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    GOING BALD Fast at 23!!!!!! help

    Ok this is my cry to the world because i will not talk to anyone who knows me about this. I just turned 23 in January and i am practically bald. i have a horribly receeding hairline and very thin hair in the back.... It is inevitable...I have lost all my confidence and gone into a depression. but i refuse to admit it or talk about it with anyone. I am really deeply humilated and ashamed of what i am becoming... I try to tell myself i will be find and accept myself for the way god made me.. i want to so bad but i just cant find the strength yet . Im to damn young and this all started when i turned 22 , now it just looks horrible at 23. Not only has it caused me major insecurities but it has stopped me from living a happy normal life.. just the past couple of months i have caged myself in my house , to humilliated to go out to bars and have fun like i used to love so much... Not only am i insecure about my hair but i am 6'1 145 pounds... i am string bean... i quit smoking for 2 years and picked back up and lost all the weight i gained and now i cant quit with all the stress i put into my head... i know what i am doing wrong , i know what i need to do but i just cant.....I lost my V card at 15. i used to get laid all the time , used to be popular with tons of girls. Now i cant even talk to one without thinking im not attractive anymore.....ive kept my hair at a #2 guard for the past year because its less noticeable with short short hair but now im thinking if i take it to a #1 it will surely make my bald spot and thin hair shine.......i dont know what to do, i dont even need a reply , i just needed to get that off my chest.....FML....

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    Im bald as a egg and couldnt give a shit.

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    Have you ever thought about shaving your head bald?

    The last 5 yrs wipe nearly all my hair off, stress and gear didnt help but I dont bother, just get on with your life and be happy.

    If this issues effects your life in a negative way get a hair transplant, save up and go for it.

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    The shaved head is in, not thinning hair. Don't be such a *****, shave your head.

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    i wanna shave my head , my brother was bald by my age .... its just i dont wanna be that skinny bald , id look like i was a skinhead. Im gunna go back on a hardcore eating diet but ill deffiently be fully bald by the time i even put on ten pounds, i know i gotta suck it up, I just am having a hard time coping with it, bc i used to be a ladies man and know a cant even get a chance since i started losing my hair.. I need my swag and confidence back..... I always felt like my hair was apart of my personality.

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    Have a hair transplant and sort your diet out and put on some more lbs.

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    Dude I've known guys that went bald or pretty bald even earlier than that. It's def better to accept it, otherwise you look F-in pathetic trying to cover it up. The confidence or personality wasn't in your hair dude, just keep the same game you had before. I got a full head of hair and horrible with chicks so think about that. But yeah you def need to beef up, once your freaking cock deisel and moving beast weight around I promise you, you won't give a F*ck about your F-in hair. Btw don't start smoking again, it's bad for you.

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    I'm going to give you a female perspective...your attitude, demeanor, and the way you carry yourself (self-confidence) means alot more to women than whether or not you have hair. If you are so worried about your hair (or lack thereof) that you are down on yourself, women will pick up on your lack of self confidence. Lots of women are either into or fine with bald men (my hubby keeps his head shaved bald). Worry about hitting the gym instead of your hair and you'll be fine. That's just my 2 cents...

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    Quote Originally Posted by ModelInProgress View Post
    I'm going to give you a female perspective...your attitude, demeanor, and the way you carry yourself (self-confidence) means alot more to women than whether or not you have hair. If you are so worried about your hair (or lack thereof) that you are down on yourself, women will pick up on your lack of self confidence. Lots of women are either into or fine with bald men (my hubby keeps his head shaved bald). Worry about hitting the gym instead of your hair and you'll be fine. That's just my 2 cents...
    Nice to hear a female side, @ 32 years old and 6'5" 275 i can't wait to do it this summer.

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    Dude, i was the same way then I shaved my head and my insecurities went out the door. We are lucky that shaved bald guys are in. The hair you have on your hair just amplifies your receding hairline so just shave it down and start tanning.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mn_fighter View Post
    AH DAMN! A CHROME ONE! i gotta have it!

    but i've been shaving my head since i was 19... now i'm 26. i lost my hair a lot sooner than you. I used to think i was better looking with hair, BUT women LOVE a bald head and i've totally changed my perspective on it. shave it and forget about it. BTW... get a headblade (the apparatus above) they make shaving your head a whole lot easier.

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    Get some topical spiro and dutasteride. You can grow some hair back and keep what you have left.

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    Quote Originally Posted by toothache View Post
    Get some topical spiro and dutasteride. You can grow some hair back and keep what you have left.
    Yea if you are cool with shaving it, I would do that. Take some Duta if you still want peach fuzz. But I totally agree, you have to have some weight to pull off a bald head. Facial hair helps too. I'm starting to feel like I'm getting to a good weight to shave my sh!t too.

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    Propecia man. Head to your dermatologist he'll give you a script.

    It can stop your loss, and even regrow some hair. Get him to write you bulk orders, cuts down on the cost. I've been on it for a year and it stopped my hair loss. The sooner you start the better.

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    Quote Originally Posted by toothache View Post
    Get some topical spiro and dutasteride. You can grow some hair back and keep what you have left.
    That works

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    thats for the opinions everyone, i think im a lil to late for propecia , It is really nice to hear a womens perspective, I actually get really tan in the summer so that should help ...i guess you guys helped me gain a new perspective on going bald , only thing left to do is find me a nice girl to grow old with

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    You could always wear a piece like this guy: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fJgSiwDdcok

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    you may wanna avoid AAS use, if this is your primary concern.....

    "oh noes, i gets no womenz cuz im bald"...

    maybe it'll help you sort out the slutty superficial ones, and you'll find one who isn't a whore.

    if a hair line is the ONLY reason a female wont talk to you, is that REALLY the type of woman you want?....doubt it.

    im going bald..i dont give a flying shit.

    it's life. it could be worse...

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    tru dat, i dunno it just bothers me alot because it all is happening so fast it was just hard to get a grip on my feelings and i dont talk openly to anyone i know about my insecurities , so you guys are like all the support ive ever had , believe me i dont let it show that it bothers me, but inside it tears me apart........Ive made a date to buzz my head down to a #1 1/8, St Pattys day....right now im a number #2 1/4.... we'll c how it goes

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    Buy the headblade and have at it. Completely smooth is the way to go.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Polska View Post
    You could always wear a piece like this guy: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fJgSiwDdcok
    wow i want one!!! for real im 22 and balding so i shave my head, i look like a huge skin head

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    didn't read the thread but,
    If you going bald now, You were going to go bald any way, with AAS or not

    Just shave your head. Straight up

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    has anyone had luck with rogain?

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    where can you get a head blade at?

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    Quote Originally Posted by JC.1987 View Post
    has anyone had luck with rogain?
    I have a few friends that swear by it. I myself haven't tried it. but have been on propecia for roughly 7 months I'd say and haven't lost any more hair.

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    Quote Originally Posted by warchild View Post
    where can you get a head blade at?
    wal-mart usually carries them... however, they don't have the nifty chrome ones.

    i imagine you could order them from their website though.

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