Losing my girl

**king6** · 01-30-2008, 06:50 PM

I started working at my job March 2007, when I satrted there was this girl that worked there too, we got along really good, as a matter of fact, I have never gotten along with a girl as well as I do with her. So after knowing her for 6 months, we started dating. We dated for 2 and half months, then she told me she was moving 30 miles away, I was bummed cause we he old apartment was only 2 miles away from mine. So she moved, and I was bummed, but I still got to see her at work. Then she told me she was getting back together with her ex (a girl), and I was really bummed. We maintained our friendship, but I tried to get over her, but when I tried to distance myself, she would always call me and text me, and she always wanted to hang out, so I thought maybe she was reconsidering getting back with me, but then today she told me she found another job and Friday was her last day. This was the worst news I have had in a long time. It would be different if she found a job and was still living close to me, but now she lives far away, and works far away.

I have had my fair share of relationships and know first hand that the pain goes away, but I'm not sure I want to get over her this time, she just seemed to be the one. But I also know that she didn't feel about me the way I felt about about her. So I know it is in my best intrest to let this one go, but I also know that this one is going to be the hardest to get over. Never date bisexuals.

**Jenseno9** · 01-30-2008, 06:57 PM

Ive always thought that why should i waste my time or feeling on someone that doesn't want to be with me. Kind of a hard way to look at things but only time and maybe someone new can really get u over her. best of luck

**needmorestrength** · 01-30-2008, 06:59 PM

Your better off obviously with out her.. Go find a girl that likes only men

**UberSteroids** · 01-30-2008, 07:02 PM

Originally Posted by needmorestrength

Your better off obviously with out her.. Go find a girl that likes only men

Yes Sir.

With all the crazy crap going on these day, it is hard to trust any girl. They have too many options, at least they think they do, well depending what they are looking for... anways...

I will never feel for any girl, unless we were together for minimum year or two. If you jump in with your feeling too soon, BAM, she changes her mind or whatever the F*** and you are crushed. Screw it... they never know what the hell they want anywas! Untill they get older...and possibly a kid from last relationship that "somehow" suprizingly didn't workout...

Tired of seeing guys, broken by girls... There is so many of them out there... she don't want it.. oh well, DROP IT!!

Get over it, you'll find a nicer girl...

Good luck man...

**goodcents** · 01-30-2008, 07:30 PM

Originally Posted by king6

I started working at my job March 2007, when I satrted there was this girl that worked there too, we got along really good, as a matter of fact, I have never gotten along with a girl as well as I do with her. So after knowing her for 6 months, we started dating. We dated for 2 and half months, then she told me she was moving 30 miles away, I was bummed cause we he old apartment was only 2 miles away from mine. So she moved, and I was bummed, but I still got to see her at work. Then she told me she was getting back together with her ex (a girl), and I was really bummed. We maintained our friendship, but I tried to get over her, but when I tried to distance myself, she would always call me and text me, and she always wanted to hang out, so I thought maybe she was reconsidering getting back with me, but then today she told me she found another job and Friday was her last day. This was the worst news I have had in a long time. It would be different if she found a job and was still living close to me, but now she lives far away, and works far away.

I have had my fair share of relationships and know first hand that the pain goes away, but I'm not sure I want to get over her this time, she just seemed to be the one. But I also know that she didn't feel about me the way I felt about about her. So I know it is in my best intrest to let this one go, but I also know that this one is going to be the hardest to get over. Never date bisexuals.

Yeah just fuk them

I love chics that like chics, you could have so much fun with that chic. Just be fuk buddies

Hell I've drove more than 30 miles to bang a chic before

My salon is close to 30 miles from my house and I drive it every day.(that's not counting checking on the jewelry store and running errands.)

**football2007** · 01-30-2008, 07:38 PM

I'm tired of gettin ****ed over by girls.

As Uber said, I kinna refuse to get too involved emotionally unless they really show me they are really into me...and after a few months they still are lol. I've found chicks change their minds extremely quickly....so never get too comfortable

**king6** · 01-30-2008, 09:19 PM

Yeah, I saw all the warning signs that she didn't want to be with me, and I tried not to get emotionally envolved, but it didn't work. Don't know why that keeps happening to me, I always get over it, usually takes about 6 months, but during that time life sucks. Oh well, guess this was going to happen sooner or later, guess it is better to get it over with. I could go out and get laid with a few girls that I know like me, but I have never been the type that sleeps around, I am more the type that likes to just have a relationship. But whatever, I think this time around I will stay single for awhile and focus on school. You would think that these things would get easier with expierience.

**CheddaNips** · 01-30-2008, 10:49 PM

hang in there man. Good luck

**hobbs9963** · 01-30-2008, 10:58 PM

I feel ya man. Everything happens for a reason. You'll be ok. Look at it like this, some time together is better than none. That saying has helped me a couple of times anyways. Better luck in the future.

**legobricks** · 01-30-2008, 11:15 PM

Originally Posted by needmorestrength

Your better off obviously with out her.. Go find a girl that likes only men

Or a man that likes only men. I know there are a couple around here (waiting for them to chime in).

On a serious note tho, sorry bout the loss. It does suck and you havent even dated her for a long time. Plenty of women out there to get to know so your loss can be replenished in no time.

**cjp4eva** · 01-31-2008, 12:03 AM

Get with her sister!!!

**qualityclrk1** · 01-31-2008, 12:06 AM

Originally Posted by cjp4eva

Get with her sister!!!

you would lol

**Voice of Reason** · 01-31-2008, 01:00 AM

http://youtube.com/watch?v=6AMlKYl4KVk&feature=related

**cjp4eva** · 01-31-2008, 01:01 AM

Originally Posted by qualityclrk1

you would lol

HOW YOU KNOW *hehehehe*

**cjp4eva** · 01-31-2008, 01:09 AM

Originally Posted by Voice of Reason

http://youtube.com/watch?v=6AMlKYl4KVk&feature=related

LOL "im being cool about this, now go home and tell your mom shes about to get fvucked" LOL HAHAHAHAHA....

