girlfriend and co-worker help

[firmechicano831]

So I just started at a new job like 4 months ago and I have now hooked up with a diamond piece that works there. She is a 9 out of 10 on my scoreboard and I'm usually really picky. She's 5'8 with sexy legs and almost a six pack. Big ass and a beautiful face. The only problem is that she wants me to be her bf although she just found out I have a gf. We've had sex about 20times already and she always wants me to take her out and wants to come over and stay at my house. The only thing that holds me back is that sometimes she gets to be a control freak when i don't call her back and don't go out with her. She told me she's already slept with 10 guys so I'm thinking this girls a hoe even though shes hot. She told me last night that she wasn't going to hang with me anymore if I didn't give her the attention she needs. I'm thinking to my self, I dont give my real girlfriend, mom or friends the attention they need and what makes u special.
My girlfriend is not a cute as her but she has the brains and gets paid well, our relationship has gone down significately so I'm not sure if she's the one although we've been together since high school which is now 9 years. Were not married or live together. I'm thinking about dumping them both or just keeping one. What should I do?

[beatango2008]

well beings that you already cheated on your real girlfriend you should just break it off with her because its not fair to her. And if you don't like the way the other girl is controling don't get involved anymore than what you already are. Because she's not going to change only get worse. Best of luck to you

[Amorphic]

You're cheating on a girl you've been with for 9 years? Obviously you owe it to her to end the relationship. Obviously the relationship with your gf means nothing and should be disposed of, you definetly made a mess with that.

I have no comprehension of why you would consider the option of keeping both girls around.

Dump your girlfriend now, she deserves to be with someone that doesn't cheat. Do your thing with the new girl and see how it goes, no need to jump into any relationship off the bat.

[importeater91]

just break it off dude..she just gonna cause more problems

[firmechicano831]

thanks guys. Yeah I did fuc.,,, up on the things that i did. I've started to not be attrted to my real gf since she's gained alot more weight. She's now at 180pounds and doesn't want to work out or eat right. I do love who she is and how smart she is and how she treats me sometimes. We don't have sex or see each other that much.
My co-worker is beautiful but also doesn't have goals in life and wants me to be with her all the time.

[firmechicano831]

I'm just going to tell my co-worker that I can't hang out with her for now since I have a gf and if things change between me and my gf in the future and she's available maybe we can try things once again but that I don't want to hurt her feelings or promise her something that i really can't give her now.

[Amorphic]

I'm just going to tell my co-worker that I can't hang out with her for now since I have a gf and if things change between me and my gf in the future and she's available maybe we can try things once again but that I don't want to hurt her feelings or promise her something that i really can't give her now.

i wouldt do that... you'll pretty much blow any chance with this coworker of yours if you spill the beans that you have a gf.

cool things down, break up with your gf, and see how things go down the line, but dont tell your coworker.

[firmechicano831]

the co-worker knows that I have a gf already but she just wants me to dedicate more time to her and take her out on the weekends. Spend the night with her on new years and its like ok. What time am I going to spend with my real gf and family and friends if you want all the time.

[Amorphic]

doesnt your gf catch on to the fact that you're spending a lot of time away or with this girl?

[Lexed]

sorry I cannot give any advice until I see a pic

[rodgerj]

Invite the Co-worker to your house and let her meet you gf, get them Edited. Read the board rules. No rec drug post. and do them both...... Then get them to do each other and post the vid....


No seriously..... do you love your gf? how would you feel if you came home and a stallion of a man was pounding your gf with his 14 inch manstick? real savage like withs his hefty bag of nuts slapping against her chocolate ring piece and shes screaming for him to split her in two?

Now do you feel hurt or jealous? could you forgive her? if you want to do the right and moral thing, break up with them both. The hot one will only cheat on you sooner or later so she is just a bit of fun but still a person don't forget. Do you really want to be french kiss a girl who could of had another guys twanger in her cakehole 5 minutes earlier?

