What should i do?

**Noles12** · 10-05-2009, 01:55 PM

I have been dating this girl for almost 2 years now and our relationship is pretty good. But lately i have been so bored and not really feeling the whole dating thing.

Im still in college and i wanna go out and have fun.

The problem is this girl is really attached to me and i dont wanna hurt her. I cant bring myself to break up with her because of this.

I dont really know how to go about it to break things off lightly.

Any suggestions?

**bigrich4** · 10-05-2009, 01:58 PM

just be mean and do it, it will suck for alittle bit but you will get over it

**higherdesire** · 10-05-2009, 02:07 PM

Bro sometimes the right thing is the hardest thing to do. But the truth is if you really cared about her or do care about her, what you are doing to her by staying with her when you have no intentions of furthering it after this long, and in fact are headed the other way with it, is worse than the truth of breaking her heart. No offense bro but man up and tell her how you feel.

Word of caution, be sure you know what you want before you do it because there may be a lot more pain in if for you than you think. Good luck bro!

**Mooseman33** · 10-05-2009, 02:07 PM

no reason to be mean bro.
no matter how u do it she will get hurt, there is no way around it.

sit her down and tell her whats up. u have been together for 2 years, why slowly crush her..

**energizer bunny** · 10-05-2009, 02:08 PM

Just tell her....get it over and done with.......youl feel great in a week or so......

**stack_it** · 10-05-2009, 02:11 PM

If she is really attatched to you there is no easy way to do it. If u don't wanna be with her just tell her and let it happen. Everyone comes on here thinking there's an easy way out where the girl is gonna be perfectly fine with it but it just doesn't work that way.

You need to really think about what you want and then if you decide you don't wanna be with her just remove your pvssy pants and break it off...

Sorry for being harsh but sugar coating it's just gonna keep you confused. Good luck bud

**Immortal Soldier** · 10-05-2009, 02:38 PM

Tell that bitch you need to bang some Tally Puss, she will understand

**ghettoboyd** · 10-05-2009, 02:53 PM

if shes a good girl she begg you to **** her in the ass........that should buy her a 6 month extension....lol......

**elpropiotorvic** · 10-05-2009, 03:10 PM

Man I'm in the same situation...honestly what I have found that sometimes is just a matter of doing something different ... Try doing something that is completely new for u two and at the end if the day u will have some great sex...the day after u will wake up feeling in love and very happy... Sounds corny but works in my case

**Noles12** · 10-05-2009, 03:41 PM

Thanks for all the suggestions i guess im gonna see how things go and how i feel, but trust me ive tried new and different things to spice it up and they dont work. I live in a college town with a college that is about 5:1 with girls so its making it hard to stay in this relationship

**Immortal Soldier** · 10-05-2009, 04:20 PM

Originally Posted by noles12

thanks for all the suggestions i guess im gonna see how things go and how i feel, but trust me ive tried new and different things to spice it up and they dont work. I live in a college town with a college that is about 5:1 with girls so its making it hard to stay in this relationship

tally pussss all day everyday

herpes, gonorrhea, hiv, dem sluts got it all lol

**gc1043** · 10-05-2009, 04:26 PM

do it man...better now then never...no regrets

**Cloe85** · 10-05-2009, 04:28 PM

Originally Posted by Noles12

I have been dating this girl for almost 2 years now and our relationship is pretty good. But lately i have been so bored and not really feeling the whole dating thing.

Im still in college and i wanna go out and have fun.

The problem is this girl is really attached to me and i dont wanna hurt her. I cant bring myself to break up with her because of this.

I dont really know how to go about it to break things off lightly.

Any suggestions?

Any way you go about breaking up with her will hurt her. But there are gentle ways of going about it. Telling her you want to date other people and that you want to have fun, may be true but harsh.

The good ol stand by is always a good one, "It's not you, it's me."

Tell her your confused and that you need time and space to try and figure out what YOU want to do.

Answer "No, I don't want to date other women. And there is nothing wrong with you, your great. I just have these confused feelings with what to do with the rest of my life and I'm half way through college and I feel like a headcase." "No, there is nothing you can do to fix it or help me,... its something I need to do, just get away from everyone to think, and Yes, that includes you."

