nonverbal communication

[J431S]

what would u do if some keep making stupid gestures at u after ignoring him several times? please help before i confront this guy and break his neck.

[ecto9]

* Laugh it off.

* Get adept at comming back with the wise cracks while keeping a light and fun attitude about it (the best thing to do in my mind, but takes practice).

* Talk to them and tell them how you feel (sometimes works).

* Get mean (not my fav choice).

[rockinred]

what would u do if some keep making stupid gestures at u after ignoring him several times? please help before i confront this guy and break his neck.

maybe he thinks your cute and has a crush on you? just blow him a kiss.

[ChuckLee]

I wouldn't be so magnanimous with him...butit's just me...

CL

[J431S]

* Laugh it off.

* Get adept at comming back with the wise cracks while keeping a light and fun attitude about it (the best thing to do in my mind, but takes practice).

* Talk to them and tell them how you feel (sometimes works).

* Get mean (not my fav choice).

that's what one of my uncles did say, 'laugh it off." I have tried it many times but it never worked out. i guess one of these days i'm going to catch a case, believe me i'm sick of this idiot.

[J431S]

maybe he thinks your cute and has a crush on you? just blow him a kiss.

no he is not, but i'm timing to black his eyes.

[jbonez19]

that's what one of my uncles did say, 'laugh it off." I have tried it many times but it never worked out. i guess one of these days i'm going to catch a case, believe me i'm sick of this idiot.

just smile, wave and give him the finger, then smile again. don't give him the satisfaction of knowing he got under your skin. maybe he has a mental problem. just pity the fool!

[wilson9d]

Stab him in the throat

[Prada]

For some reason this thread reminds me of this comment.

I have been working intensively over the past several months. However I notice there is change in the way walk. I'm getting attention that's not there before. I think people are percive me as violent person or like a violent person? But at the same I could see they respect because they fear I may break their neck.
Has that ever happen to you? how did u adjust to person who u were?

[soccer#3]

[Mike Dura]

Beat him at his own game. Start giving him insinuating glances. Do it with zeal and just a twist of lust and you got it.

[Papi93]

what would u do if some keep making stupid gestures at u after ignoring him several times? please help before i confront this guy and break his neck.

Where are you when he does this?

[qualityclrk1]

i say lash out and beat him....come back here and tell us how it goes....

[Voice of Reason]

You could do this:

or

Be this guy:

[soulstealer]

Just walk right up to him w/o saying a word and crack him in the jaw..... bet you next time you see him he doesnt even make eye contact...

[J431S]

Where are you when he does this?

cafeteria at workplace.

wilson9d wrote:

Stab him in the throat

I don't want to catch a case; beside i did tried to report him to HR but my compliant were dismissed as lame. the HR manager thinks body language can interpretaet in all sort of ways, positive and negtive, and he can justified my compliabnt based on that. he needs more than this odd bodi languages to either warn or discipline him.

[Papi93]

cafeteria at workplace.

I don't want to catch a case; beside i did tried to report him to HR but my compliant were dismissed as lame. the HR manager thinks body language can interpretaet in all sort of ways, positive and negtive, and he can justified my compliabnt based on that. he needs more than this odd bodi languages to either warn or discipline him.

That's a tough one because you could lose your job for fighting. There was an employee, from a union, that lost his job because he got in a fight with a contractor. It's hard to fire union employees so be careful.

Anyway you can confront him outside of the work area?

[J431S]

Anyway you can confront him outside of the work area?

i can't do that either because that confrontation will be seen as work-related.

[Papi93]

i can't do that either because that confrontation will be seen as work-related.

Can you go to the HR's supervisor with the complaint (if you feel the HR person isn't doing their job)?

[J431S]

Can you go to the HR's supervisor with the complaint (if you feel the HR person isn't doing their job)?

how would u convince them if u were in my position? that some disgruntle employee is making impression of 'kiss my ass' to me. it ain't gonna work man... or would it?

[soulstealer]

how would u convince them if u were in my position? that some disgruntle employee is making impression of 'kiss my ass' to me. it ain't gonna work man... or would it?

I think this is one of those covert sabotage situations... like resin in the gas talk..... and strong electro magnet by the computer

[wilson9d]

cafeteria at workplace.




I don't want to catch a case; beside i did tried to report him to HR but my compliant were dismissed as lame. the HR manager thinks body language can interpretaet in all sort of ways, positive and negtive, and he can justified my compliabnt based on that. he needs more than this odd bodi languages to either warn or discipline him.

stab him in the throat too!

[Papi93]

how would u convince them if u were in my position? that some disgruntle employee is making impression of 'kiss my ass' to me. it ain't gonna work man... or would it?

Keep going up the chain-of-command until you get results. If that doesn't work...find a place to confront the individual outside of the workplace. I don't mean that you have to assault him...just ask if if there is a problem. You can't let it eat you up or he will sense that weakness and keep digging. Some people are just douchebags who have nothing better to do.

[DSM4Life]

what would u do if some keep making stupid gestures at u after ignoring him several times? please help before i confront this guy and break his neck.

I wish i was as tough as you.

Ever hear the saying "sticks and stones...."

[Schmidty]

look at him and lick ur lips and wink at him.

[Tock]

What would I do . . .

I'd keep in mind that this planet is full of obnoxious jerks, and he may well be king of them all.
I'd keep in mind that if I hit him, I'd lose me job, and maybe end up with legal trouble.

[*El Diablo*]

Shit on his windscreen if he has a car

[ChuckLee]

Shit on his windscreen if he has a car

Bad choice..better shit on his face if he has a head

[crazyhorse1960]

make an intelligent remark toward of how stupid he sounds,and hopefully it would hit him where he lives and than maybe he will leave you alone feeling stupid.its better than sending him on a stretcher with a broken neck!..

[J431S]

Shit on his windscreen if he has a car

yea...that's what intend to do diablo...I'm gonna shit in bag in the restroom and I'm gonna head out to the parking lot when no one is watching and I'm gonna scattr all the content on his windscreen...thanks for the idea diablo....I think i finally got him....

[KorperTrainerung]

If I gathered this right you work at a restuarant? If so, get your friends to come in that dont ever visit you at work at have them report to the manager that this guy is making insuinating gestures at you and they dont feel comfortable eating in an atmosphere like that. Enough complaints and theyll have to do something about it. Just make sure you get friends that never visit you. And if that dont work find where he lives and stab him in the throat.

[domeyeahaigh]

lol catch a case? who are you 50 cent? grow up man, ignore it, control yourself better...no need to be a jackass because someone else is... sounds like there is some competition for the alpha male, be better than him at your job, work harder, just be yourself, pay him no attention, that is how you handle this situation

[J431S]

lol catch a case? who are you 50 cent? grow up man, ignore it, control yourself better...no need to be a jackass because someone else is... sounds like there is some competition for the alpha male, be better than him at your job, work harder, just be yourself, pay him no attention, that is how you handle this situation

i tried every thing u said chris, and i wished it had worked, unfortunate it was not but fortunately i have decision to make and i'm gonna get him in that way or another. thanks for tryinh to advise though.

[D-Unit 39]

Set his homepage to 2girls1cup when he's not around....