is she blowing me off?

**wjohn81** · 10-12-2007, 08:59 AM

i found a girl i went to hs with on facebook and we messaged each other back and forth so i asked her if she wanted to go out drinking this weekend and told her to pick the place and this is what she said----

i have to pick the spot ... aww man ... ill figure out something and ill get back

i dont know if this is supposed to be a nice way of saying no or does it sound like shes interested???

**powerliftmike** · 10-12-2007, 09:05 AM

Why dont you man up and tell her where youre going? Women actually like decisions to be made for them. Ask her for her phone number, do something bro

**wjohn81** · 10-12-2007, 09:19 AM

last night she said shed get back to me so i dont really want to send another message this morning picking a place cuz i dont want to sound desperate....

**Renesis** · 10-12-2007, 09:58 AM

Well you already screwed up so I say wait it out until she answers you. If not then who cares its just a chick.

**wjohn81** · 10-12-2007, 10:16 AM

**** it i sent her another message sayin i know a few places we could go and asked her if she wants to go sat night this way ill either get a yes or an obvious excuse...

**novastepp** · 10-12-2007, 10:19 AM

you just screwed yourself by acting like every other guy she has ever met. you have to be different' message her and say, "give me your number so i can call you and let you know what time i'm going to pick you up this saturday/friday." then when she does, call her and say "I want to go to ... with you around 930. still game for a good night?" then you're back in. if you get nothing with that, she's done with you.

**batlin** · 10-12-2007, 10:27 AM

Originally Posted by novastepp

you just screwed yourself by acting like every other guy she has ever met. you have to be different' message her and say, "give me your number so i can call you and let you know what time i'm going to pick you up this saturday/friday." then when she does, call her and say "I want to go to ... with you around 930. still game for a good night?" then you're back in. if you get nothing with that, she's done with you.

Yup, thats the way to do it....

I have talked to several women I have met online, and one of their biggest pet peeves is guys who A: send their number and tell THEM to call them (girls like YOU to call)
B: indecisiveness.. they want to be told where to go and what time to be there

**Dally** · 10-12-2007, 11:04 AM

**5ifthCitizen** · 10-12-2007, 12:01 PM

Originally Posted by Renesis

Well you already screwed up so I say wait it out until she answers you. If not then who cares its just a chick.

xxx2

**J-Dogg** · 10-12-2007, 12:09 PM

You might be too scared o rejection...a lot of people do not do things because they "might" fail. Who cares though?

Can you PM me her info though?

**number twelve** · 10-12-2007, 12:11 PM

is this the same girl you started the other thread about?

**gixxerboy1** · 10-12-2007, 02:29 PM

Originally Posted by novastepp

you just screwed yourself by acting like every other guy she has ever met. you have to be different' message her and say, "give me your number so i can call you and let you know what time i'm going to pick you up this saturday/friday." then when she does, call her and say "I want to go to ... with you around 930. still game for a good night?" then you're back in. if you get nothing with that, she's done with you.

that's how i meet my girl. I asked her what night we were going to dinner? She says your asking me out? I said no we are going out just asking you what night is good for you. That was almost a year ago

**number twelve** · 10-12-2007, 03:48 PM

Originally Posted by gixxerboy1

that's how i meet my girl. I asked her what night we were going to dinner? She says your asking me out? I said no we are going out just asking you what night is good for you. That was almost a year ago

haha nice