I have a serious delima

[Chitown Raider]

I know I have not been on the board here often in the past 6 months. But that is due to the time I have spent with my g/f. Basic breakdown for those who don't know we met at the gym and she works for a animal hospital where I used to take my previous dog. She has a Chiuhaha that is the love of her life. After my pitbull passed away I mentioned to her that I was thinking of getting a French Bulldog something small that could play with her dog. She was fine with the idea and said that her dog got along with some other dogs. After finding how much they were I decided to go back to my roots and get another Pit. Keep in mind whenever Goliath my new pit and Pinto the Chiuaha get together Goliath everytime kneels down and waits for him to come up then gives him a kiss. My G/F has this paranonia that my dog is gonna eat her dog. Her parents which I get along with so well and out of the B/F's that have met her Dad I am the favorite. Her parents are telling her that she should have broke up with with me when I got my dog because my dog is gonna eat her dog I think they put paranoia into her head sometimes. The thing is she has spent the past 4 1/2 months every weekend letting my dog stay at her place when I am with with her just so we can spend time together. But as of lately, She just wants to go out to dinner or spend a few hours together. I can understand where she is coming from being a constant worrywart. I opted to tell her that I would give my dog to a rescue shelter just to know he was in a good home. I mean her dog is 7 years old so I knew that would take precendence. She flipped out when I mentioned giving him away, and even her Dad said she would would break up with me if I did that. Finally for once in my life I have found someone that makes my life complete and I stand at a crossroad. Any thoughts I would appreciate sorry for the ramblings just wanted to fill you guys in on the big picture.

[Amorphic]

pretty full of ups and downs there man, at least its kind of working out now though. Good that you aren't giving up your dog, pets are special friends and shouldn't just be given away.

good luck

[Expat]

it almost sounds like she is losing interest and does not have the guts to just say so...don't drop the ball with the dog....it ain't about the dog...trust me....Good Luck!

[5ifthCitizen]

it almost sounds like she is losing interest and does not have the guts to just say so...don't drop the ball with the dog....it ain't about the dog...trust me....Good Luck!

expat is right. that would be a lame excuse to blame the relationship problems on. there's another reason she isnt spending as much time with ya and the dog has NOTHING to do with it

[5ifthCitizen]

damnit i should have made my 666 post on halloween

[Chitown Raider]

it almost sounds like she is losing interest and does not have the guts to just say so...don't drop the ball with the dog....it ain't about the dog...trust me....Good Luck!

Expat, I get that same thought. I asked her about that of course and she said no, but then again women lie. I know life isn't simple and you got to deal with the stuff you really don't want to sometimes, but this weekend I am gonna find out where things are going. This is the one girl I actually could see myself having the talk with her Father in the future. I'll keep you all posted.

[LawMan018]

Expat, I get that same thought. I asked her about that of course and she said no, but then again women lie. I know life isn't simple and you got to deal with the stuff you really don't want to sometimes, but this weekend I am gonna find out where things are going. This is the one girl I actually could see myself having the talk with her Father in the future. I'll keep you all posted.

Good luck bro... But man, her dad seems weird as hell... He told her to break up with you if you give the dog away? Wtf is that?

[Ajc330]

DOB man... dogs over bitches

[Carlos_E]

it almost sounds like she is losing interest and does not have the guts to just say so...don't drop the ball with the dog....it ain't about the dog...trust me....Good Luck!

Agreed! Way too much drama over a damn dog. Something else is going on. Leave the dog at home and see if she wants to have you over for the weekend. If she says no, there's your answer.

[dedic8ed1]

You consider giving away your best friend for your girl,fuk that dude don't change yourself for anyone.By the way killer avy.

[RuhlFreak55]

i'd tell her to get a dog that's not a ***** lol.....i'm sure my dogs would eat of of those stupid toys...oh wait...one did lol

[kman]

Good luck bro... But man, her dad seems weird as hell... He told her to break up with you if you give the dog away? Wtf is that?

That was my first thought as well. Also Carlos brings up a good option.. Best of luck bro

[RuhlFreak55]

That was my first thought as well. Also Carlos brings up a good option.. Best of luck bro

some people like dogs alot lol....

[badER]

Do the smart thing... kill her dog.

[CheddaNips]

y dont people understand that its how the dog is raised that gives it its agression or discipline?

[Auss11e]

tell her that your dog is fretting for hers cos they were such good buddys!
Put the guilt trip on her........

[Chitown Raider]

Good luck bro... But man, her dad seems weird as hell... He told her to break up with you if you give the dog away? Wtf is that?

No, he said he knew how she was and if I gave away the dog he knew she would break up with me.

[Chitown Raider]

Agreed! Way too much drama over a damn dog. Something else is going on. Leave the dog at home and see if she wants to have you over for the weekend. If she says no, there's your answer.

Thanks for the advice. It turns out her apartment complex called her last Monday and informed her that there was three complaints about my dog being there. In her lease it states big dogs are not allowed to be there pitbulls being one of them. We both knew about this but never thought anyone would turn into a snitch. So now I have to leave my dog at home which is fine, cause it will allow her to be relaxed which is good.

