tell me what you think(female Q..need opinions)

[BIGMAC250]

ok...so.....me and the lady friend have been arguing.....but things are smoothing out....i tried making plans with her on wed for thurs....she said she didnt know had plans...i asked which day...she said i dont know....ok whatever......well i made the decision to go home for the weekend.....she hits me up on myspace talking about how she did her thing on wed.....well the way things have been i didnt plan on seeing her at all on the norm days(thurs-sun) like i norm would..plus shes got fam in town...so i told her i was going home for the weekend and im leaving thurs night...all of a sudden she wants me to come over...so i told her ive got a few hrs so ill head your way....then she gets mad at me and starts yelling..."no dont worry about go get ****ed up with your friends back home"(keep in mind she is the one who kinda broke it off with me)...im like look do you want me to come over or not.....she says yea......i get there and she starts asking what im gonna do...so i tell her...im goin to the beach, chillen w my fam and friends and im coming home on sunday.......im like what about you....dont you have fam in town...."yea but they are gonna be with my parents plus they dont live that far away anyway....i think im just gonna go to the beach but i havent talked to anyone in so long i dont know if i can find anyone...and your not gonna be here so i hope i can".....now keep in mind...her mom is her best friend and she sees them every weekend....and she dont like the beach because she is insecure about her body and thats why she never wanted to go with me......i just find it funny that everything she is saying is happening now that she knows im not gonna be sitting at home by myself boing nothing.... but im goin to be with everyone that i know....is she trying to ruin my weekend...is it bothering her that im gonna go have some fun.....is that showing that even though she kinda broke it off with me she still cares and is worrying about what i might do...i dunno...................any opinions

i think she is just trying to play mind games with me.....or is the fact that she blew up on me put me in a situation where ive got the upper hand on all this now..i dunno.

[Timm1704]

in all honesty, and i know its easier said than done, fvck off home and enjoy your weekend with your buddies. Dont give her too much thought. Ask before you leave whether you are still together, or atleast if she wants to meet up when you get back. Depending on her response, have fun accordingly lol

[DSM4Life]

Women are EVIL !

[B.E.N.]

in all honesty, and i know its easier said than done, fvck off home and enjoy your weekend with your buddies. Dont give her too much thought. Ask before you leave whether you are still together, or atleast if she wants to meet up when you get back. Depending on her response, have fun accordingly lol

Exactly...quit letting her take the lead. Go have fun all weekend and do not call her unless she calls you first. When she does call keep the convo short and sweet then make sure YOU let her go (nicely). Hell a week with no contact and I bet she shows up at your door!

Quit being so available for her and she will be kicking down your door and blowing up your phone to be with you. If not then she wasn't that into you anyway. And DO NOT buy into her guilt trip. She is trying to see if she can control you. Lose that battle and you'll never recover...

She is playing games whether she means to or not...we all play games subconsciously or on purpose. You just need to play harder than her...