sex question

**epc512** · 03-11-2009, 08:42 PM

hey all...try not to make fun or anything...just need some constructive critisism....now when i ahve sex i cant seem to last too long...wehn i try i cant exceed 2 minutes...now im not inexperienced where ive done it a few hundred times which aint a crazy amount but enough to cancel out the ill get used to it answer...ive tried everything...thinking of something else all the way to jerking off an hour before hand...anyone have anything to help me?

**Phate** · 03-11-2009, 08:47 PM

Originally Posted by epc512

hey all...try not to make fun or anything...just need some constructive critisism....now when i ahve sex i cant seem to last too long...wehn i try i cant exceed 2 minutes...now im not inexperienced where ive done it a few hundred times which aint a crazy amount but enough to cancel out the ill get used to it answer...ive tried everything...thinking of something else all the way to jerking off an hour before hand...anyone have anything to help me?

jerking off before hand can help

another route that will take some time is building up the strength in your pubococcygeal muscles through kegal exercises and eventually being able to have "dry" orgasms which will allow you to have a very low refractory period

here is some stuff on kegals

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kegel_exercise

**jbm** · 03-11-2009, 08:47 PM

Seriously! how about while pumping don't concentrate too much bro!
You will last longer...

**scerpico22** · 03-11-2009, 08:50 PM

follow the instructional video:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G2tfE...ext=1&index=26

**DNoMac** · 03-11-2009, 08:53 PM

Wear a condom to reduce sensitivity. Also, have a few drinks (or a whole bottle of jack). That should make you last at least 4 minutes longer.

**Rugger02** · 03-11-2009, 08:55 PM

LOL I thought kegals were just for women.

I try to think about the woman more and what she wants rather than how good it feels... Usually works for me.

Maybe you just need to start bangin uglier girls.... Problem solved

**Kratos** · 03-11-2009, 08:56 PM

anytime sex is the question, yes is the answer

**Phate** · 03-11-2009, 08:57 PM

Originally Posted by Rugger02

LOL I thought kegals were just for women.

I try to think about the woman more and what she wants rather than how good it feels... Usually works for me.

Maybe you just need to start bangin uglier girls.... Problem solved

not at all bro, in fact they can have a huge benefit for us, think about having the ability to orgasm without ejaculating, and therefore being able to continue sex without hardly any down time in a continuous cycle until you are ready to finish

**CHUCKYthentic** · 03-11-2009, 08:57 PM

i wish i could bust in 2 minutes sometimes!

dude when you re beatin off, take your time, dont try to finish quick. think about it, if you condition your lil guy to spew in 3 minutes of watching porn, then same is gonna happen when you bone

**scerpico22** · 03-11-2009, 08:58 PM

Originally Posted by Rugger02

Maybe you just need to start bangin uglier girls.... Problem solved

id rather cum in two seconds!

**Hoggage_54** · 03-11-2009, 08:59 PM

When I'm cycling, I have full control over my orgasms for whatever reason

**Kratos** · 03-11-2009, 09:01 PM

Originally Posted by CHUCKYthentic

i wish i could bust in 2 minutes sometimes!

dude when you re beatin off, take your time, dont try to finish quick. think about it, if you condition your lil guy to spew in 3 minutes of watching porn, then same is gonna happen when you bone

that's ridiculous
you just enjoy romancing yourself

**Rugger02** · 03-11-2009, 09:02 PM

Originally Posted by Phate

not at all bro, in fact they can have a huge benefit for us, think about having the ability to orgasm without ejaculating, and therefore being able to continue sex without hardly any down time in a continuous cycle until you are ready to finish

Touche, I'll be googling if anybody needs me...

**CHUCKYthentic** · 03-11-2009, 09:04 PM

Originally Posted by Kratos

that's ridiculous
you just enjoy romancing yourself

SO!

**scerpico22** · 03-11-2009, 09:11 PM

http://www.askmen.com/dating/love_ti..._love_tip.html

**epc512** · 03-11-2009, 09:36 PM

lol ty..all things ive herd before...the only thing that does help me is a cuple vicodens and some alcohol

**xlxBigSexyxlx** · 03-11-2009, 09:37 PM

I need to do these exercises.

Hopefully I can double my time to a minute 30...

**luxifer93** · 03-11-2009, 09:43 PM

Don't worry, after you have sex with the same chick enough times two minutes is all you'll want. Maybe girls should practice having orgasms faster.

**T_Own** · 03-11-2009, 09:49 PM

Originally Posted by luxifer93

Don't worry, after you have sex with the same chick enough times two minutes is all you'll want. Maybe girls should practice having orgasms faster.

hahahaha thats great and terribly true

**Jfew44** · 03-11-2009, 10:12 PM

Here's a little trick I've learned along the way. If you know you're about to bust, stop. Take a few seconds and eat the p*ssy or rub the cl*t or whatever. After 20-30 seconds, you'll be back at square one. Problem solved!

**firmechicano831** · 03-11-2009, 10:40 PM

Originally Posted by Jfew44

Here's a little trick I've learned along the way. If you know you're about to bust, stop. Take a few seconds and eat the p*ssy or rub the cl*t or whatever. After 20-30 seconds, you'll be back at square one. Problem solved!

thats what I do all the time.

