Advice

[Friend]

Here is my situation.

I was out at a bar a couple of weeks ago with a good mate and his work mates. It was a good night, and we were all totally off our guts. Anyway my mate has been seeing one of the bargirls that works there for a week or so.

I got a message from my mate during the week, the bargirl he is seeing told him that one of the other bargirls is interested in me and definately keen, and has been talking about me all week since i was at the bar.

This girl is HOT. SMOKING FVCKING HOT. Like 8/10 maybe even 8.5/10 so there is obviously a fair bit of pressure involved. I didn't actually chat with her at the bar last week other than shout my slurred drink orders at her, but have chatted on facebook since. Catching up with her friday.

Anyway, i have started a cycle since then so i can't really have a beer, alcohol is kinda out of the question, although it would have helped to ease the nerves a bit. And i don't have that jacked feeling from the gear yet (if i did i would be fine lol)

So i need all of you guys advice to help me land this girl. I have never had the chance to hit something this hot ever, and i may never again. So i MUST do this, for myself, and for men everywhere, i must come through!

[*El Diablo*]

LMFAO Great post and Well Done, now... Refer to this thread and ur post and STICK TO IT! lol

Guys, have you ever turned down sex?

Oh and before i forget

[CBGB]

Be yourself, thats who she likes.

[sigman roid]

Just bone her bone head...lol

[Nooomoto]

Fist her, dude.

[calgarian]

Here is my situation.

I was out at a bar a couple of weeks ago with a good mate and his work mates. It was a good night, and we were all totally off our guts. Anyway my mate has been seeing one of the bargirls that works there for a week or so.

I got a message from my mate during the week, the bargirl he is seeing told him that one of the other bargirls is interested in me and definately keen, and has been talking about me all week since i was at the bar.

This girl is HOT. SMOKING FVCKING HOT. Like 8/10 maybe even 8.5/10 so there is obviously a fair bit of pressure involved. I didn't actually chat with her at the bar last week other than shout my slurred drink orders at her, but have chatted on facebook since. Catching up with her friday.

Anyway, i have started a cycle since then so i can't really have a beer, alcohol is kinda out of the question, although it would have helped to ease the nerves a bit. And i don't have that jacked feeling from the gear yet (if i did i would be fine lol)

So i need all of you guys advice to help me land this girl. I have never had the chance to hit something this hot ever, and i may never again. So i MUST do this, for myself, and for men everywhere, i must come through!

Let me understand......u r nervous meeting her??? when was last time you check your estrogen level....? dude man up remember u r the male in this. (if I didnt stroke ur ego yet) let me give you advise.

Just walk in like u r going to hangout with buddies...DONT ACT OVERCONFIDENT or nervous for that matter. Just cpl of deep breaths before you walk in . If you try hard not to screw things up guess what will happen? you will screw it up. dont even worry abt it. u r going there for drink with a girl. Also if she ask why you are not drinking......"u r driving" no diet or cycle thing on a first date till you find out what she thinks about diet and gear....... any questions u know how to PM me.....Good luck keep us posted.

[*El Diablo*]

Walk in there naked.

[Mooseman33]

if ur that nervous bro, have a drink, it wont kill u.

but make sure u have the drink naked.....

[calgarian]

Walk in there naked.

if ur that nervous bro, have a drink, it wont kill u.

but make sure u have the drink naked.....

sure he is already nervous give him this advise that doesnt help jerkoffs

[*El Diablo*]

if ur that nervous bro, have a drink, it wont kill u.

but make sure u have the drink naked.....

[Hazard]

So i need all of you guys advice to help me land this girl. I have never had the chance to hit something this hot ever, and i may never again. So i MUST do this, for myself, and for men everywhere, i must come through!

There's your problem..... you're self confidence is low. Let me say this..... SHE is NOT the prize. You walk in there like your d*ck is worth a million dollars..... YOU are the prize my friend.

Just act yourself..... don't change anything from last time. I bet what she saw was a guy who has a bunch of friends (makes you socially acceptable) ..... laughed and joked with them (makes you funny), and if you kept the convo up all night and were constantly talking to the group (you could have been viewed as the alpha male)

No matter what it was..... she saw soemthing she liked.... keep it up. Have a few drinks next time you see her..... it wont kill you. By the end of the 2nd meeting you should have atleast her phone number and a date set up. Then you wont have to keep meeting her at the bar and drinking while there lol

~Haz~

[OH REALLY]

There's your problem..... you're self confidence is low. Let me say this..... SHE is NOT the prize. You walk in there like your d*ck is worth a million dollars..... YOU are the prize my friend.

