do most women like bodybuildders?

**MATTMAN01** · 05-30-2008, 09:44 PM

Originally Posted by KatsMeow

great reply Big10... I agree, I have dated a variety. I just happen to like "lickable" rock hard abs and enough power to toss me around a bit

I cant see you but I already like you!

**J431S** · 05-31-2008, 02:11 AM

Originally Posted by football2007

it depends

Ive noticed when Im tryin to put on size and im all ballooned and look like an ape, chix run the other way.

However, when I cut down to 10% or so and lean it down I seem to get more attention...There u go!

So it all depends. I don't think they like IFBB size bb'ers tho. No matter how lean or anything..

couldn't disagree from first hand experience. goodpoint u made here, it all depends as there are so many variables that needs to be filtered in: personality, career, social networks, and maybe class etc. all these mention attracts women.

**bigt10** · 05-31-2008, 02:23 AM

Originally Posted by RuhlFreak55

i want my body wayyyy past extreme.....

welll it all depends what you want.

dont base what you want based on other peoples opinoins, if you want to be as big as ron go for it. I am just saying their is less.

I am a younger guy but it isnt so much about looks its really you gotta find a size your comfortable with and get alot of dam confidence and youll be good.

And bloated fat aint great. Once you pass 16-17 % bodyfat and your face starts lookin bloated it of course isnt so great.

It kinda depends on the person/body/personality.

But like i said this whole question is really stupid their is no yes/no or right answer. It really all depends. There is no best car. And as i said the more extremes are off to. It all depends how big guys are and i doubt many actually pass that poin if they do their BF % is just to high. IFBB guys are different these guys cycle hard year round for years. Thats alot different.

You dont want to be a skeletor or be as big as ronnie though

well some want to be as big as ron hell.

**Oki-Des** · 05-31-2008, 07:33 AM

Originally Posted by calgarian

Especially with all the money he got

. Sometimes its hard to figure out girls like guys like brad pit cause they look good or because they have more money?

Does it matter?

**KatsMeow** · 05-31-2008, 10:05 AM

I don't really find Brad Pitt attractive...too skinny for me. Of course you don't want to date someone who is eating out of the dumpster because they are poor. Men just need to have it together...as well as women, I bought my house when I was 21, so I don't want to date someone who's 28 and still living at home with momma because he can't pull it together enough to get a good job and get a place of his own.
It's more important for men to have future goals more so than it is for them to be loaded.

**football2007** · 05-31-2008, 06:03 PM

Originally Posted by J431S

couldn't disagree from first hand experience. goodpoint u made here, it all depends as there are so many variables that needs to be filtered in: personality, career, social networks, and maybe class etc. all these mention attracts women.

Yup. I've had two looks. One largely unsuccessful with women and one more successful.

Unsuccussful- 270lbs 20% bf long hair, pale
Successful- 245lbs 10% bf short hair, tan

I guess its kinna common sense, but the confidence you gain from looking better also makes you look better to women. They know when you are confident in yourself. Just dont let it get outta hand, cocky dudes just piss me off. Confidence is okay, but dont go around talking about how great you are all day..girls will walk the other way fast if you just sit and talk about yourself...

**GixxerChick** · 05-31-2008, 07:46 PM

I don't like the super outrageous huge body-builder type body... it's nice to admire from a distance, but for a guy for me I like a lot of muscle but nothing overly done... some guys are just HUGE... hehe

The determination and effort the huge guys put forth is pretty sexy though

**J431S** · 06-01-2008, 12:53 AM

this is the most childish, no experience, guesswork advise i have ever read on this board.
bigp10, we need u to cite your own experience to consider your poor unpunctuated sentences here worthy of any advice.

Originally Posted by bigt10

What people say and do are very different.

It like asking a guy if he likes chicks with big fake boobs.

he is going to say i dont like fake boobs but in real life would be attracted to them.

People here are forgetting extremes. Its like saying do you like skinny girls? Sure they will mostly say yes but do you want a girl so skinny shes anorexic. Or its saying do you like fat girls? but how fat are we talking about......

What woman wants some scrony short anorexic guy? But does she want ronnie coleman.?

No and the sexiest thing is always confidence. If you carry yourself well and suit it that is sexy. This argument is kind of stupid and flawed. There is always extremes to everything. Ya ronnie would be to big for most girls and so are pro body builders. It also depends on the person some guys are to strict.

You gotta find a good middle ground and not worry about what women think. Again she doesnt want a fat, skinny, obese or to big guy. So stop worrying and find a good look.

And again i doubt their are alot of guys here as big as pro body builders. These guys cycle abnormal amounts of AAS, eat abnormal amounts of food, and train harder/more/longer then us. So it isnt like your going to be ronnie coleman any time soon.

Of course women like muscular men what kind of question is that, how muscular is the question. It isnt a one word answer. Sure some guy who is so full of himself isnt good, It is perhaps the stero types women associate with "weight lifters."

The insecurty thing is the other half of it. Hot girls wont feel so good if they're guy is perfect but they dont want an ugly one either. Thats why i said you should all stop worrying, it is the extremes that kill it.

Some will say its the hottest girls and guys that have the biggest problems, often people are intimidated of them and lack the confidence to approach them.

its all the way you carry yourself, act, and look its a combo.

**pay tribute** · 06-01-2008, 01:20 AM

I think girls are more attracted to the Arnold-types than the Ronnie-types. Skinny waist, smaller legs, etc.

**J431S** · 06-01-2008, 01:24 AM

Sure common sense is the bedrock for all rational decision making unless one is unsuccessful in the habit of buying love, then losing few pounds of fat ain't gonna change a damn thing.

Originally Posted by football2007

Yup. I've had two looks. One largely unsuccessful with women and one more successful.

Unsuccussful- 270lbs 20% bf long hair, pale
Successful- 245lbs 10% bf short hair, tan

I guess its kinna common sense, but the confidence you gain from looking better also makes you look better to women. They know when you are confident in yourself. Just dont let it get outta hand, cocky dudes just piss me off. Confidence is okay, but dont go around talking about how great you are all day..girls will walk the other way fast if you just sit and talk about yourself...