break it off w/her and have your fun. If not, it'll bite you in the ass in some way/shape/form one day.

~SC~

I agree. What goes around comes around.

**stunner5000pt** · 06-07-2006, 03:15 PM

Originally Posted by Superhuman

okay, i'm going to try to make this short: I've been with my girlfriend for 3.5+ years and we have great sex. I never have a problem getting hard and staying hard for her - it's huge with her and so hard i could hang a dozen wet towels off it! ANYWAY, I haven't been faithful with her for the last year because I'm young (19) and I feel like I should be having fun with my life before I get old. I know, I'm an asshole but I do love her I just get these urges you know!

Okay, so the last few girls I've been with I can't seem to get it up when the time comes. If I do get it up, get goes limp once I penetrate! I know I want to have sex, I really feel it and I'm all ready to go - and then nothing... The girls end up feeling like sh*t and I have the worst blue balls ever and I end up

! I don't know what to do, perhaps it's psychological because I feel bad, or maybe 'm just too used to my girlfriend's body?? Can anybody help me? Thanks

...Oh, I've got 2 Cialis left that a buddy gave me. I used it before with my girl and it got so big she couldn't handle it. Should I try it with these other girls or do you think my psychological bar would still prevent it?

SORRY it's such a long post. Thanks!

u say u love her... how would you feel if u knew that she was sleeping around... trying to get the curiousity out of her system?

**SwoleCat** · 06-07-2006, 10:50 PM

She may already be sleeping around w/out him knowing laying pipe like PG&E.

~SC~

**bigbouncinballs** · 06-07-2006, 11:06 PM

Originally Posted by biggerisbetter2006

I agree. What goes around comes around.

oh boy does it! especially if she knows that you've cheated on her even once. girls (and guys) usually try to make things even.

trust me from first hand experience, it'll come back. just imagine if she told you tonight that she had been with eight other guys in the last year.

**Superhuman** · 06-08-2006, 10:35 AM

Originally Posted by bigbouncinballs

oh boy does it! especially if she knows that you've cheated on her even once. girls (and guys) usually try to make things even.

trust me from first hand experience, it'll come back. just imagine if she told you tonight that she had been with eight other guys in the last year.

that would be crazy! on one hand I would be upset at her because it would be a total shock. I've made it clear to her from the beginning that fidelity is hard for me, at least at this age - so it was more expected I guess. She has always told me that she doesn't even LOOK at other guys. Which, I believe her. If she were to do something I would be more upset because she didn't let me know that she was feeling that way. I am really good at reading people and I know for a fact that she is not sleeping around. thanks for the input guys. I'm going to try to be a better person now!

**bigbouncinballs** · 06-08-2006, 11:38 AM

Originally Posted by Superhuman

that would be crazy! on one hand I would be upset at her because it would be a total shock. I've made it clear to her from the beginning that fidelity is hard for me, at least at this age - so it was more expected I guess. She has always told me that she doesn't even LOOK at other guys. Which, I believe her. If she were to do something I would be more upset because she didn't let me know that she was feeling that way. I am really good at reading people and I know for a fact that she is not sleeping around. thanks for the input guys. I'm going to try to be a better person now!

yeah, i knew for a fact too. she also "never even looked at other guys"
sorry bud, if she knew you cheated chances are she already has. girls are phenomenal at lying about that and keeping you believing in the person they want you to see, not the person you are. good luck with it though, i do hope it works out.

**Timm1704** · 06-08-2006, 11:55 AM

Originally Posted by Superhuman

that would be crazy! on one hand I would be upset at her because it would be a total shock. I've made it clear to her from the beginning that fidelity is hard for me, at least at this age - so it was more expected I guess. She has always told me that she doesn't even LOOK at other guys. Which, I believe her. If she were to do something I would be more upset because she didn't let me know that she was feeling that way. I am really good at reading people and I know for a fact that she is not sleeping around. thanks for the input guys. I'm going to try to be a better person now!

**Timm1704** · 06-08-2006, 11:57 AM

thats your 'sweet' girl in the middle. the other two guys are both bigger than you, in many ways

**Superhuman** · 06-08-2006, 06:34 PM

Originally Posted by Timm1704

thats your 'sweet' girl in the middle. the other two guys are both bigger than you, in many ways

whoah, whoah bro you don't have any way to back that up alright. in fact, I am well-endowed and that's why most of the girls I've been with have been black or mixed - they know how to handle a big d*ck. In addition most people say I'm "freakin huge" as far as muscles go so I don't think that'd be the case. She is a good girl, and if she wanted to get back @ me she would turn me in to my employer of the police for AAS before she would cheat on me. The only reason i take offense to this is because she is honestly the best girl i have ever met. she has a heart of gold and I've just been an asshole. I am just sticking up for her because she would be extremely offended by that comment

**SHAOKAHN** · 06-08-2006, 06:49 PM

Originally Posted by WEBB

your mind is your greatest assest or your worst enemy...