Just act yourself..... don't change anything from last time. I bet what she saw was a guy who has a bunch of friends (makes you socially acceptable) ..... laughed and joked with them (makes you funny), and if you kept the convo up all night and were constantly talking to the group (you could have been viewed as the alpha male)

No matter what it was..... she saw soemthing she liked.... keep it up. Have a few drinks next time you see her..... it wont kill you. By the end of the 2nd meeting you should have atleast her phone number and a date set up. Then you wont have to keep meeting her at the bar and drinking while there lol

~Haz~

wrong im the prize

[calgarian]

There's your problem..... you're self confidence is low. Let me say this..... SHE is NOT the prize. You walk in there like your d*ck is worth a million dollars..... YOU are the prize my friend.

Just act yourself..... don't change anything from last time. I bet what she saw was a guy who has a bunch of friends (makes you socially acceptable) ..... laughed and joked with them (makes you funny), and if you kept the convo up all night and were constantly talking to the group (you could have been viewed as the alpha male)

No matter what it was..... she saw soemthing she liked.... keep it up. Have a few drinks next time you see her..... it wont kill you. By the end of the 2nd meeting you should have atleast her phone number and a date set up. Then you wont have to keep meeting her at the bar and drinking while there lol

~Haz~

Man u r slow......by the end of second date he should be in her bed humping her.....jeez man dont scare him

[Hazard]

im DSM's prize

Great..... it's a dirty job but someones gotta doit.....

~Haz~

[Hazard]

Man u r slow......by the end of second date he should be in her bed humping her.....jeez man dont scare him

When I get the time.... i'm going to post about how my weekend went LMAO..... I met a Ukranian girl (26 or so) and had her phone number in less than 5 minutes. My buddy almost shat his pants..... she was bangin man..... like..... really really bangin LOL

~Haz~

[Hazard]

And i meant his 2nd meeting as in his 1st was the last time he went. So this will be the 2nd time she see's him..... he should get her number and have a date set up outside of the bar.....

~Haz~

[DSM4Life]

Ask her to smell your finger. Hot chicks love that !

[calgarian]

When I get the time.... i'm going to post about how my weekend went LMAO..... I met a Ukranian girl (26 or so) and had her phone number in less than 5 minutes. My buddy almost shat his pants..... she was bangin man..... like..... really really bangin LOL

~Haz~

now u sound like Calgarian's Friend......see if u can make her suck ur d!ck in first 5 minutes u meet at her place...

[calgarian]

And i meant his 2nd meeting as in his 1st was the last time he went. So this will be the 2nd time she see's him..... he should get her number and have a date set up outside of the bar.....

~Haz~

He should be going to her place or his at the end of second meeting......Shouldnt be longer then that

[Hazard]

now u sound like Calgarian's Friend......see if u can make her suck ur d!ck in first 5 minutes u meet at her place...

I've gotten sex before in 15 minutes LMAO..... that was funny. BJ..... hmmmm - took a girl out to a club (1st date) we were there for about 2 hours. Gave me head on the way home.... then sent me a txt saying she didn't want me to think she was a slut LMFAO

~Haz~

[Hazard]

He should be going to her place or his at the end of second meeting......Shouldnt be longer then that

I would agree if she wasn't working. He's meeting her at her job and may not have the time to lay the foundation..... gotta lay some foundation before you can lay the piping..... unless shes a hoe..... LOL

~Haz~

[l2elapse]

be nice, be yourself and have the i dont care attitude and youre golden

[calgarian]

I've gotten sex before in 15 minutes LMAO..... that was funny. BJ..... hmmmm - took a girl out to a club (1st date) we were there for about 2 hours. Gave me head on the way home.... then sent me a txt saying she didn't want me to think she was a slut LMFAO

~Haz~

dont u love it when before meeting they say "no sex on first date" and u show up touch inside their thigh and ask "how u doing" next thing u know she jumped on u and making out while saying "fvck me baby" and you are wondering ...didnt u say no sex on first date ?

[calgarian]

I would agree if she wasn't working. He's meeting her at her job and may not have the time to lay the foundation..... gotta lay some foundation before you can lay the piping..... unless shes a hoe..... LOL

~Haz~

foundation???? whats that

[Hazard]

dont u love it when before meeting they say "no sex on first date" and u show up touch inside their thigh and ask "how u doing" next thing u know she jumped on u and making out while saying "fvck me baby" and you are wondering ...didnt u say no sex on first date ?