Tell your current gf why you need to break up and be a man. After a long stint you could even work it out. If that's what you want. If you just don't want her any more then tell her. She doesn't need to know about the affair then. Only tell her if you want to try and restore things it is not fair to hurt her that much if you have no intention of staying with her.

I get the impression what you really want is to use the co-worker as a ****buddy and never get caught? basically use them both? I would love to hear a woman's view on what you should do.......

Think about how you would feel about another mans meat inside your gf, his beans in her mouth..... how would it make you feel? do you want her to feel like that just so you can bang a hot chick? its completely up to you....

[ausmanalot]

how old are you bro?

[DSM4Life]

thanks guys. Yeah I did fuc.,,, up on the things that i did. I've started to not be attrted to my real gf since she's gained alot more weight. She's now at 180pounds and doesn't want to work out or eat right. I do love who she is and how smart she is and how she treats me sometimes. We don't have sex or see each other that much.
My co-worker is beautiful but also doesn't have goals in life and wants me to be with her all the time.

That really sucks. I totally know the feeling of being in that spot and its not a fun one so i wont judge you for your actions. You did cheat so show your g/f some respect and break it off. You don't have to tell her you cheated but just end the relationship. You already crossed the line with her so doing it again in the future will just be easier.

Goodluck.

[Jenseno9]

ya good question. I wouldnt choose either one. Why are you so hung up on this girl you work with? You've said she is hot. Wow so what. There are a million hot chix out there. You say she doesnt have any goals isnt smart. Why make yourself choose between these two? Ditch em both. And how can you cheat on a girl you've been with for 9 yrs? Kinda shitty if you ask me.

[J-Dogg]

lol, I've been in this situation man....my experince tells me your current girl takes good care of you. Is probably not the best at "giving it up" but is probably the type to make sure all the christmas cards make it out to the family?

Girl #2 is probably a little wild, fun in bed and a great looking girl.

I'm not going to tell you to break up with your girl because I think if you love her....you can make a mistake and work things out.

I will tell you, this hot piece that is sleeping with you after a few weeks on the job....is going to make you miserable if you date her. If you want to sleep with her, do it, use her for that but do not date her.

I'm 27 now, and in the past few years looks do not even rate as the most important quality I look for in women. Your girl is probably looking for further commitment if you have been together for 9 years. If you don't give that to her, and you split up, she is married in under 2 years.

[J-Dogg]

P.S.
Almost forgot......
You can't turn a hoe into a house wife!

[xero]

No seriously..... do you love your gf? how would you feel if you came home and a stallion of a man was pounding your gf with his 14 inch manstick? real savage like withs his hefty bag of nuts slapping against her chocolate ring piece and shes screaming for him to split her in two?

Nah, he doesn't need to worry about this, I don't have the time to get round to her.

[Mazzive_T]

LMAO - chocolate ring piece - classic!

[firmechicano831]

I'm actually 29yrs old right now. Me and my current gf graduated together from a community college and a state university in finance. I currenly work in commercial real estate and have been doing really good for the past four years. I'm looking for a women that has goals, wants to succeed and has some brains and is great in bed. It's hard to find all in one but sometimes you have to give up some thing up to get something else.

[firmechicano831]

I think I'm just going to let go of the girl at work. I mean she's hot but I've already hit that ***** so I can move on. She doesn't have any goals and can't see into the future. I think she would just cause alot of problems for me in the long run since she is high maintance now.

[J-Dogg]

You better worry about finding a woman that will be loyal to you before you look at anything else.

She can rack up 10's in everything but if she is on another guys stick when your at work, what's the point.

You can obviously see why the woman from work would not rank a 10 on loyalty right? But that does not mean you can't sleep with her, but don't offer her anymore.

[firmechicano831]

That's the thing, I think she be ****ing people behind my back. She told me that in her last relationship that she lived with her ex bf for three years. She found out he cheated on her and she ****ed about 5 different guys when she was with him behind his back and his best friend too. You can't trust these hoes or make them a house wife. Thats why I should just hit it and run.