I can relate to this statement, it is truly brilliant...Big props to webb

__________________________

-shaokahn-

**SHAOKAHN** · 06-08-2006, 06:58 PM

Originally Posted by WEBB

your mind is your greatest assest or your worst enemy...

I can relate to this statement, it is truly brilliant...Big props to webb

__________________________

-shaokahn-

**Superhuman** · 06-08-2006, 08:32 PM

Originally Posted by SHAOKAHN

I can relate to this statement, it is truly brilliant...Big props to webb

__________________________

-shaokahn-

it is very true, mind/matter

**zodiac666** · 06-08-2006, 08:40 PM

Originally Posted by superhuman

The only reason i take offense to this is because she is honestly the best girl i have ever met. she has a heart of gold and I've just been an asshole. I am just sticking up for her because she would be extremely offended by that comment

if shes that good id quit cheatin on her no matter how young you are. tryin to quit cheatin is like tryin to diet down, you dont try, you just do it

**Bojangles69** · 06-08-2006, 08:43 PM

Originally Posted by Superhuman

okay, i'm going to try to make this short: I've been with my girlfriend for 3.5+ years and we have great sex. I never have a problem getting hard and staying hard for her - it's huge with her and so hard i could hang a dozen wet towels off it! ANYWAY, I haven't been faithful with her for the last year because I'm young (19) and I feel like I should be having fun with my life before I get old. I know, I'm an asshole but I do love her I just get these urges you know!

Okay, so the last few girls I've been with I can't seem to get it up when the time comes. If I do get it up, get goes limp once I penetrate! I know I want to have sex, I really feel it and I'm all ready to go - and then nothing... The girls end up feeling like sh*t and I have the worst blue balls ever and I end up

! I don't know what to do, perhaps it's psychological because I feel bad, or maybe 'm just too used to my girlfriend's body?? Can anybody help me? Thanks

...Oh, I've got 2 Cialis left that a buddy gave me. I used it before with my girl and it got so big she couldn't handle it. Should I try it with these other girls or do you think my psychological bar would still prevent it?

SORRY it's such a long post. Thanks!

stress is one of natures most greatest contraceptives..

**Bojangles69** · 06-08-2006, 08:49 PM

Originally Posted by zodiac666

if shes that good id quit cheatin on her no matter how young you are. tryin to quit cheatin is like tryin to diet down, you dont try, you just do it

yeh honest bro, i use to cheat when i was 17, 18, 19 and always said im young and just tryn to have fun. then i realized there was no magical age i would say hey when im (insert age) ill be too old to have fun and will stop cheating. once you develop a bad habit, despite the justifications, it becomes part of your identity and changing you identities a bitch. When i stopped it wasnt because I was too old to have fun, but because i realized how dumb i was to let my age rationalize my disrespect towards my gf's. W/e the case, just dont make such a little deal about it..

not sayn any of this applies to you just offering you my story.

**Superhuman** · 06-08-2006, 08:49 PM

Originally Posted by zodiac666

if shes that good id quit cheatin on her no matter how young you are. tryin to quit cheatin is like tryin to diet down, you dont try, you just do it

just as yoda said right?

you're absolutely right... I've got to take some time and decide what I want to do. It's hard though- because when I'm with her I have no doubt that I want to be with her forever and will be faithful. Once I'm not with her and I go out it's totally different. I want to spread my wings, you know? The only way I can think of to take away the temptation to cheat is to be around her 24/7 and that's not healthy!

**Bojangles69** · 06-08-2006, 08:52 PM

and you know what, my first love back in highschool i cheated on with her best friend. they split up for about 2-3 years and i saw them at a bar a few weeks ago, i would have died to hook up with my x again but i knew it was outta the question, sometimes when your young you dont realize how much your hurting someone, and then when you get older you realize how much you hurt yourself..

**industywetrusty** · 06-08-2006, 08:56 PM

Originally Posted by Superhuman

okay, i'm going to try to make this short: I've been with my girlfriend for 3.5+ years and we have great sex. I never have a problem getting hard and staying hard for her - it's huge with her and so hard i could hang a dozen wet towels off it! ANYWAY, I haven't been faithful with her for the last year because I'm young (19) and I feel like I should be having fun with my life before I get old. I know, I'm an asshole but I do love her I just get these urges you know!