Yep..... my friend took 3 girls out about 2 months ago. I went with him to the club..... on our way there this blonde girl says "I never put out on the 1st date....." So i figured..... well.... i'll leave her alone LMAO.

When we dropped them off she told the girl that was with my friend that she didn't know why I was always talking with other girls that night and not her and that she wanted me. He tells me this while we're driving home from their place and I was like "WTF!? women make no sense" LMAO

A lot of them say it to make themselves feel better..... this way when they put out that night...... they can say "I don't know what came over me..... i've never done this before" LOLOLOL it's okay..... I roll with it.

~Haz~

[calgarian]

Yep..... my friend took 3 girls out about 2 months ago. I went with him to the club..... on our way there this blonde girl says "I never put out on the 1st date....." So i figured..... well.... i'll leave her alone LMAO.

When we dropped them off she told the girl that was with my friend that she didn't know why I was always talking with other girls that night and not her and that she wanted me. He tells me this while we're driving home from their place and I was like "WTF!? women make no sense" LMAO

A lot of them say it to make themselves feel better..... this way when they put out that night...... they can say "I don't know what came over me..... i've never done this before" LOLOLOL it's okay..... I roll with it.

~Haz~

So now when someone says no sex I always take condoms with me. Oh I love come over meet me at work and next thing u know u r getting a BJ in the freaking park............We should stop hijacking this thread Haz...

[Mooseman33]

sure he is already nervous give him this advise that doesnt help jerkoffs

yeah cause im sure our advice will make him more nervous....sure jerkoff...

[DSM4Life]

Clean the pipes out before you go out with her.

[Bojangles69]

Women, even hot women, are still just human, like us. They require no special tools or fixes, and are often ready for loving in a moments notice. Because humans as a whole crave human connection and intimacy, sexual or nonsexual.

Your history isn't plagued with failure, its plagued with inaction.
I know this because girls are easy, regardless of the guy. If you approached 3 girls today theres a good chance you could have got a number from at least 1, and set something up. And when YOU CREATE that kind of opportunity by choice, its so much harder to feel nervous because you realize you have the skills to afford the same situation tommorow.

Your a man, you can even be a complete idiot/asshole/pos and score a decent amount of girls easily, or persue a relationship with one, which ever you prefer. As long as you can be natural and go with the flow. Don't be afraid of akwards moments, expect them. Its all natural who cares? But I think overall you build women up in your head SO MUCH cause your so afraid if you did have the power, (to get women) you'd realize how unsatisfying it really was and hate it. So you trick yourself into thinking it would be great, when in reality its just good like everything else you have control over in your life.

Realize, sometimes we like to lose control cause it keeps life exciting. Like you can not say a word to this chick ever again, and spend the next 72 hours straight having the wildest fantasies about all the gross things you'd do. And it might actually be better then real life sex, but in real life, its nothing like that. Fun yes, but nothing like what you've built it in your head to be. So drop the shit and just fvckn roll with it. And if you ever get nervous remember its always more attractive to shut up then talk. Just keep that in your head.
I've seen tons of dudes with the hottest girls at the bar who just don't talk.
All they know how to do is nod at people and make 3 word sentences. Yet some girls find that attractive. I'm telling you girls crave just like you, you just have to stop feeling so unnatural about it.

[Nooomoto]

Just be cool...like Fonzi.

[Friend]

Wow that's alot of feedback. I guess everyone has been in my situation at one time or another! I wasn't expecting anywhere near as much advice. It means alot guys, and the difference of opinions has helped put things in perspective, seriously.

Some really great advice. After reading all the support from you guys all i have to do is get on top of my nerves, and i will be fine. The scary thing is, i'm actually considering going there naked now

[GT2]

Great advice Bo. I've read a lot of your posts giving advice about women and you definitely know your shit.

[Bojangles69]

/\ Thanks guys, I really appreciate it

[Mooseman33]

Wow that's alot of feedback. I guess everyone has been in my situation at one time or another! I wasn't expecting anywhere near as much advice. It means alot guys, and the difference of opinions has helped put things in perspective, seriously.

Some really great advice. After reading all the support from you guys all i have to do is get on top of my nerves, and i will be fine. The scary thing is, i'm actually considering going there naked now

thats the only way man.