Who needs councilling

**Mizfit** · 11-25-2006, 07:00 PM

Originally Posted by novastepp

when females say they are moody, or just feeling down, so they feel detached..is that true? because i hate to ask what's wrong twice, but i want to talk. any suggestions Doc Miz?

wow this is seriously the luck of the draw.. sometimes women say that because they wanna be left alone and other times they want u to keep after them...

If it's their time of th emonth.. even though i do not beleive in pms.. it might be better to just let her be.. but if you might've done something to set her off.. keep at her..

**Mizfit** · 11-25-2006, 07:01 PM

Originally Posted by cfiler

I have so many repressed feelings and memories that I don't even know what my problem is, or where it stems from.

I wouldn't know what type of questions to ask help on, or even where to start with finding what I need help with.

All I know is that I'm broken.

We're all broken.. better to start from the beginning

**DSM4Life** · 11-25-2006, 07:04 PM

First mistake we all make as males, trying to understand women. Its like trying to understand outerspace. Just leave it/them alone and move on

........yes still bitter, **** i hate you, no i love you , YOU DRIVE ME CRAZY - i just want to scream.

Nothing a little Miller Lite can't help.

**Mizfit** · 11-25-2006, 07:09 PM

Originally Posted by DSM4Life

........yes still bitter, **** i hate you, no i love you , YOU DRIVE ME CRAZY - i.

I always took u for a britney fan

**DSM4Life** · 11-25-2006, 07:11 PM

Originally Posted by Mizfit

I always took u for a britney fan

You got me, it only comes out when i get emotional

**Chitown Raider** · 11-25-2006, 07:26 PM

Originally Posted by novastepp

when females say they are moody, or just feeling down, so they feel detached..is that true? because i hate to ask what's wrong twice, but i want to talk. any suggestions Doc Miz?

I experience this alot myself. What do you think Miz?

**Bojangles69** · 11-25-2006, 08:14 PM

the best way to make a woman happy..

excuse me miss, can you tell me whats wrong with me (a GUY) and how i/or you can fix myself??

**Bojangles69** · 11-25-2006, 08:15 PM

dayam time to change my avy

**DSM4Life** · 11-25-2006, 08:19 PM

Originally Posted by Bojangles69

dayam time to change my avy

yes, you scare me.

**Bojangles69** · 11-25-2006, 08:23 PM

ok got a temporary one up.. till i loose 20lbs fat and put on 20lbs muscle.

**Evil Predator** · 11-25-2006, 08:28 PM

Ohhhh.... free councilling.... You got an hourglass too>?

Do I have to read the fine print? No hidden fees?

**DSM4Life** · 11-25-2006, 08:31 PM

All i know is a womens heart is like a deep ocean of secrets.......

i heard that on titanic

**x_muscle** · 11-25-2006, 08:39 PM

Im obsessed about a girl who want only to be friends. I think about here all the time, I see here as most beautiful girl in the world. And I don’t even try to approach other girls because of here. I think im sick……..what should I do, she only wants to be friends. We spend so much time together. But I think I should move on, im weak, and I cant do it……..HELP

**Bojangles69** · 11-25-2006, 08:45 PM

Originally Posted by x_muscle

Im obsessed about a girl who want only to be friends. I think about here all the time, I see here as most beautiful girl in the world. And I don’t even try to approach other girls because of here. I think im sick……..what should I do, she only wants to be friends. We spend so much time together. But I think I should move on, im weak, and I cant do it……..HELP

I pm'd you.

**novastepp** · 11-26-2006, 12:19 AM

Originally Posted by Mizfit

wow this is seriously the luck of the draw.. sometimes women say that because they wanna be left alone and other times they want u to keep after them...

If it's their time of th emonth.. even though i do not beleive in pms.. it might be better to just let her be.. but if you might've done something to set her off.. keep at her..

its the time of the month, never happens except then. maybe her pms is really hormonal. in any case, thanks. sometyimes i'll ask and get nothing, then a few minutes later i'll just hug her for a long time, and soon after she will talk. i was just wondering if you thought moodiness is always a fail-safe kind of thing.

**JohnboyF** · 11-26-2006, 12:21 AM

Originally Posted by Mizfit

U sure.. i'm good at this.. all u gotta do is shh and listen

**HORSE~** · 11-26-2006, 12:41 AM

Bino need's to come to grips with the fact that a female is better than him at put put golf...

What would you suggest he do to come to terms with this??

**Chitown Raider** · 11-26-2006, 03:37 AM

Women have a way about them.

**Chitown Raider** · 11-26-2006, 03:38 AM

Women have a way about them.

