**** My Life

**xlxBigSexyxlx** · 08-19-2009, 04:43 PM

So I just found out today that my mom has stage 3 melanoma.
I don't know many details, but I'll find out more tomorrow.

Just 2 years ago my brother had a malignant brain tumor. And now this....
I feel like dying.

Keep her in your thoughts/prayers/whatever, and hope for the best.

**Matt** · 08-19-2009, 04:46 PM

Thats some sad news bro, your family will be in my thoughts....

Be strong....

**Reed** · 08-19-2009, 04:50 PM

You will be in my thoughts my man.

**MuscleScience** · 08-19-2009, 04:57 PM

I am sorry to hear that man, Stay strong for your family...

**Flagg** · 08-19-2009, 04:57 PM

Mate im speechless...

I know you feel lousier than Hell but be strong for your Mum cause she needs you now. Of course i'll keep you and yours in my thoughts.

**studdedout** · 08-19-2009, 05:00 PM

Im sorry.... U have to be strong for your family.. N do ur research so u can help ur family thru the hard times.... i hope they both get better

**Western Man** · 08-19-2009, 05:01 PM

There is hope that metastasis did not occur and organs other than her skin didn't get effected. Stage III is treatable; my mother was diagnosed with stage III breast cancer back in 2002 and her cancer did spread to her lymph nodes. She is still with us today and her tumor markers are in the normal range. There is hope for you, too. Good luck.

**TITANIUM** · 08-19-2009, 05:14 PM

Sorry bro,

Good luck and try to stand strong.

Thoughts and prayers to you and yours.

**Dont wanna be old** · 08-19-2009, 05:19 PM

Sorry to hear mate .

Hope it was caught in time and all works out .

**ni4ni** · 08-19-2009, 05:22 PM

sorry to hear
best of luck

**BgMc31** · 08-19-2009, 05:55 PM

Damn brotha...sorry to hear that. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and yours!!!

**xlxBigSexyxlx** · 08-19-2009, 07:16 PM

Thanks everyone. I appreciate it.
I'll update this thread tomorrow when I hear more.

**DSM4Life** · 08-19-2009, 07:23 PM

Will do Big. Sorry about the news.

**Cloe85** · 08-19-2009, 07:26 PM

sorry... best of luck / hug

**CBGB** · 08-19-2009, 07:54 PM

Be strong friend. Your mama needs you.

**jbm** · 08-19-2009, 07:57 PM

Sorry to hear that I know what you feel right now! just always pray bro! Everything will be fine!

**kickinit** · 08-19-2009, 08:47 PM

That sucks man, I feel your pain brother....

BG · 08-19-2009, 08:54 PM

Man shitty day....stay strong !

**CHAP** · 08-19-2009, 08:59 PM

You have to hold it togather bro. You will for sure be in my thoughs.

I lost my father to a brain tumer a few years back. As well as an aunt.

**l2elapse** · 08-19-2009, 09:01 PM

Sorry man, i wish you the best Big

**F4iGuy** · 08-19-2009, 09:03 PM

Stay strong and positive for your mom. My father had cancer in both kidneys and he just left the hospital with a good prognosis.

**Friend** · 08-19-2009, 10:37 PM

Be strong bro, your family will look to you for strength.

**sizerp** · 08-19-2009, 10:39 PM

Sorry BigSexy -

I hope she pulls through. Love is a powerful force and I am sure she has plenty of that coming from you and your family. Stay strong brother.

***El Diablo*** · 08-20-2009, 01:00 AM

Good luck BigSexy.

**Skully44420** · 08-20-2009, 01:40 AM

sorry to hear bro...stay strong and keep ur head up

my thoughts are with you and your fam

**calgarian** · 08-20-2009, 07:54 AM

sorry to hear that Bro......My Prayers to your mother and family..........

**Dukkit** · 08-20-2009, 08:03 AM

just texted you... ill be hoping for the best man

**energizer bunny** · 08-20-2009, 08:44 AM

sorry to hear that mate......i hope all turns out well...

**Dancer** · 08-20-2009, 08:46 AM

I pray you keep your chin up and all goes well.

**Mooseman33** · 08-20-2009, 09:37 AM

thru faith all things are possible...
u and ur family will be in my prayers bro.

**sigman roid** · 08-20-2009, 09:38 AM

Thoughts are with you bro

**RangersLTW** · 08-20-2009, 09:39 AM

Best of wishes for you let me know if you need something

**j4ever41** · 08-20-2009, 09:56 AM

Sorry to hear this bro,stay strong and keep ur head up. you and your family are in my thoughts.

**xlxBigSexyxlx** · 08-20-2009, 11:15 AM

A doctor she talked to today thought it hasn't spread much and he could cut a nice chunk out and that would be the end. Even though more will likely pop up for her entire life. This was a surgeon with her normal doctor.

But I think she has opted to go to MD Anderson, seeing how they are the best of the best. She has an appointment sometime next week there.

Thanks again everyone for the kind words. Really does mean a lot.

**zimmy** · 08-20-2009, 11:20 AM

going to md anderson is the way to go. Being a houstonian...i've heard the stories about people who got totally different (better) treatment there.

**CHAP** · 08-20-2009, 11:28 AM

Originally Posted by xlxBigSexyxlx

A doctor she talked to today thought it hasn't spread much and he could cut a nice chunk out and that would be the end. Even though more will likely pop up for her entire life. This was a surgeon with her normal doctor.

But I think she has opted to go to MD Anderson, seeing how they are the best of the best. She has an appointment sometime next week there.

Thanks again everyone for the kind words. Really does mean a lot.

Thats great news. Keep your head up. Make sure you continue to express your feelings so they dont smuther you . We dont need anymore bros going into deep depressions.

**fitluv09** · 08-20-2009, 02:03 PM

Originally Posted by xlxBigSexyxlx

A doctor she talked to today thought it hasn't spread much and he could cut a nice chunk out and that would be the end. Even though more will likely pop up for her entire life. This was a surgeon with her normal doctor.

But I think she has opted to go to MD Anderson, seeing how they are the best of the best. She has an appointment sometime next week there.

Thanks again everyone for the kind words. Really does mean a lot.

very great news! keep your head up.