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    I was curious if anyone had any tips that help make doggie style a little easier. My gf likes the sensation when I hit it from behind...but for some reason with her it's difficult for me to get in.


    She's about 5'7'' and I'm 6'3''
    the way we've done it is her on her hands and knees with her legs apart

    The angle is all wrong or something and she looks to me for guidence. She never had sex before me so she doesn't know what to do. IDK, I never put much thought into positioning someone else. She has to manually put it in and it can take so long I loose wood.

    No matter what position we do she usually enjoys, making tons of noise and muscles tensing and eyes rolling in the back of her head and what not. She gets so wet it's all over my legs down to my knees after...so hott. But we did doggie style a few times and she was really liking it. It all feels the same to me.

    So, what should we do different...prop her up on a pillow...use the side of the bed...what works for you guys?

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    put a pillow under her stomach

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    Oh man... I cant wait to see where this thread ends up!

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    My gf is 6 foot tall and im 5'8''ish and we have a problem with this to.If she puts her head down and sticks her ass way up it is easier for you to see the hole and get into it.Worth a try, the pillow thing sounds like it would work too.

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    Quote Originally Posted by D7M View Post
    put a pillow under her stomach
    If she's on her knees, isn't she already taller then a pillow under her stomach?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pocketbattleship2B View Post
    My gf is 6 foot tall and im 5'8''ish and we have a problem with this to.If she puts her head down and sticks her ass way up it is easier for you to see the hole and get into it.Worth a try, the pillow thing sounds like it would work too.
    I would think her being taller would make it much easier
    cause she spreads her legs and you have yours closer together???

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kratos View Post
    If she's on her knees, isn't she already taller then a pillow under her stomach?
    Very true.But the ass way up thing works for us.

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    my gf has a nice butt, I do like the view
    not ghetto booty so it get in the way or anything...just a nice shape
    getting a nice rythmic wave ripple from slamming into it
    mmmm

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kratos View Post
    I would think her being taller would make it much easier
    cause she spreads her legs and you have yours closer together???
    No because her legs are so long on her knees her hole is a good few inches above my pelvis (she has long legs even for somebody her hight and I have short ones) and so she has to spread her legs so far to get to my level it gets uncomfortable on her if we are at it for to long.

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    My wife is 5' and I`m 6'2" so doggy style works perfectly the angle is great. I can actually grab on around her and ram her. Must be the height difference allowing for easy entry.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kratos View Post
    If she's on her knees, isn't she already taller then a pillow under her stomach?
    logically you'd think so, right?

    I don't know I had this same problem with my girl,

    and the pillow thing worked for us

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    You could always put her over a table or something like that at your groin height and do it that way.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pocketbattleship2B View Post
    You could always put her over a table or something like that at your groin height and do it that way.
    yeah, I know
    I think I'll be with this one awhile so I want to figure this problem out though

    right now the way we fit together I have easy access to her butthole, lol...and I don't think she's down yet with me thrusting it in there

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    Quote Originally Posted by D7M View Post
    logically you'd think so, right?

    I don't know I had this same problem with my girl,

    and the pillow thing worked for us
    Is it so she can rest on it and dip her arms lower and put her ass further in the air or something?

    What if I put a pillow or two under her knees?

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    Have her arch her back down or put her knees together. If not just plant your feet instead of being on your knees, but that will make your legs get tired pretty quick.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kratos View Post
    Is it so she can rest on it and dip her arms lower and put her ass further in the air or something?

    What if I put a pillow or two under her knees?
    yah, the ass has to be higher or else the angle will be all messed up, I think.

    try it under the knees.

    I just put a pillow under my girl's stomach, so her head was lower than her ass...

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    I had this problem with an ex. What I would do is have her get on her hands and knees towards the edge of the bed and I would stand up on the floor. It put her just at the right height. Plus it's easier for her to lower her butt down a little than it is to keep it way in the air. You could always just put it in her butt aswell. That hole should be placed for east access from behind lol

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    J/k bro

    does this manual issue happen with any other position?
    Last edited by DOM6; 08-28-2009 at 09:09 AM.

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    Dude have her put her shoulders on the bed instead of propping herself up on her elbows or hands. That and standing up by the bed with her on the bed can work out better as well. with the hight difference it is best if she doesn't stand with you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by higherdesire View Post
    Dude have her put her shoulders on the bed instead of propping herself up on her elbows or hands. That and standing up by the bed with her on the bed can work out better as well. with the hight difference it is best if she doesn't stand with you.
    that's what I was thinking
    but every time i try to tell her that she says no, it worked better last time when I was more upright. I think I'll just have to be more insistant...this has to be right.

    All this talk is making me want to hit it. She says she thinks I have a higher then normal sex drive, cause we have sex like 5 x a day. But she has nothing to compare it to, and she likes it.

    But she has friends who are newly-wed's and they go at it about 5x a week. So, she's like "ummm, I think maybe we have sex a lot."

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    Quote Originally Posted by DOM6 View Post
    :does this manual issue happen with any other position?
    fingernails against the shaft and tip...yeah dude, that'll make you go soft in a hurry. It's like teeth durring a blow-job.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DOM6 View Post

    J/k bro

    does this manual issue happen with any other position?
    I was waiting for someone to post this. Lmao

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    Quote Originally Posted by stack_it View Post
    I was waiting for someone to post this. Lmao
    k, this is her
    Last edited by Kratos; 08-28-2009 at 09:48 AM.