She will be hurt, but she will have some ray of hope that the relationship may not be completely over, which is ok.

She may need that at first.

After a few weeks you will have put some space between you and the final break will be a lot easier.

She will be pissed, but it will not be a suprize and such a shock as "hey babe, I know we've been together for 2yrs now, but I'm bored and want to date other people with no strings attached."

Big difference.

Just a suggestion.

Good luck,
Chloe

**Hoggage_54** · 10-05-2009, 04:32 PM

dump her with a text message while she's in class

**jbm** · 10-05-2009, 07:27 PM

Tell her it's not you.... It's me!!!!

**redz** · 10-05-2009, 07:29 PM

I went through this, I ended up cheating and still somehow didnt break up with the girl, then I cheated again and she got the point, actually I think I cheated 3 times she knew about.....I was trying to get caught yet it still didnt end it. Then I paried like an animal for a year or 2 before meeting my now wife.

**Immortal Soldier** · 10-05-2009, 10:45 PM

Originally Posted by Hoggage_54

dump her with a text message while she's in class

LOL

Better yet over facebook...before CHRISTMAS!!!

**Gaspari1255** · 10-05-2009, 10:47 PM

Start hanging out with the sorority girls.

**Immortal Soldier** · 10-05-2009, 10:55 PM

Originally Posted by ******

Start hanging out with the sorority girls.

That gets lame after a while, I personally don't like hanging out with girls who party ALOT MORE than me, I feel like a loser next to them. How they manage to go out EVERY NIGHT is beyond me, I did it for 2 straight weeks when the semester began and in the end lost a hefty amount of cash, got sex but never wanted to talk to them again, and a whole bunch of numbers I will never call.

**Gaspari1255** · 10-05-2009, 11:00 PM

^ lol yeah thats the whole point. Do it in moderation. It's really annoying how they are complete bar flies/ party animals. I swear the same sorority girls go to the same bars on the same nights. and it the SAME story every time. I treat them like live stock. But maybe this is what the OP needs- a couple nights in a row of fun and guaranteed fvcking.

**Noles12** · 10-05-2009, 11:01 PM

Originally Posted by Immortal Soldier

That gets lame after a while, I personally don't like hanging out with girls who party ALOT MORE than me, I feel like a loser next to them. How they manage to go out EVERY NIGHT is beyond me, I did it for 2 straight weeks when the semester began and in the end lost a hefty amount of cash, got sex but never wanted to talk to them again, and a whole bunch of numbers I will never call.

I agree it is tough to do. I see them in the clubs everynight drunk as shit then they come to class hungover in a tshirt and shorts at 3 in the afternoon

**Gaspari1255** · 10-05-2009, 11:02 PM

Originally Posted by Noles12

I agree it is tough to do. I see them in the clubs everynight drunk as shit then they come to class hungover in a tshirt and shorts at 3 in the afternoon

Very lady like. I always see them in the am sprinting to class with a whore breakfast (Doughnut, cup of coffee, and a newport)

**Noles12** · 10-05-2009, 11:05 PM

Originally Posted by redz

I went through this, I ended up cheating and still somehow didnt break up with the girl, then I cheated again and she got the point, actually I think I cheated 3 times she knew about.....I was trying to get caught yet it still didnt end it. Then I paried like an animal for a year or 2 before meeting my now wife.

I was gonna do this too but i think this is probably the most f'd up way of doing it. I have girls on my dick all the time when i work and i have my next door neighbor wanting it too but i dont think i could do that to my girl. Its not like i hate her i just dont wanna be in the relationship anymore

**collar** · 10-05-2009, 11:21 PM

tell her your gay and you have tried so hard, but you just cant help it and men turn you on.

**Hoggage_54** · 10-05-2009, 11:23 PM

**lovbyts** · 10-05-2009, 11:27 PM

I broke up with a girl after almost 5 years of dating. I just told her I really cared about her but I didnt think it was going to lead to marriage and I didnt want to hold her back any more even though I was very comfortable with her.

It was tough but we are still friends 20 years later.