[DSM4Life]

That's the thing, I think she be ****ing people behind my back. She told me that in her last relationship that she lived with her ex bf for three years. She found out he cheated on her and she ****ed about 5 different guys when she was with him behind his back and his best friend too. You can't trust these hoes or make them a house wife. Thats why I should just hit it and run.

Don't make excuses for your actions. You F'ed up now just pay the piper and get it over with.

[RANA]

Tell the co-worker you would rather be friends and NEVER and I do mean NEVER tell your GF you cheated on her!!!!

[firmechicano831]

I would never tell my girl friend or else id be history.

[JuicedUpCanuk]

Looks like you have a stage 5 clinger, had a bro that stuped this chick from the gym. Little hoe chased him down and called his wife, totaly ****ed up his life for 10min of humpin. Poor FVCKER. Change jobs-Move to another city-cause shes cummin to ruin your life. Yull see who gets fvcked in the end

[Kale]

So I just started at a new job like 4 months ago and I have now hooked up with a diamond piece that works there. She is a 9 out of 10 on my scoreboard and I'm usually really picky. She's 5'8 with sexy legs and almost a six pack. Big ass and a beautiful face. The only problem is that she wants me to be her bf although she just found out I have a gf. We've had sex about 20times already and she always wants me to take her out and wants to come over and stay at my house. The only thing that holds me back is that sometimes she gets to be a control freak when i don't call her back and don't go out with her. She told me she's already slept with 10 guys so I'm thinking this girls a hoe even though shes hot. She told me last night that she wasn't going to hang with me anymore if I didn't give her the attention she needs. I'm thinking to my self, I dont give my real girlfriend, mom or friends the attention they need and what makes u special.
My girlfriend is not a cute as her but she has the brains and gets paid well, our relationship has gone down significately so I'm not sure if she's the one although we've been together since high school which is now 9 years. Were not married or live together. I'm thinking about dumping them both or just keeping one. What should I do?

Makes you wonder who the "Ho" is here. And I bet you have slept with more than 10 chics, so I guess again that makes you a "Ho" as well ?

[firmechicano831]

Hey Juice that shit was funny but then again it shows you that you have to be careful.

[goodcents]

Ten dudes makes her a ho? Hell that's a virgin if I get one with only that many

[Amorphic]

I would never tell my girl friend or else id be history.

you should man up and let the truth out, you pretty much deserve for it to be history.

[Odpierdol_sie!]

lol, I've been in this situation man....my experince tells me your current girl takes good care of you. Is probably not the best at "giving it up" but is probably the type to make sure all the christmas cards make it out to the family?

Girl #2 is probably a little wild, fun in bed and a great looking girl.

I'm not going to tell you to break up with your girl because I think if you love her....you can make a mistake and work things out.

I will tell you, this hot piece that is sleeping with you after a few weeks on the job....is going to make you miserable if you date her. If you want to sleep with her, do it, use her for that but do not date her.

I'm 27 now, and in the past few years looks do not even rate as the most important quality I look for in women. Your girl is probably looking for further commitment if you have been together for 9 years. If you don't give that to her, and you split up, she is married in under 2 years.

Yeah i will agree with that, i was going to say something along them lines anyway.

Sounds like you have had your fun with her, if cheating is your bag then kick her to touch and find another shag slag, if you aint that bothered then you wont need another.

Sounds like you love your girl, if weight is the only issue then mate you don't have many issues.

Perhaps its time to find something new in your relationship, walking, cycling, hiking etc, women in general find going to the gym boring, i know that first hand.

Also perhaps you could buy her some Hyrdoxycut Max and lace her food with it.
I sold some to my Ex-gf 3 weeks ago and she has said her sex drive is rocketing so if that happens to your girl she will get back down to weight and shag the life out of you so no need to stick it to your co-workers.

[gixxerboy1]

Ten dudes makes her a ho? Hell that's a virgin if I get one with only that many

i know let be realistic. If she is 22 and started at 17 thats only 2 guys a year. WOW what a skank