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    Is that you next to her? ...jk you like em young eh.

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    Quote Originally Posted by redz View Post
    Is that you next to her? ...jk you like em young eh.
    haha, yeah, she looks younger then she is though
    she'll be 25 in a month or two

    she's a psychologist going back for her doc next year
    her patients have told her they don't need advise from a teenager lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kratos View Post
    that's what I was thinking
    but every time i try to tell her that she says no, it worked better last time when I was more upright. I think I'll just have to be more insistant...this has to be right.

    All this talk is making me want to hit it. She says she thinks I have a higher then normal sex drive, cause we have sex like 5 x a day. But she has nothing to compare it to, and she likes it.

    But she has friends who are newly-wed's and they go at it about 5x a week. So, she's like "ummm, I think maybe we have sex a lot."

    I actually arch my back a little too and pull them to me instead of me thrusting as much. Problem with it s I bottom out that way and they get hurt sometimes when I hit the wall too hard. I confuse ow with aw sometimes and go faster! lol

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    mmmm im 5.6...been with girls taller and smaller........i had that problem with one girl...we were just messing about nowt serious so it didnt last long ( i like dogy style).....but i could not get her dogy style....thats the only time i have had that prob....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kratos View Post
    I was curious if anyone had any tips that help make doggie style a little easier. My gf likes the sensation when I hit it from behind...but for some reason with her it's difficult for me to get in.


    She's about 5'7'' and I'm 6'3''
    the way we've done it is her on her hands and knees with her legs apart

    The angle is all wrong or something and she looks to me for guidence. She never had sex before me so she doesn't know what to do. IDK, I never put much thought into positioning someone else. She has to manually put it in and it can take so long I loose wood.

    No matter what position we do she usually enjoys, making tons of noise and muscles tensing and eyes rolling in the back of her head and what not. She gets so wet it's all over my legs down to my knees after...so hott. But we did doggie style a few times and she was really liking it. It all feels the same to me.

    So, what should we do different...prop her up on a pillow...use the side of the bed...what works for you guys?

    Personally, I'm 5'8, and I've had this problem with a bf who was 6'4.

    Get your girl to position herself with her chest flat on the bed, and her ass up as far as she can comfortably, while inverting her back. (Check out ninesecz avy for an example!) If that's not enough, prop her knees with pillows to elevate the ass even more, et voila.

    Hope this helps!
    xo

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    ^^^^^^^ female point of view...excellent.....go with that Kratos..

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    Quote Originally Posted by sweet-jayne View Post
    Personally, I'm 5'8, and I've had this problem with a bf who was 6'4.

    Get your girl to position herself with her chest flat on the bed, and her ass up as far as she can comfortably, while inverting her back. (Check out ninesecz avy for an example!) If that's not enough, prop her knees with pillows to elevate the ass even more, et voila.

    Hope this helps!
    xo
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    Quote Originally Posted by sweet-jayne View Post
    Personally, I'm 5'8, and I've had this problem with a bf who was 6'4.

    Get your girl to position herself with her chest flat on the bed, and her ass up as far as she can comfortably, while inverting her back. (Check out ninesecz avy for an example!) If that's not enough, prop her knees with pillows to elevate the ass even more, et voila.

    Hope this helps!
    xo
    thanks jayne
    I love her and want to do what feels good to her
    and since she's a total novice, she isn't much help
    the handfull of times we've done this position with success, it's been the most satisfying position for her
    what positions have felt good for you?
    so far we've done a lot of missionary, some with her on top, and from behind. But, she's willing to try others at this point in our relationship.

    Like I said, it's all good for me.

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    ^ What Jayne said.

    I'm 6'5 and my girl is 5'4, getting her ass up nice and high works great, otherwise I hurt her. You also get a nice view of her ass propped up.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kratos View Post
    thanks jayne
    I love her and want to do what feels good to her
    and since she's a total novice, she isn't much help
    the handfull of times we've done this position with success, it's been the most satisfying position for her
    what positions have felt good for you?
    so far we've done a lot of missionary, some with her on top, and from behind. But, she's willing to try others at this point in our relationship.

    Like I said, it's all good for me.


    What an attentive bf you must be. How sweet.

    I'm like your gf, I like it doggy style.. but my favourite position is a bit like that as well.

    I have no idea if there's a name for it or not, but it's quite simple. Man sitting on the bed/chair etc. while I sit with my back to him...like he's my chair, if you will. I usually curve my back down again and lean forward putting my hands on his knees for balance if it gets too crazy. Then I get to control it, and he likes the view of my ass bouncing on his lap. I find it much easier and better than the typical cowgirl. As with anything though, variety is the spice of life! Even a sensual spoon is nice..makes me think of "enemy at the gates"

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    Quote Originally Posted by sweet-jayne View Post
    I have no idea if there's a name for it or not, but it's quite simple. Man sitting on the bed/chair etc. while I sit with my back to him...like he's my chair, if you will.
    that would be the reverse cowgirl

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    Quote Originally Posted by D7M;4834***
    that would be the reverse cowgirl
    even on a chair though? I thought that the reverse cowgirl was just for the guy laying down with the girl straddling him?....my legs are always together in this position...better clit stimulation...semantics i guess..ah well..learn something every day.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sweet-jayne View Post
    even on a chair though? I thought that the reverse cowgirl was just for the guy laying down with the girl straddling him?....my legs are always together in this position...better clit stimulation...semantics i guess..ah well..learn something every day.
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