Stood Up!!!

**Uconish** · 12-29-2006, 10:23 PM

So, i went out the other night and met a girl, and she was super cool. Really pretty, nice body, fun to talk with, and didnt lack a brain. Long story short, we talked on the phone and made plans to get together. I left her a message saying call me so when can get hook up somewhere, and she just left me a message saying shes sick and cant make it out, but wants to get together later on this week. Think shes bluffing? The reason why i ask is cause like i said, she was cool as hell, and the first girl in awhile that i wan't to take the time to get to know.

**chest6** · 12-29-2006, 10:27 PM

Really don't know. Not enough info. There are types of people that do that and she could also be sick? I guess time will tell if you receive another phone call..

**Uconish** · 12-29-2006, 10:30 PM

you think i should give her a call, or wait till she calls me?

**chest6** · 12-29-2006, 10:32 PM

I'd say wait a few days..see if she calls you

**spound** · 12-30-2006, 12:50 AM

Originally Posted by Uconish

you think i should give her a call, or wait till she calls me?

Wait a few days...if she doesn't call you still, then call her. Shit man, people get sick. If she was bluffing then she probably would not have said lets hang out next week...duh LOL SHit, worst case scenario.....you don't get a date and you never really see her again...who gives a shit.

**firmechicano831** · 12-30-2006, 12:55 AM

yeah wait a couple of days then give her a call. Listen to how she reacts when you call her and things like that.

**slob** · 12-30-2006, 02:42 AM

just left me a message saying shes sick and cant make it out, but wants to get together later on this week.

what spound said.

If a chick says "she is sick" or "something has come up" or "im really busy" without providing an alternative or showing that she is still interested in meeting up even though she can't rght away, its called 'flaking'. It often happens if you dont develop enough of rapport with the girl.
If she didn't provide u with an alternative time to meet up, i would say yeah she is bull shitting but seeing as she suggested later in the week im inclined to believe shes not talking shit.

**beuleux** · 12-30-2006, 03:56 AM

SQUAWK!

what spound said.

If a chick says "she is sick" or "something has come up" or "im really busy" without providing an alternative or showing that she is still interested in meeting up even though she can't rght away, its called 'flaking'. It often happens if you dont develop enough of rapport with the girl.
If she didn't provide u with an alternative time to meet up, i would say yeah she is bull shitting but seeing as she suggested later in the week im inclined to believe shes not talking shit.

SQUAWK!

**SnaX** · 12-30-2006, 04:17 AM

(could be that time of the month, and she wants to hump afterwards..jk)

No but really, the flu si going around. I had bronchitis a few days ago... so she's probably not lying.

Wait a few days. Or you MAYBE give her a call see how she's doing if anything. but not too soon... cause then she'll think you're clingy. :P

I'm probably wrong so ya know....