**Brown Ninja** · 03-11-2009, 10:48 PM

choke yourself with a belt or wrap a lot of rubber bands around it

**BuffedGuy** · 03-11-2009, 10:48 PM

Originally Posted by epc512

hey all...try not to make fun or anything...just need some constructive critisism....now when i ahve sex i cant seem to last too long...wehn i try i cant exceed 2 minutes...now im not inexperienced where ive done it a few hundred times which aint a crazy amount but enough to cancel out the ill get used to it answer...ive tried everything...thinking of something else all the way to jerking off an hour before hand...anyone have anything to help me?

Premature ejaculation can be caused by many factors. I encourage you to ask a doctor about it on your next check-up.

SSRI's (fluoxetine, i.e. prozac) can be used by patients who suffer from premature ejaculation. I don't know all the steps in such a consultation, but I do know that eventually you will be prescribed SSRI's which can relieve your problem.

Don't be shy about bringing this up to your doctor. It is a very common problem.

**warchild** · 03-11-2009, 10:51 PM

fvck man i have a problem of not cumming

**reardbandit** · 03-11-2009, 11:23 PM

When I was single and cared how long I lasted, if I felt I needed to I would use one of those climax control condoms that Trojan has. Man, you'll be begging to hurry up and bust one if you use one of those. They work really well.

**ray0414** · 03-12-2009, 12:07 AM

Originally Posted by reardbandit

When I was single and cared how long I lasted, if I felt I needed to I would use one of those climax control condoms that Trojan has. Man, you'll be begging to hurry up and bust one if you use one of those. They work really well.

i used one of those like 7 years ago when i was like 19, the numbing shit burned the hole of my dik and i went limp cause it made it numb and i couldnt feel anything at all...totally defeated the purpose of sex feeling good lol

**Brown Ninja** · 03-12-2009, 12:07 AM

think about baseball

**chicmagnet** · 03-12-2009, 12:11 AM

Picture your grandma...

**luxifer93** · 03-12-2009, 12:44 AM

Originally Posted by chicmagnet

Picture your grandma...

I got a boner now

**J431S** · 03-12-2009, 12:54 AM

Originally Posted by Hoggage_54

When I'm cycling, I have full control over my orgasms for whatever reason

is that right? what about during post cycle? So do u intend to cycle forever? I would like to know.

**NewMuscle83** · 03-12-2009, 01:10 AM

Originally Posted by BuffedGuy

Premature ejaculation can be caused by many factors. I encourage you to ask a doctor about it on your next check-up.

SSRI's (fluoxetine, i.e. prozac) can be used by patients who suffer from premature ejaculation. I don't know all the steps in such a consultation, but I do know that eventually you will be prescribed SSRI's which can relieve your problem.

Don't be shy about bringing this up to your doctor. It is a very common problem.

That is 100% true. While I usually don't have a problem lasting at least 5 or 10 minutes, I still wanted more control over the whole thing. I researched it and spoke to my doctor, and he prescribed me 5mg Zoloft ED. After about 2-3 weeks of taking it, I was able to last up to 30 mins or more if I chose to, but was able to come sooner if I wanted. True story.

I don't take it anymore cause I've had a gf for over a year now, and like someone else mentioned, i'm so used to it, i can control it myself. And its true, sometimes 2 mins is too long lol

**scottythebody** · 03-12-2009, 01:11 AM

I've heard that the extended pleasure condoms make her go numb too, if that's the case I'd rather just not use one and cum in 2 minutes, she isn't getting satisfied either way so you might as well make sure you at least get yours.

Somebody posted on here that they got bit in the dick by a rotweiler when they were a kid and now they aren't as sensitive. Maybe you could try that

**DSM4Life** · 03-12-2009, 05:08 AM

Do long division in your head while pumping away

**Matt** · 03-12-2009, 05:41 AM

Must not make fun, need to control myself..

**paulzane** · 03-12-2009, 07:05 AM

Say the "Lord's Prayer" backwards when you are banging her ..... That should help but the goat in your bedroom might want to join in!!!

**moregunsthanroses** · 03-12-2009, 07:08 AM

Yea slow down or stop works. The kegals can work pretty good.

When you take a piss stop peeing numberous times the muscle you use to stop peeing is the one that will make you last longer during sex if you build it up. From what I understand you have to flex it as well while you bang to get the full effect.

**VeraDeMilo** · 03-12-2009, 08:26 AM

I read a while back that one reason for pre-mature ejaculation stems from how you masterbated growing up. That a lot of kids would run up to their room and try to crank one out as quick as they could before their parents came up stairs or their sister or brother barged into their room. Or their college roomate got back form class. In a way, years of repetition conditioned them to cum faster.
One way to correct it would be to masterbate to the point near ejaculation, and then stop right before. Wait a minute, then keep going until your about to pop again, then stop. Basically when your beating it, try to prolong it as long as possible. Then eventually your real life situations with women will improve.

On a side note, Ive never had much of a problem with it, but one time I ran a letro protocal to get rid of a little gyno that I had since puberty. During those few weeks I had no problem getting it up, but I could not cum at all from ****ing. I would stop from exhaustion before I did from ejaculation. My girl actually got quite depressed and thought it was because I wasn't as turned on by her. lol

**skeldno** · 03-12-2009, 08:42 AM

I have the same prob at the mo and trust me lads its not for being unexperienced!!! I can normally **** good!!!!! But now i cant with my current gf! I think that its because i cum quick a couple of times now eveytime i have sex i worry! its driving me mad and lowering my sex drive which is very strange for me! I dont know wot to do!!!!