Okay, so the last few girls I've been with I can't seem to get it up when the time comes. If I do get it up, get goes limp once I penetrate! I know I want to have sex, I really feel it and I'm all ready to go - and then nothing... The girls end up feeling like sh*t and I have the worst blue balls ever and I end up

! I don't know what to do, perhaps it's psychological because I feel bad, or maybe 'm just too used to my girlfriend's body?? Can anybody help me? Thanks

...Oh, I've got 2 Cialis left that a buddy gave me. I used it before with my girl and it got so big she couldn't handle it. Should I try it with these other girls or do you think my psychological bar would still prevent it?

SORRY it's such a long post. Thanks!

Sounds like your thinking to hard, its the change in girls haha gotta ease into it otherwise you get to nervous about shit, your girl and you are comfortable, these new girls you dont know as well it sounds and you wanna make that good impression so you think to much about it...maybe

**thegodfather** · 06-08-2006, 08:59 PM

Originally Posted by Bojangles69

and you know what, my first love back in highschool i cheated on with her best friend. they split up for about 2-3 years and i saw them at a bar a few weeks ago, i would have died to hook up with my x again but i knew it was outta the question, sometimes when your young you dont realize how much your hurting someone, and then when you get older you realize how much you hurt yourself..

Truer words have never been spoken... Anyway, I understand what you're going through with the anxiety and not being able to get it up, happend to me a lot... I get the same urges when I see other girls and and if they're hott or not and think that I might be missing out. But honestly dude, I love my girlfriend to death, I've known her since I was 14 years old...I couldn't say I haven't thought about it, because I have, but thats about as far as I ever let it go. I know what it feels like to be cheated on have my heart ripped out and stomped on, and its not a feeling I'd ever want to cause another person to feel. Besides that, I respect my girl and she does a ton for me in every way... You can go hook up and **** all the stupid sluts you find, and maybe you'll get something out of that, but personally...my girl has given me more personal satisfaction than any one night tramp ever did in my life. You see something and you want it, but after you get it you move on to a new challenge. If you can see yourself with this girl for the rest of your life, do you and her a favor and stop cheating now.

**statuZ** · 06-08-2006, 09:21 PM

Originally Posted by Superhuman

okay, i'm going to try to make this short: I've been with my girlfriend for 3.5+ years and we have great sex. I never have a problem getting hard and staying hard for her - it's huge with her and so hard i could hang a dozen wet towels off it! ANYWAY, I haven't been faithful with her for the last year because I'm young (19) and I feel like I should be having fun with my life before I get old. I know, I'm an asshole but I do love her I just get these urges you know!

Okay, so the last few girls I've been with I can't seem to get it up when the time comes. If I do get it up, get goes limp once I penetrate! I know I want to have sex, I really feel it and I'm all ready to go - and then nothing... The girls end up feeling like sh*t and I have the worst blue balls ever and I end up

! I don't know what to do, perhaps it's psychological because I feel bad, or maybe 'm just too used to my girlfriend's body?? Can anybody help me? Thanks

...Oh, I've got 2 Cialis left that a buddy gave me. I used it before with my girl and it got so big she couldn't handle it. Should I try it with these other girls or do you think my psychological bar would still prevent it?

SORRY it's such a long post. Thanks!

dude it seems like your trying to brag about cheating on your girlfriend. that sucks you cant get it up man sounds like a personal problem actually. I happen to have the same exact problem in that i can never keep it down. im still working on tamin the beast

you keep saying you love her but you get tempted when your not around her. If you really did love her if you were around other girls you would most likely be thinking of her instead of the other sluts.

**bigbouncinballs** · 06-08-2006, 09:22 PM

Originally Posted by Bojangles69

and you know what, my first love back in highschool i cheated on with her best friend. they split up for about 2-3 years and i saw them at a bar a few weeks ago, i would have died to hook up with my x again but i knew it was outta the question, sometimes when your young you dont realize how much your hurting someone, and then when you get older you realize how much you hurt yourself..

amen brutha.

**Superhuman** · 06-09-2006, 11:03 AM

this is what I'm gonna do - I'm travelling on business for a few weeks without her. We won't talk for a week at all, not texting, e-mail or phone calls. This should help me figure out what I need by having alone-time, right? It will give both of us time to think without influence. I'm not sure if I truly love her, or if I love being in a relationship with someone that cares - if I'm with her because I'm don't want to be alone. Does that make sense?