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    i look too old...

    Bro's ever since i started using gear my face started to look more mature and older and in combination with my built it makes it even worser. I am only 21 and most people at least guess my age 26 and some even above 30. There isn't a single girl from the age of 18-23 who is intrested in me at first sight and always think i am some kinda sick pedo. Seriously this is getting worser by the day. Every girl I was with last year was at least 3 years older than me except for one. Every time I go out all the girls of my own age just ignore or don't accept me and all the more mature ladies from end twenties, early thirties always come hang around with me. It's almost impossible for me to attract women of my own age. How I am suppose to get a relationship like this?

    In most bars they won't even let me in because most of the girls are 18-20 and some even 16-17 and I look like there facking father! In other places where entre is from 21+ they usualy avoid people "like me" cause we look troublesome due to our built. So yes I am lucky if I even get inside let alone getting luck with a girl. Everytime its the same shit night when I go out. Not to mention all the stupid kids pointing at my arms and talking behind my back and walking tall and acting like stupid clowns man i look like some freaking circus attraction and i am like what only 5 feet 9, 200 pounds that aint shit.

    At college I have the same problem. Everyone thinks I am some kinda idiot who is like 30 and has done all the classes 10 times already. Everyone avoids me there as well. What I am suppose to do really?

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    shave?

    but seriously, i don't know. it seems like you are complaining about being big? and what kind of bars do you go to that let 16 year old girls in?

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    i have a similar situation. ever since i was 20 only older women seem to be attracted to me. i just go with the flow.

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    Quote Originally Posted by T_Own View Post
    shave?

    but seriously, i don't know. it seems like you are complaining about being big? and what kind of bars do you go to that let 16 year old girls in?
    lol bro I always shave when I go out. It's normal age standards for most bars here. You can also smoke and use alcohol here when you are 16. There are so many kids in the bars here that they came up with 21+ bars to get rid of all this children, but still a lot of them get in there as well. Even some big party's with famous DJ's where thousands of people come to party with a lot of drugs involved alow the age of 16.

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    Quote Originally Posted by xXthehulkXx View Post
    i have a similar situation. ever since i was 20 only older women seem to be attracted to me. i just go with the flow.
    ya dude, love your self - cause you just have to go with what you have... get some professional help - if you feel that bad

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    Quote Originally Posted by amcon View Post
    ya dude, love your self - cause you just have to go with what you have... get some professional help - if you feel that bad
    well i do feel bad about it. I always look like a outsider. You would feel bad about it as well. And i do go with what I have, what else can I do? But it doesn't change the situation. I don't hate my self either or complain about being big. I love what I do and will continue what I am doing. No one has influence on that. You shouldn't see my post like i am being sad, hopless, complaining or whatever. It's only frustration

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    I haven't aged at all, in fact I'm lower body fat, so I'd say I've almost anti-aged or at least not gotten any older looking in the past 2 years since juicing. Most people guess my age between 24 and 27 and I'm 29.

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    since when does looking 26 stop you from getting 21-23 year old girls? I was dating a 19 year old over the summer. You need to up your game, it's all in your head.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kratos View Post
    I haven't aged at all, in fact I'm lower body fat, so I'd say I've almost anti-aged or at least not gotten any older looking in the past 2 years since juicing. Most people guess my age between 24 and 27 and I'm 29.
    hmmm maybe when i get older, i will look younger

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    Werner syndrome

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    Ahhh, Or little Towely Poo is becoming a man...LOL

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kratos View Post
    since when does looking 26 stop you from getting 21-23 year old girls? I was dating a 19 year old over the summer. You need to up your game, it's all in your head.
    thats true. But you gotto admit it doesn't make things easier in most cases when you are or look at least 5 years older than teenage girls. I don't know about US but down here. If you don't look like retards on mtv or wear the stupid skinny jeans that are half way down to your knees you won't be getting anything from the age of 16-20. These girls here are seriously messed up.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MuscleScience View Post
    Ahhh, Or little Towely Poo is becoming a man...LOL
    hey you want to be friends with a real man?

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    I am pretty sure age has never stopped 25-30 year olds from banging 20 year olds. sounds like the game needs to be stepped up.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kratos View Post
    since when does looking 26 stop you from getting 21-23 year old girls? I was dating a 19 year old over the summer. You need to up your game, it's all in your head.
    i was gonna comment....but now i know....it's just that i have none of thise "game"

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    Quote Originally Posted by IronReload04 View Post
    I am pretty sure age has never stopped 25-30 year olds from banging 20 year olds. sounds like the game needs to be stepped up.
    Thanks I will try to do better than. I hope thats the issue.

    Well It's time to hit bed. I will keep you guys updated

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    Quote Originally Posted by Towel View Post
    hey you want to be friends with a real man?
    Sorry, DSM beat you to it. And he can be a real bitch if he thinks I have other "friends,"

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    I also look way older than I am and now that I think about it maybe I dont have bad luck with younger girls, they just think im too old. Ive never been with a girl younger than me...

