UH OH.. what do I do ??

**needmorestrength** · 07-02-2006, 10:32 AM

Last night I went out with some friends.. and there was this girl that I could tell liked me, shes been after me for a while.. My girlfriend was at her families for the night.. Well at one point this girl grabbed my head with both hands and kissed me.. It was a quick one because I pulled back.. but I feel guilty... Do I tell my girl

**beuleux** · 07-02-2006, 10:36 AM

tell u what u should do... go back find that girl and shag her brains out lol

**NotSmall** · 07-02-2006, 10:37 AM

How ironic that it's a story that mentions your involvement with two females and yet you come off sounding gay!

**scriptfactory** · 07-02-2006, 10:43 AM

Originally Posted by NotSmall

How ironic that it's a story that mentions your involvement with two females and yet you come off sounding gay!

Damn...

**needmorestrength** · 07-02-2006, 10:44 AM

Originally Posted by NotSmall

How ironic that it's a story that mentions your involvement with two females and yet you come off sounding gay!

lmfao... I just feel guilty, I know she would tell me.. but It was nothing, I pulled away and told her not to do it again.... you also have to understand I am planning on asking this girl to marry me so I am 100% honest.. but I dont know if this will cause unessesary drama

**rake922** · 07-02-2006, 11:06 AM

Tell her... Maybe you should take a poll

**Pooks** · 07-02-2006, 11:10 AM

Originally Posted by needmorestrength

lmfao... I just feel guilty, I know she would tell me.. but It was nothing, I pulled away and told her not to do it again.... you also have to understand I am planning on asking this girl to marry me so I am 100% honest.. but I dont know if this will cause unessesary drama

No reason to feel guilty bro.
You cant control other people's emotions...
You can only control how you feel.

So this girl has a crush on you, she kissed you cause she likes you..
Thats her problem.

U love your wife so u didnt kiss her back.
END OF STORY
No need to tell your wife, just be proud of how much u love your wife, and give her a big kiss.
AITE I'm done being Dr. Phil for the day

oh yah if anything u should had talked to that girl, n told her u were married,and try to hook up one of your single bros with her lol

**beuleux** · 07-02-2006, 11:54 AM

c'mon ur a guy... u have the divine right to poke all totty that comes ur way, guilt schmuilt, unessesary drama? she is a woman right... of course there will be unessesary drama, some things are just meant to be, guys and totty are one of those things women and unessesary drama are another.

**southmadejd** · 07-02-2006, 12:47 PM

Originally Posted by NotSmall

How ironic that it's a story that mentions your involvement with two females and yet you come off sounding gay!

Haha man that is funny as hell.

**Superhuman** · 07-02-2006, 01:23 PM

no big deal! she kissed you, not the other way around. don't worry about it. I wouldn't tell her because, like you said, it would cause uneccesary drama. if it's making you feel guilty, though, then I would tell her

**needmorestrength** · 07-02-2006, 01:25 PM

Originally Posted by Pooks

No reason to feel guilty bro.
You cant control other people's emotions...
You can only control how you feel.

So this girl has a crush on you, she kissed you cause she likes you..
Thats her problem.

U love your wife so u didnt kiss her back.
END OF STORY
No need to tell your wife, just be proud of how much u love your wife, and give her a big kiss.
AITE I'm done being Dr. Phil for the day

oh yah if anything u should had talked to that girl, n told her u were married,and try to hook up one of your single bros with her lol

well shes not my wife yet, and the girl that kissed me knows I am seriously involved, but I will send her your way

**chest6** · 07-02-2006, 01:41 PM

You could tell her if you want. The girl that did could turn it around on you if she gets mad at you one day etc. Your choice..mainly just depends on how your girl is..like if she overreacts to everything etc

**JohnboyF** · 07-02-2006, 01:43 PM

You never really did anything to make her kiss you. She intiated everything plus u moved back so. I don't think you should tell her. Just gonna cause problems over nothing especially if you didnt do anything.

**SMAN12b** · 07-02-2006, 05:44 PM

Originally Posted by needmorestrength

well shes not my wife yet, and the girl that kissed me knows I am seriously involved, but I will send her your way

Tell her the truth. If you didn't instigate the attention, she should understand and appreciate your honesty!

If someone by chance seen this happen, it can end up biting you in the ass if you don't explain now! And then your girl will wonder why you didn't tell her first!

**guest589745** · 07-02-2006, 05:48 PM

DONT TELL HER!!

Go bang the other chick too.

Thats what I'd do.

**l2elapse** · 07-02-2006, 08:06 PM

tell her bro, because if she finds out somehow..dont ask me how but woman always find out, it will come back to bite you in the a$$

**anaBROLIC** · 07-02-2006, 08:08 PM

tough call bro. you prolly should tell her but you know how girls are. she will be pissed at you and maybe not trust you like you did something wrong. she prolly will also give you shit about going out without her now..

**HORSE~** · 07-02-2006, 08:12 PM

Originally Posted by needmorestrength

lmfao... I just feel guilty, I know she would tell me.. but It was nothing, I pulled away and told her not to do it again.... you also have to understand I am planning on asking this girl to marry me so I am 100% honest.. but I dont know if this will cause unessesary drama

Telling her now may cause a little drama

But if she find's out thru the grape vine that will cause MASS AMOUNT'S of drama

I'd tell her

But good luck either way

**Carlos_E** · 07-02-2006, 08:17 PM

No reason to feel guilty. Your girl will be angry either way. Even though you didn't kiss the girl back and you pulled away she will say why did you let her get so close to begin with. But it's better for you to tell her than for her to hear it from someone else and she'll see it a whole different way.