**Kale** · 01-31-2008, 01:17 AM

Originally Posted by Voice of Reason

http://youtube.com/watch?v=6AMlKYl4KVk&feature=related

This is just wrong on so many levels !!!

**cjp4eva** · 01-31-2008, 01:23 AM

Originally Posted by Kale

This is just wrong on so many levels !!!

Hello There

**bigt10** · 01-31-2008, 01:29 AM

Originally Posted by Voice of Reason

http://youtube.com/watch?v=6AMlKYl4KVk&feature=related

HAHA that made my day.

this should be a post on its own.

ya hes right wrong in so many ways haha.

**Primalinstinct** · 01-31-2008, 01:30 AM

I love the mailbox part.

Great sh!t.

**legobricks** · 01-31-2008, 01:31 AM

Originally Posted by Voice of Reason

http://youtube.com/watch?v=6AMlKYl4KVk&feature=related

omg..... THAT IS THE BST THING EVER!!!

I seriously laughed throughout the whole thing!!!!!! Hahahahahah ahhh that guy DEFINATELY knows how to say "fvck you" back!

**cjp4eva** · 01-31-2008, 01:35 AM

**king6** · 01-31-2008, 06:03 AM

Originally Posted by Voice of Reason

http://youtube.com/watch?v=6AMlKYl4KVk&feature=related

Nice.

**firmechicano831** · 01-31-2008, 07:53 PM

I liked it.

**PEWN** · 01-31-2008, 07:55 PM

Originally Posted by Kale

This is just wrong on so many levels !!!

but yet soooooo right .... that bitch deserved it ...

**dogman69** · 01-31-2008, 09:18 PM

Originally Posted by Voice of Reason

http://youtube.com/watch?v=6AMlKYl4KVk&feature=related

lololololololol

**goodcents** · 02-01-2008, 10:06 AM

Love the new avatar kale. Kale shows me I have atleast 20 good years left

BG · 02-01-2008, 10:51 AM

You got that right, dont ever trust a carpet muncher with your feelings, deep down inside they hate guys.

BG · 02-01-2008, 11:01 AM

Originally Posted by Voice of Reason

http://youtube.com/watch?v=6AMlKYl4KVk&feature=related

Too funny

"Is it such a shock your mother wants to fuuuuuuck!!!"

Made my morning....shit my whole day.

**goodcents** · 02-01-2008, 11:30 AM

Originally Posted by T.R.D

You got that right, dont ever trust a carpet muncher with your feelings, deep down inside they hate guys.

Brutal

**convalescence69** · 02-01-2008, 01:47 PM

Nothing messes me up more than break-ups. I too am going through a really bad one right now. Was with a girl for 4 years, and within the last month she's ended it. We had troubles before, but this time it seems like there is nothing I can do to make things right.
I've come to the conclusion that women are insane. They bitch and moan about wanting a nice guy, but they go for the ass holes. If they are with a nice guy they are bored and want better so they go out and look for an asshole they can try to fix, who ultimately treats them like crap. Meanwhile, the nice guy is at home all depressed while his ex is getting ram shackle shafted by some jerk. Sometimes it takes them getting fvcked by some jerk and treated like shit for a while before they realize they made a mistake, but at that point its too late to change things. No matter how much I liked a girl, I won't take her back after she's been elsewhere. Thats like the ultimate kick in the balls to a guy.
I'm a real softy when it comes to girls man, so I feel for you. Best wishes to you, and you send me the same, I need them too.

**convalescence69** · 02-01-2008, 01:58 PM

btw, I just watched that link, thats just awesome

**Pooks** · 02-01-2008, 02:01 PM

Time to meet a new girl and make her jelous..

if u can't pull of the "new girl' part..
than try n fake it hehe

Screw it why not.. its bout time u had some fun with this break up thing anyways.

**goodcents** · 02-01-2008, 02:32 PM

Fuk her and her girlfriend and get it on camera, enjoy these years of your life

Do every nasty thing you can to them

**goodcents** · 02-01-2008, 02:32 PM

I've been having great fun w/ my new camera

**king6** · 02-02-2008, 03:50 PM

Originally Posted by convalescence69

Nothing messes me up more than break-ups. I too am going through a really bad one right now. Was with a girl for 4 years, and within the last month she's ended it. We had troubles before, but this time it seems like there is nothing I can do to make things right.
I've come to the conclusion that women are insane. They bitch and moan about wanting a nice guy, but they go for the ass holes. If they are with a nice guy they are bored and want better so they go out and look for an asshole they can try to fix, who ultimately treats them like crap. Meanwhile, the nice guy is at home all depressed while his ex is getting ram shackle shafted by some jerk. Sometimes it takes them getting fvcked by some jerk and treated like shit for a while before they realize they made a mistake, but at that point its too late to change things. No matter how much I liked a girl, I won't take her back after she's been elsewhere. Thats like the ultimate kick in the balls to a guy.
I'm a real softy when it comes to girls man, so I feel for you. Best wishes to you, and you send me the same, I need them too.

I know how you feel man, I don't understand them. After we ended it, we were still friends, I just didn't talk to her outside of work, cause I was trying to move on, but she kept calling and texting me, even more so than when we were together. And she always wanted to hang out, then yesterday was her going away party. She told me she got back with her ex cause she was with her for 4 years, and there was a certain comfort level she was use to, but she said it was hard cause she really liked me. We ended up making out in the parking lot of the bar, pretty hot and heavy too, so I don't know. I would take her back in a second, but I'm not holding my breath.