**Chitown Raider** · 11-26-2006, 03:39 AM

Sorry bout the same responses can a mod delete them?

**Mizfit** · 11-26-2006, 06:51 AM

Originally Posted by Bojangles69

the best way to make a woman happy..

excuse me miss, can you tell me whats wrong with me (a GUY) and how i/or you can fix myself??

Hun u appear to anaylize things more than i do.. and unlike mmany you post with some common sense..

If you have a problem with a girl - i think either you;
a) created it so she could keep you interested
b) are just asking, just for the sake of doing so..

In regards to the 20 pounds.. get rid of that junk

**Mizfit** · 11-26-2006, 06:52 AM

Originally Posted by Chitown Raider

Women have a way about them.

oyes we do .. we're like little withces and bitches..

**Mizfit** · 11-26-2006, 06:53 AM

Originally Posted by horse2006

Bino need's to come to grips with the fact that a female is better than him at put put golf...

What would you suggest he do to come to terms with this??

Worst off their is way i only beat him by 1.. i'm sure he miscalculated along the way considering he had only marked down 17 outta the 18 holes..

I'm sure he would beat his momma if he took him.. He has to keep the faith!

**MAXIMA5** · 11-26-2006, 09:49 AM

OK, try this one Dr. Phil,

I'm engaged to a great girl, but my best friend (female) who I havent seen in over 2 years comes home for thanksgiving and stops by my office to see me and starts bringing up old memories from when we were dating/spending a lot of time together. What should I do if I still have feelings for her? Keep in mind she works 1.5 hours away and is on the road for work constantly, so even if we were together it would be rough.
Also, my fiancee refuses to let me ever hang out with this girl anymore because she gets jealous, and she doesn't even know we ever had a physical relationship at one point. I think I could get over the old feelings if I was allowed to hang ou with her, or even if the two of them got to know eachother and became friends. I don't like feeling guilty for talking to an old friend, but I do.

**Mizfit** · 11-26-2006, 09:58 AM

Originally Posted by MAXIMA5

OK, try this one Dr. Phil,

I'm engaged to a great girl, but my best friend (female) who I havent seen in over 2 years comes home for thanksgiving and stops by my office to see me and starts bringing up old memories from when we were dating/spending a lot of time together. What should I do if I still have feelings for her? Keep in mind she works 1.5 hours away and is on the road for work constantly, so even if we were together it would be rough.
Also, my fiancee refuses to let me ever hang out with this girl anymore because she gets jealous, and she doesn't even know we ever had a physical relationship at one point. I think I could get over the old feelings if I was allowed to hang ou with her, or even if the two of them got to know eachother and became friends. I don't like feeling guilty for talking to an old friend, but I do.

Ur fiancee has a right to be upset if u spend time alone with this other girl because u still have feelings for her and might always. It's not a matter of trust, it's a matter of not wanting to share your heart with another.

In regards to the bestfriend/ ex - things always look greener on the other side..

You feel guilty because u have feelings for her.. There r people in everyones past that will always have a small piece of our hearts- but fact remians things didnt work out the first time for a reason.. Ex's are ex's for a reason.

Why do you wanna hang out with her - honestly?

**MAXIMA5** · 11-26-2006, 10:08 AM

Originally Posted by Mizfit

Ur fiancee has a right to be upset if u spend time alone with this other girl because u still have feelings for her and might always. It's not a matter of trust, it's a matter of not wanting to share your heart with another.

In regards to the bestfriend/ ex - things always look greener on the other side..

You feel guilty because u have feelings for her.. There r people in everyones past that will always have a small piece of our hearts- but fact remians things didnt work out the first time for a reason.. Ex's are ex's for a reason.

Why do you wanna hang out with her - honestly?

I agree, but here's the twist. We never officially dated. We were inseparable, but we were both always dating other people. We just spent a lot of time together, and were always there for eachother when something went wrong.
I never pushed the issue because I didnt want to jeopardize our friendship. I always figured we'd end up together eventually, but we went our separate ways with work and lost touch because she was afraid to call me. So technically, she's not an ex.
And to answer your question, I think I mainly wanted to see her so I could put this to rest. I think I was actualy going to get the balls to ask her if she thought I was doing the right thing getting engaged to see if she still feels the same way I do. If she said she just wants to stay good friends, then a weight would be lifted off my shoulders and I could get on with my life. If not, then things would get even more confusing.

You're still right, I guess I should just play the cards I was dealt.

**doctadank** · 11-28-2006, 02:43 PM

asking questions about women to other women is like a trying to find a pin in a haystack. women say they want something, but most of the time its something totally different than what they say. imo