[Chitown Raider]

I am out shopping for Christmas gifts last Saturday then I get a phone call asking me about some minor league wannabe MLB team. Which I have no cares about anyways, only to find out she accidenatly, bumped into some stranger that plays for that team. She loses track of her shopping and carries on a conversation for 15 minutes. She obviously thinks I have shit on my forehead. If I can run into this ass clown it would be a good day. Sorry for ranting, sometimes I only wanna see half the the picture. The brighter side, I appreciate everyone's input. Thanks!

[ausmanalot]

if shit hits the fan

don't do what i did and stop training or anything...

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What else happened ?

did you talk about this fella to her ask questions???

[J-Dogg]

Not really advice here, but I know what you are going though. I’m pretty much in the same boat as you can tell when the feelings are not there anymore for your love.
My girl is very distant right now, we fight over small things that should not matter….like my dog. I just bought one and I think she is actually jealous of my dog because I paid a chunk of change for him and am paying for a trainer to train him. I thought it would make us one step closer to becoming a couple…having a dog and all.
The problem we both seem to be having is, girls say “they don’t want to split” but we feel they do. I know, and I’m sure you know that if we are feeling this way….it’s best to end it. The girls are just not mature or brave enough to walk away. It’s hard to do, I’m having issues with it that’s for sure and like you, always trying to look on the brighter side.
Whatever happens, best of luck to you and I hope her father can quit being a priority in your relationship with her.

[Chitown Raider]

if shit hits the fan

don't do what i did and stop training or anything...

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What else happened ?

did you talk about this fella to her ask questions???

Oh believe me I asked questions. He didn't ask her for her number, but she told him where she works. See, about two weeks ago we got into a arguement and she said needed a few days for her own space. So a couple days later I sent two dozen roses to her work to say I'm sorry and her co-workers asked what happened and she said she didn't want to talk about it. Now it seems the last time she went out with her co-workers they are under the impression that she is single and are trying to get her to talk to other guys.

[Chitown Raider]

Well, had a sit down talk with her tonight. I found out one of the doctor's at her work wanted to set her up with some yo-yo from Texas that's in a band and he is out her for a little while. He's divorced got two kids, which she doesn't like. Anyways, she went out twice to with this female doctor and he was there only there to find out he was the reason why the doctor asked her to come out to meet him. To make a long story short I found out she was hanging out with this clown last night. I asked her about him and she said he was just a friend. But when I showed up tonight she was talking on the phone her Grandmother's wake was tonight and she said he called to give his condolences but she was listening to his cd which he gave her. Before they ended the conversation she said she would call him when she got in. She basically said she doesn't want a relationship cause she can't give anyone anything due to she hasn't realized what she wants. What a frickin' way to start off the new year. The best part of hearing all this is she has this thing where if her dog doesn't like the guy she can't see it lasting. I asked how did her dog like this yo-yo? She said, He did not like him he was barking. I said, "That's my boy!" The first time I met her dog he liked me from the get-go, and if you can make your way into her dog's heart then you've got your foot in the door.

[xero]

Far too much focus on "dogs". Come on man you guys are humans aren't you? If there was a proper relationship going on here the dogs would be irrelevant.

[Kale]

Make the fvcking Pitbull eat the Chiwowa which it ulimately will anyway... problem solved

[ctx97]

Far too much focus on "dogs". Come on man you guys are humans aren't you? If there was a proper relationship going on here the dogs would be irrelevant.

Sounds like the dog thing is just an excuse. Move on man, pleanty of fish out there.

[DSM4Life]

I know I have not been on the board here often in the past 6 months. But that is due to the time I have spent with my g/f. Basic breakdown for those who don't know we met at the gym and she works for a animal hospital where I used to take my previous dog. She has a Chiuhaha that is the love of her life. After my pitbull passed away I mentioned to her that I was thinking of getting a French Bulldog something small that could play with her dog. She was fine with the idea and said that her dog got along with some other dogs. After finding how much they were I decided to go back to my roots and get another Pit. Keep in mind whenever Goliath my new pit and Pinto the Chiuaha get together Goliath everytime kneels down and waits for him to come up then gives him a kiss. My G/F has this paranonia that my dog is gonna eat her dog. Her parents which I get along with so well and out of the B/F's that have met her Dad I am the favorite. Her parents are telling her that she should have broke up with with me when I got my dog because my dog is gonna eat her dog I think they put paranoia into her head sometimes. The thing is she has spent the past 4 1/2 months every weekend letting my dog stay at her place when I am with with her just so we can spend time together. But as of lately, She just wants to go out to dinner or spend a few hours together. I can understand where she is coming from being a constant worrywart. I opted to tell her that I would give my dog to a rescue shelter just to know he was in a good home. I mean her dog is 7 years old so I knew that would take precendence. She flipped out when I mentioned giving him away, and even her Dad said she would would break up with me if I did that. Finally for once in my life I have found someone that makes my life complete and I stand at a crossroad. Any thoughts I would appreciate sorry for the ramblings just wanted to fill you guys in on the big picture.

I can picture it already, Radier walking down the street with thie following him

[Kale]

I can picture it already, Radier walking down the street with thie following him

ROTFLMFAO !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!