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    Hey Towel I doubt its the gear thats making you look more mature, youre just at the age when youre facial bone structure starts to really mature giving you that look.

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    I personally think I have aged faster in the face. But who knows....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Towel View Post
    well i do feel bad about it. I always look like a outsider. You would feel bad about it as well. And i do go with what I have, what else can I do? But it doesn't change the situation. I don't hate my self either or complain about being big. I love what I do and will continue what I am doing. No one has influence on that. You shouldn't see my post like i am being sad, hopless, complaining or whatever. It's only frustration
    thats fair - i will say this their are two things that motivate people --- fear of loss and pleasure of doing, you have a choice - it is in your hands.

    if you think bad thoughts(even frustrating thoughts) you will have a harder time getting ahead when you hit a plateu, if you plug ahead cause you want to look better - define what is better in detail - get measurement and put up goals

    find God too - he help alot


    you can do it you just need to know what you going for... draw a picture or cut and glue body parts you want your self to look like

    good luck -

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    I am 28.

    the ages of my exes

    26, 20, 21, 19, 22 new one is 26.

    I've done 1 girl that was older than me, and she was born in april, I was born in august. We were both 26 at the time.

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    You just gotta step your game up. If you have the attitude that young girls won't be into you because you look older, girls will be able to pick up on that and then you have no chance with them

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    I'm 32 and I still **** 18 year olds.

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    actually they are 15 but I call them 18 for legal reasons

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    Quote Originally Posted by Towel View Post
    hey you want to be friends with a real man?
    i lol'd. nice screen name also. yeah, truth be told- if you are having these problems you are probably ugly.

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    Dude 5'9" and 200 ilbs is not small and you must stand out in any crowd with those stats. Now whats the issue with chics in there late 20's ? They will have way more fvcking brains than the dumb ass 20 yo bimbo's any day and they will be way better fvcks !!!

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    Picking up young chicks is easy bro. Hold your head up and keep the confidence flowing. Usually the less attention you pay to them the more they want to get to know ya. If that doesn't work......then show them your junk and tell em your rich.

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    its well known fact that we have androgen receptors in our faces, if you were baby faced before cycle chances are there will be changes,, just look at women that juice, jaws square off, skin goes like leather etc..Just accept you have become more 'manly'.

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    At least you can pull chicks, some people cant even manage that.

    Be happy and enjoy what you have

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    Quote Originally Posted by MuscleScience View Post
    Sorry, DSM beat you to it. And he can be a real bitch if he thinks I have other "friends,"
    Im all the "friends" you need , now get back in your room.

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    Hey .... I am 54 next month. Last week I pulled a 26 year old business woman and she wouldn't believe me when I said my age. She eventually accepted that I was early 40's and that I had been joking with her. I first took gear 20 years ago so that means I have been juicing since I was 34 ...... maybe if you start juicing at a young age it will effect you diferently. Maybe you just look an old cnut!

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    Quote Originally Posted by JiGGaMaN View Post
    i lol'd. nice screen name also. yeah, truth be told- if you are having these problems you are probably ugly.
    Agreed.

    If you aren't ugly then you should start exfoliating now and using face mostiurizer.

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    I dont think its how old you look. Im 46 and have girls in there early 20's checking me out all the time. A friend of mine told me this one 21 yr old girl at the gym said I was good looking. He said "good looking?" and she said "fvcking good looking".

    Its attitude. I look horrible, just look at my mug.

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    probably not the gear...just getting older and that is how you look. unless you are taking hgh for an extended period of years, you probably won't change too much... I always had a baby face and when I hit my early twenties, I started losing hair.... what can you say? just a fact of life, I kept the baby face, but the hair made me look older. couldn't blame gear, cause I never took any back then... Now I sport a baldy to hide that age factor....

    suck it up and drive on... you are who you are. who gives a shit... there is a mate for everyone.

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    You might just be around the wrong girls too.

    When I was 20-24 I did not get near as much attention from girls as I do now. It causes problems a lot of times with temptation.

    If the idea is stuck in your head, that you look old, or are fat, or ugly....it's hard to be confident and that's the real catcher.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PittBoy View Post
    Picking up young chicks is easy bro. Hold your head up and keep the confidence flowing. Usually the less attention you pay to them the more they want to get to know ya. If that doesn't work......then show them your junk and tell em your rich.
    are you high?

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    Nice comments thanks. I believe I should be just more confidence and step the game up. That just must be it. Good point from scottythebody, one of my friends said something similar to me as well. He said your attitude is too serious around those little "kids".

    thanks guys

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    Quote Originally Posted by RuhlFreak55 View Post
    are you high?
    god help your penis if you start taking advise from ruhl on the subject

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    I know some dudes that are my age, 31 and look to be in their 40s. It must really suck. I get accused of being 22-23 and can pull the lil young girls and get carded at the liquer store. drink more water and put some lotion on your face, and hope like hell that at 40 you dont look 60!!!!

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